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"Question for the guys- If you message a lady and she deletes your mail after you have sent a face photos and a bespoke message, do you then block them to prevent them appearing in your results??? I just did it and actually felt like I was being super childish " Its your decision | |||
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"Yes it's best to block so, as you say, they do not appear in future searches. Not childish at all, just common sense." it my be insecurities or something but I had a momentary thought....what if I mail them in 6 months and they decide that they like my mail I think the caveman gene developed on Fab is working it's way into my system | |||
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"I’ve done this for someone who used to update their status all the time and it filled up my local searches. It lets me think have the choice, which as a bloke on Fab is quite a rare thing " You 100% have a choice!!! I have learnt quite quickly that a sending a few face photos gets a response over 50% of the time. Even if it's a thanks but not for me. That's the game changer in my opinion | |||
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"Yes it's best to block so, as you say, they do not appear in future searches. Not childish at all, just common sense. it my be insecurities or something but I had a momentary thought....what if I mail them in 6 months and they decide that they like my mail I think the caveman gene developed on Fab is working it's way into my system " Don't think that will happen, in this situation, people rarely change their mind. | |||
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"Yes it's best to block so, as you say, they do not appear in future searches. Not childish at all, just common sense. it my be insecurities or something but I had a momentary thought....what if I mail them in 6 months and they decide that they like my mail I think the caveman gene developed on Fab is working it's way into my system " What if you mail them a second time and they reply "take the hint already" and block you? Lol had that when I had messaged a user who was new months ago, and then tried again because I thought maybe they hadn't replied at the start due to getting bombarded with messages. It's a fucking minefield this shit | |||
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"Yes it's best to block so, as you say, they do not appear in future searches. Not childish at all, just common sense. it my be insecurities or something but I had a momentary thought....what if I mail them in 6 months and they decide that they like my mail I think the caveman gene developed on Fab is working it's way into my system " Is also handy to ensure they only get one chance | |||
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"Question for the guys- If you message a lady and she deletes your mail after you have sent a face photos and a bespoke message, do you then block them to prevent them appearing in your results??? I just did it and actually felt like I was being super childish " What if she deleted your message because she thought you way out of her league, or looked through your verifications and saw women who looked nothing like her, and possibly thought why is he messaging me? Everyone has insecurities. | |||
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"Question for the guys- If you message a lady and she deletes your mail after you have sent a face photos and a bespoke message, do you then block them to prevent them appearing in your results??? I just did it and actually felt like I was being super childish What if she deleted your message because she thought you way out of her league, or looked through your verifications and saw women who looked nothing like her, and possibly thought why is he messaging me? Everyone has insecurities. " It’s fine, you can message me | |||
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"Tough question because Ive had messages deleted only for them to message me further down the line. Instinct says block, not so much to avoid them in future but that I think its downright rude not to at least acknowledge a message someones clearly taken effort over but even then you never know if theyve got a 100 messages overnight and yours just gets lost?" That's why I don't get annoyed by being ignored. Even Fab says it's not meant as rudeness. So easy for a man's message to be lost in an inbox. Initially it felt rude, till you see things from the other side of the looking glass. | |||
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"Yes it's best to block so, as you say, they do not appear in future searches. Not childish at all, just common sense. it my be insecurities or something but I had a momentary thought....what if I mail them in 6 months and they decide that they like my mail I think the caveman gene developed on Fab is working it's way into my system " In all honesty I often don’t notice the first message a guy sends as - Like many women - I get lots of them! I’ve met guys before who only managed to get my attention on the third or forth message! They don’t message continuously though - they leave it a few weeks or so between messages! I think that’s a good plan tbh! | |||
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