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Views. But. No. Inboxes. (Mails).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get my fair share of profile views on a daily. But, it is a very rare occurrence that I receive an inbox (mail) from that person that has viewed my profile.

Anyone elso experiencing that aswell. Obviously their will be, lol.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I sometimes view people who post in forums, just to be nosy and see if their profile tells me about what kind of person they are x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sometimes view people who post in forums, just to be nosy and see if their profile tells me about what kind of person they are x"

I see, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - I’ve had 1141 views today and only about 40 messages or so

Clearly they’re looking at my profile and realising that we aren’t compatible, I’m not good looking or the distance. Or just can’t be bothered

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Yeah it happens alot there is probably something they don't like about it. either pics or your txt It's always good to ask for people's opinion on it you will get a straight answer as long as you can take some people opinion on board and adjust it to suit you not just change it to pretend to be something your not hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get my fair share of profile views on a daily. But, it is a very rare occurrence that I receive an inbox (mail) from that person that has viewed my profile.

Anyone elso experiencing that aswell. Obviously their will be, lol."

Thats probably because they looked and didn't feel enough attraction to mail you. It may be more productive improving your profile rather than wondering why they don't contact you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Fewer than 1% of the people that view our profile message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do keep re-editting my profile to improve my chances. But, maybe my wording needs to be less forward on what I am looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just people being nosey, I myself am guilty of checking people out I’ve got no business checking out. I’ll probably check your profile now out of curiosity and Boredom

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud


"I get my fair share of profile views on a daily. But, it is a very rare occurrence that I receive an inbox (mail) from that person that has viewed my profile.

Anyone elso experiencing that aswell. Obviously their will be, lol."

This is quite normal for single males on Fab. We are hugely outnumbered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get my fair share of profile views on a daily. But, it is a very rare occurrence that I receive an inbox (mail) from that person that has viewed my profile.

Anyone elso experiencing that aswell. Obviously their will be, lol.

This is quite normal for single males on Fab. We are hugely outnumbered."

That is a FACT my friend.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Can't see your face properly

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By *hil_u_upMan
over a year ago

swansea


"I sometimes view people who post in forums, just to be nosy and see if their profile tells me about what kind of person they are x"

To be blunt, your profile falls down in this respect. There is a lot of room for improvement.

Have a look at this guy's (rampant9), for example. Leaving aside his pics, he immediately comes across as friendly, interesting, funny and unselfish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't see your face properly"

Oh, well, never mind. I am out of your age range anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sometimes view people who post in forums, just to be nosy and see if their profile tells me about what kind of person they are x

To be blunt, your profile falls down in this respect. There is a lot of room for improvement.

Have a look at this guy's (rampant9), for example. Leaving aside his pics, he immediately comes across as friendly, interesting, funny and unselfish."

I will bare that in mind? lol.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Good God. Even if something had inspired me to view....there's no way on earth I'd message, in case my possible bisexuality offended you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O views 0 messages recieved 0 interest but 1000's of detailed well thought out messages sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I. Couldn't (possibly) Mail someone that uses. Their full (stops) and commas so (in)appropriately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"O views 0 messages recieved 0 interest but 1000's of detailed well thought out messages sent."

Keep the faith, bud.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I. Couldn't (possibly) Mail someone that uses. Their full (stops) and commas so (in)appropriately "

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"I do keep re-editting my profile to improve my chances. But, maybe my wording needs to be less forward on what I am looking for? "

Which bit did you re edit ? Certainly not the bit that says it’s a new profile and then dated 2017.

You start negatively saying your not bi. Just block guys and they won’t message . You don’t want to meet couples just straight single women so block couples. Then only single women can message you. So you will only have to sift out the bi ones . Then you can make your profile positive . Maybe add some pics that aren’t just a blurred cock. And then you may get a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do keep re-editting my profile to improve my chances. But, maybe my wording needs to be less forward on what I am looking for? "

But you know how fab works, so you’ll know why you aren’t getting messages

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm the same loads if views but not much in the way if messages but then I'm guilty if viewing profiles and find something's not comparable usually their sexual wants or age filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do keep re-editting my profile to improve my chances. But, maybe my wording needs to be less forward on what I am looking for?

Which bit did you re edit ? Certainly not the bit that says it’s a new profile and then dated 2017.

You start negatively saying your not bi. Just block guys and they won’t message . You don’t want to meet couples just straight single women so block couples. Then only single women can message you. So you will only have to sift out the bi ones . Then you can make your profile positive . Maybe add some pics that aren’t just a blurred cock. And then you may get a message "

That is how long I have been on (fab). Just making people aware. It is just the same as saying (over a year) on some people's profiles.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have an inkling they may have been being sarcastic.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have an inkling they may have been being sarcastic....."

Aye, probably, that is (fab) for you.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Yea, get the views and no messages, the more your on the forum the more views you will get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea, get the views and no messages, the more your on the forum the more views you will get "

Yeah that is happening right now.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I've looked at countless profiles today and haven't sent a single message out. No-one's tickled my fancy, as it were.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even my fancy does not get tickled, lol.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I wouldn't worry too much I get views and fabs from numerous users tho my inbox just accumulates dust and cobwebs....

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