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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding it hard to make any friends or impact on this group what does everyone nominally do to open up a conversation with others on here

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Be polite. Not just have pictures of dick in profile photos. Have a well worded profile. And be active in the forum's so people can get to know the person behind the the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try my best to be active but my work schedule is opposite to most people sleeping habits lol

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I try my best to be active but my work schedule is opposite to most people sleeping habits lol"

My sleeping pattern is all over the place and there's still quite a lot of people online during the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself. There's someone for everyone. So i've been told anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously.. Lose the dick pics and bring forth the personality. Shine on the forums... Just like I do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I found someone from my work on here so now I’m a bit nervous about posting a face picture as she’s a bit of a work gossip

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv been told that to lol

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

You don't need face pics to be public. Get creative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I normally work from midnight to 12

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s true may try something tonight never really been one to take pictures of myself

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I found someone from my work on here so now I’m a bit nervous about posting a face picture as she’s a bit of a work gossip "

If she "outs" you as being on fab she is outing herself too. I'm sure she wouldn't want to be fodder for the gossips either. Most people who spread gossip about others are terrified of the same thing happening to them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Her mouth is bigger than her brain tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try my best to be active but my work schedule is opposite to most people sleeping habits lol"

I’m a bit same up very early for work and obviously robbed early too , not the best social life lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv been on this shift for a year now it’s not got any easier my social life sucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found someone from my work on here so now I’m a bit nervous about posting a face picture as she’s a bit of a work gossip "

There’s body parts that aren’t your face or cock though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m gonna try and get creative tonight with some

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It takes months of hard work for single men to settle in with good success, so managing your expectations is important.

Find local social get togethers. Look for friendly people in the forum. Look at other forum topics where people have given good advice to singles or new users.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I willing to put in the hard work and time

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

A week is no time at all OP- it takes time to establish connections here - there ate various ways you can help yourself though:

- Make sure your profile and pics are as good as they can possibly be - reflect some personality in them, show off your body and not your cock, be clear about who you are, what you're looking for and can offer.

- Get involved in the forums, they're a great way to get known and to get to know others, don't be scared to offer genuine and honest opinions - you say you work a midnight to noon shift pattern - that actually means you are free during forum prime time which is from around late afternoon until about 11 most days.

- Be positive, set your expectations low, get your attitude and approach right - it won't guarantee a thing but your experience of the site will be much better.

- Look out for local group socials to attend, or consider clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to make any friends or impact on this group what does everyone nominally do to open up a conversation with others on here "

Pay attention to what people are saying. Know your onions. Ask interesting questions. Stroke egos. Flirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to make any friends or impact on this group what does everyone nominally do to open up a conversation with others on here

Pay attention to what people are saying. Know your onions. Ask interesting questions. Stroke egos. Flirt. "

I'd say your a man that knows his onions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I’m gonna change some bits and give a bit more info on my personality later tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to make any friends or impact on this group what does everyone nominally do to open up a conversation with others on here

Pay attention to what people are saying. Know your onions. Ask interesting questions. Stroke egos. Flirt.

I'd say your a man that knows his onions."

As if.. I just go round stroking everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you I’m gonna change some bits and give a bit more info on my personality later tonight "

Thats a good idea give your profile some of your personality also adding more photos won't harm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv give it a little work this evening but still need to finish it

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