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Would you answer or even read, a long message?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And by long I mean 1,127 words or 6,095 characters

I know it's probably rude not to answer but come on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A one word reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thumbs up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thumbs up "

Ohh, even better!

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"And by long I mean 1,127 words or 6,095 characters

I know it's probably rude not to answer but come on..."

I always count the amount of characters in a message before I decide whether to read it or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And by long I mean 1,127 words or 6,095 characters

I know it's probably rude not to answer but come on...

I always count the amount of characters in a message before I decide whether to read it or not "

Online word counter

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"And by long I mean 1,127 words or 6,095 characters

I know it's probably rude not to answer but come on...

I always count the amount of characters in a message before I decide whether to read it or not

Online word counter "

Notoriously unreliable. Manual is the way to go

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

That’s not a message, it’s an essay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A one word reply."

and one word is not hypocrisy (read between the line) but odd and even both exist, but to be honest So far not seen, except one

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Have you received one that long OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And by long I mean 1,127 words or 6,095 characters

I know it's probably rude not to answer but come on...

I always count the amount of characters in a message before I decide whether to read it or not

Online word counter

Notoriously unreliable. Manual is the way to go "

Piss off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what it was. Some people can write really funny, long mails.

If it was some shite porn sex chat I just reply saying I didn't read it as I'm not into that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you received one that long OP? "
Yup, the one before it was 356 words 1,732 characters, so I already saved it for the weekend to answer, but I don't want to spend my entire weekend answering 1 message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you received one that long OP? Yup, the one before it was 356 words 1,732 characters, so I already saved it for the weekend to answer, but I don't want to spend my entire weekend answering 1 message "

Say the dog ate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a riveting read. I skim read anyway, if it's more than a paragraph.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, how's you?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Have you received one that long OP? Yup, the one before it was 356 words 1,732 characters, so I already saved it for the weekend to answer, but I don't want to spend my entire weekend answering 1 message "

Skim, highlight relevant points and keep your response brief but informative so it doesn’t happen again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if it was the first message.

If it was part of an intense conversation, of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you received one that long OP? Yup, the one before it was 356 words 1,732 characters, so I already saved it for the weekend to answer, but I don't want to spend my entire weekend answering 1 message

Skim, highlight relevant points and keep your response brief but informative so it doesn’t happen again? "

I've just said the message is too long in the best way I could

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

To answer your question OP...I read and answer every message I receive, regardless of length. However, my reply isn’t guaranteed to be equally lengthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’be only had one really long message.

It was a porn story

I answered but it was only a thanks but no thanks

I do like an interesting or funny first message though, I don’t mind if they are lengthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And by long I mean 1,127 words or 6,095 characters

I know it's probably rude not to answer but come on..."

I might but i would say just about every man would answer one from a woman if it was a first message on here and it included a full nude photo that was attractive.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Unlikely to read it all! I'd scan through and if there was anything of interest I might reply. But that smacks of high maintenance.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I hope it was in poem form!

I used to get a long ass message every morning from some guy. I never responded and it just fizzled out. I miss those poems...

"We walk along the beach, listening to the seagulls screach..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine aren't exactly as short as this reply haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just reply and ask if they could send me the footnotes of the message

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Have you received one that long OP? Yup, the one before it was 356 words 1,732 characters, so I already saved it for the weekend to answer, but I don't want to spend my entire weekend answering 1 message

Skim, highlight relevant points and keep your response brief but informative so it doesn’t happen again?

I've just said the message is too long in the best way I could "

Are you now blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im intrigued read it. What does it say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking annoys me when you are sitting there on WhatsApp or whatever and see the word ‘typing’ for what seems like half hour to be greeted with ‘ok’...what the actual fuck!

In answer to your question op, it would seriously have to open with a funny few paragraphs to get my attention to read until the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the worst thing about getting a really long message is having to reply in kind. I actually stopped talking to someone many years ago, because the idea of replying to every long winded message became quite stressful and time consuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the worst thing about getting a really long message is having to reply in kind. I actually stopped talking to someone many years ago, because the idea of replying to every long winded message became quite stressful and time consuming "

My standard response "ooh lovely"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you received one that long OP? Yup, the one before it was 356 words 1,732 characters, so I already saved it for the weekend to answer, but I don't want to spend my entire weekend answering 1 message

Skim, highlight relevant points and keep your response brief but informative so it doesn’t happen again?

I've just said the message is too long in the best way I could

Are you now blocked? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im intrigued read it. What does it say? "

A lot of stuff mostly personal which I haven't inquired about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im intrigued read it. What does it say?

A lot of stuff mostly personal which I haven't inquired about"

Was this a first message then. I would be uncomfortable reading such a long personal type message. I dont mind if it is a waffle type message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im intrigued read it. What does it say?

A lot of stuff mostly personal which I haven't inquired about

Was this a first message then. I would be uncomfortable reading such a long personal type message. I dont mind if it is a waffle type message. "

Like a fifth or sixth message, and it went from like 4-5 regular to 300 word message to 1200 word message. And I was completely lost (plot wise) after receiving them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on if it had sufficient of a hook to capture my interest.

Not sure I would waste my time on a word count though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I read and reply to every message.

That is more to do with the frequency of messages and amount of time I have available to answer it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have replied to very long messages with a 'tldr' before which I feel slightly bad about but tell myself they are copied and pasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have replied to very long messages with a 'tldr' before which I feel slightly bad about but tell myself they are copied and pasted "

It took me hours to type that message

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By *on Ryans ExpressMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

If its form a woman that a real woman not a fab guy pretending to be one I always reply no matter how long.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It depends on the sender and the message. If it's a copy and paste of somr tripe, it's wasted effort.

The right sender, the message is read and replied to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i get board after 5 lines

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I have replied to very long messages with a 'tldr' before which I feel slightly bad about but tell myself they are copied and pasted

It took me hours to type that message "

Soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im intrigued read it. What does it say?

A lot of stuff mostly personal which I haven't inquired about

Was this a first message then. I would be uncomfortable reading such a long personal type message. I dont mind if it is a waffle type message.

Like a fifth or sixth message, and it went from like 4-5 regular to 300 word message to 1200 word message. And I was completely lost (plot wise) after receiving them."

Aww it takes dedication to type that much out then, she must like you.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

In my experience long long messages are copy paste and nothing personal to me in them at all , I've assumed rightly or wrongly that they were sent out to a number of people , I always reply by asking if it's a copy and paste mass message but they always assure me it's not

Despite friends of mine receiving the same message lol

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