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By *uciyass OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

So me new girl has surprised me in many ways but she’s just asked me something that I don’t know how to answer to

So she’s asked if I’d wear her clothes and underwear and pretend I was her submissive bitch

Now not being experienced in this area I didn’t know how to answer her and not wanting to upset her I said yes sure

So my question. How should I deal with this I really don’t want to ruin her clothing and I’m quite embarrassed about someone seeing me in women’s clothing and I don’t want to upset her. What if she wants to do things to me in an anal way.

I really respect the intelligence and honesty of this group and I know you will have some fine suggestions for me and then look forward to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the worst that can happen? Have a can of irn bru hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t feel comfortable doing it, don’t do it.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Talk to her about any concerns you may have. She is the best person to put your mind at ease

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Talk to her.

Communication is the most important thing in any relationship, especially a new one. I understand that you may not want to upset her by saying no or appearing uncertain but being open and honest about how you're feeling is the most important thing. There's nothing wrong with being unsure or needing to talk things through, it will only make things better and easier.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If you fancy role playing her submissive bitch just do it.

Use some of her 'not so new clothes' that wont be missed if they are 'ruined' ( my you are going to have a good time )

Don't go outdoors or invite the neighbours round.

Enjoy.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S. I forgot the anal thing......

douche and bite down on the pillow....

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By *uciyass OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Thank you all for the kind advice I will take it on board.

I think I will just let it flow and see how it goes. I’m a virgin too by the way and that’s playing on my mind.

Love and kisses all

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By *uciyass OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"P.S. I forgot the anal thing......

douche and bite down on the pillow.... "

Thank you good advice Should I take my dentures out or leave them in as I’d be mortified if they remained stuck in the pillow

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"P.S. I forgot the anal thing......

douche and bite down on the pillow....

Thank you good advice Should I take my dentures out or leave them in as I’d be mortified if they remained stuck in the pillow "

Leave your dentures in but if she's hell bent on skull fucking you , leave them in the jar by the bed. It's better than having them fly around the room on an outward thrust xx

Much love.

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By *uciyass OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"P.S. I forgot the anal thing......

douche and bite down on the pillow....

Thank you good advice Should I take my dentures out or leave them in as I’d be mortified if they remained stuck in the pillow

Leave your dentures in but if she's hell bent on skull fucking you , leave them in the jar by the bed. It's better than having them fly around the room on an outward thrust xx

Much love."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don’t feel comfortable doing it, don’t do it. "

This. Always this.

And ask her what she has in mind.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

You need to talk everything through with her properly so she understands how you feel and you understand how she feels. If you don't do that, you're never going to feel comfortable about it.

Some people like feeling uncomfortable but that might not be what you're going for here!

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Has she seen your Fab profile x

Is she familiar with your alter ego x

Have you led her to believe it is something you could enjoy together?

Whatever the answers - enjoy the journey together x

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If you don’t feel comfortable doing it, don’t do it. "

This

Might be you'd feel like it down the line but if it isn't you right now and it doesn't make you feel good/comfortable/happy, then don't.

Tell her exactly how you feel don't undersell or demurr. Doing stuff that makes you feel bad bad (as opposed to good bad ) won't improve any relationship xxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Try it .. you might like it

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Tarka trail

Whats the worst that can happen. Anyway look on the bright side. You will be shitting in her knickers not yours.

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