FabSwingers.com forum: Do you fear death?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why or why not?

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not anymore, death used to scare the shit out of me but being in the care industry for so many years has changed the way I look at it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't want to die yet and am trying not but it will happen one day and I'm ok with that.

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Not death.

Dying, perhaps.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Why or why not?

Mrscxxx "

As an atheist,the thought of just ceasing to exist is terrifying. I try to concentrate more on living than dying though,and thoroughly intend to live for ever.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fear death, maybe how it comes about, a bit, though

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By *onandCouple
over a year ago

Cheadle

One life.... live it!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I think death is more afraid of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why or why not?

Mrscxxx

As an atheist,the thought of just ceasing to exist is terrifying. I try to concentrate more on living than dying though,and thoroughly intend to live for ever.

Cal"

Was just going to say something similar. I do envy religious people sometimes as they don’t seem terrified by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my own.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

No, I'll be back....dont know what as...but I will be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t fear death. As a spiritualist person we believe that life is eternal the soul lives on and it’s the body that dies. We mourn for the person that died Because we miss who they were

Hubs is an atheist and does not share my beliefs he believes once we die that’s it

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why or why not?

Mrscxxx "

used to, till i saw 4 people who was close to me die within 18 months and i was ill in 2013-2016

when its my time its my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, it is just the way it all ends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you fear something you never know happend?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No I do not fear death.

I fear pain and prolonged illness or old age. ( or I don't relish it shall we say )

You ask why not ? It's because I have long accepted that death is part of the life cycle of every living creature. It's inevitable.

I think people fear death because as a society we tend to hide away from it. We even make up ridiculous phrases for it as if this somehow eases unexpected passing. We dress up death and promise the gullible 'everlasting life' if they serve our God.

What is important is that you make the most of what days you have and treat each person you meet as a brother or sister regardless of how their 'suffering and ignorance' cause them to treat you as less.

I have ten maybe fifteen years left on the planet before I am dust and reborn in my children and grandchildren.

Do good while you are here.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I don't fear death, I've seen it too many times, in some of the worst ways.

My only fear, not living while I can.

I'm fighting that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I do not fear death.

I fear pain and prolonged illness or old age. ( or I don't relish it shall we say )

You ask why not ? It's because I have long accepted that death is part of the life cycle of every living creature. It's inevitable.

I have ten maybe fifteen years left on the planet before I am dust and reborn in my children and grandchildren.

Do good while you are here. "

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

No but I do hope that it happens in my sleep I'd rather not no I'm dieing iff that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am immortal i have inside me blood of kings i have no rival

No man can be my equal

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I don’t fear death. As a spiritualist person we believe that life is eternal the soul lives on and it’s the body that dies. We mourn for the person that died Because we miss who they were

Hubs is an atheist and does not share my beliefs he believes once we die that’s it

Mrscxxx "

I agree with hubs.

Start another thread on what 'soul' is and how it lives on. Interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I look forward to it!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I am immortal i have inside me blood of kings i have no rival

No man can be my equal

I read that as immoral...... My eyes , wishful thinking or time and place....hmmmmm ?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

No, no point fearing stuff you can't change.

I have a question for those who believe in life after death. Do you really believe it in the same way you believe that London is the capital of England or is it more a hope?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should fear death, its a good motivator in the fight for survival.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pointless to even consider unless you have the ability to influence or change something.

If you're walking a tightrope then by all means consider death, but even then it's kinda pointles unless you change your course. If you're at home and signed into fab then just enjoy the tits, cock and discussion and be happy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No, no point fearing stuff you can't change.

I have a question for those who believe in life after death. Do you really believe it in the same way you believe that London is the capital of England or is it more a hope? "

London ? Really ....? Shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Death has held a fascination for me dont ask why...I guess seeing the first maggot infest bird carcase as a kid...but not scared. Maybe the question should be are you scared about how you die?

I am more woried about having no control over how I leave this life than death itself.

Emotionaly I rarely cry at funerals (probably only twice) not because I am not sad but because it's part of life...just like night and day.

I look at the leaves on the trees and see how they wither and die, only to be broken down into basoc componenets to be soaked up again by the trees etc..I think (and this is my own personal view)..our lives may be like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've had a good run so far, hope I'm around long enough to see my boys turn into men and a good deal longer. If the Grim Reaper does come a knocking, I hope he's like DEATH from Discworld.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am immortal i have inside me blood of kings i have no rival

No man can be my equal

I read that as immoral...... My eyes , wishful thinking or time and place....hmmmmm ?"
that too morality is for lightweights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps our fear of death comes from the fear of the unknown.

We don't know what might be on the other side after death. Do we enter eternal paradise or eternal damnation? Do we see our loved ones again or see nothing but darkness? Do we transcend to another plain of existence or are we instantly reborn into the world with no memory from our past life?

These are some of the things that people probably fear when it comes to death depending on what they believe in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am immortal i have inside me blood of kings i have no rival

No man can be my equal

I read that as immoral...... My eyes , wishful thinking or time and place....hmmmmm ?that too morality is for lightweights

That pic should be page 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps our fear of death comes from the fear of the unknown.

These are some of the things that people probably fear when it comes to death depending on what they believe in."

Exactly this, which is why I think it’s easier for people with beliefs probably. I would say I’m more agnostic than atheist but I do sometimes stress about dying. I just stop myself thinking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, its just a new adventure.. Only one thing certain about life and that is WE DIE, its how we live thats important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fear death as such, I've welcomed it many times when at my lowest. What concerns me is the impact it will have on my loved ones.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Nope, its just a new adventure.. Only one thing certain about life and that is WE DIE, its how we live thats important

What kid of adventures does a person go on when they die ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because i living my second one

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't fear my own. I fear others.

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By *igbootybabeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Only if it were whilst my children are young

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Living without autonomy scares me so much more than death, I’ll be popping off before I become dependent on anyone caring for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not scared of dying but scared of how I'll go.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"No I do not fear death.

I fear pain and prolonged illness or old age. ( or I don't relish it shall we say )

You ask why not ? It's because I have long accepted that death is part of the life cycle of every living creature. It's inevitable.

I have ten maybe fifteen years left on the planet before I am dust and reborn in my children and grandchildren.

Do good while you are here. "

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Selfishly I don’t fear my own death. When I’m gone I’m gone. I won’t know, won’t care. I fear the death of my closest loved ones, the pain and loneliness of not having them with me anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am immortal i have inside me blood of kings i have no rival

No man can be my equal

I read that as immoral...... My eyes , wishful thinking or time and place....hmmmmm ?that too morality is for lightweights

That pic should be page 1

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im trying but alas its not to be

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Having seen both parents and both grandparents die in the last 10 years, and with my own recent health issues, I no longer fear death . I do however, think it's a real waste that ones memories and adventures are gone the instant we die. That is sad and seems such a waste

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Yes,

It frightens the life out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Selfishly I don’t fear my own death. When I’m gone I’m gone. I won’t know, won’t care. I fear the death of my closest loved ones, the pain and loneliness of not having them with me anymore. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fighting old age till the end. My father lived til 92. Strong and well till 3 days before. Thats how i want to go. Yes i fear death. More the unknown of how it will happen. But i will go out kicking and screaming. Till then i enjoy my life as if i was 30.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Living without autonomy scares me so much more than death, I’ll be popping off before I become dependent on anyone caring for me."

Same... I really should join one of the 'legalising assisted death causes' .... im so bloody self centred.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Yes,

It frightens the life out of me

Do we excuse the pun or are you blisfully unaware ?

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

Fear death lol I've been married for 30yrs !!!

Anyway I have had to be brought back after a bad experience with a general anaesthetic when I was 5. So second time lucky reaper

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Why or why not?

Mrscxxx "

Not at all.

But I do worry that it'll arrive sooner than I'd like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, no point fearing stuff you can't change.

I have a question for those who believe in life after death. Do you really believe it in the same way you believe that London is the capital of England or is it more a hope? "

I believe it because I have seen it. I can speak to people who have passed I am Clairaudiant witch means I can speak to the dead please don’t bash me for my beliefs

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fear death but I fear for what I'll leave behind. I don't want my daughter or husband to ever be alone.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It's not a case of fear of death, more a case of missing out on seeing my children grow and what they will become. I do fear becoming frail and losing control of my body though

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"No, no point fearing stuff you can't change.

I have a question for those who believe in life after death. Do you really believe it in the same way you believe that London is the capital of England or is it more a hope?

I believe it because I have seen it. I can speak to people who have passed I am Clairaudiant witch means I can speak to the dead please don’t bash me for my beliefs

Mrscxxx "

Ah yes, we've discussed this before and you failed to show you could, in fact, do any such thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as most I think, not the death itself but what comes before, the pain or illness, regrets of not doing things I wanted, leaving loved ones behind, just knowing time has run out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in end of life care, death is not something I fear, it’s the natural progression of human life....

it’s of course much harder to handle when someone is taken too soon.

It would be pointless to live in fear of dying....

your life is an occasion.... so rise to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not death.

Dying, perhaps. "

Exactly

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t fear it at all, I’d go tomorrow if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you fear... death? Do you fear that dark abyss? All your deeds laid bare, all your sins punished?

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Yes,

It frightens the life out of me

Do we excuse the pun or are you blisfully unaware ?"

Excuse the pun

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not my own."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. You’re born, then you die . The bit in the middle is called “life”. When it’s you’re time, you can’t change it. So why worry about it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My culture believes in reincarnation so I don't fear death, I look forward to whatever I'll be in the next life

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"Why or why not?

Mrscxxx "

No, why fear something that's inevitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote Woody Allen, I'm not scared of death, I just don't want to be there when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life and death are one thread, the same line viewed from different sides."

Not really afraid of death but more an inadequate life.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

If you don’t you’re lying!!

I came to terms with the fact I thought I was genuinely going to die last year, and who knows maybe I still am, it scared me shitless..

I went on holiday with my wife and kids thinking this will be the last holiday together..

I’m still here

At least for now

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Am impartial, no fear about it.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

No point fearing it.

The only thing that 100% will happen to everyone.

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By *wosWoman
over a year ago

east london

Was possibly going to be there a couple of weeks ago. .. and all that bothered me was leaving everyone. .

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"Was possibly going to be there a couple of weeks ago. .. and all that bothered me was leaving everyone. ."

One of my recurring nightmares is me dying and my daughter's being stranded and not knowing what to do.

Hope you are much better now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not anymore, death used to scare the shit out of me but being in the care industry for so many years has changed the way I look at it now.

This

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

No . I'm not frightened.. don't fancy suffering for long though

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By *wosWoman
over a year ago

east london

"Was possibly going to be there a couple of weeks ago. .. and all that bothered me was leaving everyone. .

One of my recurring nightmares is me dying and my daughter's being stranded and not knowing what to do.

Onward and upwards ...

Hope you are much better now."

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Why or why not?

Mrscxxx

As an atheist,the thought of just ceasing to exist is terrifying. I try to concentrate more on living than dying though,and thoroughly intend to live for ever.

Cal"

This !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help but do my best "Davey Jones" Impression everytime I read the thread title.

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"How can you fear something you never know happend?"

No but if you were diagnosed with something g and had all that time to think about it first .

I hope I just drop dead of a heart attack one day with no warning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't fear death. It's inevitable. I fear not living before I die.

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why or why not?

Mrscxxx

As an atheist,the thought of just ceasing to exist is terrifying. I try to concentrate more on living than dying though,and thoroughly intend to live for ever.

Cal"

This definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not afraid of dying, I just don't want to be there when it happens.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Why or why not?

Mrscxxx "

As long as I get to delete my search history first

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Well you've been dead once as you never existed before Mum and Dad met. So you're only going back to where you have been.

The way I have always looked at it is, your body is a vessel, very little control over it, cut yourself you bleed try using your brain to stop the bleeding waste of time, stick a plaster on it. If you get the flu, your body fights it not you.

However we can control certain parts of our personality our inner self, thoughts and feelings if you will. Maybe that's your soul the part that continues a journey once the body is no longer needed

Keeps me sane thinking of it like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not for me. I'd be afraid for my children and how they would fare without me around.

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By *lucard5Man
over a year ago

kerry capital

I like that. This is just a holiday for us to enjoy. And like the end of all holidays, people aren't loking forward to leaving paradise..it's got to be done though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it’s quick then no, a long drawn out affair is not what the crowd wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Death is one moment, life is many

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No, Its going home

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. It's just an element of our experience, albeit the last one. We know it's going to happen and have a lifetime to be prepared

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I dont fear death not ready die yet though, I dont suppose I have feared it since I wrote my first will aged 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the next adventure when we've finished this one

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Most people fear death it’s natural to fear death that’s our inbuilt survival instinct, we run from tigers for a very good reason! people’s survival instinct gets stronger the older we are too, young children don’t fear death nor do people with cognitive problems or people with severe depression, or people that are incredibly ill, they either don’t know about death, have forgotten about fear of death or they simply welcome death As it will mean peace

But as we get older we get used to death and we realise that we will die no matter what and we also learn that people do suffer prior to death, no one wants to suffer as well, because of our understanding of death you find people are feeling they have no fear of it. But they are very unlikely to put themselves at risks or live a dangerous life.

I fear death i don’t want to die early, old and in my sleep would be lovely but that is actually not that common, but if I get seriously ill I’d also want assisted suicide if I knew my last months would be painful or my quality of life would be terrible I’d like to think I could have some say in my death if that happened.

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By *oodguyeddieMan
over a year ago

l36

I buried my old man when I was just 16... 2 months to go from my Dad to deceased... I'm not scared about going myself... everyone has to do it... I suppose faith and religion comfort some people... it must be an amazing comfort to feel that your God is with you... for my mind, if there is a God... he's a bit vindictive and sure can bear a grudge

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Not scared of death just so long as I live my life and make something of it. My only concerns are about staying healthy and keeping my faculties intact. I don't wanna end up infirm and incapable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I look forward to it!

Phew, I’m not alone then.

Had a few moments where I’ve felt this way recently.

I’m still here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck me what a lovely thread to cheer us all up for the weekend

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t fear death itself just the way it might happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest. What I fear is how my son will deal with my death as I know how hard it is to lose your mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t fear death itself just the way it might happen

This is how I feel.

I don't want any prolonged painful illness or dementia.

I fear being old and incapacitated as well - I would rather be dead than not be able to wipe my own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, just how I might die, like others it seems..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t fear death itself just the way it might happen

This is how I feel.

I don't want any prolonged painful illness or dementia.

I fear being old and incapacitated as well - I would rather be dead than not be able to wipe my own arse

This is my biggest fear, losing my physical independence.

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By *r Rubba LoverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

If Death ever comes for me I'm going out the way I came in... Kicking and screaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sad when I think about me dying. I won't be here to help my family any more and they will be sad. The sadness will become less and less but I don't want them to feel the pain of losing me and have that big hole in their lives, where I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only fear necrophiliacs !!

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

Having had a big cancer scare last year I would say yes death does scare me. But when you come close to it you then take a different outlook to life . You realise that all the silly things you worried about before are pointless. And you live everyday as best you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only fear necrophiliacs !!

Unbelievable

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I don't fear death , I suppose i would welcome it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. spent so long fighting to remember how to live that death has zero fear for me now. I'm grateful for every day and every smile I could have missed out on.

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By *unscot44Man
over a year ago

Stepps (Glasgow)

I am not saying this applies to everyone, but i think a lot of people who say they are not afraid of death in any way are exaggerating a little.

I think if you ever find yourself in a situation where you think you might only have 24 hours to live most people would have some fear, whether it be on the feeling as when death approaches or even the though of not being present anymore.

I personally believe there is something beyond this physical life but still don't want to find out for a while yet lol

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