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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Ok so I message a girl who puts a meet up and we exchange messages for a while, she sends a friend request which I accepted as most of my pics are private.We agree to meet later that night, venue and time sorted and she doesn’t turn up!! So I wait 20 minutes and all the time she is online on here so message and ask where she is? No reply..bearing in mind it’s 10pm and I’ve spent time showered and getting ready etc and driven 30 minutes to meet her I think that’s pretty piss poor personally

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"Ok so I message a girl who puts a meet up and we exchange messages for a while, she sends a friend request which I accepted as most of my pics are private.We agree to meet later that night, venue and time sorted and she doesn’t turn up!! So I wait 20 minutes and all the time she is online on here so message and ask where she is? No reply..bearing in mind it’s 10pm and I’ve spent time showered and getting ready etc and driven 30 minutes to meet her I think that’s pretty piss poor personally "

Did you speak to her on the phone?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Due diligence. Was she genuine? Really a female? X

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute meets are always going to be high risk. Don't invest any more time than you are prepared to lose.

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Ok so I message a girl who puts a meet up and we exchange messages for a while, she sends a friend request which I accepted as most of my pics are private.We agree to meet later that night, venue and time sorted and she doesn’t turn up!! So I wait 20 minutes and all the time she is online on here so message and ask where she is? No reply..bearing in mind it’s 10pm and I’ve spent time showered and getting ready etc and driven 30 minutes to meet her I think that’s pretty piss poor personally

Did you speak to her on the phone? "

No I never got her number.. my bad and lesson learned x

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Due diligence. Was she genuine? Really a female? X"

I thought she was, she sounded very genuine x

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Last minute meets are always going to be high risk. Don't invest any more time than you are prepared to lose. "

Yes mate lesson learned

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

Was she verified?

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Was she verified? "

Yes definitely verified

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I got messaged by a profile with no pic, got chatting, decided to meet, they seen my face I didnt even see theirs but thought fuck it its only a 30 min drive.

I drive and pull up and I get out my phone to message that I am there as I am like 15/20 mins late. Knock on the window a little blonde standing there bending over looking in, open the door they jump in, wrap their arms around me, kiss me.

Turns out she never gives anyone ever a photo before a meet. If they dont want to meet they dont have to.

I'm just saying this cause sure your time might be wasted meeting up with certain types of people. But also if you're sitting around, have a tank full of petrol, and dont mind a drive or a cup of tea, then you're not really that bad off, had a nice wee drive or a nice cup of tea.

Just dont do mad stuff like drive down dead end alleys for a meet.

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"I got messaged by a profile with no pic, got chatting, decided to meet, they seen my face I didnt even see theirs but thought fuck it its only a 30 min drive.

I drive and pull up and I get out my phone to message that I am there as I am like 15/20 mins late. Knock on the window a little blonde standing there bending over looking in, open the door they jump in, wrap their arms around me, kiss me.

Turns out she never gives anyone ever a photo before a meet. If they dont want to meet they dont have to.

I'm just saying this cause sure your time might be wasted meeting up with certain types of people. But also if you're sitting around, have a tank full of petrol, and dont mind a drive or a cup of tea, then you're not really that bad off, had a nice wee drive or a nice cup of tea.

Just dont do mad stuff like drive down dead end alleys for a meet."

Just pissed me off mate as men get all the bad press on here.. it’s not the first time I’ve been let down or messed around but the first time I’ve actually gone to meet the person and was a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tyres are like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always be pretty cynical of such quickly arranged meets like that and fairly late at night too. Im sure people do have them but couples maybe more than a single woman. I don't know. It is a total pain I guess but always go with if it sounds to good to be true its probably not happening.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Sorry to hear this OP

Hope you reported her

Miss

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I got messaged by a profile with no pic, got chatting, decided to meet, they seen my face I didnt even see theirs but thought fuck it its only a 30 min drive.

I drive and pull up and I get out my phone to message that I am there as I am like 15/20 mins late. Knock on the window a little blonde standing there bending over looking in, open the door they jump in, wrap their arms around me, kiss me.

Turns out she never gives anyone ever a photo before a meet. If they dont want to meet they dont have to.

I'm just saying this cause sure your time might be wasted meeting up with certain types of people. But also if you're sitting around, have a tank full of petrol, and dont mind a drive or a cup of tea, then you're not really that bad off, had a nice wee drive or a nice cup of tea.

Just dont do mad stuff like drive down dead end alleys for a meet.

Just pissed me off mate as men get all the bad press on here.. it’s not the first time I’ve been let down or messed around but the first time I’ve actually gone to meet the person and was a no show "

I am sure there are women who do this, just as I am sure there are men who pretend to be women and do this.

Think with your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a massive let down, unless it's not......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got messaged by a profile with no pic, got chatting, decided to meet, they seen my face I didnt even see theirs but thought fuck it its only a 30 min drive.

I drive and pull up and I get out my phone to message that I am there as I am like 15/20 mins late. Knock on the window a little blonde standing there bending over looking in, open the door they jump in, wrap their arms around me, kiss me.

Turns out she never gives anyone ever a photo before a meet. If they dont want to meet they dont have to.

I'm just saying this cause sure your time might be wasted meeting up with certain types of people. But also if you're sitting around, have a tank full of petrol, and dont mind a drive or a cup of tea, then you're not really that bad off, had a nice wee drive or a nice cup of tea.

Just dont do mad stuff like drive down dead end alleys for a meet.

Just pissed me off mate as men get all the bad press on here.. it’s not the first time I’ve been let down or messed around but the first time I’ve actually gone to meet the person and was a no show

I am sure there are women who do this, just as I am sure there are men who pretend to be women and do this.

Think with your head.

"

That too ^

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"I got messaged by a profile with no pic, got chatting, decided to meet, they seen my face I didnt even see theirs but thought fuck it its only a 30 min drive.

I drive and pull up and I get out my phone to message that I am there as I am like 15/20 mins late. Knock on the window a little blonde standing there bending over looking in, open the door they jump in, wrap their arms around me, kiss me.

Turns out she never gives anyone ever a photo before a meet. If they dont want to meet they dont have to.

I'm just saying this cause sure your time might be wasted meeting up with certain types of people. But also if you're sitting around, have a tank full of petrol, and dont mind a drive or a cup of tea, then you're not really that bad off, had a nice wee drive or a nice cup of tea.

Just dont do mad stuff like drive down dead end alleys for a meet.

Just pissed me off mate as men get all the bad press on here.. it’s not the first time I’ve been let down or messed around but the first time I’ve actually gone to meet the person and was a no show

I am sure there are women who do this, just as I am sure there are men who pretend to be women and do this.

Think with your head.

Yep never again

"

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Further to add to the story

She has just put a meet up for tonight so I messaged her as to why she didn’t reply to my messages as I was waiting for her..Can you guess what happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Further to add to the story

She has just put a meet up for tonight so I messaged her as to why she didn’t reply to my messages as I was waiting for her..Can you guess what happened? "
she doesnt exist mate its a guy winding you up

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Further to add to the story

She has just put a meet up for tonight so I messaged her as to why she didn’t reply to my messages as I was waiting for her..Can you guess what happened? she doesnt exist mate its a guy winding you up"

I’m not so sure personally and have saw her on plenty of fish before..who knows??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Further to add to the story

She has just put a meet up for tonight so I messaged her as to why she didn’t reply to my messages as I was waiting for her..Can you guess what happened? she doesnt exist mate its a guy winding you up

I’m not so sure personally and have saw her on plenty of fish before..who knows?? "
defo no fakes on pof she must be real

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Further to add to the story

She has just put a meet up for tonight so I messaged her as to why she didn’t reply to my messages as I was waiting for her..Can you guess what happened? she doesnt exist mate its a guy winding you up

I’m not so sure personally and have saw her on plenty of fish before..who knows?? "

You don't know if the photos on the profile belong to the person behind the profile as you have not met them or spoken to them. Report the profile and leave it to Admin to investigate.

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Further to add to the story

She has just put a meet up for tonight so I messaged her as to why she didn’t reply to my messages as I was waiting for her..Can you guess what happened? she doesnt exist mate its a guy winding you up

I’m not so sure personally and have saw her on plenty of fish before..who knows?? defo no fakes on pof she must be real "

Nope 100% real on there lol

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Sorry to hear this OP

Hope you reported her

Miss"

Thanks and no not reported her or him lol anyway been blocked now for confronting

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Further to add to the story

She has just put a meet up for tonight so I messaged her as to why she didn’t reply to my messages as I was waiting for her..Can you guess what happened? she doesnt exist mate its a guy winding you up

I’m not so sure personally and have saw her on plenty of fish before..who knows??

You don't know if the photos on the profile belong to the person behind the profile as you have not met them or spoken to them. Report the profile and leave it to Admin to investigate.

"

I know I should but I deleted the messages and been blocked so lesson learned!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I message a girl who puts a meet up and we exchange messages for a while, she sends a friend request which I accepted as most of my pics are private.We agree to meet later that night, venue and time sorted and she doesn’t turn up!! So I wait 20 minutes and all the time she is online on here so message and ask where she is? No reply..bearing in mind it’s 10pm and I’ve spent time showered and getting ready etc and driven 30 minutes to meet her I think that’s pretty piss poor personally "

Sorry to hear.

Make sure you vet them with a call

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ok so I message a girl who puts a meet up and we exchange messages for a while, she sends a friend request which I accepted as most of my pics are private.We agree to meet later that night, venue and time sorted and she doesn’t turn up!! So I wait 20 minutes and all the time she is online on here so message and ask where she is? No reply..bearing in mind it’s 10pm and I’ve spent time showered and getting ready etc and driven 30 minutes to meet her I think that’s pretty piss poor personally "

Think with the head above your neck.

10pm, a woman inviting a man she's never spoken to or clapped eyes on over to hers for sex...really?!!

Come on now!

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"I would always be pretty cynical of such quickly arranged meets like that and fairly late at night too. Im sure people do have them but couples maybe more than a single woman. I don't know. It is a total pain I guess but always go with if it sounds to good to be true its probably not happening. "

Yes lesson learned it won’t happen again

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Ok so I message a girl who puts a meet up and we exchange messages for a while, she sends a friend request which I accepted as most of my pics are private.We agree to meet later that night, venue and time sorted and she doesn’t turn up!! So I wait 20 minutes and all the time she is online on here so message and ask where she is? No reply..bearing in mind it’s 10pm and I’ve spent time showered and getting ready etc and driven 30 minutes to meet her I think that’s pretty piss poor personally

Sorry to hear.

Make sure you vet them with a call

"

Yes will do in future and thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I message a girl who puts a meet up and we exchange messages for a while, she sends a friend request which I accepted as most of my pics are private.We agree to meet later that night, venue and time sorted and she doesn’t turn up!! So I wait 20 minutes and all the time she is online on here so message and ask where she is? No reply..bearing in mind it’s 10pm and I’ve spent time showered and getting ready etc and driven 30 minutes to meet her I think that’s pretty piss poor personally

Sorry to hear.

Make sure you vet them with a call

Np x

Yes will do in future and thank you "

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Ok so I message a girl who puts a meet up and we exchange messages for a while, she sends a friend request which I accepted as most of my pics are private.We agree to meet later that night, venue and time sorted and she doesn’t turn up!! So I wait 20 minutes and all the time she is online on here so message and ask where she is? No reply..bearing in mind it’s 10pm and I’ve spent time showered and getting ready etc and driven 30 minutes to meet her I think that’s pretty piss poor personally

Think with the head above your neck.

10pm, a woman inviting a man she's never spoken to or clapped eyes on over to hers for sex...really?!!

Come on now!"

Just to clarify I had spoken to her on a few different occasions mostly to compliment her on her pics, so she did seem genuine but my mistake and won’t happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report her if she doesn't have the common courtesy to say anything she shouldn't deserve anything from anyone else.

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Report her if she doesn't have the common courtesy to say anything she shouldn't deserve anything from anyone else. "

Should have mate but I stupidly deleted the messages and have now been blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh well, let's just hope karma comes around and kicks her hard in the arse. She'll come to realise she was wrong one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it's all been said but very few woman meet last minute.

I have done this once but I made sure we spoke on the phone first to establish a connection and made My decision after chatting for a bit. I would think most woman meeting last minute would do the same.

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Ahhhh well, let's just hope karma comes around and kicks her hard in the arse. She'll come to realise she was wrong one day.

"

Yep hopefully

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