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By *ooseLips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham-ish

I got a meeting coming up soon, with a guy Ive seen several times before, we've had some good fun, but just to spice things up further he has asked me to play Dom with him....

I'd love some help with some ideas, as I've never played Dom before

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Shout at him in a mock German accent.

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By *ooseLips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham-ish

Thanks.............

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By *om1noMan
over a year ago

South Worcestershire

You might find the snap of a latex glove and the sight of a tube of lube might put him off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a go at looking it up on the nest you will get to learn all sorts x

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By *om1noMan
over a year ago

South Worcestershire


"Have a go at looking it up on the nest you will get to learn all sorts x "
A Dominant bird Hey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A female dom is basically an excuse to kick a guy in the gonads while he's wearing your knickers.

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By *om1noMan
over a year ago

South Worcestershire


"A female dom is basically an excuse to kick a guy in the gonads while he's wearing your knickers."
no room for my gonads in your knicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LooseLips: Tie his hands behind his back and then order him onto his knees then lower your pussy onto his face, grab his hair and grind yourself into him whilst yelling, "Eat me, you disgusting excuse for a man!"

oops - brb..

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By *ooseLips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham-ish

Oh wow, I like that idea a lot ......

I might giv that a go.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"LooseLips: Tie his hands behind his back and then order him onto his knees then lower your pussy onto his face, grab his hair and grind yourself into him whilst yelling, "Eat me, you disgusting excuse for a man!"

oops - brb.. "

He'll be gone for a while.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Poke your heel down his snake eye and slap him if he complains.

Call him lots of names.

Slap him some more.

Make him wear silly clothes.

More names and more slapping.

Oh and don't fuck him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol follow wishys advice, she seems pretty adept at it.......sorry maam lol

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By *om1noMan
over a year ago

South Worcestershire


"LooseLips: Tie his hands behind his back and then order him onto his knees then lower your pussy onto his face, grab his hair and grind yourself into him whilst yelling, "Eat me, you disgusting excuse for a man!"

oops - brb.. "
settle down now , your getting carried away

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By *om1noMan
over a year ago

South Worcestershire


"I got a meeting coming up soon, with a guy Ive seen several times before, we've had some good fun, but just to spice things up further he has asked me to play Dom with him....

I'd love some help with some ideas, as I've never played Dom before "
sent you private mail with a link you might find helpfull,

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

If you want him to play at it then dont expect it to blow ya socks off...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

sorry i misread the OP.....il shut me gob on the subject as i wouldnt know where to start in "playing dom"...good luck with it though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wow, I like that idea a lot ......

I might giv that a go....."

It would be interesting to hear how it went. If he's got sub tendencies I'd wage a guess that he's been fantasising about it for some time so you'll probably only be scratching the surface of his desires. You need to find out what he's been thinking about while masturbating - which is something you could order him to do. Tell him to wank in front of you while telling you what he's fantasising about. Then do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poke your heel down his snake eye and slap him if he complains.

Call him lots of names.

Slap him some more.

Make him wear silly clothes.

More names and more slapping.

Oh and don't fuck him."

i love you sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry i misread the OP.....il shut me gob on the subject as i wouldnt know where to start in "playing dom"...good luck with it though xx"

only as you are a bossy cow anyway x

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Wear leather.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wear leather."

or pvc

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


"Wear leather.

or pvc"

NOW we're talking.

Leather with PVC highlights, with a shade of leopard skin into the mix.

... and a whip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or rubber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shave your head, chase rouge builders and try to get a better deal off people.

the only way to be Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wow, I like that idea a lot ......

I might giv that a go.....

It would be interesting to hear how it went. If he's got sub tendencies I'd wage a guess that he's been fantasising about it for some time so you'll probably only be scratching the surface of his desires. You need to find out what he's been thinking about while masturbating - which is something you could order him to do. Tell him to wank in front of you while telling you what he's fantasising about. Then do it. "

Ooh I love that idea!! Think I'll nick that one, brilliant!!

I found out what he fantasised about and went from there. Seemed to work pretty well. Once you've done a bit it gets easier to think of new things. He might love whips, pvc and all that or he might mean something totally different. Best to ask first so you have some idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a meeting coming up soon, with a guy Ive seen several times before, we've had some good fun, but just to spice things up further he has asked me to play Dom with him....

I'd love some help with some ideas, as I've never played Dom before "

Get a huge rubber phone, go out in the street and shout in it and you will be very Dom.

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By *ooseLips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham-ish


"Wear leather.

or pvc

NOW we're talking.

Leather with PVC highlights, with a shade of leopard skin into the mix.

... and a whip."

I can do all of that

Thanks for all you suggestions, I' ll let you know how it goes Lx

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