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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the best way to start a conversation..

And how good has the response been.

Want views/tips from both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not this... X

Seriously had this once a very long time ago! I think a funny opening message piques my interest.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There's no magic catch all formula - it's about finding the right individual message for the person concerned.

On the rare occasions (and it's happened 6 times in my three years here) that I send a completely cold unsolicited message to someone - I usually introduce myself, tell them a little about me that's not in my profile, tell them what I liked about their profile, leave a couple of questions for them to answer and invite them to take a look at my profile and *if* they are interested in chatting more to come back to me - 5 out of those 6 times I got a reply

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Wargawan fatty?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes no difference what you say. It really doesn’t .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Wargawan fatty?""
faf?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no magic catch all formula - it's about finding the right individual message for the person concerned.

On the rare occasions (and it's happened 6 times in my three years here) that I send a completely cold unsolicited message to someone - I usually introduce myself, tell them a little about me that's not in my profile, tell them what I liked about their profile, leave a couple of questions for them to answer and invite them to take a look at my profile and *if* they are interested in chatting more to come back to me - 5 out of those 6 times I got a reply

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And you attach the all important face pic ?? Lol

Right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not this... X

Seriously had this once a very long time ago! I think a funny opening message piques my interest.

"

I had you with an "absolutely" earlier....

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Maybe change your avatar pic to something other then a disembodied cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe change your avatar pic to something other then a disembodied cock"

Like a disembodied ass with a lip tattoo on it ?? Lol.

Please be serious .. I am learning

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"Maybe change your avatar pic to something other then a disembodied cock

Like a disembodied ass with a lip tattoo on it ?? Lol.

Please be serious .. I am learning "

There's a leg there as well and it's not a tattoo

Honestly most women don't like conversing with a cock avatar - just trying to help

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Ones that make me laugh or think about something.

I can't tell you the best ones because they were unique (well, at least I thought so).

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds


""Wargawan fatty?""

Is that English? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know probably this has been done before.

What if you compliment someone or their profile and pic. They read and don't even say thanx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know probably this has been done before.

What if you compliment someone or their profile and pic. They read and don't even say thanx "

Well seeing as you have your cock as your avatar, you best get used to it! I wouldn’t even open a message from you

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

It doesn’t particularly matter what you write in a message , all you need to do is add some face pics and if the receiver fancies you 9/10 times they will reply. If they don’t then your not for them. It’s pretty simple. We don’t tend to read messages we just look at the attached pics or profile.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"It makes no difference what you say. It really doesn’t . "

It doesn't for you maybe. It works for others.

I answer most messages bit even I might not answer a "wanna fuk" message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know probably this has been done before.

What if you compliment someone or their profile and pic. They read and don't even say thanx

Well seeing as you have your cock as your avatar, you best get used to it! I wouldn’t even open a message from you "

Don't worry .. I won't message ya

Isn't a bit hypocritical that they don't wanna look at it .. on avatar or in msgs but yet they'll be want a good one

Guess they should meet without having a peek at all. That's what dating sites are for

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I know probably this has been done before.

What if you compliment someone or their profile and pic. They read and don't even say thanx

Well seeing as you have your cock as your avatar, you best get used to it! I wouldn’t even open a message from you

Don't worry .. I won't message ya

Isn't a bit hypocritical that they don't wanna look at it .. on avatar or in msgs but yet they'll be want a good one

Guess they should meet without having a peek at all. That's what dating sites are for "

Why's that hypocritical? There's a world of difference between someone you don't know sending you a pic of their cock unsolicited or having it as their avatar, and seeing the one of someone you have got to know and have decided you want to meet.

You asked for views and tips and people have offered theirs yet you seem intent on trying to shoot them down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know probably this has been done before.

What if you compliment someone or their profile and pic. They read and don't even say thanx "

Cause this most copied and pasted message we get .

Great pics Mrs looks sexy and love the profile.

When we get that says to us hmm you haven't read our profile, mainly cause it says not to

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