FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a good conversationalist?

By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I'm not talking about a chatterbox who just talks constantly about nothing in particular.

I'm mean can you sit down and make interesting conversation about many different subjects?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the company I'm keeping

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Yup. I have a lot of interests and am a bit of a nerd about them, so have lots of interesting info nuggets about random stuff to share. And I do enjoy cracking dad jokes and general banter about life.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. I make others feel uncomfortable with my social awkwardness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here no, I get distracted and forget to reply and my manner sometimes offends people.

In real life I'm a bit better, maybe, possibly not actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its random and entertaining yes but not the smartipants kind tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can chat to anyone about pretty much anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the company. Talking is one thing but making conversation takes more than one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and feel there has to be good conversation and chemistry for anything to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the company. Talking is one thing but making conversation takes more than one person. "

What she said ^

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"No. I make others feel uncomfortable with my social awkwardness

I absolutely hate awkward silence ,I'm always trying to think about something to talk about.

But at club's or parries I always feel uncomfortable talking about non sex/ swinging related subjects.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"No. I make others feel uncomfortable with my social awkwardness

I have my moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, depending on the company x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Also always willing to learn things from other people. The best way to do that it to have wide-ranging conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk too much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of a listener and question asker, unless it's random crap like what will you do in a Zombie Apocalypse.

I don't know enough about anything in depth and I'm not particularly into any causes, to have a debate.

I'm a bit of an air head now I come to think about it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Yes.

You're back too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think so. I also believe a lot of people who said no are just being humble!

(Not all though there are some wierdos out there ha!)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Interesting? I'm not sure. I can talk about different things if I'm interested in talking to the other person. Otherwise the conversation just runs dry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more of a listener and question asker, unless it's random crap like what will you do in a Zombie Apocalypse.

I don't know enough about anything in depth and I'm not particularly into any causes, to have a debate.

I'm a bit of an air head now I come to think about it. "

Which begs the question....what would you do in a zombie apocalypse?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

David is a great conversationalist he knows so much about so many things without being a nerd.. i on the other hand am not very good unless it’s with someone I really know .

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I can chat to anyone about pretty much anything"

Same here, as long as it doesn't involve politics or religion, then ma mind just turns off

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"No."

Actually, I can chat to randoms til the cows come home but am like Nobbin the Nob if it's someone I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably talk too much or listen too much. Never get the balance right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, depending on the company. I much prefer conversing face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a little about a lot so I can definitely hold a conversation ~ whether it’s interesting or not can usually be gauged by reactions, if I feel it’s the latter I’ll try and steer the conversation around to engage them more

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Depends on the company. Talking is one thing but making conversation takes more than one person. "

Yes exactly this.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I know a little about a lot so I can definitely hold a conversation ~ whether it’s interesting or not can usually be gauged by reactions, if I feel it’s the latter I’ll try and steer the conversation around to engage them more "

I think that's where conversation comes in, not just one person speaking in depth about a certain subject for ages, more about letting other people having their own views without overtalking them

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversation is a two way street.

I can monologue for hours, or I can be monosyllabic. Like good sex, good conversation requires both people to participate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, im probably abit too nosey for some tho I like to ask questions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can talk the knickers off any woman

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes...I’m often terrible with tangents though

Squirrel!

Nancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can talk the knickers off any woman"

I tend to talk them back on again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more of a listener and question asker, unless it's random crap like what will you do in a Zombie Apocalypse.

I don't know enough about anything in depth and I'm not particularly into any causes, to have a debate.

I'm a bit of an air head now I come to think about it.

Which begs the question....what would you do in a zombie apocalypse?"

We have a plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ONLY if I'm in good company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no. One of each

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Maybe

Can you talk for hours with just one person and enjoy the whole conversation?

You meant yes

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"ONLY if I'm in good company."

That sounds like a challenge. I really want to be bad company and engage you in conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here no, I get distracted and forget to reply and my manner sometimes offends people.

In real life I'm a bit better, maybe, possibly not actually

always wanted to pull out the violin. And there it is because thought I better do it first

TM can! Actually there are a few in this thread that can have good decent conversations about different topics

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By *ackey102Man
over a year ago

South Norfolk

"I'm not talking about a chatterbox who just talks constantly about nothing in particular.

I'm mean can you sit down and make interesting conversation about many different subjects?"

Yup i can waffle for England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think I'm paricularly good at looking after the environment.

Oh, hang on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ONLY if I'm in good company."

You’d be fine with me then

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yes. I have lots of facts. I know a little about a lot of different things such as black holes and music.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

All depends who I'm with ....need good conversation to give good conversation......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes will happily talk about anything you like as long as it’s environmental waste management

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ONLY if I'm in good company.

That sounds like a challenge. I really want to be bad company and engage you in conversation.

Ummm.. it IS a challenge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ONLY if I'm in good company.

You’d be fine with me then

I think I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I can be very difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but as many others have said depends on the people you’re with can’t hold one way conversation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more of a listener, but will respond and ask lots of questions if Im interested in the chat. I'm not much for thinking up things to talk about, although saying that I probably am but they wouldn't be all that interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All depends who I'm with ....need good conversation to give good conversation......"

Exactly.

Most of the people I'm surrounded by in my daily life want to talk about Reality TV and their kids.

I politely nod and listen but I can't join in because I can't relate.

I feel as if I'm going brain dead - and lack motivation to do Anything about it.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"All depends who I'm with ....need good conversation to give good conversation......

Exactly.

Most of the people I'm surrounded by in my daily life want to talk about Reality TV and their kids.

I politely nod and listen but I can't join in because I can't relate.

I feel as if I'm going brain dead - and lack motivation to do Anything about it.

Sign of the times I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All depends who I'm with ....need good conversation to give good conversation......

Exactly.

Most of the people I'm surrounded by in my daily life want to talk about Reality TV and their kids.

I politely nod and listen but I can't join in because I can't relate.

I feel as if I'm going brain dead - and lack motivation to do Anything about it.

Read books instead to stir your brain up is what I do. X

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I can talk complete shite for hours , as many of my posts and threads are testament to

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