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"Absolutely no issues with travel.. I drove 70 miles to meet a lady for lunch, but then i like her loads and she is definitely worth it. " I'm going 140 miles on Sunday for dinner! Beyond baffling me now | |||
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"Holy fuck! Having checked your profile that's fine with me if I lived that distance away, you are smokin' hot lady!" Awww bless you! Thank you | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone Holy shite, I would walk on 50 miles of broken glass barefoot to meet you xx. Please move to Northern Ireland lol xx" Having done fire walking I wouldn't advise walking on broken glass! I've never been to Northern Ireland I'm afraid xx | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone " I dont drive but i am happy to travel an hour for the right meet | |||
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"Everyone has their own preference but 10 and 26 miles doesn't seem that far to me. S x" Of course we all do... I just think it's a bit of a joke. They were more than happy for me to travel just can't extend the same courtesy | |||
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"Was it Richard from The Undateables, both times? Ha I think I need to take myself on that show" Just make sure you're within a 7 mile radius of him when you do. And don't be in "Fucking Kent" | |||
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"Was it Richard from The Undateables, both times? Ha I think I need to take myself on that show Just make sure you're within a 7 mile radius of him when you do. And don't be in "Fucking Kent" " | |||
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"Often we read of guys/women/couples driving a certain distance to meet someone,only to be messed about at the last minute. Perhaps these guys don't feel you are as fully committed to meeting as you say you are. " Excuse me? They've met me before however it's always been me doing all the legwork and travelling. | |||
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"I always think distance isn’t a massive deal if you really want to meet someone. If they whinged over 25 miles I’d not want to make the effort either. " Distance really isn't. Most folk travel an hour for work | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone " It's their problem not yours, pair of planks I'm in London, distance would not be an issue | |||
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"Often we read of guys/women/couples driving a certain distance to meet someone,only to be messed about at the last minute. Perhaps these guys don't feel you are as fully committed to meeting as you say you are. Excuse me? They've met me before however it's always been me doing all the legwork and travelling. " Wasn't having a pop at you,just offering a possible explanation | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone " We've driven two hours in the past, some people expect a good meet to be on their doorstep. To be honest if 10 miles is too much effort then I'm not sure we'd want to see their effort in the bedroom either. Also, wow OP | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone " 10 miles is about max distance. 26 miles is way too far | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone 10 miles is about max distance. 26 miles is way too far" Must be a north east thing | |||
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"Jesus christ, I've ran further than that! My girlfriend lives 300 miles away from me and she's worth every single one! I can't help but think that there's something in the water in your neck of the woods" I think there is! And aye I've ran further. Beggars belief. Oh well I'll stick to road trips and sex maybe 10 times a year | |||
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"I don’t think it’s the distance, it’s the people. For some, next door would be too far, don’t blame yourself " | |||
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"Too right, if your not on my doorstep, naked, with wine... then it’s just too much like hard work! Haha 10 miles being too far = doesn’t drive/probably still lives with his mum. 26 can be like an hours drive, that would depend for me.. " I think if it's good sex then does it matter?? | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone " If it’s too far for them then that’s their choice? It wouldn’t be for us, because 10-26 miles in a car isn’t exactly a road trip but to each their own etc Nancy | |||
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"You don’t necessarily know that though. That’s the ‘depends’ bit really... Otherwise, yeah! " Haha of course good sex dependant.... my argument is i travel to them... They won't return the favour. I just give in round the north east tbf. More luck everywhere else | |||
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"You don’t necessarily know that though. That’s the ‘depends’ bit really... Otherwise, yeah! Haha of course good sex dependant.... my argument is i travel to them... They won't return the favour. I just give in round the north east tbf. More luck everywhere else" Yeah, that’s a fair argument.. it’s up to people if they’ll travel, but you’re a bit of a nobber if you let other people travel and won’t themselves. | |||
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"If you have travelled to them but unwilling to do likewise get em gone!" That is my feeling! Not worth my time or effort | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone " They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady " With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol" If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! | |||
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"If you have travelled to them but unwilling to do likewise get em gone! That is my feeling! Not worth my time or effort " Thats my feeling too Men that expect me to make all the effort? History | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! " Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet? | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet?" It's damn near impossible. I travel to Manchester/Blackpool/Liverpool because no one meets round here. Not had 1 this year.. Think I had 2 last year. If it wasn't for my excursions I would just wank myself into oblivion. Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet? It's damn near impossible. I travel to Manchester/Blackpool/Liverpool because no one meets round here. Not had 1 this year.. Think I had 2 last year. If it wasn't for my excursions I would just wank myself into oblivion. Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever" You'll get dozens of offers now. They'll all expect you to go to them though Naturally | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet? It's damn near impossible. I travel to Manchester/Blackpool/Liverpool because no one meets round here. Not had 1 this year.. Think I had 2 last year. If it wasn't for my excursions I would just wank myself into oblivion. Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever" Don’t get it sorry. A woman like you?. Fuck, even I get more meets lol ‘. Have 5 days free soon and tempted to travel and hopeless over here | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet? It's damn near impossible. I travel to Manchester/Blackpool/Liverpool because no one meets round here. Not had 1 this year.. Think I had 2 last year. If it wasn't for my excursions I would just wank myself into oblivion. Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever You'll get dozens of offers now. They'll all expect you to go to them though Naturally" Hahaa never do lovely. I'm honest about how shit it is here | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone " I’ve had this too. I don’t even drive but have no problem travelling for someone special. | |||
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"I don't drive so I'm limited to metros it's something I need to get out the way this year because I'm missing out on loads of jobs because I can't drive yet.... Real shitter though could of been on a £28 per hour job that was going but I needed a driver license " Aww no way! Get it sorted! The pennies are there to be made | |||
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"I don't drive so I'm limited to metros it's something I need to get out the way this year because I'm missing out on loads of jobs because I can't drive yet.... Real shitter though could of been on a £28 per hour job that was going but I needed a driver license Aww no way! Get it sorted! The pennies are there to be made " you're not wrong, as soon as the boat goes back in the water and is ready I could get the driving out the way... | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone " If you click with the person then surely distance shouldn't be a problem at all ... all I can say is more fool them !! | |||
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"Often we read of guys/women/couples driving a certain distance to meet someone,only to be messed about at the last minute. Perhaps these guys don't feel you are as fully committed to meeting as you say you are. Excuse me? They've met me before however it's always been me doing all the legwork and travelling. " I dont think you get to use the "excuse me?" Outrage comment when your dripfeeding info on if youve met before etx | |||
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"If it was new people I'd say they may be using distance as an excuse rather than saying they don't fancy you. It's less hurtful. If you've already met them and driven to them, yes they're taking the piss. Up to you if you meet them again but I wouldn't. " Really? Nearly 2 hours of traveling plus the meet time could be out of the scope of most peoples free time. | |||
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"If they can't drive (or be arsed to), they probs can't fuck (or be arsed to) either..... " | |||
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"If it was new people I'd say they may be using distance as an excuse rather than saying they don't fancy you. It's less hurtful. If you've already met them and driven to them, yes they're taking the piss. Up to you if you meet them again but I wouldn't. Really? Nearly 2 hours of traveling plus the meet time could be out of the scope of most peoples free time. " So I'd let them meet someone else. My free time is just as important as theirs. | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet? It's damn near impossible. I travel to Manchester/Blackpool/Liverpool because no one meets round here. Not had 1 this year.. Think I had 2 last year. If it wasn't for my excursions I would just wank myself into oblivion. Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever" Is it really that bad? It never used to be that tough... even for me! | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet? It's damn near impossible. I travel to Manchester/Blackpool/Liverpool because no one meets round here. Not had 1 this year.. Think I had 2 last year. If it wasn't for my excursions I would just wank myself into oblivion. Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever Is it really that bad? It never used to be that tough... even for me! " I think men under-estimate how hard it can be for attractive, high-profile (eg club-going, social-organising) women such as the OP to find reliable men to meet. So many will be intimidated | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone They obviously aren’t the right ones for you. If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet? It's damn near impossible. I travel to Manchester/Blackpool/Liverpool because no one meets round here. Not had 1 this year.. Think I had 2 last year. If it wasn't for my excursions I would just wank myself into oblivion. Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever Is it really that bad? It never used to be that tough... even for me! I think men under-estimate how hard it can be for attractive, high-profile (eg club-going, social-organising) women such as the OP to find reliable men to meet. So many will be intimidated" In a nutshell! But thanks for the compliment too. It's so difficult and I don't know anyway round it as I love doing events but would love a strong enough character to be my fwb | |||
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".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel. Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little? I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone " I don’t drive but will use public transport to meet, I’ve travelled over an hour to a neutral place. If the person is worth it you / they travel, I’ve got someone coming from Wales for a meet, will be our first time, but know we will get on from the chat we’ve already had But some think if your not around the corner or a 10 min drive / travel it’s not worth... we’ll they aren’t worth the effort either ! Don’t let it get you down hun | |||
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