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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Anyone else slightly miffed that Fab is getting ever more popular with more money coming in than ever but the site is still in dark ages?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I wouldn’t count on there being much more mo ey coming in, and more traffic means more expensive web hosting too.

As for the site being old, I quite like that it loads with a ropey 3G connection that I get in places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I like the simplicity of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it, it’s easy to get around

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"No, I like the simplicity of the site. "

Yeah it's definitely simple

Like 6 years old simple.

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I like it, it’s easy to get around "

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo "

Yet you’re not a site supporter?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo "

It does. You can use the report buttons on all sections of the site and there is a contact button at the bottom of the mobile and desktop site.

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

Yet you’re not a site supporter?"

I've been on and off this site longer than you've had hot dinners. I've been a SS before and don't think it's value for money. Is that ok with you?

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

It does. You can use the report buttons on all sections of the site and there is a contact button at the bottom of the mobile and desktop site. "

It's not a proper contact service.

At all.

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?"

Close the site down then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to do a pretty good job to me. I like it.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"No, I like the simplicity of the site.

Yeah it's definitely simple

Like 6 years old simple. "

That does me

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

Close the site down then. "

So it’s better to have no site at all, than one that you don’t like even though others here do?

Have a think about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is. And it's effectively free. I'm not sure what people expect? Nor what they they think they need from a site like this?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

It does. You can use the report buttons on all sections of the site and there is a contact button at the bottom of the mobile and desktop site.

It's not a proper contact service.

At all. "

Why don’t you leave and set up your own super duper site then op

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

Yet you’re not a site supporter?

I've been on and off this site longer than you've had hot dinners. I've been a SS before and don't think it's value for money. Is that ok with you? "

Are you trying to pick a fight... what do you think is value for a fiver... or free!!!!

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Looks good to me

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

It's fine for me.

How do you know they're making more money that ever?

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Anyone else slightly miffed that Fab is getting ever more popular with more money coming in than ever but the site is still in dark ages?

"

No not really if they can rake it in good for them if they can do so without improving the site.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

Yet you’re not a site supporter?

I've been on and off this site longer than you've had hot dinners. I've been a SS before and don't think it's value for money. Is that ok with you? "

Not value for money ?

£5 for up to 60 days is nothing !

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

No, not miffed at all OP. It is what it is. Works fine for the way I/we use it.

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"It's fine for me.

How do you know they're making more money that ever? "

It's popularity is booming mate its not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i enjoy how easy it is to use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

Yet you’re not a site supporter?

I've been on and off this site longer than you've had hot dinners. I've been a SS before and don't think it's value for money. Is that ok with you? "

So you won't pay to be a site supporter. But expect the site owners to have the cash to modernise the site to your liking?

Do you not see that this is the core of the problem?

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"It's fine for me.

How do you know they're making more money that ever?

It's popularity is booming mate its not rocket science "

just because it’s becoming popular doesn’t mean money is being made, not all users will be a ss op.

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

Yet you’re not a site supporter?

I've been on and off this site longer than you've had hot dinners. I've been a SS before and don't think it's value for money. Is that ok with you?

So you won't pay to be a site supporter. But expect the site owners to have the cash to modernise the site to your liking?

Do you not see that this is the core of the problem? "

Fab doesn't just make money from site support!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

Yet you’re not a site supporter?

I've been on and off this site longer than you've had hot dinners. I've been a SS before and don't think it's value for money. Is that ok with you? "

Think you’re getting your idioms mixed up there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

Yet you’re not a site supporter?

I've been on and off this site longer than you've had hot dinners. I've been a SS before and don't think it's value for money. Is that ok with you?

So you won't pay to be a site supporter. But expect the site owners to have the cash to modernise the site to your liking?

Do you not see that this is the core of the problem?

Fab doesn't just make money from site support!! "

So tell us about their other income streams then?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I like it the way it is. It serves its purpose and I’ve bern on it 8 years. I don’t want a fancy, flashy site that only works on the newest platforms.

Fab caters for a wide age range and some people only need the basics for messaging. I don’t like other sites as they are overly complicated to navigate.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Whether it is in the dark ages or not its a million times better to use than the SDC site.

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Haha got a good debate going on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why complain its a personal choice wether to support the site or not do or do not

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

It does what it needs to do mostly for me. I would just take away the little blue thingy that shows when you’re online. Other than that I’m all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The folk that have designed this website have done so for free and have kept it simple, I can’t see what’s wrong with that

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"It does what it needs to do mostly for me. I would just take away the little blue thingy that shows when you’re online. Other than that I’m all good "

What about little changes like moving the message button. The amount of times I've hit send accidently half way through a text. It would cost next to nothing to make great changes. Simple changes that's all I meant

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"The folk that have designed this website have done so for free and have kept it simple, I can’t see what’s wrong with that "

Are you originally from South Yorks?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

It does. You can use the report buttons on all sections of the site and there is a contact button at the bottom of the mobile and desktop site.

It's not a proper contact service.

At all. "

It is, I've used it and have had any issues sorted within 48 hours. I would say it works for the majority of people on fab as well. Some sites don't make it as easy to contact them as fab does. I fail to see why you are saying it is not a proper contact facility, please explain your reasoning behind this. Have you used it and possibly not got the results you were expecting?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Haha got a good debate going on here! "

I think people are pointing out where you’re wrong, that’s not a debate

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Haha got a good debate going on here!

I think people are pointing out where you’re wrong, that’s not a debate "

Having an opinion doesn't mean I'm "wrong "

The sites outdated it's 2019 fabs popularity is seriously booming so I think it should be updated.

An opinion.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes its clunky, and yes it could be better in lots of ways but it currently works for me.

And it's free.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hate updates if nothing wrong.

Works fine for us and have no issues. Personally would get rid of things make it simpler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else slightly miffed that Fab is getting ever more popular with more money coming in than ever but the site is still in dark ages?

"

No.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm perfectly happy with site to be honest.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"It does what it needs to do mostly for me. I would just take away the little blue thingy that shows when you’re online. Other than that I’m all good

What about little changes like moving the message button. The amount of times I've hit send accidently half way through a text. It would cost next to nothing to make great changes. Simple changes that's all I meant "

Admin always read the feedback section, add your suggestion for this in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else slightly miffed that Fab is getting ever more popular with more money coming in than ever but the site is still in dark ages?

"

Admin don't like negativity this thread will be closed soon.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"It's fine for me.

How do you know they're making more money that ever?

It's popularity is booming mate its not rocket science "

You have access to figures on how many paying members there are now compared to a year ago, say?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I like the site, it's simple and very user friendly, worked for me in the 3+ years I've been here. I've tried other sites and they aren't as easy to navigate or as user friendly.

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

It does. You can use the report buttons on all sections of the site and there is a contact button at the bottom of the mobile and desktop site.

It's not a proper contact service.

At all.

It is, I've used it and have had any issues sorted within 48 hours. I would say it works for the majority of people on fab as well. Some sites don't make it as easy to contact them as fab does. I fail to see why you are saying it is not a proper contact facility, please explain your reasoning behind this. Have you used it and possibly not got the results you were expecting? "

1 example. If you're reporting a user who's begging for money how do we know anything has been done? We don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

It does. You can use the report buttons on all sections of the site and there is a contact button at the bottom of the mobile and desktop site.

It's not a proper contact service.

At all.

It is, I've used it and have had any issues sorted within 48 hours. I would say it works for the majority of people on fab as well. Some sites don't make it as easy to contact them as fab does. I fail to see why you are saying it is not a proper contact facility, please explain your reasoning behind this. Have you used it and possibly not got the results you were expecting?

1 example. If you're reporting a user who's begging for money how do we know anything has been done? We don't. "

If you do the right thing and block/report, why would you care?

People aren't going to leave fab because of it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

It does. You can use the report buttons on all sections of the site and there is a contact button at the bottom of the mobile and desktop site.

It's not a proper contact service.

At all.

It is, I've used it and have had any issues sorted within 48 hours. I would say it works for the majority of people on fab as well. Some sites don't make it as easy to contact them as fab does. I fail to see why you are saying it is not a proper contact facility, please explain your reasoning behind this. Have you used it and possibly not got the results you were expecting?

1 example. If you're reporting a user who's begging for money how do we know anything has been done? We don't. "

Admin always take action if there's evidence. I'll post something they previously published in my next post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

It does. You can use the report buttons on all sections of the site and there is a contact button at the bottom of the mobile and desktop site.

It's not a proper contact service.

At all.

It is, I've used it and have had any issues sorted within 48 hours. I would say it works for the majority of people on fab as well. Some sites don't make it as easy to contact them as fab does. I fail to see why you are saying it is not a proper contact facility, please explain your reasoning behind this. Have you used it and possibly not got the results you were expecting?

1 example. If you're reporting a user who's begging for money how do we know anything has been done? We don't. "

What do you need to know has been done?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

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Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *idane69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

--

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******"

Over 200,000 online right now yet they don't have manpower to give feedback on 100 reports per day? That's frightening sounds like a free for all. No wonder so many fakes beggars etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

--

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

Over 200,000 online right now yet they don't have manpower to give feedback on 100 reports per day? That's frightening sounds like a free for all. No wonder so many fakes beggars etc "

24,000 - let's not exaggerate

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

--

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

Over 200,000 online right now yet they don't have manpower to give feedback on 100 reports per day? That's frightening sounds like a free for all. No wonder so many fakes beggars etc "

I'd be interested to know why you think that 200,000 users only produce 100 reports a day. If you read through the post it says they receive 100s of reports a day.

As advised further up the thread there's a feedback section for any suggestions you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

--

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

Over 200,000 online right now yet they don't have manpower to give feedback on 100 reports per day? That's frightening sounds like a free for all. No wonder so many fakes beggars etc "

How is it that you know how many reports they get?

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By *veragecouple321Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

I/we like the site, it's not expensive to be a site supporter, but you don't have to pay to use the site. It's easy to navigate, and does everything I/we need it to do. I can't see admin making lots of money once they have covered their overheads, and if they do then good on them, they provide a service if you don't like it, join another site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple works for me.

I don't see what could be improved to be honest and not sure I would care about tech specifications if they did happen.

OP you know what to do if you don't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like how simple and easy it is to use no need for anythign fancy

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

Yet you’re not a site supporter?

I've been on and off this site longer than you've had hot dinners. I've been a SS before and don't think it's value for money. Is that ok with you? "

£5 for a few weeks, i think its tremendous value..

Interesting,your a Yorkshireman!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like it. Works for me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh god please let's not have a flashy site. Just because you can be a trendy data suck, doesn't mean you should!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm perfectly happy with the way it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather like it as it is.

You do of course have a choice OP, if you dont.....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

Close the site down then.

So it’s better to have no site at all, than one that you don’t like even though others here do?

Have a think about that "

Good point. Nobody is being forced to stay here if they don't like it. There is a button where an account can be deleted. It's an easy enough process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hardly a money spinner on the miniscule amount they charge

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Fabs don't get my money. I have better things to spend it on.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. I'm not miffed.

Bells to push and whistles to blow still won't get your cock sucked.

The site has got what people want.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"No, I like the simplicity of the site.

Yeah it's definitely simple

Like 6 years old simple. "

6 is old ? It's a teenager this site it. Just a teenager

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Haha got a good debate going on here!

I think people are pointing out where you’re wrong, that’s not a debate "

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Anyone else slightly miffed that Fab is getting ever more popular with more money coming in than ever but the site is still in dark ages?

"

If you don't like it you're free to leave.

Although I don't think it's getting any money from you, so a bit of an odd moan really.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

I used to use another site which was fantastically busy and popular.

It got bought out by a web development company. They threw a shite load of money and resources at it, added new features and 'improvements'....now its like a ghost town.

Sometimes the phrase 'if it ain't broke then don't fix it' is very apt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone should have to sign up and pay. It might filter out those that cause most a lot of issues and don’t take the site seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say that I am, no.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm one of those

'if it's not broke, why fix it" people.

Fabs works, it may not be flashy or the most glamorous of sites/designs/layouts.

But it works, I'm getting exactly what I want from here, I'm happy to pay a ridiculously small SS fee for the service it provides.

Yes it could be improved in some areas & we'd see the cost escalate to reflect the work required to do that

I just don't get people who wail & moan about things.

Don't like it?

You know where the door is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it, it’s easy to get around

So easy to get around mainly as it's got no depth.

Not having a proper contact service is ridiculous imo

Yet you’re not a site supporter?

I've been on and off this site longer than you've had hot dinners. I've been a SS before and don't think it's value for money. Is that ok with you? "

Value for money.. Really ? ..

With respect It's only £5 for 50 days as a silver site supporter.. It's hardly going to break the bank at 10 pence per day is it ?.. I think it's excellent value for money compared to the other swinging and dating sites sites

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Well OP I think the consensus is that most of us are happy with the way the site works. Some of us like the simpler things in life and as posted above a fancy site won’t get you a meet any more than this one will.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Your opinion is of course valid OP, as your opinion, however as the overwhelming majority of responses to this thread have shown, you appear to be in the minority.

The site works perfectly well as it is, and very minor things aside, I'm really not sure what changes could be made that would improve it?

Whilst moving the submit button on messages would avoid the occasional inadvertent "send" before you're ready - is that really that regular occurrence? It's happened to me maybe twice in three years here.

You mention about getting feedback to reports - for starters to respond to each and every report would be a full time job, whereas currently the site is pretty much run by volunteers - to employ someone to do that would cost money - guess where that money would have to come from? Yep, increased subscription fees and the end to free users. Putting that aside though, what purpose would getting a response serve in the majority of cases where you've reported another user? Either the site agree with your report and action it, or they don't - no dialogue really needed as such. Although it would in some cases be good to hear why no action was taken, it's not necessary and doesn't detract from your experience of the site at all.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"It does what it needs to do mostly for me. I would just take away the little blue thingy that shows when you’re online. Other than that I’m all good

What about little changes like moving the message button. The amount of times I've hit send accidently half way through a text. It would cost next to nothing to make great changes. Simple changes that's all I meant "

The site needs to change its layout because you're clumsy and don't pay attention to what you're doing?

That's going to happen.....

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't mind if the people running the site make loads of money, fair play to them if so! Simple supply and demand

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I like how someone who contributes nothing financially to the site is moaning about how much money it's making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are other sites if you are not satisfied with this one, good luck

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think everyone should have to sign up and pay. It might filter out those that cause most a lot of issues and don’t take the site seriously "

I really never get this argument.

A twat is a twat what ever the entrance fee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone should have to sign up and pay. It might filter out those that cause most a lot of issues and don’t take the site seriously

I really never get this argument.

A twat is a twat what ever the entrance fee. "

Yeah but they’re a twat with money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like how someone who contributes nothing financially to the site is moaning about how much money it's making.

"

Hahahaha. That is hilarious. Well spotted.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think everyone should have to sign up and pay. It might filter out those that cause most a lot of issues and don’t take the site seriously

I really never get this argument.

A twat is a twat what ever the entrance fee.

Yeah but they’re a twat with money."

Yup. So paying to get in doesn't stop the ones who 'don't take it seriously.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to use another site which was fantastically busy and popular.

It got bought out by a web development company. They threw a shite load of money and resources at it, added new features and 'improvements'....now its like a ghost town.

Sometimes the phrase 'if it ain't broke then don't fix it' is very apt! "

Actually this sites been sold three times now. If you look back at the first owners address. Then pull address up on Google. Looking at the property, they wasn't making the money the new owners do now.

Mayfair is slightly better haha

The is on average approximately 25k - 35k site visits daily. Won't bother with stats..paid revenue. Site worth etc

It's a ltd that owns it.

It's in public domain

Can look up and read all accounts.

Shows exactly the income generated from fab

Nice little earner last year

But made its serious money in 2016

Really the platform was developed for free. The platform as is, apart from few new tweeks, is the same as was when it first started. However back then could post pictures and links in the forums.

The forums are archived. So can go back to day one of the site.

Like me. It's amazing how many of the original people are still here.

Back then even though had just started. Everyone was genuine.

It was all free and it was created as a free service using a free platform as way of real swingers to connect with each other.

However like all things.

They sold out and made coin.. And so on.. Here we are today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like how it is now.

I've been on other sites and there's so much on them I don't need, and too complicated.

All of them had many extras we had to pay for, that cost more than the £5 I pay on here.

I don't want to send gifts, super like people or see videos.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

More users equals more cost and choice.

The owners manage the site as they wish to. As users, we manage our profiles and use of it, likewise.

Add site improvement requests into the appropriate forum section, as management won't know of your feedback until you give it. The site remains free to use, the only investment needed is your time and effort. It's the leading site of its kind, with improvements added regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met the site owners in a bar I would buy them a drink, for all the sex I have had from here-plus the socials I have been to-that they have been facilitators of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

Close the site down then. "

So, because you don't think it's a good site (but are still here) it should be closed down?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It's fine for me.

How do you know they're making more money that ever?

It's popularity is booming mate its not rocket science "

So that speaks for itself then, great site

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If I met the site owners in a bar I would buy them a drink, for all the sex I have had from here-plus the socials I have been to-that they have been facilitators of."

Preach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t count on there being much more mo ey coming in, and more traffic means more expensive web hosting too.

As for the site being old, I quite like that it loads with a ropey 3G connection that I get in places"

Yeah, we’ve noticed this. It’s quite easy to load with a weak connection and for that, it’s great.

Love the old school feel of the place!!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

Close the site down then.

So, because you don't think it's a good site (but are still here) it should be closed down?"

I laugh my arse of when I see people moaning about the site.

And yet choose to stay.....

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

Close the site down then.

So, because you don't think it's a good site (but are still here) it should be closed down?

I laugh my arse of when I see people moaning about the site.

And yet choose to stay.....

"

Hotel California ... you can check out ... but never leave

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

Close the site down then.

So, because you don't think it's a good site (but are still here) it should be closed down?

I laugh my arse of when I see people moaning about the site.

And yet choose to stay.....

"

Yes why do they keep returning, if it doesn't work for them?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

Close the site down then.

So, because you don't think it's a good site (but are still here) it should be closed down?

I laugh my arse of when I see people moaning about the site.

And yet choose to stay.....

Hotel California ... you can check out ... but never leave"

It's in the small print.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

Close the site down then.

So, because you don't think it's a good site (but are still here) it should be closed down?

I laugh my arse of when I see people moaning about the site.

And yet choose to stay.....

"

For free lol

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Web servers cost a lot of money especially with the volume of traffic I imagine their load balance cost is pretty high too.

It would be nice to have an UX overhaul but that costs a lot more than you realise

Unless you’re volunteering?

Close the site down then.

So, because you don't think it's a good site (but are still here) it should be closed down?

I laugh my arse of when I see people moaning about the site.

And yet choose to stay.....

For free lol"

It get funnier every time I read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it ain’t broke. Don’t fix it.

Does the job. I don’t think there’s ever been a site easier to use than fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it as it is. Bells and whistles cost loads of extra dosh. If you wanna pay more go to more expensive websites that have the features you want.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

been on here 10 yrs plus. i like the site is easy to use does wat it says on the tin and site supporter 5 quid for 60 days whats not to like.used to be on a site that cost alot more and was mainly full of escorts and time wasters so more expensive aint always a good thing

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Its a simple site and people STILL fail to read profiles so please don't make it any more complicated for gods sake.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I winder how many posters are wishing they were allowed to share private messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I winder how many posters are wishing they were allowed to share private messages?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love you all, without the OP it'd be less.... You all make it....

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

With all of its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it's still a beautiful site.

Be cheerful, strive to be happy.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"With all of its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it's still a beautiful site.

Be cheerful, strive to be happy. "

One of my favourite pieces of prose....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does what I need. I can contact people I want to fuck. Yep site is fit for purpose. I don't see any need to make it more complex.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Anyone else slightly miffed that Fab is getting ever more popular with more money coming in than ever but the site is still in dark ages?

"

Nope. Works fine for me. Plus I have no idea how much money is “going in”. I’m happy to pay a fiver.

V x

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Anyone else slightly miffed that Fab is getting ever more popular with more money coming in than ever but the site is still in dark ages?

"

Not us.

We like the simplicity of the site and really like the "price" too.

The site works fine for us.

The green arrow suggests you do a lot of complaining about the site. Can I ask why you're still here if you dislike it that much?

Genuinely interested.

E

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

People are saying the site is "old school" but I'm old so it looks pretty fancy to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha just having a quick catch up in forums and came across this thread. I do get what you mean in terms of site being "simple" but that is why it works so well and is popular.

Only site I am on because it had everything I was looking for and wanted when I first joined. Still has and going strong. You don't even need to pay to be on here because that is optional.

#Bargain

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Haha just having a quick catch up in forums and came across this thread. I do get what you mean in terms of site being "simple" but that is why it works so well and is popular.

Only site I am on because it had everything I was looking for and wanted when I first joined. Still has and going strong. You don't even need to pay to be on here because that is optional.

#Bargain"

Free is my favourite price.

I'm happy to be a site supporter for the extra bells and whistles and make a small contribution to keeping the site going.

It's a small price to pay for the years of fun it's given me and the great friends I've made.

I really don't care how much profile the site makes, if it keeps making profit it'll keep being here. And of course as a business it's goal is to make a profit.

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