FabSwingers.com forum: Am I the only guy that doesn't enjoy a bj

By *eeroybrown OP Man
over a year ago

aldershot

They just don't do it for me but it seems pretty much every guy does enjoy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try receiving!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, there have been other threads of men saying the same.

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By *eeroybrown OP Man
over a year ago

aldershot

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By *eeroybrown OP Man
over a year ago

aldershot

"Try receiving!

Lmao!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has different things they enjoy OP. And it also depends a great deal in the skill of the person giving you the BJ. It can vary a great deal!

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By *oltireMan
over a year ago

Central Scotland

there’s no better feeling in the world than getting your dick sucked

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

I love giving them" but also not a fan of getting one back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find someone without a gag reflex and likes it sloppy it's a whole different experience.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They just don't do it for me but it seems pretty much every guy does enjoy them."

I don't think you're alone!

I much prefer getting a handjob/penetrative sex rather than a blowjob

I'm always concerned about my dick getting caught on teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you’ve never had a good one .

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By *om and BarbaraCouple
over a year ago

Moreton in Marsh

Tom isn't overly keen, he would rather give oral than receive. We are all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try receiving!

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hahahaha

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I love sucking cock!

Just putting that out there....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Different strokes.

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By *an_buryMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I love sucking cock!

Just putting that out there...."

My new heroine

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

It’s my least favourite too, often going from hard to soft in the process but how the ladies seem to feel obliged to give you one.

I think it’s about me being in control, not the lady!

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

" And it also depends a great deal in the skill of the person giving you the BJ. It can vary a great deal!"

^ this. Had some awesome ones and some absolute shockers over the years. It definitely helps if the giver enjoys giving and doesn't treat it like a chore.

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I’ve never really enjoyed fellatio. Never got anything out of it outside of a 69 (where it’s the other end that gets me going). Only one I’ve ever enjoyed was on one of the ultra rare dominant phases and was less fellatio, more irrumatio.

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By *amesRobs1987Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm sort of the same. I get the most pleasure from being with a woman that is really horny and enjoying herself, which usually translates into me preferring to be the giver rather than the receiver.

That said, if a woman I was with loved sucking cock, and audibly and visibly enjoyed it, that would turn me on A LOT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any particular reason why?

I know I struggled to cross over the Rainbow Bridge from BJs for a long time. Then one day I found myself suddenly able to. Think it was a case of just relaxing and going with the flow.

However, I find that after a long period of sexy time and "Edging", BJs can be too sensitive. As such, I find they are not enjoyable at that point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d much rather go down on a woman than have them do it to me.. always get more from it, always have. I mean, it’s nice and it’s nice to watch, but it’s not exactly toe-curlingly amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus, there is nothing better than feeling a nice fair of Females lips wrapped around my cock, both pairs that is :p

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Loads of blokes don’t like it.

Some coz they’ve only had crap ones.

Some coz they can’t relax and can’t cum

Some don’t like the feeling.

Loads of other reasons. If it doesn’t bother you don’t worry. If you want to change it. You need to know what it is that you’re not currently liking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply can’t comprehend a man not liking his cock sucked.Makes no sense whatsoever.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"I simply can’t comprehend a man not liking his cock sucked.Makes no sense whatsoever."

Well as someone who loves to be doing it, quite. But I guess it takes all sorts

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I need to feel a strong physical/facial attraction to the person giving to really enjoy it.So generally I prefer to be the one who's giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They just don't do it for me but it seems pretty much every guy does enjoy them."

I have never found anyone that was any good at them, this goes for both genders. It’s ok if I have something else to do at the time: like reading a book, or 69.

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By *eeroybrown OP Man
over a year ago

aldershot

"Any particular reason why?

I just find them a turn off and usually go flaccid during.

It doesn't bother me, I was just wondering really.

It's good to know that no matter how weird you are, there's always somebody else out there equally as weird

I wonder how many of the guys casting "love em" votes are cut - I'm uncut (I can't be bothered to go checking lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any particular reason why?

I just find them a turn off and usually go flaccid during.

It doesn't bother me, I was just wondering really.

It's good to know that no matter how weird you are, there's always somebody else out there equally as weird

I wonder how many of the guys casting "love em" votes are cut - I'm uncut (I can't be bothered to go checking lol) "

Surely being uncut should heighten the pleasure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy them ish.. But gotta say, theres more heightened pleasure when my nipples are played with

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I wonder how many of the guys casting "love em" votes are cut - I'm uncut (I can't be bothered to go checking lol) "

Cut here. Not sure that it has any bearing on my enjoyment of a BJ; that is pretty much entirely down to technique. One thing I'm not a huge fan of is hand-jobs though, again, unless the giver has good technique they can seem rushed, mechanical and either too hard or not hard enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never found anything I don't enjoy doing provided the is a connection between you. If the passion is flowing, then I find everything amazing. If no passion, then everything is just bound to be less appealing.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

As someone who really loves them(receiving ye smartarses).. I’m pretty curious.. in general if a guy says he doesn’t like them, it’s down to the person giving, so is it just the one person you dislike with how they give it?

Is it the general sensation you dislike?

Or going by one of your previous answers is it you just think your cock shouldn’t be in a women’s mouth and maybe you think it’s degrading?

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By *hornleeMan
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees

Funny this, I have given blowjobs and love it. Don't mind receiving bit love giving women oral and watching them squirm as they cum on my touunge especially better if shes a squirter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different. Im very nonchalant about recieving oral but I love to give. Each to their own.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I dont mind it for forplay but for the grand finally has to be something more vigorous

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Maybe your doing it wrong. Try not suck as much and use your tongue more. I find s cupping of the balls while s spare finger up the bum does it. Try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty indifferent to them.

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