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Are you a good judge of character?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I am but can sometimes be a bit gullible, luckily D usually picks up on things I don’t, I like to take people as I find them and expect people to do the same with me ! Can you tell if you like people straight away or do you reserve judgement until you know them a bit better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start from a position of aware trust until I find otherwise. There are some I avoid before I’ve spoken to them though due to behaviour I’ve observed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think so but most people think they are when they are not I guess thats why so many people are scammed.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are some people I warm to immediately and have an instinctive feeling about that we'll get on - others it might take me a while to completely get to know and warm to them, although I am pretty much an open book to anyone myself and have an "I am what I am, take me or leave me" approach in that respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are some people I warm to immediately and have an instinctive feeling about that we'll get on - others it might take me a while to completely get to know and warm to them, although I am pretty much an open book to anyone myself and have an "I am what I am, take me or leave me" approach in that respect."

I’m the same when it comes to myself, if people don’t like me as I am then that’s there problem, that’s not to say I don’t like to make a good first impression but certainly wouldn’t put on any ‘fronts’ to make people like me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I didn't used to be, I was brought up to see the best in people but I've since learned to listen to my gut feeling, it rarely steers me wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make snap judgements, as most people do I would imagine. I am however happy to be proved wrong, and will give people another chance to make an impression. I know myself I can quite awkward the first time meeting, so have it in mind that others might be.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"There are some people I warm to immediately and have an instinctive feeling about that we'll get on - others it might take me a while to completely get to know and warm to them, although I am pretty much an open book to anyone myself and have an "I am what I am, take me or leave me" approach in that respect.

I’m the same when it comes to myself, if people don’t like me as I am then that’s there problem, that’s not to say I don’t like to make a good first impression but certainly wouldn’t put on any ‘fronts’ to make people like me x"

Actually the flip side of my opening statement is there are people I can take an immediate dislike to too - which can happen just as easily as taking a liking to them - whichever way it goes, I'm rarely wrong, although have had my mind changed on occasion.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I am in real life, but i've got it completely wrong with a few people on here...I guess that's what happens when I listen to my genitals instead of my gut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am in real life, but i've got it completely wrong with a few people on here...I guess that's what happens when I listen to my genitals instead of my gut "

Ye same, I think you can tell a lot from looking in peoples eyes , which you can’t do online , they say the eyes are the windows to the soul

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"I am in real life, but i've got it completely wrong with a few people on here...I guess that's what happens when I listen to my genitals instead of my gut

Ye same, I think you can tell a lot from looking in peoples eyes , which you can’t do online , they say the eyes are the windows to the soul "

Absolutely, the eyes and body language can tell you an awful lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I didn't used to be, I was brought up to see the best in people but I've since learned to listen to my gut feeling, it rarely steers me wrong."

So much this

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I am in real life, but i've got it completely wrong with a few people on here...I guess that's what happens when I listen to my genitals instead of my gut "

Yep this. Your instinct is always right. Why the hell did I do that I ask myself alot. Actions speak louder than words.

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

It's always a bit hit and miss. I have a relatively good gut instinct and I like to keep an open mind, but I'm pretty unforgiving and go for 'one strike you're out' unless it's a blurred line then I tentatively turn a blind eye.... til the next time... then YOU'RE OUT!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think you can judge character immediately. Of course we all form a first impression and often that sticks.

People sometimes change their mind about both of us once they know us better, on first impression we're quite difficult to guage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so yes

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I am an excellent judge of whether I want to be around someone or not and no one else's opinions matter.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Having just completed my annual diversity, equality and incusivity training I will say yes.

Everybody gets the same baseline if being a dick. Unless proven otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a lifetime of being made to ignore my gut feelings probably not. I'm playing catch up with everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm too forgiving and trusting and it has cost me dearly in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My head has let me down many times but my gut feeling never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having just completed my annual diversity, equality and incusivity training I will say yes.

Everybody gets the same baseline if being a dick. Unless proven otherwise."

U sound like the same training i had lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 33 years in a job where the biggest asset was assessing people for their true character. I’m a frigging expert

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