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"Where do all these weird ideas about sex come from " Real life. There are loads of men on here scared to ask their wives if they're interested in swinging in case it damages their relationship | |||
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"Where do all these weird ideas about sex come from Real life. There are loads of men on here scared to ask their wives if they're interested in swinging in case it damages their relationship " Stupid cultural baggage, the Madonna/whore dichotomy, etc. | |||
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"Erm .... What a load of fucking bollocks. Women will make a choice what they want to be an when. And my choice will not be dictated by a man (or anyone for that matter). And for all the married men that think we are just sluts for emptying their bollocks because their wives have all gone off them can do one (swiftly and involving sharp spikes). There’s a new phenomenon about town. It’s could sexual liberation. There are some women that own their own sexuality. Can you even imagine that. V x " Yes but some quite enjoy being treated like sluts and dominated. Isn't that why 50 shades became one of the fastest selling books? | |||
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"I'm loving the range of opinions brought out. The title was deliberately controversial to get people engaged. As you can tell I love stirring up a bit of controversy. I love the confident sexy women who say they are both Queen and sluts. How beautiful! Also the comment that one woman is a queen to her lovers and not a sideho! Lol I disagree about "cultural baggage". People are often categorised and treated accordingly because this is how our brains work. Personally I LOVE being the filthy bit on the side! Turns me on so much! Please post more opinions and ideas! " Yes, our brains create categories... These categories are heavily shaped by culture. If it's just how our brains work, why was, say, ancient Greek homosexuality so different to modern homosexuality (in that most men played with each other, but with different hangups)? | |||
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"Where do all these weird ideas about sex come from Real life. There are loads of men on here scared to ask their wives if they're interested in swinging in case it damages their relationship Stupid cultural baggage, the Madonna/whore dichotomy, etc. " I’ve had men tell me I’m good enough to fuck but not good enough for a date cause I’m on fab....god forbid | |||
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"Erm .... What a load of fucking bollocks. Women will make a choice what they want to be an when. And my choice will not be dictated by a man (or anyone for that matter). And for all the married men that think we are just sluts for emptying their bollocks because their wives have all gone off them can do one (swiftly and involving sharp spikes). There’s a new phenomenon about town. It’s could sexual liberation. There are some women that own their own sexuality. Can you even imagine that. V x " | |||
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"I'm loving the range of opinions brought out. The title was deliberately controversial to get people engaged. As you can tell I love stirring up a bit of controversy. I love the confident sexy women who say they are both Queen and sluts. How beautiful! Also the comment that one woman is a queen to her lovers and not a sideho! Lol I disagree about "cultural baggage". People are often categorised and treated accordingly because this is how our brains work. Personally I LOVE being the filthy bit on the side! Turns me on so much! Please post more opinions and ideas! Yes, our brains create categories... These categories are heavily shaped by culture. If it's just how our brains work, why was, say, ancient Greek homosexuality so different to modern homosexuality (in that most men played with each other, but with different hangups)? " I suppose because ancient Greek homosexuality was largley peadophillic in nature. Unlike modern homosexuality | |||
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"I'm loving the range of opinions brought out. The title was deliberately controversial to get people engaged. As you can tell I love stirring up a bit of controversy. I love the confident sexy women who say they are both Queen and sluts. How beautiful! Also the comment that one woman is a queen to her lovers and not a sideho! Lol I disagree about "cultural baggage". People are often categorised and treated accordingly because this is how our brains work. Personally I LOVE being the filthy bit on the side! Turns me on so much! Please post more opinions and ideas! " Do you think thats maybe because you have a male perspective on this and a male sex drive? | |||
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" Yes but some quite enjoy being treated like sluts and dominated. Isn't that why 50 shades became one of the fastest selling books? " And many don't...who'd have thunk it | |||
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"Erm .... What a load of fucking bollocks. Women will make a choice what they want to be an when. And my choice will not be dictated by a man (or anyone for that matter). And for all the married men that think we are just sluts for emptying their bollocks because their wives have all gone off them can do one (swiftly and involving sharp spikes). There’s a new phenomenon about town. It’s could sexual liberation. There are some women that own their own sexuality. Can you even imagine that. V x Yes but some quite enjoy being treated like sluts and dominated. Isn't that why 50 shades became one of the fastest selling books? " Then that is their choice to do so. V x | |||
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"I'm loving the range of opinions brought out. The title was deliberately controversial to get people engaged. As you can tell I love stirring up a bit of controversy. I love the confident sexy women who say they are both Queen and sluts. How beautiful! Also the comment that one woman is a queen to her lovers and not a sideho! Lol I disagree about "cultural baggage". People are often categorised and treated accordingly because this is how our brains work. Personally I LOVE being the filthy bit on the side! Turns me on so much! Please post more opinions and ideas! Yes, our brains create categories... These categories are heavily shaped by culture. If it's just how our brains work, why was, say, ancient Greek homosexuality so different to modern homosexuality (in that most men played with each other, but with different hangups)? " Actually the ancient greeks, Romans and ottomans had exactly the theory as in the title. Their wives were to create their family House and Legacy, hence men defended their wives honour. Also, while it wasn't as taboo for men to fuck other men, there were rules. The concept of homosexuality didn't exist. But they divided themselves into Erastes (the Active, Penetrating partner) who was considered the Man and superior/respectable, and the Eromenos or catamite (the Passive or Penetrated partner) who was considered less manly and submissive. In many cases the catamites were castrated to make them even more feminine and softer and submissive. This was especially the case with ottomans. It was considered a big humiliation for a man to be penetrated, he was only allowed to be active. Men might be married but they had concubines and catamites who were there for sexual pleasure, the obvious benefit of catamites was lack of pregnancy in a time before birth control. | |||
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"Why on earth can't we just be women and not put into a category according to our marital status and sexual activity? This reminds me of my mum's insistence on addressing letters to women as Mrs followed by the husbands name. They used to introduce women on American game shows like that too. We're not defined by men nor are we here to perform sexually according to whether they married us or not. Sometimes I think I stepped into a time machine and went back to 1950" | |||
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"I'm loving the range of opinions brought out. The title was deliberately controversial to get people engaged. As you can tell I love stirring up a bit of controversy. I love the confident sexy women who say they are both Queen and sluts. How beautiful! Also the comment that one woman is a queen to her lovers and not a sideho! Lol I disagree about "cultural baggage". People are often categorised and treated accordingly because this is how our brains work. Personally I LOVE being the filthy bit on the side! Turns me on so much! Please post more opinions and ideas! Yes, our brains create categories... These categories are heavily shaped by culture. If it's just how our brains work, why was, say, ancient Greek homosexuality so different to modern homosexuality (in that most men played with each other, but with different hangups)? Actually the ancient greeks, Romans and ottomans had exactly the theory as in the title. Their wives were to create their family House and Legacy, hence men defended their wives honour. Also, while it wasn't as taboo for men to fuck other men, there were rules. The concept of homosexuality didn't exist. But they divided themselves into Erastes (the Active, Penetrating partner) who was considered the Man and superior/respectable, and the Eromenos or catamite (the Passive or Penetrated partner) who was considered less manly and submissive. In many cases the catamites were castrated to make them even more feminine and softer and submissive. This was especially the case with ottomans. It was considered a big humiliation for a man to be penetrated, he was only allowed to be active. Men might be married but they had concubines and catamites who were there for sexual pleasure, the obvious benefit of catamites was lack of pregnancy in a time before birth control. " ... Huh. So, it's almost as if ideas of homosexuality were different and not wired into brains, based on culture, which is what I said? | |||
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"Why on earth can't we just be women and not put into a category according to our marital status and sexual activity? This reminds me of my mum's insistence on addressing letters to women as Mrs followed by the husbands name. They used to introduce women on American game shows like that too. We're not defined by men nor are we here to perform sexually according to whether they married us or not. Sometimes I think I stepped into a time machine and went back to 1950" Amen. | |||
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"I'm loving the range of opinions brought out. The title was deliberately controversial to get people engaged. As you can tell I love stirring up a bit of controversy. I love the confident sexy women who say they are both Queen and sluts. How beautiful! Also the comment that one woman is a queen to her lovers and not a sideho! Lol I disagree about "cultural baggage". People are often categorised and treated accordingly because this is how our brains work. Personally I LOVE being the filthy bit on the side! Turns me on so much! Please post more opinions and ideas! Yes, our brains create categories... These categories are heavily shaped by culture. If it's just how our brains work, why was, say, ancient Greek homosexuality so different to modern homosexuality (in that most men played with each other, but with different hangups)? I suppose because ancient Greek homosexuality was largley peadophillic in nature. Unlike modern homosexuality" Pedastry more then pedo. | |||
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"I'm loving the range of opinions brought out. The title was deliberately controversial to get people engaged. As you can tell I love stirring up a bit of controversy. I love the confident sexy women who say they are both Queen and sluts. How beautiful! Also the comment that one woman is a queen to her lovers and not a sideho! Lol I disagree about "cultural baggage". People are often categorised and treated accordingly because this is how our brains work. Personally I LOVE being the filthy bit on the side! Turns me on so much! Please post more opinions and ideas! Yes, our brains create categories... These categories are heavily shaped by culture. If it's just how our brains work, why was, say, ancient Greek homosexuality so different to modern homosexuality (in that most men played with each other, but with different hangups)? I suppose because ancient Greek homosexuality was largley peadophillic in nature. Unlike modern homosexuality" Erm, not true.... You can’t judge Ancient Greece by today’s standards. If you claim them to be paedophiles, then as was everyone in every other country/culture. The ottomans also had a liking for men fyi, they try and hide that though. You do know the age of Mary when she gave birth to Jesus right? If we wish to speak on more modern times, Edgar Allen Poe married a 13yo. In the UK we can marry a 16yo, though in the USA, they find this as absurd and perverse. To the main topic, a slut in the bedroom and a queen outwith it. I’d hope that if I ever marry, I shall be looked on in the same way (a king however). | |||
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"I'm loving the range of opinions brought out. The title was deliberately controversial to get people engaged. As you can tell I love stirring up a bit of controversy. I love the confident sexy women who say they are both Queen and sluts. How beautiful! Also the comment that one woman is a queen to her lovers and not a sideho! Lol I disagree about "cultural baggage". People are often categorised and treated accordingly because this is how our brains work. Personally I LOVE being the filthy bit on the side! Turns me on so much! Please post more opinions and ideas! Yes, our brains create categories... These categories are heavily shaped by culture. If it's just how our brains work, why was, say, ancient Greek homosexuality so different to modern homosexuality (in that most men played with each other, but with different hangups)? I suppose because ancient Greek homosexuality was largley peadophillic in nature. Unlike modern homosexuality Erm, not true.... You can’t judge Ancient Greece by today’s standards. If you claim them to be paedophiles, then as was everyone in every other country/culture. The ottomans also had a liking for men fyi, they try and hide that though. You do know the age of Mary when she gave birth to Jesus right? If we wish to speak on more modern times, Edgar Allen Poe married a 13yo. In the UK we can marry a 16yo, though in the USA, they find this as absurd and perverse. To the main topic, a slut in the bedroom and a queen outwith it. I’d hope that if I ever marry, I shall be looked on in the same way (a king however). " In the usa you csn marry a 13 year old.... | |||
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"Where do all these weird ideas about sex come from " Weirdos ? | |||
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"Erm .... What a load of fucking bollocks. Women will make a choice what they want to be an when. And my choice will not be dictated by a man (or anyone for that matter). And for all the married men that think we are just sluts for emptying their bollocks because their wives have all gone off them can do one (swiftly and involving sharp spikes). There’s a new phenomenon about town. It’s could sexual liberation. There are some women that own their own sexuality. Can you even imagine that. V x Yes but some quite enjoy being treated like sluts and dominated. Isn't that why 50 shades became one of the fastest selling books? " No, I think it was that they could use it as an 'excuse' for feeling/ being sexy and wanting sex. For exactly the reason in your thread title. "Nice girls don't put out. Dirty girls do." | |||
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"I think the sooner people realise a woman can be both queen and sexually liberated in equal measure the sooner there will be more happy marriages. " Love this point | |||
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"Women are renowned for their multitasking abilities. My wife is quite capable of being a slut and a queen at the same time." | |||
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"I’m his queen slut ...does that count ? " Absolutely! | |||
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"Erm .... What a load of fucking bollocks. Women will make a choice what they want to be an when. And my choice will not be dictated by a man (or anyone for that matter). And for all the married men that think we are just sluts for emptying their bollocks because their wives have all gone off them can do one (swiftly and involving sharp spikes). There’s a new phenomenon about town. It’s could sexual liberation. There are some women that own their own sexuality. Can you even imagine that. V x Yes but some quite enjoy being treated like sluts and dominated. Isn't that why 50 shades became one of the fastest selling books? No, I think it was that they could use it as an 'excuse' for feeling/ being sexy and wanting sex. For exactly the reason in your thread title. "Nice girls don't put out. Dirty girls do." " When the reference point is 50 shades..... no. There’s been better texts that have led women to accept and own their sexuality. Nancy Friday has much more to answer for. V x | |||
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"I'm loving the range of opinions brought out. The title was deliberately controversial to get people engaged. As you can tell I love stirring up a bit of controversy. I love the confident sexy women who say they are both Queen and sluts. How beautiful! Also the comment that one woman is a queen to her lovers and not a sideho! Lol I disagree about "cultural baggage". People are often categorised and treated accordingly because this is how our brains work. Personally I LOVE being the filthy bit on the side! Turns me on so much! Please post more opinions and ideas! Yes, our brains create categories... These categories are heavily shaped by culture. If it's just how our brains work, why was, say, ancient Greek homosexuality so different to modern homosexuality (in that most men played with each other, but with different hangups)? I suppose because ancient Greek homosexuality was largley peadophillic in nature. Unlike modern homosexuality Erm, not true.... You can’t judge Ancient Greece by today’s standards. If you claim them to be paedophiles, then as was everyone in every other country/culture. The ottomans also had a liking for men fyi, they try and hide that though. You do know the age of Mary when she gave birth to Jesus right? If we wish to speak on more modern times, Edgar Allen Poe married a 13yo. In the UK we can marry a 16yo, though in the USA, they find this as absurd and perverse. To the main topic, a slut in the bedroom and a queen outwith it. I’d hope that if I ever marry, I shall be looked on in the same way (a king however). In the usa you csn marry a 13 year old...." Only in certain backwards states, though the majority of the US it’s 18-21. Though this still proves my point, as it differs from state-state/country -country. As do the opinions etc. | |||
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