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only accepting BJs with a condom on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should I be more relaxed about this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That surely defeats the purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to you. I asked the nurse at the clinic if they did throat swabs and she said they didn't as a rule and they would be just for men who have sex with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should I be more relaxed about this ?"

It is entirely up to you. If that is your preference then stick to it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

For you to decide if you can accept the risk - all I would say is that for some STIs the risk of contracting through oral is minimal, and the risk of contracting through receiving oral is even less but that still doesn't mean you can't contract.

That said if you get regularly tested you mitigate that risk even further.

Do you use an oral dam when you give oral is another question to ask yourself? If not, then why expect a condom to receive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For you to decide if you can accept the risk - all I would say is that for some STIs the risk of contracting through oral is minimal, and the risk of contracting through receiving oral is even less but that still doesn't mean you can't contract.

That said if you get regularly tested you mitigate that risk even further.

Good point thank you

Do you use an oral dam when you give oral is another question to ask yourself? If not, then why expect a condom to receive?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should I be more relaxed about this ?

It is entirely up to you. If that is your preference then stick to it. "

If that's the way you feel then stick to your guns. Don't let people bully you onto something that your uncomfortable with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Should I be more relaxed about this ?

It is entirely up to you. If that is your preference then stick to it. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Should I be more relaxed about this ?

It is entirely up to you. If that is your preference then stick to it.

If that's the way you feel then stick to your guns. Don't let people bully you onto something that your uncomfortable with"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No"

No ....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

No ....? "

I was answering the OP. No. You shouldn't be more relaxed if you don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your health, your call. If the lady insists you wear one, then wear one. If she insist you remove it when you'd rather wear one,politely decline.

Its all about informed choice .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No

No ....?

I was answering the OP. No. You shouldn't be more relaxed if you don't want to. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your health, your call. If the lady insists you wear one, then wear one. If she insist you remove it when you'd rather wear one,politely decline.

Its all about informed choice ."

Thanks bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want to be more relaxed with it?

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By *uv2laffMan
over a year ago

biirmingham

Never had a bj with a condom on

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Suppose it doesn’t matter if you are not givyher oral sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal choice and preference, yet again...

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

You should do what you feel is right.

However choosing to wear one for oral will very much limit your choice of playmates. It's not at all nice giving a bj with a condom, even if they are flavoured, and similarly its not great using a dam on a woman.

The risk of an std is much less from a bj, and very easy treated.

I always have throat swabs done and am honest about my lifestyle at the clinic. I have never had an oral std yet, and ive had a hell of a lot of oral sex.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Gave one to a man in a cinema he had a chocolate flavor one on tasted quite nice

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Never had a bj with a condom on"

I had one once , and after five minutes I said I’d rather have a wank than this and left it .

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Your health, your call. If the lady insists you wear one, then wear one. If she insist you remove it when you'd rather wear one,politely decline.

Its all about informed choice ."

Since the incident some eight years ago in a club that I mentioned just now , I go by the rule that if a lady insists I wear one I politely decline . I truly would prefer a wank to having a bj with a condom on .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its entirely up to you!

There's no right way to do this stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather not bother. Seems pretty pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. Agree before meeting the rules of play then decide if the meet is worth your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your body, your choice.

However I'd have thought you'd severely limit your chance of any kind of play as I wouldn't give a blowjob with a condom on. I hate the taste and feel of them in my mouth and can't imagine many ladies enjoy the taste or feel of slimy latex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely being wanked off is better than a blowjob with a condom on.

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