FabSwingers.com forum: Does porn give people an unrealistic expectation?

By *tingly Byron OP Man
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I mean, for fucks sake, who honestly believes they can get hold of a plumber and get him round that quickly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon that porn has done the same to people’s sex lives, as social media has to their expectations on success/happiness in life.

I generally don’t watch it anymore, nor have I for around 6 years or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean, for fucks sake, who honestly believes they can get hold of a plumber and get him round that quickly?"

Or a taxi

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I mean, for fucks sake, who honestly believes they can get hold of a plumber and get him round that quickly?

Or a taxi

Fake Taxi, despite what its name suggests, is a real thing. Has to be.

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"I mean, for fucks sake, who honestly believes they can get hold of a plumber and get him round that quickly?

Or a taxi

I genuinely worked as a taxi driver for a year and was asked by a girl if I would rather have a BJ or the £30 fare. You should have seen her face when I said the cash cos my wife at the time would give me then for free. She said but it won’t be me will it. I closed my eyes and said ‘oh yes it will be’

I didn’t get a tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean, for fucks sake, who honestly believes they can get hold of a plumber and get him round that quickly?

Or a taxi

I didn’t get a tip

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I reckon it does. I watch it and I like the extreme deepthroats, how many you reckon do it in real life compared to porn?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I reckon that porn has done the same to people’s sex lives, as social media has to their expectations on success/happiness in life.

I generally don’t watch it anymore, nor have I for around 6 years or so. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon that porn has done the same to people’s sex lives, as social media has to their expectations on success/happiness in life.

I generally don’t watch it anymore, nor have I for around 6 years or so. "

I've generally found the younger the man the more 'porn star' his technique is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes coz according to most porn, foreplay for the lady is sucking the man's cock.

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By *otwife34Couple
over a year ago

wiltshire

No it gives us targets

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By *tingly Byron OP Man
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm guessing I should have added a couple of dozen

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Two Byrons in a row.

Yes, plus my plumber has never tried to come on to me.

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By *eversaynever1980sMan
over a year ago

Ashby

Porn is so readily available in all forms and all preferences anyone who enjoys sex but claims they can’t find what they like isn’t looking hard enough.

It’s only unrealistic if you don’t feel you can discuss it with your partner of choice.

A healthy interest in what’s perceived as taboo makes for an exciting night in with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a sexy electrician stumble into me in my hallway once. I didn't watch porn back then so I didn't know I was supposed to drop to my knees and suck his cock..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. In porn they never end up crying in the foetal position.

Wish they'd at least try be realistic one time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean, for fucks sake, who honestly believes they can get hold of a plumber and get him round that quickly?

Or a taxi

I didn’t get a tip

I had the same thing when a young girl asked if I’d rather see her tits than get paid, I said I’d rather have the money as I had bigger tits than her. She wasn’t particularly happy by that and threw her fare at me one coin at a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it gives us targets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a plumber coming to fix my washing machine tomorrow

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By *uckmefackwardsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"No it gives us targets

I should pop round and show you some of my 32 year career in porn then?

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By *tingly Byron OP Man
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I had a sexy electrician stumble into me in my hallway once. I didn't watch porn back then so I didn't know I was supposed to drop to my knees and suck his cock.."

But now you know, you'd be all over him, right?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I mean, for fucks sake, who honestly believes they can get hold of a plumber and get him round that quickly?

Or a taxi

I didn’t get a tip

She didn't get the tip...or the whole thing either then?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I had a sexy electrician stumble into me in my hallway once. I didn't watch porn back then so I didn't know I was supposed to drop to my knees and suck his cock.."

Shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! I find porn so boring! Same old, banging away!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Maybe it’s worse than just watching porn, how about if the site you prefer has a category that the other person’s site doesn’t have?

They might think you’re a real deviant bastard but actually it’s just down to better sub-indexing

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By *tingly Byron OP Man
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Two Byrons in a row.

Yes, plus my plumber has never tried to come on to me."

I bet neither of us are plumbers though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon that porn has done the same to people’s sex lives, as social media has to their expectations on success/happiness in life.

I generally don’t watch it anymore, nor have I for around 6 years or so. "

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! I find porn so boring! Same old, banging away! "

This is true for me too for the most part. Only kinky porn turns me on now really lol I enjoy my own memeroies more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, and it's addictive. I'd given it up for a year before joining her, I think if your viewing people's nude photos here it's still pornographic.

I've stopped with the video sites, glad to say they hold no interest now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! I find porn so boring! Same old, banging away! "
I totally agree

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By *tingly Byron OP Man
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I have a plumber coming to fix my washing machine tomorrow

Make sure you open the door to him wearing your flimsiest neglige and use a pigeon german accent to say "haf you come to feex my vashing machin".

Put lots of emphasis on "come".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! I find porn so boring! Same old, banging away!

This is true for me too for the most part. Only kinky porn turns me on now really lol I enjoy my own memeroies more

Indeed! My own memories are way more arousing than any cold, exploitative, predictable porn could be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! I find porn so boring! Same old, banging away!

This is true for me too for the most part. Only kinky porn turns me on now really lol I enjoy my own memeroies more

Indeed! My own memories are way more arousing than any cold, exploitative, predictable porn could be"

As you say, cold, exploitative, predictable and not as fun anymore as when I was 17

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By *tingly Byron OP Man
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

This is going the way of my Cashier and Gas engineer threads.

*note to self; use more of these

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"This is going the way of my Cashier and Gas engineer threads.

*note to self; use more of these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is going the way of my Cashier and Gas engineer threads.

*note to self; use more of these

Going down sir?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why anyone wants to fuck a guy with his hand down the toilets beyond me

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I have a plumber coming to fix my washing machine tomorrow

Make sure you open the door to him wearing your flimsiest neglige and use a pigeon german accent to say "haf you come to feex my vashing machin".

Put lots of emphasis on "come".

Make sure you pick a dodgy 70’s Europop playlist too.

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I reckon that porn has done the same to people’s sex lives, as social media has to their expectations on success/happiness in life.

I generally don’t watch it anymore, nor have I for around 6 years or so.

I've generally found the younger the man the more 'porn star' his technique is. "

This

I watch porn, but usually when I can’t be bothered to engage with someone else while I’m playing. I’m more of a person person

I think it’s opened a lot of eyes but also given young guys in particular unrealistic expectations and that all women are the same and orgasm the same.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Interesting topic

I was reading an article recently that was saying how porn has changed over the years and because it is so readily available to youngsters with phones etc it gives them a very unrealistic idea of sex just as they are starting out their sexual experimentation

Gone are the days of coming across a porn magazine or video for the first glimpses of sex now it’s full on hard anal , rough sex or more. Seems societies pressures to fit in is not about losing your virginity it’s about whether they are having sex like a fully paid porn star lol

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By *tingly Byron OP Man
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"This is going the way of my Cashier and Gas engineer threads.

*note to self; use more of these

Going down sir?

Fnarr Fnarr.....

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By *tingly Byron OP Man
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"This is going the way of my Cashier and Gas engineer threads.

*note to self; use more of these

They're a tough crowd Babs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As porn is getting harder to avoid young people should be taught about it and told that what they see in porn is not real sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah is does ... my washer man came, he fixed my machine and departed

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Yeah is does ... my washer man came, he fixed my machine and departed

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By *tingly Byron OP Man
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Yeah is does ... my washer man came, he fixed my machine and departed

Trading Standards shall hear of this, it's an outrage!!!!!!

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By *uckmefackwardsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Porn has changed so much now from when I first started in it way back in 1983. Now you can't make any money from it because it's all free on the tinterweb. And most pay sites falsely think that the more extreme stuff is what attracts people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Porn has changed so much now from when I first started in it way back in 1983. Now you can't make any money from it because it's all free on the tinterweb. And most pay sites falsely think that the more extreme stuff is what attracts people. "

The money is all in live cam and thus selling your videos through those. It’s much easier now, more than ever. The money has never been as good, though there’s also a lot of exploitation from the hosting sites.

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

Yes. One of the first porn scenes I ever watched on VHS was of a lady masturbating vigorously with a corn-on-the-cob. Then she came - in a flood of popcorn! I mean, that's not even possible right?

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