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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth

Lots of guys seems to get offended when a woman says she not interested in meeting them and then they get nasty with their messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and girls...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word ‘snowflakes’ seems to be thrown around a lot.

That’s just men who can’t handle rejection. Some women can’t either

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

A fairly normal occurrence on here. Don't worry about it, report, block and move on. Don't even bother replying to messages that don't interest you. Faq section states this is not rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be a hailstone

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I just pity that kind of man,they may have had a lifetime of rejection.

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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do "

It doesn’t bother me ,what bothers me is if I reply rudely I’m then reported to admin and receive a suspension from the site

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

The term snowflake is a complete mystery to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That doesn't make them a 'snowflake'

Makes 'em a bit of a silly bugger, and a tinsy winsy weeny bit entitled, but not a snowflake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather someone say 'no thanks' or 'no interested' than just being ghosted.

But harrassment or nastiness either way is not right. Respect goes both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The word ‘snowflakes’ seems to be thrown around a lot.

That’s just men who can’t handle rejection. Some women can’t either "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do

It doesn’t bother me ,what bothers me is if I reply rudely I’m then reported to admin and receive a suspension from the site "

Don’t reply rudely then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id take never getting a meet off fab again if "snowflake" was taken out of use...

Well maybe not that extreme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do

It doesn’t bother me ,what bothers me is if I reply rudely I’m then reported to admin and receive a suspension from the site "

Or getting a forum time out for discussing a suspension here

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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"A fairly normal occurrence on here. Don't worry about it, report, block and move on. Don't even bother replying to messages that don't interest you. Faq section states this is not rude. "

I do report and block them but I’m the 1 who got a 5 day suspension for being rude lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of guys seems to get offended when a woman says she not interested in meeting them and then they get nasty with their messages"

If only there was a way to block messages from guys huh? Maybe you'd then have time to send messages out to the ones you want to meet.....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"The word ‘snowflakes’ seems to be thrown around a lot.

That’s just men who can’t handle rejection. Some women can’t either "

Or indeed couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of guys seems to get offended when a woman says she not interested in meeting them and then they get nasty with their messages"

A bit offensive to call them snowflakes, snowflakes are overly sensitive people, not insensitive arseholes. Also there is nothing wrong with being sensitive. If more people where sensitive to others feeling the world would be a better place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought snowflakes were the people who are too PC for their own good. Us people with a twisted or dark sense of humour are screwed and not in the good way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do

It doesn’t bother me ,what bothers me is if I reply rudely I’m then reported to admin and receive a suspension from the site "

Do you report abusive messages?

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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do

It doesn’t bother me ,what bothers me is if I reply rudely I’m then reported to admin and receive a suspension from the site

Or getting a forum time out for discussing a suspension here "

Why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of guys seems to get offended when a woman says she not interested in meeting them and then they get nasty with their messages

A bit offensive to call them snowflakes, snowflakes are overly sensitive people, not insensitive arseholes. Also there is nothing wrong with being sensitive. If more people where sensitive to others feeling the world would be a better place."

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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do

It doesn’t bother me ,what bothers me is if I reply rudely I’m then reported to admin and receive a suspension from the site

Do you report abusive messages?"

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of guys seems to get offended when a woman says she not interested in meeting them and then they get nasty with their messages

If only there was a way to block messages from guys huh? Maybe you'd then have time to send messages out to the ones you want to meet..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do

It doesn’t bother me ,what bothers me is if I reply rudely I’m then reported to admin and receive a suspension from the site

Do you report abusive messages?

Yes I do "

Then why should there be a different rule for you when you reply rudely?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I would rather someone say 'no thanks' or 'no interested' than just being ghosted.

But harrassment or nastiness either way is not right. Respect goes both ways."

Unfortunately for the nice guys, we have too many people being rude or abusive when we are polite enough to reply, why would we invite this by replying at all? We don't know who is nice or not from a couple of lines of text, do we?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do

It doesn’t bother me ,what bothers me is if I reply rudely I’m then reported to admin and receive a suspension from the site

Do you report abusive messages?

Yes I do

Then why should there be a different rule for you when you reply rudely?"

There isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women take offense too apparemtly. The percentage of respectful replies,far outnumber the butthurt ones

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Meh....take it or leave it when it comes to getting replies or not, can't be to everyone's taste can you

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Snowflakes are wonderful, unique things. Fragile but beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get guys like that, like they are owed. Many times I had to pull guys off my friends cause a guy was going at them too strong and have take some beatings for it. Worth it Everytime. But yes ignore block report.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I'm fairly certain that it's not what the term snowflake (in all its dismissive glory) means but congratulations OP. Making the world a better place, one butt hurt entitled guy at a time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather someone say 'no thanks' or 'no interested' than just being ghosted.

But harrassment or nastiness either way is not right. Respect goes both ways.

Unfortunately for the nice guys, we have too many people being rude or abusive when we are polite enough to reply, why would we invite this by replying at all? We don't know who is nice or not from a couple of lines of text, do we? "

I see your point when you put it like that. Better to just give it a broad sweep rather than deal with some twats.

Unfortunately (as usual) the arseholes ruin things for the nice guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we not all show each other a little more mutual respect? We'd all get in much better

If not then just go for the block button would be my advice, but complaining about butthurt guys seems a little, well... ...butthurt yourself?

*adopts the brace position *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Part of th3 game get used to it and man up is what they need to do

It doesn’t bother me ,what bothers me is if I reply rudely I’m then reported to admin and receive a suspension from the site

Or getting a forum time out for discussing a suspension here

Why "

From the forum rules ...

Disputing admin or moderator decisions 

The mods and site admin are all volunteers who try and keep the site safe. If you think they've made a specific mistake (and we accept that mistakes or mis-judgements do happen), the forum isn't the place to discuss it. Please contact Admin directly and we'll review and make right. If you have general feedback on site moderation or administration, you can post it to the site feedback forum but please ensure it's constructive criticism not personal critisim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a feature of the sex marketplace on sites like this. Some factions of both genders can't handle rejection. One might be worse than the other, it's hard to conclusively say.

But what we can say is that one consistently gets more rejection and therefore those behaviours will be more consistently seen in that group. It's not complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we not all show each other a little more mutual respect? We'd all get in much better

If not then just go for the block button would be my advice, but complaining about butthurt guys seems a little, well... ...butthurt yourself?

*adopts the brace position *"

I would rather find a way to use the word 'butthurt'. I couldn't use it if everybody was so respectful. It's too good a word not to use. So tools, feel free to inbox me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of guys seems to get offended when a woman says she not interested in meeting them and then they get nasty with their messages"

Just guys who think there gods gift to women and expect to shag every one , ignore or block them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just a feature of the sex marketplace on sites like this. Some factions of both genders can't handle rejection. One might be worse than the other, it's hard to conclusively say.

But what we can say is that one consistently gets more rejection and therefore those behaviours will be more consistently seen in that group. It's not complicated"

Great assessment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has the term ‘snowflake’ got to do with men not taking rejection well ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we not all show each other a little more mutual respect? We'd all get in much better

If not then just go for the block button would be my advice, but complaining about butthurt guys seems a little, well... ...butthurt yourself?

*adopts the brace position *

I would rather find a way to use the word 'butthurt'. I couldn't use it if everybody was so respectful. It's too good a word not to use. So tools, feel free to inbox me! "

I've been trying to "inbox" you for months my lovely...

(I'm not butthurt mind.... )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is rude then block/ report and move on, I say this but do appreciate that its not nice having abusive messages aimed at someone.

Fab isn't the place for faint hearts.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Snowflakes are wonderful, unique things. Fragile but beautiful.

"

Each one is uniquely different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone is rude then block/ report and move on, I say this but do appreciate that its not nice having abusive messages aimed at someone.

Fab isn't the place for faint hearts. "

It's the place for everyone, please people just be nice ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t take long for the White Knights to start circling does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn’t take long for the White Knights to start circling does it? "

If that's me, that'd be a first, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone is rude then block/ report and move on, I say this but do appreciate that its not nice having abusive messages aimed at someone.

Fab isn't the place for faint hearts.

It's the place for everyone, please people just be nice ffs "

Fab isn't the place for everyone mate unfortunately, as much as it should be.

Its clear from reading status, forums, profile etc there are people who have things going on that could be taken advantage of. You need a thick skin and a good idea of how to look after yourself,physically and mentally in my opinion of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn’t take long for the White Knights to start circling does it?

If that's me, that'd be a first, thanks "

Definitely not aimed at you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone is rude then block/ report and move on, I say this but do appreciate that its not nice having abusive messages aimed at someone.

Fab isn't the place for faint hearts.

It's the place for everyone, please people just be nice ffs

Fab isn't the place for everyone mate unfortunately, as much as it should be.

Its clear from reading status, forums, profile etc there are people who have things going on that could be taken advantage of. You need a thick skin and a good idea of how to look after yourself,physically and mentally in my opinion of course. "

Ppl vs ppl I guess ans it depends who you're dealing with. I just see a lot of whinging on here and ppl should be getting on and enjoying themselves. If someone upsets you *block* and next....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn’t take long for the White Knights to start circling does it?

If that's me, that'd be a first, thanks

Definitely not aimed at you!"

Oh, OK, I'm sorry my love Xx

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Doesn’t take long for the White Knights to start circling does it? "

I'm intrigued as to where you're seeing them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn’t take long for the White Knights to start circling does it?

I'm intrigued as to where you're seeing them... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we not all show each other a little more mutual respect? We'd all get in much better

If not then just go for the block button would be my advice, but complaining about butthurt guys seems a little, well... ...butthurt yourself?

*adopts the brace position *

I would rather find a way to use the word 'butthurt'. I couldn't use it if everybody was so respectful. It's too good a word not to use. So tools, feel free to inbox me!

I've been trying to "inbox" you for months my lovely...

(I'm not butthurt mind.... ) "

Damn. Butthurt would be such a good look on you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone is rude then block/ report and move on, I say this but do appreciate that its not nice having abusive messages aimed at someone.

Fab isn't the place for faint hearts.

It's the place for everyone, please people just be nice ffs

Fab isn't the place for everyone mate unfortunately, as much as it should be.

Its clear from reading status, forums, profile etc there are people who have things going on that could be taken advantage of. You need a thick skin and a good idea of how to look after yourself,physically and mentally in my opinion of course. "

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