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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just about to finish a night shift , shes at mine in my bed sleeping, how will she take it if I wake her for sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be very unhappy!

But surely you know her well enough to be able to gage what kind of reaction you would get?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv always wanted to try it , sometimes I think shed be up for it but I'm not 100 percent, maybe it's a wank in the shower then

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Iv always wanted to try it , sometimes I think shed be up for it but I'm not 100 percent, maybe it's a wank in the shower then "
So let her sleep then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it's never a good idea then ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So it's never a good idea then ? "
you know her so you can guess her reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it's never a good idea then ? "

I would be furious. Maybe talk to her about it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So does anyone think they would be up for it in that situation

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So it's never a good idea then ?

I would be furious. Maybe talk to her about it! "
yes ask her first when she wakes up.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So does anyone think they would be up for it in that situation "
No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess I will give it a miss this morning then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy for a woman to wake me with some slow massaging down there ...but tread carefully the other way!! That’s my experience...??

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I'll be throwing you a pillow and telling you how much the sofa is cosy and your there until you learn behaviour management

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does anyone think they would be up for it in that situation "

It doesn't matter if anyone else would be up for it.

Its about her!

my partner knows me well enough to know he would get a very bad reaction so wouldn't dream if it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that's my thinking I'd be very happy to woken up at anytime like that guess men are different that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See above...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done something similar. Woke up with my man teasing and trying to slide into me. Was all pre discussed between us though. Maybe speak about it with your wife first and try it another time. I found it so hot being woken up like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a nice way to wake up...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I will speak to her and see what she says , hopefully shes up for it , the thought of it is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have done something similar. Woke up with my man teasing and trying to slide into me. Was all pre discussed between us though. Maybe speak about it with your wife first and try it another time. I found it so hot being woken up like that"

That's fine because you talked about it and agreed but if he doesn't know her feelings on the matter its best left well alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have done something similar. Woke up with my man teasing and trying to slide into me. Was all pre discussed between us though. Maybe speak about it with your wife first and try it another time. I found it so hot being woken up like that

That's fine because you talked about it and agreed but if he doesn't know her feelings on the matter its best left well alone. "

That's why I said maybe speak to her first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will see what she says today , got another night tonight so theres always Monday morning

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

Wow! I knew my wife was one in a million but she bloody LOVES IT!!!! Looks like I found my unicorn!. Lol

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Doesn't bother me in the slightest, it's a nice way to be woken up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being woken up for sex in the middle of the night or in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be surprised with sexual stuff. If someone asked me every time they wanted to do something it would lose the spontaneity.

I can always stop him if I'm not up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you maybe be a little noisy when you walk into the bedroom and "accidently" wake her? Then you could maybe turn a kiss and a cuddle into something more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wake her up and ask her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best ask her how she would feel discribe it then suprise her if she agrees it would be hot

Altho iv always gone by best asking forgivness than permission

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"So does anyone think they would be up for it in that situation "

Often yes...if I am too tired I soon let him know though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah,that's what to do,wake her up and talk about it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be raging, hate being woke up

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I like to be surprised with sexual stuff. If someone asked me every time they wanted to do something it would lose the spontaneity.

I can always stop him if I'm not up for it."

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Sleepy sex is lovely

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Sleepy sex is lovely "

Yes it is. Also, if hangover horn is involved even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t dare. I ended up with a massive bruise after being thrown into a bedside cupboard.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"Sleepy sex is lovely

Yes it is. Also, if hangover horn is involved even better. "

That depends on how dizzy I am

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

You know her we don't. Why not ask her when shes awake. My natural reaction would be to throat punch anyone who disturbed me...but that is me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danish loves me waking her up with sex but ex’s have said that if I ever touch them anywhere but around the waist they’d go mad so it’s down to the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I will speak to her and see what she says , hopefully shes up for it , the thought of it is hot "

You've never asked her about it before? What a guy.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"You know her we don't. Why not ask her when shes awake. My natural reaction would be to throat punch anyone who disturbed me...but that is me."

I think we may be sisters ..like your style

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I love being gently woken in the night by my hubby for a ‘during the night quickie’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it when Mr F wakes me up for some sleepy early morning sex!!....its the best way to start the day!

Why not just give it a go...what's the worst that can happen?!! Lol! She might like the spontaneity of it?....

PT x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wake my FB up when I stay over

Seriously though only you know her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wake some women at your peril , and tet some love the old "Rude Awakening" lol . Best discussed beforehand .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yet*

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I love being woken up for sex if it's done gently...if someone jumped on the bed, shook me and said 'fancy a fuck' then I'd probably punch them!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I've woken Red up before by starting to fuck her while she's asleep, I like it as means I don't have to faff about with foreplay. By the time she's awake I've already blown my beans up her rolled off and am back in the land of nod. Job done

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I've woken Red up before by starting to fuck her while she's asleep, I like it as means I don't have to faff about with foreplay. By the time she's awake I've already blown my beans up her rolled off and am back in the land of nod. Job done "

Don't admit to that in court lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've woken Red up before by starting to fuck her while she's asleep, I like it as means I don't have to faff about with foreplay. By the time she's awake I've already blown my beans up her rolled off and am back in the land of nod. Job done "

Hope she's quiet when she gets up to make you breakfast while you have a lie in. She should know and appreciate that even with no foreplay faff, fucking is hungry work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask before she's asleep lol.

The last fuckbuddy I had was ok with me fucking her whilst she was asleep, who knows maybe your girl is too

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I've woken Red up before by starting to fuck her while she's asleep, I like it as means I don't have to faff about with foreplay. By the time she's awake I've already blown my beans up her rolled off and am back in the land of nod. Job done "

PMSL

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I've woken Red up before by starting to fuck her while she's asleep, I like it as means I don't have to faff about with foreplay. By the time she's awake I've already blown my beans up her rolled off and am back in the land of nod. Job done "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did have one man whisper in me ear, as we were about to fall asleep "What if I want you in the night?" I told him "You take me", and he did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love morning sex, it puts me in a better mood than the extra half hour of sleep might!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did have one man whisper in me ear, as we were about to fall asleep "What if I want you in the night?" I told him "You take me", and he did "

Id be ok with it

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I've woken Red up before by starting to fuck her while she's asleep, I like it as means I don't have to faff about with foreplay. By the time she's awake I've already blown my beans up her rolled off and am back in the land of nod. Job done

Hope she's quiet when she gets up to make you breakfast while you have a lie in. She should know and appreciate that even with no foreplay faff, fucking is hungry work. "

Haha, I think he's the one asleep and dreaming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be pissed off if ya didn't tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've woken Red up before by starting to fuck her while she's asleep, I like it as means I don't have to faff about with foreplay. By the time she's awake I've already blown my beans up her rolled off and am back in the land of nod. Job done "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've woken Red up before by starting to fuck her while she's asleep, I like it as means I don't have to faff about with foreplay. By the time she's awake I've already blown my beans up her rolled off and am back in the land of nod. Job done

Hope she's quiet when she gets up to make you breakfast while you have a lie in. She should know and appreciate that even with no foreplay faff, fucking is hungry work.

Haha, I think he's the one asleep and dreaming!"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yeah I will speak to her and see what she says , hopefully shes up for it , the thought of it is hot

You've never asked her about it before? What a guy."

We didn't ask each other, we just did it. I don't see a problem with spontaneity with someone you are having a sexual relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the issue unless you plan on just sticking it in her?

I wouldn't mind if a partner snuggled into me and let their hands wander a bit as long as they respected my response. I would let them know either way if I was up for it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I will speak to her and see what she says , hopefully shes up for it , the thought of it is hot

You've never asked her about it before? What a guy.

We didn't ask each other, we just did it. I don't see a problem with spontaneity with someone you are having a sexual relationship with."

Depends on the relationship. For some people this would be abusive.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yeah I will speak to her and see what she says , hopefully shes up for it , the thought of it is hot

You've never asked her about it before? What a guy.

We didn't ask each other, we just did it. I don't see a problem with spontaneity with someone you are having a sexual relationship with.

Depends on the relationship. For some people this would be abusive. "

Then that isn't a relationship they should be in. I am really unsure why a lot of people like to steer sexual questions like this away to something that isn't being asked.

OK to make it really clear...in a sexual relationship that you are happy to be in if he wanted to stick his dick in my fanny before I woke up I would be happy most of the time. If I wasn't happy as I still needed my shuteye then he would be happy for me to say so

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'm just about to finish a night shift , shes at mine in my bed sleeping, how will she take it if I wake her for sex ? "

I'd quite like it. When I was in a relationship I'd often fantasise about him coming home late and having his way with me.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Too much of this on the forum.

https://youtu.be/p9_bI789Gog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I will speak to her and see what she says , hopefully shes up for it , the thought of it is hot

You've never asked her about it before? What a guy.

We didn't ask each other, we just did it. I don't see a problem with spontaneity with someone you are having a sexual relationship with.

Depends on the relationship. For some people this would be abusive.

Then that isn't a relationship they should be in. I am really unsure why a lot of people like to steer sexual questions like this away to something that isn't being asked.

OK to make it really clear...in a sexual relationship that you are happy to be in if he wanted to stick his dick in my fanny before I woke up I would be happy most of the time. If I wasn't happy as I still needed my shuteye then he would be happy for me to say so"

The OP is asking strangers on the internet how his girlfriend would react. I am giving my opinion.

Some people have said they really wouldn't like it, even saying they'd punch the person. They are saying they would not consent.

She may be a heavy sleeper and wake up terrified, thinking it was an intruder. She may love it.

My opinion is he should check consent first. With the person he's fucking. Asking other people 'how she would react' is not checking consent with his girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I will speak to her and see what she says , hopefully shes up for it , the thought of it is hot

You've never asked her about it before? What a guy.

We didn't ask each other, we just did it. I don't see a problem with spontaneity with someone you are having a sexual relationship with.

Depends on the relationship. For some people this would be abusive.

Then that isn't a relationship they should be in. I am really unsure why a lot of people like to steer sexual questions like this away to something that isn't being asked.

OK to make it really clear...in a sexual relationship that you are happy to be in if he wanted to stick his dick in my fanny before I woke up I would be happy most of the time. If I wasn't happy as I still needed my shuteye then he would be happy for me to say so

The OP is asking strangers on the internet how his girlfriend would react. I am giving my opinion.

Some people have said they really wouldn't like it, even saying they'd punch the person. They are saying they would not consent.

She may be a heavy sleeper and wake up terrified, thinking it was an intruder. She may love it.

My opinion is he should check consent first. With the person he's fucking. Asking other people 'how she would react' is not checking consent with his girlfriend."

I agree

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


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My opinion is he should check consent first.

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Is that written?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I will speak to her and see what she says , hopefully shes up for it , the thought of it is hot

You've never asked her about it before? What a guy.

We didn't ask each other, we just did it. I don't see a problem with spontaneity with someone you are having a sexual relationship with.

Depends on the relationship. For some people this would be abusive.

Then that isn't a relationship they should be in. I am really unsure why a lot of people like to steer sexual questions like this away to something that isn't being asked.

OK to make it really clear...in a sexual relationship that you are happy to be in if he wanted to stick his dick in my fanny before I woke up I would be happy most of the time. If I wasn't happy as I still needed my shuteye then he would be happy for me to say so

The OP is asking strangers on the internet how his girlfriend would react. I am giving my opinion.

Some people have said they really wouldn't like it, even saying they'd punch the person. They are saying they would not consent.

She may be a heavy sleeper and wake up terrified, thinking it was an intruder. She may love it.

My opinion is he should check consent first. With the person he's fucking. Asking other people 'how she would react' is not checking consent with his girlfriend.

I agree "

And even then there maybe times it’s not okay too

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

What a strange post. You're coming in from work, your partner or whoever is asleep and you're coming on Fab to ask if you should wake her or not? Weird.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Ask her OP.

I make it clear to the fellas I sleep with that I enjoy being woken for sex. Although it’s how they wake me that’s important. Shaking me awake and asking me to climb on won’t go down so well as them gently caressing and fondling my bum/boobs or kissing the back of my neck/shoulders so i’m aroused

You want to just gently tease her so she WANTS to wake up and ride you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does anyone think they would be up for it in that situation "

Me yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a nice way to wake up..."

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wake her up and ask her"

Hahaha

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"

My opinion is he should check consent first.

.

Is that written?

"

Written, notorised and sworn upon the book of your choice going by some of the responses on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just about to finish a night shift , shes at mine in my bed sleeping, how will she take it if I wake her for sex ? "

If you are with her, surely you should know if she would be happy about it or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run the idea by her, tell her how you wanted to wake her and how.

See her response.

Mick has suffered with sexsomnia, and woke several girlfriends over the years this way, of course whilst sleeping himself and with no knowledge of goings on, until they respond and he wakes.

After this discussion, Amanda expressed she'd love to be woken that way, being a morning sex kinda person.

So, Mick has purposely woken Amanda this way, always with a very excited response.

Again, discuss it with your partner first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My opinion is he should check consent first.

.

Is that written?

"

Is consent a joke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being woken up for sex in the middle of the night or in the morning.

"

Oh me too. Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should I ask men for consent before moving down to suck their cock?

I've never asked if it's ok. I just go there naturally.

What if we're kissing and my hands wander down his penis?

Do I stop kissing and ask if it's ok to touch his penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should I ask men for consent before moving down to suck their cock?

I've never asked if it's ok. I just go there naturally.

What if we're kissing and my hands wander down his penis?

Do I stop kissing and ask if it's ok to touch his penis?

"

Is he conscious when you're doing this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely she's up now anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely she's up now anyway?"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you know 100% that she will be happy with this, do it. If you know 99.9% that she will be happy with it...don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think if she has had a good nights sleep she would be glad to see you and very willing to participate in sexual activities

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I'm just about to finish a night shift , shes at mine in my bed sleeping, how will she take it if I wake her for sex ? "

Badly, for your own selfish interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself I regularly go off on long day trip which means I sometimes don’t get home till midnight or after , when I get into bed my wife usually wakes up (naturally not by me) and comes for a nice cuddle which usually does lead to sex , it’s usually me who doesn’t want to as Iv been up for 20 hours , but I’m usually willing give in to her advances , as you do , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve told doughnut many many times that he can wake me with sex, when we first got together naturally he didn’t know and many times I would ‘pretend’ to be asleep in the hope he might crack on but he didn’t want to overstep it but now? Game on!

X

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

My opinion is he should check consent first.

.

Is that written?

Is consent a joke? "

My question isn't...so is it written so there is no misunderstanding at all?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Everyone is different.

We don't do quickies as a rule, and I need my sleep, so I am unlikely to be very welcoming as a general rule.

If I didn't have to get up for anything in the morning and Cal had been away... I would probably be much happier to be woken.

Either way I would want the option to say no.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love when mr comes home from work and starts fucking me while I’m sleeping great way to be woken up.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"

My opinion is he should check consent first.

.

Is that written?

Is consent a joke?

My question isn't...so is it written so there is no misunderstanding at all?

"

Being in a relationship doesn't give either party the right to have sex whenever they want.

Each and every sexual encounter requires consent, though the way each couple does this is between them.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve told doughnut many many times that he can wake me with sex, when we first got together naturally he didn’t know and many times I would ‘pretend’ to be asleep in the hope he might crack on but he didn’t want to overstep it but now? Game on!

X"

Especially when you wake me up by cumming in your sleep

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I love it. Nothing like being woken up by a tongue, or teeth at my neck as he slides into me. Ridiculously hot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it. Nothing like being woken up by a tongue, or teeth at my neck as he slides into me. Ridiculously hot. "

That's what I wanted to hear

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

My opinion is he should check consent first.

.

Is that written?

Is consent a joke?

My question isn't...so is it written so there is no misunderstanding at all?

Being in a relationship doesn't give either party the right to have sex

Nita "

I don't know how you got that from the posts quoted

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Try it. If she smiles at you, it was ok. If she swears at you, then it was not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she still not awake yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is she still not awake yet? "

Lol yeah shes been a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems somebody is looking for a argument , and to imply I would do anything without consent is offensive and disgusting, maybe you have your own issues ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is she still not awake yet?

Lol yeah shes been a while "

Awwww, did you get some sleep too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is she still not awake yet?

Lol yeah shes been a while

Awwww, did you get some sleep too "

Yeah I got some sleep , I didn't jump on her when I got home , she looked like she was enjoying her sleep so I couldn't do that to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is she still not awake yet?

Lol yeah shes been a while

Awwww, did you get some sleep too

Yeah I got some sleep , I didn't jump on her when I got home , she looked like she was enjoying her sleep so I couldn't do that to her "

You did the right thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread "

Is was a chat in a chat forum, yes why are you commenting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is she still not awake yet?

Lol yeah shes been a while

Awwww, did you get some sleep too

Yeah I got some sleep , I didn't jump on her when I got home , she looked like she was enjoying her sleep so I couldn't do that to her

You did the right thing "

I thought so , thanks for being able to have a light heated chat about it , some people go around forums looking for a argument I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread

Is was a chat in a chat forum, yes why are you commenting "

Coz it’s a chat in a chat forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread

Is was a chat in a chat forum, yes why are you commenting

You questioned why you commented yourself , surly that tells you something

Coz it’s a chat in a chat forum "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread

Is was a chat in a chat forum, yes why are you commenting

You questioned why you commented yourself , surly that tells you something

Coz it’s a chat in a chat forum "

Did you have a wank in the shower?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread

Is was a chat in a chat forum, yes why are you commenting

You questioned why you commented yourself , surly that tells you something

Coz it’s a chat in a chat forum

Did you have a wank in the shower?

"

I didn't in the end, I thought I just wait to have her this afternoon, ( note to some people dont worry I mean with consent and if you don't want to comment dont feel you have to PLEASE )

just waiting for her to get back to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread

Is was a chat in a chat forum, yes why are you commenting

You questioned why you commented yourself , surly that tells you something

Coz it’s a chat in a chat forum

Did you have a wank in the shower?

I didn't in the end, I thought I just wait to have her this afternoon, ( note to some people dont worry I mean with consent and if you don't want to comment dont feel you have to PLEASE )

just waiting for her to get back to mine "

I didn’t for a minute think you didn’t mean with consent. Was just having a bit of banter with you my lovely. These threads need lightening up a bit don’t you agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread

Is was a chat in a chat forum, yes why are you commenting

You questioned why you commented yourself , surly that tells you something

Coz it’s a chat in a chat forum

Did you have a wank in the shower?

I didn't in the end, I thought I just wait to have her this afternoon, ( note to some people dont worry I mean with consent and if you don't want to comment dont feel you have to PLEASE )

just waiting for her to get back to mine

I didn’t for a minute think you didn’t mean with consent. Was just having a bit of banter with you my lovely. These threads need lightening up a bit don’t you agree "

Sorry that comment about consent etc waant directed at you , sorry I should have made that clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread

Is was a chat in a chat forum, yes why are you commenting

You questioned why you commented yourself , surly that tells you something

Coz it’s a chat in a chat forum

Did you have a wank in the shower?

I didn't in the end, I thought I just wait to have her this afternoon, ( note to some people dont worry I mean with consent and if you don't want to comment dont feel you have to PLEASE )

just waiting for her to get back to mine

I didn’t for a minute think you didn’t mean with consent. Was just having a bit of banter with you my lovely. These threads need lightening up a bit don’t you agree

Sorry that comment about consent etc waant directed at you , sorry I should have made that clear "

No worries. For the record I’d be well up for being woken up like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should I ask men for consent before moving down to suck their cock?

I've never asked if it's ok. I just go there naturally.

What if we're kissing and my hands wander down his penis?

Do I stop kissing and ask if it's ok to touch his penis?

Is he conscious when you're doing this?"

Not always.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Wake her up and say "Is it okay if I wake you up to ask for sex"

If she says "Yeah"

then tell her to go back to sleep.

If she says "No"

then tell her to go back to sleep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who is she? Are you in a relationship? If so surely you’d know the answer. Why are you asking people who don’t know her? Do you realise every woman is different? Why am I even commenting?

Strange thread

Is was a chat in a chat forum, yes why are you commenting

You questioned why you commented yourself , surly that tells you something

Coz it’s a chat in a chat forum

Did you have a wank in the shower?

I didn't in the end, I thought I just wait to have her this afternoon, ( note to some people dont worry I mean with consent and if you don't want to comment dont feel you have to PLEASE )

just waiting for her to get back to mine

I didn’t for a minute think you didn’t mean with consent. Was just having a bit of banter with you my lovely. These threads need lightening up a bit don’t you agree

Sorry that comment about consent etc waant directed at you , sorry I should have made that clear

No worries. For the record I’d be well up for being woken up like that "

Shall I give you my address then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should I ask men for consent before moving down to suck their cock?

I've never asked if it's ok. I just go there naturally.

What if we're kissing and my hands wander down his penis?

Do I stop kissing and ask if it's ok to touch his penis?

Is he conscious when you're doing this?

Not always."

Should I ask him if I'm allowed to touch him in his sleep?

I've never asked a man to ask for my permission if I've got into bed with him for sex.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Should I ask men for consent before moving down to suck their cock?

I've never asked if it's ok. I just go there naturally.

What if we're kissing and my hands wander down his penis?

Do I stop kissing and ask if it's ok to touch his penis?

Is he conscious when you're doing this?

Not always."

That's why Jullian Assange is hiding and wanted all over the world, he had sex with a woman through the night, fell alseep, woke up before her, began to have sex again, she woke up, didnt complain or anything, left happy.

But she never consented to the morning sex, so if they get their hands on him, hes going to jail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Should I ask men for consent before moving down to suck their cock?

I've never asked if it's ok. I just go there naturally.

What if we're kissing and my hands wander down his penis?

Do I stop kissing and ask if it's ok to touch his penis?

I never need to be asked it's always okay lol

Is he conscious when you're doing this?

Not always.

Should I ask him if I'm allowed to touch him in his sleep?

I've never asked a man to ask for my permission if I've got into bed with him for sex.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long has you enter the bed from the bottom, tongue first, mmmmm my favourite ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm glad so many people have joined in with more light hearted comments I was starting to fear a witch hunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long has you enter the bed from the bottom, tongue first, mmmmm my favourite ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad so many people have joined in with more light hearted comments I was starting to fear a witch hunt "

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my favourite way to be woken. I've made that point VERY clear. On many occasions.... then repeated again, just in case he still didn't get the hint

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long has you enter the bed from the bottom, tongue first, mmmmm my favourite ??

"

????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad so many people have joined in with more light hearted comments I was starting to fear a witch hunt

Welcome to the forums "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm glad so many people have joined in with more light hearted comments I was starting to fear a witch hunt

Welcome to the forums "

I dont think I will be making this mistake again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad so many people have joined in with more light hearted comments I was starting to fear a witch hunt "

My comments were about the question in your OP, not about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's my favourite way to be woken. I've made that point VERY clear. On many occasions.... then repeated again, just in case he still didn't get the hint "

With the right person it's wonderful to wake up and just fit together in a passionate mess then sleep again, and so it goes on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad so many people have joined in with more light hearted comments I was starting to fear a witch hunt

Welcome to the forums

"

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