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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not new but it's being asked a lot recently and it got me thinking, what is meant by it. I'm sure many have different views so thought I'd ask.

Am wondering if I still just experience vanilla sex here and for me it's not been any different on or off fab other than in a group setting.

What is your definition of Vanilla and Non Vanilla?

Ironically my favourite Ice-cream is Vanilla, double creamed from Criccieth In God's own country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that isn't Elite Swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything that isn't Elite Swinging. "

Might need that explained, I'm not a swinger apparently so Elite swinging is a new label to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything that isn't Elite Swinging.

Might need that explained, I'm not a swinger apparently so Elite swinging is a new label to me."

I'm not either.

It seems to be a word that some Swingers use to look down on other people's sex lives. Because any sex that isn't Swinging, is crap. In their eyes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anything that isn't Elite Swinging.

Might need that explained, I'm not a swinger apparently so Elite swinging is a new label to me.

I'm not either.

It seems to be a word that some Swingers use to look down on other people's sex lives. Because any sex that isn't Swinging, is crap. In their eyes."

#troofact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything that isn't Elite Swinging.

Might need that explained, I'm not a swinger apparently so Elite swinging is a new label to me.

I'm not either.

It seems to be a word that some Swingers use to look down on other people's sex lives. Because any sex that isn't Swinging, is crap. In their eyes."

Ok, saves me offending some then lol. My sex must be crap then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger but my sex life is far from crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us non vanilla would be more kinky/BDSM sex. Vanilla would be normal Sex. But the line between them can be blurry. But it is just another one of those labels that can be helpful to some, or elitist to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However you get your rocks off, at the end of the day it’s all just sex. If you enjoy it, carry on.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Non vanilla is a hard one to put your finger on, surely if you do something that is non vanilla all the time doesn't that become vanilla??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Non vanilla is a hard one to put your finger on, surely if you do something that is non vanilla all the time doesn't that become vanilla??"

This.

I've met some who had certain links or fantasies and for me these were very easy to involve as they were very normal sexual activities that I'd have done years before ever hearing of fab.

Guess why I'm confused as to what is deemed Vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an elite non-swinger.... .....gets reet on swingers tooty fruity with sprinkles and sauce titties....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I come home with my arse in bits covered in piss it's safe to say it wasn't a vanilla fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I come home with my arse in bits covered in piss it's safe to say it wasn't a vanilla fuck."

Is smashed avocado vanilla these days?

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Non missionary or so my catholic priest tells me........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I come home with my arse in bits covered in piss it's safe to say it wasn't a vanilla fuck.

Is smashed avocado vanilla these days? "

For the posh people it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x"

Even if the sex is basic sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex?"
with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I come home with my arse in bits covered in piss it's safe to say it wasn't a vanilla fuck."

You just created a tent in my pants.

Though, yes non-vanilla would generally be that in which most are too nervous/scared/grossed out in trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not "

So sex with just your partner is always vanilla?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

So sex with just your partner is always vanilla? "
yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not "

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

So sex with just your partner is always vanilla? yeah "

Sounds like my married sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. "

My 3 somes were all quite vanilla I would say. My 1-1 sex has been my most indulgent so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. "
what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x"

What about kinks with one person like bondage etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time.

My 3 somes were all quite vanilla I would say. My 1-1 sex has been my most indulgent so far."
wow really lucky u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I come home with my arse in bits covered in piss it's safe to say it wasn't a vanilla fuck.

Is smashed avocado vanilla these days?

For the posh people it is."

If a chav tries avocado is that swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

What about kinks with one person like bondage etc? "
not into tha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person? "

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time.

My 3 somes were all quite vanilla I would say. My 1-1 sex has been my most indulgent so far. wow really lucky u"

I decided after 30 years of awful sex with my husband I was going to have the kind of sex I want. Even when it's erotic and sensual it's not vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conventional sex, or vanilla sex, is sexual behavior that is within the range of normality for a culture or subculture, and typically involves sex which does not include elements of BDSM, kink, or fetishism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

What about kinks with one person like bondage etc? not into tha "

But some people are, so it is possible to have non-vanilla sex as a twosome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

What about kinks with one person like bondage etc? not into tha

But some people are, so it is possible to have non-vanilla sex as a twosome. "

My point exactly. It’s not just sex with more than one partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time.

My 3 somes were all quite vanilla I would say. My 1-1 sex has been my most indulgent so far. wow really lucky u

I decided after 30 years of awful sex with my husband I was going to have the kind of sex I want. Even when it's erotic and sensual it's not vanilla.

"

Ditto. Only it was 13 years, not 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer."

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer."
oh a smarty pants u always get the 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x"

That’s not vanilla is. You can have vanilla sex with 2 people and non vanilla with one, depends what you are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer. oh a smarty pants u always get the 1 "

I was just being lazy but I’ve done it for you above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time.

My 3 somes were all quite vanilla I would say. My 1-1 sex has been my most indulgent so far. wow really lucky u

I decided after 30 years of awful sex with my husband I was going to have the kind of sex I want. Even when it's erotic and sensual it's not vanilla.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time.

My 3 somes were all quite vanilla I would say. My 1-1 sex has been my most indulgent so far. wow really lucky u

I decided after 30 years of awful sex with my husband I was going to have the kind of sex I want. Even when it's erotic and sensual it's not vanilla.

Ditto. Only it was 13 years, not 30."

I can't go back to that again. I think it's why I'm so forward and eager in bed now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with..... "

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is so personal.... .....if you called vanilla sex chocolate chip and made it sound cool then more ppl would aspire to it, a name is a name..... .....snobby sex is the worst....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado "

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls? "

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is so personal.... .....if you called vanilla sex chocolate chip and made it sound cool then more ppl would aspire to it, a name is a name..... .....snobby sex is the worst.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they come in a waitrose van?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is so personal.... .....if you called vanilla sex chocolate chip and made it sound cool then more ppl would aspire to it, a name is a name..... .....snobby sex is the worst.... "

Is snobby sex when I call you a c**t in my best plummy voice while wearing agent provocateur lingerie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is so personal.... .....if you called vanilla sex chocolate chip and made it sound cool then more ppl would aspire to it, a name is a name..... .....snobby sex is the worst....

Is snobby sex when I call you a c**t in my best plummy voice while wearing agent provocateur lingerie? "

Are you offering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is so personal.... .....if you called vanilla sex chocolate chip and made it sound cool then more ppl would aspire to it, a name is a name..... .....snobby sex is the worst....

Is snobby sex when I call you a c**t in my best plummy voice while wearing agent provocateur lingerie?

Are you offering? "

Just waiting on the Waitrose van to deliver my avocados and I’ll get back to you. Do you like quinoa rubbed into your chest, I have that too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn?? "

There's an art to avocado smashing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing."

Abstract?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing.

Abstract? "

Expressionism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing."

Do you squash it with your feet like they do with grapes? I bet socks add to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is so personal.... .....if you called vanilla sex chocolate chip and made it sound cool then more ppl would aspire to it, a name is a name..... .....snobby sex is the worst....

Is snobby sex when I call you a c**t in my best plummy voice while wearing agent provocateur lingerie?

Are you offering?

Just waiting on the Waitrose van to deliver my avocados and I’ll get back to you. Do you like quinoa rubbed into your chest, I have that too? "

I'm already on the edge just from looking a your profile daaaaarlinggg..... ....tip me over and say the magic c-word???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing.

Abstract?

Expressionism. "

Do you flick it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing.

Abstract?

Expressionism.

Do you flick it? "

I never flick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing.

Do you squash it with your feet like they do with grapes? I bet socks add to it. "

It's best smashed into a cock using a hammer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing.

Abstract?

Expressionism.

Do you flick it?

I never flick."

Brush? Roller? Boobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing.

Do you squash it with your feet like they do with grapes? I bet socks add to it.

It's best smashed into a cock using a hammer."

Going off the posh sex now.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing.

Do you squash it with your feet like they do with grapes? I bet socks add to it.

It's best smashed into a cock using a hammer.

Going off the posh sex now..... "

Back to vanilla you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time. what do u class “non-vanilla sex” with 1 person?

Maybe google ‘vanilla’ sex and you will have your answer.

I Googled my aches and pains and the shit it comes out with.....

You need more than google sweetie...try an avocado

Can you bring one round and smash it freshly on my aching balls?

Need to get a ‘A’ team in for this...Kaitlyn??

There's an art to avocado smashing.

Do you squash it with your feet like they do with grapes? I bet socks add to it.

It's best smashed into a cock using a hammer.

Going off the posh sex now.....

Back to vanilla you go. "

It’s not for everyone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sexual interests and activities, if acted upon, run - like much of human personality and behaviour - upon a continuum. Where society or each of us individually decide that a benchmark separates commonplace from the more specialist, is flexible.

Group sex is less common as are some of the interests listed in profiles, such as fisting. You could pick through them and deduce what most people don't do. Limited choices of sexual positions and lack of fetish pursuits, I'd think most people would also view as more vanilla.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It's easy to talk the talk but walk the walk is a different matter.

I've yet to meet anyone from here that even touched on none vanilla to me anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time.

My 3 somes were all quite vanilla I would say. My 1-1 sex has been my most indulgent so far."

I'm the same. The 3 domes were all tame straight forward whereas the 1 on 1 have rarely been tame. Far more exploratory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, vanilla is sticking to the basics. Not trying new things or being adventurous. The comment about having sex with only one person, being vanilla, is in my opinion, a complete croc. Two people can experiment together and indulge in many things, that may not happen in the average bedroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My definition of vanilla sex is when u just have sex with 1 person non vanilla is have sex with more than 1 person at a time x

Even if the sex is basic sex? with 1 person it normally is but with 2 it’s not

I'd disagree with this. I've done some 'non-vanilla' things with just one person at a time.

My 3 somes were all quite vanilla I would say. My 1-1 sex has been my most indulgent so far.

I'm the same. The 3 domes were all tame straight forward whereas the 1 on 1 have rarely been tame. Far more exploratory."

great auto correct, they must have ready 50 shades of shite lmao.

Dome=some* for the record.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

To me vanilla is just 'normal' sex, like oral, anal, dick in fanny kind of sex.

But you could be in an orgy having this type of sex so here is where my line gets blurred. Like a 3sum isn't that unusual either but more people than that? Idk if it's kinky or not.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Vanilla and Swinging are not exclusive.

When Adam was a lad taking a peek under Eve's leaves was pretty off the wall.

I guess Jack the Ripper found anything without blood and gore just a bit too vanilla.

You may kiss my hand.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"To me, vanilla is sticking to the basics. Not trying new things or being adventurous. The comment about having sex with only one person, being vanilla, is in my opinion, a complete croc. Two people can experiment together and indulge in many things, that may not happen in the average bedroom "

That's a good way of describing vanilla the first bit but I can see how someone would think having sex with just one person could be seen as vanilla too depending on your life style choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me, vanilla is sticking to the basics. Not trying new things or being adventurous. The comment about having sex with only one person, being vanilla, is in my opinion, a complete croc. Two people can experiment together and indulge in many things, that may not happen in the average bedroom

That's a good way of describing vanilla the first bit but I can see how someone would think having sex with just one person could be seen as vanilla too depending on your life style choices "

Exactly this and if you are adventurous with a great imagination you can have more flavours to your sex life than a Ben and Jerry’s factory!

LJ

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"To me, vanilla is sticking to the basics. Not trying new things or being adventurous. The comment about having sex with only one person, being vanilla, is in my opinion, a complete croc. Two people can experiment together and indulge in many things, that may not happen in the average bedroom

That's a good way of describing vanilla the first bit but I can see how someone would think having sex with just one person could be seen as vanilla too depending on your life style choices

Exactly this and if you are adventurous with a great imagination you can have more flavours to your sex life than a Ben and Jerry’s factory!

LJ"

Oh dear, nearly spat my coffee out then!! Ben and Jerry' s factory

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To me, vanilla is sticking to the basics. Not trying new things or being adventurous. The comment about having sex with only one person, being vanilla, is in my opinion, a complete croc. Two people can experiment together and indulge in many things, that may not happen in the average bedroom

That's a good way of describing vanilla the first bit but I can see how someone would think having sex with just one person could be seen as vanilla too depending on your life style choices

Exactly this and if you are adventurous with a great imagination you can have more flavours to your sex life than a Ben and Jerry’s factory!

LJ"

This totally.

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