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By *quaman87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

What's your ideal first meet?

How is it planned in your head beforehand??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We meet a single man or couple in a bar or cafe, all get along really well, laugh, flirt and enjoy each others company. Then we go home to our own beds happy in the knowledge that we'll meet up again to take things further.

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By *quaman87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"We meet a single man or couple in a bar or cafe, all get along really well, laugh, flirt and enjoy each others company. Then we go home to our own beds happy in the knowledge that we'll meet up again to take things further. "
fair play

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We meet a single man or couple in a bar or cafe, all get along really well, laugh, flirt and enjoy each others company. Then we go home to our own beds happy in the knowledge that we'll meet up again to take things further. fair play "

I know it probably wasn't the kind of response you were after...sorry

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

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"We meet a single man or couple in a bar or cafe, all get along really well, laugh, flirt and enjoy each others company. Then we go home to our own beds happy in the knowledge that we'll meet up again to take things further. fair play

I know it probably wasn't the kind of response you were after...sorry "

I like the response.... If everyone gets on and communication is good then there's no reason something else wouldn't happen. Love a meet over a latte to kick things off

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By *quaman87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"We meet a single man or couple in a bar or cafe, all get along really well, laugh, flirt and enjoy each others company. Then we go home to our own beds happy in the knowledge that we'll meet up again to take things further. fair play

I know it probably wasn't the kind of response you were after...sorry "
like the response. Everyone has a different ideal first meet. Was just curious as to the differences in other people. No right or wrong answere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat for a couple of days...build up some rapport and a little excitement at meeting. Meet in a bar, both made an effort to look good. Eyes meet and hopefully light up when we see each other. Get the drinks in, laughs, jokes, flirting, teasing, banter and fun. Play some pool, brush up against him, sensing the tension rise, a few light touches, whispers to put him off his game.

Ultimately he tells me he wants me, sees my cheeky grin and takes me by the hand somewhere private and comfortable (ideally a hotel room). From the moment the door closes, I'm at his mercy and working solely for his pleasure. If he's a gentleman he will have already learned my buttons and understand my reactions and then reward me for being a good sub. An hour of teasing and playing, then 20 mins of amazing fucking followed by collapsing in a heap on the bed laughing at the filthy things we just did.

Nice chat, few laughs and then.....round 2?

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By *quaman87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

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By *quaman87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Chat for a couple of days...build up some rapport and a little excitement at meeting. Meet in a bar, both made an effort to look good. Eyes meet and hopefully light up when we see each other. Get the drinks in, laughs, jokes, flirting, teasing, banter and fun. Play some pool, brush up against him, sensing the tension rise, a few light touches, whispers to put him off his game.

Ultimately he tells me he wants me, sees my cheeky grin and takes me by the hand somewhere private and comfortable (ideally a hotel room). From the moment the door closes, I'm at his mercy and working solely for his pleasure. If he's a gentleman he will have already learned my buttons and understand my reactions and then reward me for being a good sub. An hour of teasing and playing, then 20 mins of amazing fucking followed by collapsing in a heap on the bed laughing at the filthy things we just did.

Nice chat, few laughs and then.....round 2?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a drink in a quiet bar. I see the hunger for me in his eyes. We go back to his and I feed him.

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By *quaman87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"We have a drink in a quiet bar. I see the hunger for me in his eyes. We go back to his and I feed him."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a drink in a quiet bar. I see the hunger for me in his eyes. We go back to his and I feed him."

Sounds like a one night stand. I usually fall asleep after I been fed

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By *quaman87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

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By *quaman87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"We have a drink in a quiet bar. I see the hunger for me in his eyes. We go back to his and I feed him.

Sounds like a one night stand. I usually fall asleep after I been fed "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet a single man or couple in a bar or cafe, all get along really well, laugh, flirt and enjoy each others company. Then we go home to our own beds happy in the knowledge that we'll meet up again to take things further. "

The way I do things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a drink in a quiet bar. I see the hunger for me in his eyes. We go back to his and I feed him."

I still like this scenario better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got the hungry eyes to prove it

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By *quaman87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"We meet a single man or couple in a bar or cafe, all get along really well, laugh, flirt and enjoy each others company. Then we go home to our own beds happy in the knowledge that we'll meet up again to take things further.

The way I do things "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though I would be happy with a chat and a drink and let the mood take its course. If that meant arranging a second meet then so be it or if it was to end at just that initial meet then that would be ok too.

Still don't stop me from seeking the perfect first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet to have a disaster had a good time with everyone iv met all about the giggles kisses and rudies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet is a social. I'm yet to have a bad one, as PMF said above. As long as there's flowing conversation, a bit of back and forth banter and plenty of chemistry then all my boxes have been tucked. Oh and the promise of a second meeting as well would be great

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