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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok been chatting to someone for a while not on here and turns out hes on fab (no problem)

Talking about random shit as you do,

he said I haven’t logged on for 2 months,

I said you sure. He replied yes

So i know hes been online,

And called him out

Why cant people just tell the truth, shame as i liked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't online communication a minefield of head fucks at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't online communication a minefield of head fucks at times"

This is why i remain single x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok been chatting to someone for a while not on here and turns out hes on fab (no problem)

Talking about random shit as you do,

he said I haven’t logged on for 2 months,

I said you sure. He replied yes

So i know hes been online,

And called him out

Why cant people just tell the truth, shame as i liked him

"

Sneaky fucker , watch your self with people like that , even if he it tasty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is, he probably thought you'd think ill of him if he had been honest and said 'yeah, every night' or such like

I'm betting his response was knee jerk as opposed to considered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thing is, he probably thought you'd think ill of him if he had been honest and said 'yeah, every night' or such like

I'm betting his response was knee jerk as opposed to considered"

Actually no. We spoke about fet and fab.

Open and honest

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Ok been chatting to someone for a while not on here and turns out hes on fab (no problem)

Talking about random shit as you do,

he said I haven’t logged on for 2 months,

I said you sure. He replied yes

So i know hes been online,

And called him out

Why cant people just tell the truth, shame as i liked him

"

Probably his wife online

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Best to find out early I think

But shame he couldn't have told the truth,now you would doubt everything he said

Miss

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

So did he say why he lied?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So did he say why he lied? "

No just said “sorry”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing is, he probably thought you'd think ill of him if he had been honest and said 'yeah, every night' or such like

I'm betting his response was knee jerk as opposed to considered

Actually no. We spoke about fet and fab.

Open and honest

"

Still ... I'm going for my initial guess

Being here is one thing, admitting you are active to someone it looks like things might go well with is another

Some members can be arsey about potential suitors chatting and arranging meets with others if they see something they want

Of course, only he knows why he told a porky

I'm just pontificating

Ask him, not us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thing is, he probably thought you'd think ill of him if he had been honest and said 'yeah, every night' or such like

I'm betting his response was knee jerk as opposed to considered

Actually no. We spoke about fet and fab.

Open and honest

Still ... I'm going for my initial guess

Being here is one thing, admitting you are active to someone it looks like things might go well with is another

Some members can be arsey about potential suitors chatting and arranging meets with others if they see something they want

Of course, only he knows why he told a porky

I'm just pontificating

Ask him, not us "

Hey im not bothered about why

Just open honest means that imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing is, he probably thought you'd think ill of him if he had been honest and said 'yeah, every night' or such like

I'm betting his response was knee jerk as opposed to considered

Actually no. We spoke about fet and fab.

Open and honest

Still ... I'm going for my initial guess

Being here is one thing, admitting you are active to someone it looks like things might go well with is another

Some members can be arsey about potential suitors chatting and arranging meets with others if they see something they want

Of course, only he knows why he told a porky

I'm just pontificating

Ask him, not us

Hey im not bothered about why

Just open honest means that imho"

You seem bothered, hence the thread and the question about why people lie

You've questioned him, been given a response that was incorrect and you've (I'm assuming) hung him out to dry

Then you went on to say shame cos you liked him

If you like him, afford him the opportunity to, at least, explain why he lied, draw a line under it, set the standard for honesty between the two of you and move forward

He dropped a bollock, it's not the end of the world

You'll often find the best liars are the ones that don't give the game away

This one sounds dim rather than sneaky, you'd catch him out just as easily again if you needed to

It's the ones that give you no reason to watch that need the most watching

I'm not trying to telling you what to do, merely offering a differing perspective on the finality of things

I've given second chances and not been burned but if you're a 'no second chances' kinda girl, fair enough, the guy shot himself in the foot

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Then you’re best out of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Threads can be made for all manner of shit lol

And 2nd chances we will see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't understand y people would lie, the truth always comes out, just makes him look a twat and game over for me haha x

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