FabSwingers.com forum: Follow the leader.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you a leader or a follower in life?

Are you the same sexually?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm ...an individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put a video on Facebook yesterday of my dogs following me from room to room, and I’m the leader

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a leader or a follower in life?

Are you the same sexually? "

I do my own thing. Some follow some dont. It's their choice. I just be myself and adhere to the ethical compass I have developed over the years. Saying that though people always seem to look to me for guidance and support

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Follower in most things of my life with the exception of anything to do with my daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just boring me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

N n n n n n n n n leader leader batmaaaaaan

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

A bit of both, depending on the situation. Cop out answer

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Leader in life.

But love to be guided sexually, no point doing something I enjoy if the other(s) aren't into it.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’d love to be the leader, reading The Bash Street Kids I always wanted to be Danny, although in reality I’m a mixture of Fatty and Plug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leader all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id honestly say im more a lone rogue agent my way or the highway kind of guy

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't really see sex as one being the follower and the other the leader. It's more a mutual exploration with different dynamic/energy exchanges depending on the second.

As far as life goes, I'm both and neither.

What about you Op?

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"A bit of both, depending on the situation. Cop out answer

But a good one all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a facilitator in real life.

Sexually, I'm everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of both, depending on the situation. Cop out answer

I'd say the same but don't think it's a cop out answer. It shows there are some things worth stepping up a taking the lead whereas other things don't interest me as much to put the energy into leading. Also it's good sometimes as a leader to step back and watch and follow. Can be a good learning time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id honestly say im more a lone rogue agent my way or the highway kind of guy"

That works given you have your own horse too!

lone gunslinger throwing hilarious barbs and decimating comments all through Fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the term co-conspirator.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Follower in work, the pay doesn't reflect the responsibilities to be a leader and in life I do my own thing

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m a free spirit. I dislike being bossed around and any whiff of someone trying to bend me to their will and i’m off.

Sexually i prefer a man who is assertive and takes the lead, but i do not like being “dominated”.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm neither really, pretty much a go with the flow, I am what I am, take me or leave me kind of guy.

That said I have a submissive side which I guess in some respects makes me a follower of sorts, but as that side is very particular about who it shows itself to, my first answer is probably the most accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on if I’m lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This proper pickled my brain this morning when I thought about it.. I actually think the fact I'm switch transfers to most elements of my life..

I'm generally a leader, in that I manage very large venues and teams, but I always preferred being a number 2 rather than 1 so I had someone to turn to for support.

Same with men.. I'm a quiet but dominant personality that needs someone stronger to bounce off..

yet day to day I'm fiercely independent and do my own thing and am neither leading or following anyone or anything..

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

"Are you a leader or a follower in life?

Are you the same sexually? "

I try to do my own thing, cut my own furrow. A wise person once told me, be neither a follower nor a leader be but motivate everyone around you to be their absolute best.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Depends who is leading.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Depends who is leading. "

And if they have a lovely arse

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"Depends who is leading.

And if they have a lovely arse

That’s usually a deciding factor

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Depends who is leading.

And if they have a lovely arse

That’s usually a deciding factor

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m directionality clueless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to be a follower sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caesar.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Leader.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm kind of like an outdoor cat. I'm pretty apathetic to what's happening around me but people have just accepted that I'm there.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I'm kind of like an outdoor cat. I'm pretty apathetic to what's happening around me but people have just accepted that I'm there. "

Ooh you're back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation and my mood. I'm probably a bit too independant and unsociable to be classed as a follower or a leader. In bed the possibilities are numerous.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm kind of like an outdoor cat. I'm pretty apathetic to what's happening around me but people have just accepted that I'm there. "

You’ve got to stop shitting in my garden though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm kind of like an outdoor cat. I'm pretty apathetic to what's happening around me but people have just accepted that I'm there.

Ooh you're back!"

I am. So are you. Hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm kind of like an outdoor cat. I'm pretty apathetic to what's happening around me but people have just accepted that I'm there.

You’ve got to stop shitting in my garden though."

Pfft no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Sexually, generally forced into leading and been pleased to get the opportunity to follow recently.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I'm kind of like an outdoor cat. I'm pretty apathetic to what's happening around me but people have just accepted that I'm there.

Ooh you're back!

I am. So are you. Hi. "

Yeah,got to be done hasn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No leader or no sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dance to the beat of my own drum, granted the drum is in my head and no one else has a clue what's going on but hey ho!

Sexually I'm fluid, I can lead or be led at the drop of a hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dance to the beat of my own drum, granted the drum is in my head and no one else has a clue what's going on but hey ho!

Sexually I'm fluid, I can lead or be led at the drop of a hat."

Please, don't drop hats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dance to the beat of my own drum, granted the drum is in my head and no one else has a clue what's going on but hey ho!

Sexually I'm fluid, I can lead or be led at the drop of a hat.

Please, don't drop hats. "

But I like to see you bend over to pick them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dance to the beat of my own drum, granted the drum is in my head and no one else has a clue what's going on but hey ho!

Sexually I'm fluid, I can lead or be led at the drop of a hat.

Please, don't drop hats.

But I like to see you bend over to pick them up

Tartlet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In work I am a leader by virtue of my position and experience. In the bedroom I am an equal (or I believe myself to be).

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Professionally, I do my own thing, so I have clients rather than bosses. When I am hiring others or responsible for a team I am a good manager and motivator.

Sexually - well, it takes two to tango. Implying there's a leader and follower to me suggests one side 'wants it' more than the other. If you have to 'lead' someone into sex it would imply a certain reluctance on their part, no? Or am I putting a negative spin on it?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

At work I lead. Every other occasion I’m all over the place doing my own thing. Don’t lead, don’t follow ... just sort of flow through

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