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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have no issue with this at all.

What makes me curious is this

If a lady wants this it’s listed on a profile very abruptly and like a demand

If a lady chooses “ no black or Asian “

It’s apologetic

Any ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One is asking for something specific and one is politely declining something specific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One is asking for something specific and one is politely declining something specific.

"

I read this OP as the women who wanted BBC only doesn’t want black men - I’m sleepy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One is asking for something specific and one is politely declining something specific.

I read this OP as the women who wanted BBC only doesn’t want black men - I’m sleepy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brain just exploded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not into BBC. Used to when I was younger. Nowadays I’m more a Netflix kinda guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brain just exploded"
I thought that said Brian

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister."

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brain just exploded I thought that said Brian "

He was only a day away from retirement.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.

What?"

I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.

What?

I was generalising not calling you a racist OP."

It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! "
Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.

What?

I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.

It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?"

Nope

Don’t try and find something that isn’t there

Forumite style

It’s just a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister."

This point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nicer way of saying it would go say I'm looking for nice black men who are well endowed, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.

What?

I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.

It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?

Nope

Don’t try and find something that isn’t there

Forumite style

It’s just a question "

I was asking Dam sorry. Your OP was quite clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!

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G'Morning Kaitlyn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!

G'Morning Kaitlyn."

You made me forget my hangover for a few seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people over the years may have suffered for their choices so they are not prepared to take any more flak for them hence the sometimes abruptness. They seek no dialogue with people contrary to their choices.

Others due to the climate created by the issue of racism are just being thoughtful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!

G'Morning Kaitlyn.

You made me forget my hangover for a few seconds "
Sounds like a good night was had by all!

Speedy recovery!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.

What?

I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.

It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?"

For some that is true, for others it is just a preference. You'll never really know one way or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people do legitimately find fetishising race to be somewhat offensive.

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By *terling2017Woman
over a year ago

birmingham


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister. "
You have taken people at face value, then by the rest of your post kind of put people in doubt of your earlier statement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.

What?

I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.

It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?

For some that is true, for others it is just a preference. You'll never really know one way or the other."

Fair enough thanks for the clarification. It was probably just the way I read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.

What?

I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.

It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?

For some that is true, for others it is just a preference. You'll never really know one way or the other.

Fair enough thanks for the clarification. It was probably just the way I read it"

More like the way I wrote it, given some of the responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do legitimately find fetishising race to be somewhat offensive. "

You might be shocked at what some black men have said to me during sex, regarding their colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do legitimately find fetishising race to be somewhat offensive.

You might be shocked at what some black men have said to me during sex, regarding their colour."

Probably the cringe worthy stuff you would expect to hear in a typical interracial porn movie.

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