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"Yep and ones telling me they're gonna tell my husband. Pretty pathetic morons if you ask me. No place for people like that on here. " They are creepy as hell | |||
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"Yep and ones telling me they're gonna tell my husband. Pretty pathetic morons if you ask me. No place for people like that on here. " That's shit... Proper wankers  | |||
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"Yep. Then they try to tell me how they think they know me. Really weird way to strike up a conversation." Desperate idiots cones to mind | |||
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"Yup... Only freaks me out if they aren't willing to show me their face " Yep I got that | |||
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"Yep had one this week off someone who was adamant I'd met her, I've never seen her in my life before! " Blimey, didn’t expect a fella to get this | |||
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"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here.... Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like "If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you? That’s actually fine But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell | |||
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"Yep Hate that Especially when they won’t tell you. I tell them they have one opportunity to tell me or I block them "He didn’t say, he just wrote a name ... not mine Blocked | |||
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"Yep Hate that Especially when they won’t tell you. I tell them they have one opportunity to tell me or I block them
He didn’t say, he just wrote a name ... not mine
Blocked "Just as bad! | |||
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"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here.... Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like
If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you?
That’s actually fine
But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell"Ahhhh .. now I see what you mean. That would probably freak me out too... My eyebrows get me blocked lol ... So definite block for a blank profile. Me thinks | |||
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"Yes, I've had it once. Freaked me out a bit. " It certainly freaked me | |||
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"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here.... Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like
If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you?
That’s actually fine
But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell
Ahhhh .. now I see what you mean. That would probably freak me out too...
My eyebrows get me blocked lol ... So definite block for a blank profile. Me thinks "Those are some eyebrows! | |||
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"Once had someone message me on Facebook asking me to change my settings on here - so they could message me. Found that uncomfortable tbh " Ok that’s desperation on a different level! | |||
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"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here.... Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like
If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you?
That’s actually fine
But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell
Ahhhh .. now I see what you mean. That would probably freak me out too...
My eyebrows get me blocked lol ... So definite block for a blank profile. Me thinks
Those are some eyebrows! "I was just blessed in the wrong areas lol ... Thanks if that was a compliment  | |||
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"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff." What a shit  | |||
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"Yes I got a phone call at work last week saying they'd seen me on fab then hung up before I could reply, to be fair they sounded like they were shaking like a shitting dog so I couldn't help but feel sorry for the little cockwomble "Did you ever find out who it was ? | |||
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"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff. What a shit "That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing | |||
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"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff. What a shit
That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing "That's so clever | |||
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"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff. What a shit
That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing "Good idea thank you  | |||
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"To think how dreamy it would be yo live in a world where we didn't have to hide anything... " That’s a very dreamy world I’d like to live in | |||
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"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff. What a shit
That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing
Good idea thank you "Now thats got me thinking most the women on here have false locations on their profiles ... The cynic in me just awoke lol | |||
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"Only had 1 like this, i just let them know nobody knows me... even i dont know me. Im a total contradiction of myself in one confusing ball of a scorpio and water dog mix that it would be impossible!.... They never messaged again! Maybe they thought i was nutnuts! "Yep that would do it | |||
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"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff. What a shit
That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing
Good idea thank you
Now thats got me thinking most the women on here have false locations on their profiles ... The cynic in me just awoke lol "It has happened more than once, hence the location deceit. In all fairness, most people put a different town. | |||
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"I got a message from someone that knows me from work, he said what r u doing on here and when i went to reply he had blocked me, whats the point in that ?? Lol" I suspect to unnerve you. Letting you know he knew who you were, hoping you would be worried someone could reveal you were on a sex site and feeling smug | |||
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"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff. What a shit
That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing
Good idea thank you
Now thats got me thinking most the women on here have false locations on their profiles ... The cynic in me just awoke lol "I have a different town on my profile. Good too after a guy wouldn't accept no thanks. He claimed he's coming to my town, going to find me, stalk me, beat me, throw acid in my face and r*pe me. Hmm the weirdo can try but he'll never find me due to me not even living there. Us single ladies need to do everything we can to take care of ourselves on this site. There are plenty of good guys on this site but some absolute wrong'uns. | |||
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"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff. What a shit
That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing
Good idea thank you
Now thats got me thinking most the women on here have false locations on their profiles ... The cynic in me just awoke lol
I have a different town on my profile. Good too after a guy wouldn't accept no thanks. He claimed he's coming to my town, going to find me, stalk me, beat me, throw acid in my face and r*pe me.
Hmm the weirdo can try but he'll never find me due to me not even living there. Us single ladies need to do everything we can to take care of ourselves on this site. There are plenty of good guys on this site but some absolute wrong'uns." | |||
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"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here.... Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like
If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you?
That’s actually fine
But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell"of course it's a blank profile, they're just trolls and are only here to annoy people and wind them up. Wasters and cowards. | |||
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"Yes, apparently I’ve seen this guy around where I live and smiled at him so he thought I wanted more. Creeped me out when he said he was sitting in his car at the top of my road. I have no idea who he is x " That’s quite scary | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl." again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys" No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. " but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him" Oh I know him, and I'm sure he classes himself as a normal guy. The creepy guys never know they are creepy. | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him" Because having people exercising caution around you is much worse than stalking. 
Caution is sensible ffs. | |||
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"I'd sooner send a 'how's you' message than a 'I know you' Nothing more creepier not only on here but dating sites too" If I came across anyone I knew here, I'd quietly block them and get on with life. | |||
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"Anyone get messages like this ? " Thankfully no and if I did I wouldn't respond... Seems a little creepy | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him Because having people exercising caution around you is much worse than stalking.
Caution is sensible ffs. "didn't say she didn't need to be cautious FFS bit if she didn't know him she would always have that niggle in her head is this him is he in the bar watching me that kind of thing I meant | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him Because having people exercising caution around you is much worse than stalking.
Caution is sensible ffs. didn't say she didn't need to be cautious FFS bit if she didn't know him she would always have that niggle in her head is this him is he in the bar watching me that kind of thing I meant"Yes, and the fear for her is much worse than the irritation for you. | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him Oh I know him, and I'm sure he classes himself as a normal guy. The creepy guys never know they are creepy." it's the quiet ones u always find the guy I had stalk me with messages toon an educated guess as to where I lived as it's half way between Hull and Scunthorpe and one of the bigger villages bit didn't know any of the ladies I had met locally just gleaned odd bit of info off my veris | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him Because having people exercising caution around you is much worse than stalking.
Caution is sensible ffs. didn't say she didn't need to be cautious FFS bit if she didn't know him she would always have that niggle in her head is this him is he in the bar watching me that kind of thing I meant
Yes, and the fear for her is much worse than the irritation for you. "true but if I was meeting her I'd let her pick a place very public to meet and where she could exit in any direction at any time as my priority on all my meets is the lady feels safe in her surroundings and safe meeting me but I'd guess that would be the case with most normal guys on here | |||
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"Anyone get messages like this ? " I got it as a response to my initial message. I eventually found out who it was (she worked in same building) | |||
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"I guess it can be quite scary for women especially. " Bloody terrifying. Side note: initial notes asking where I live/ work/ hang out/ work out etc are on the same spectrum as this. I'm not sure why anyone expects a positive, truthful answer! | |||
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"I'd sooner send a 'how's you' message than a 'I know you' Nothing more creepier not only on here but dating sites too If I came across anyone I knew here, I'd quietly block them and get on with life. " That’s what id do too | |||
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"Any way it's creepy when someone claims to know u but even creepier when they find u on social media " Yes stalker minds | |||
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"Any way it's creepy when someone claims to know u but even creepier when they find u on social media Yes stalker minds" If I inadvertently found a swinger on social media, I'd block. | |||
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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true. So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl." Hope you don’t bump into him | |||
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" had one telling me what I was wearing whilst watching countdown" Was she right? | |||
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"Oh i see him on a regular basis but i think that he understands that my death stare means come near me at your peril!!" have you logged all contact he has made so u can show police | |||
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"We had someone message us accusing me(the wife) of cheating on my husband by being on here. Completely confused as I'm on here with my husband of 16 years! This bloke was convinced I was someone else xx"could of been worse he could of said he'd fucked your husband lol | |||
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"We had someone message us accusing me(the wife) of cheating on my husband by being on here. Completely confused as I'm on here with my husband of 16 years! This bloke was convinced I was someone else xxcould of been worse he could of said he'd fucked your husband lol"Haha this is very true xx | |||
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"Oh i see him on a regular basis but i think that he understands that my death stare means come near me at your peril!!" Love giving the evil eye! | |||
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"Hello stranger, how have you been? Stranger danger, stranger danger. Yeah, I've had plenty reckoning they know me, apparently I've played with a few at clubs I've never been to. I wanna know who my doppelganger is. P" Even worse when it’s someone saying they have played with you | |||
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"Anyone get messages like this ? " We got one months ago which said I saw you both in the supermarket but was too shy to say hi! I replied good because I would have totally ignored you as this side of life doesn’t need to turn up in the middle aisle of Aldi lol | |||
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"Hello stranger, how have you been? Stranger danger, stranger danger. Yeah, I've had plenty reckoning they know me, apparently I've played with a few at clubs I've never been to. I wanna know who my doppelganger is. P" Haha omg I get those ! There’s one persistent one that swears I met him in a club up north that I have never ever stepped foot in lol | |||
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"Hello stranger, how have you been? Stranger danger, stranger danger. Yeah, I've had plenty reckoning they know me, apparently I've played with a few at clubs I've never been to. I wanna know who my doppelganger is. P Haha omg I get those ! There’s one persistent one that swears I met him in a club up north that I have never ever stepped foot in lol " It makes me exhale breaths of confusion and my own sanity | |||
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"Anyone get messages like this ? " Yep usually by bullshitters I block and warn friends off scammers like this. | |||
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"Anyone get messages like this ? " Yes and just ignore them | |||
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"Anyone get messages like this ? " Never had one of those, but if I did I'll tell them they owe me £20 I'm sure they will deny knowing me after. | |||
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"Anyone get messages like this ? Never had one of those, but if I did I'll tell them they owe me £20 I'm sure they will deny knowing me after." Ooh a good idea | |||
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"Anyone get messages like this ? Never had one of those, but if I did I'll tell them they owe me £20 I'm sure they will deny knowing me after." I'm sure if I did that I'd get reported for solicitation | |||
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