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Oh dear... think I need a hug

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..or a kick up the arse

Feeling really swamped today, keep crying like a right feck'n loony

I've been trying so hard to get the house fixed up to sell it, it's been a real struggle cos I'm so bleed'n skint - which is why I'm selling up

Got a decorator in 3 weeks ago, he seemed ok, started the jobs then left early saying he'd be back mid week, all I've gotten from him since are what could be genuine reasons not to be here, but unless I contact him - I hear nuttin, anyhoo finaly pinned him down to this morning and he just hasn't shown up, again I know it 'might' be the weather - but he hasn't even contacted me to explain.

I saved up for a new door last year, and just before Christmas the police had to knock it down to get let the ambulance guys in for me... I managed to get the kitchen done the year before on the cheap, and this morning the water is pouring down the walls from the bathroom, the coving is fucked

me BV is back... I'm waiting for a date for back surgery... this last 2 years has been a right pain in the arse.

I just feel that everytime something goes right, something shits all over it....

I can usually just 'keep calm and carry on' but seriously can't stop crying today

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area

Bless you. Sorry you're feeling so low. Here's a massive hug from us both.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

you really have had a tough time of it so big {{{{{HUGS}}}}} for you x x

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Big big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And breathe...

Wrap up really warm and get out of the four walls....;-);-)

Id send you a cock pic... But ya dont deserve that on top of everything else...

(((((( Huge Snugly Snoglesome Hugs ))))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

huggs

i know it seems your having a shit time but chin up you will get through it xxxx

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

Big hugs from me too.

Can understand your situation and sometimes having a damn good cry gets some of the stress out of your system.

Hope things start going right soon.

Just be thankful I don't live nearer to you, as I'd be round like a shot with my decorating gear on to start painting .... although I'm very good at demolishing things!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys,

Sorry for all the snot on yer shoulders from the hugging eeeeeh some days just getcha don't they?

I'm having a strong coffee and will put some make up on to hide the blotchy snot-face a good friend has just texted to say they are on their way over with some 'feel good' films.

... hope he brings his head massager

Catchya later guys, thanks again, luvs yas!

Fia xxx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Don't seek solace on a swinging site. Go see a real friend and take a good bottle of wine. Tomorrow will feel brighter (after the hangover clears) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big Hug, from us x

Hope you didn't give him any money up front & don't pay him for anything already done. Keep your chin up & remember there is a light at the end of the tunnel, just sometime it is a long one. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a bit of your snot on my shoulder.

*offers a massive hug* xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Big Hug, from us x

Hope you didn't give him any money up front "

'fraid so

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Don't seek solace on a swinging site. Go see a real friend and take a good bottle of wine. Tomorrow will feel brighter (after the hangover clears) xx"

why not seek solace on here? i have often found fab to be a great boost when i have been feeling low, its not all about shagging you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" ..its not all about shagging you know "

Which is just as well, wot wiv me back and stinky BV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big Hug, from us x

Hope you didn't give him any money up front

'fraid so "

That happened to me (female) a few years ago, I paid up front for my new bathroom, he finished the job but it turned out to be a disaster, looked good. Just have to put it down to experience I'm afraid, unfortunately an expensive one. Wish you lived nearer me I have a great decorator I have used for years & very reasonably priced.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" why not seek solace on here? i have often found fab to be a great boost when i have been feeling low, its not all about shagging you know "

Amen Sista..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody said that it couldn't be done,

But, he with a chuckle replied

That "maybe it couldn't" but he would be one

Who wouldn't say so till he'd tried.

~

So he buckled right in with the trace of a grin

On his face. If he worried he hid it.

He started to sing as he tackled the thing

That couldn't be done, as he did it.

~

Somebody scoffed: "Oh, you'll never do that;

At least no one we know has done it";

But he took off his coat and he took off his hat,

And the first thing we knew he'd begun it.

~

With a lift of his chin and a bit of a grin,

Without any doubting or quiddit,

He started to sing as he tackled the thing

That couldn't be done, and he did it.

~

There are thousands to tell you it cannot be done,

There are thousands to prophesy failure;

There are thousands to point out to you, one by one,

The dangers that wait to assail you.

~

But just buckle right in with a bit of a grin,

Just take off your coat and go to it;

Just start to sing as you tackle the thing

That cannot be done, and you'll do it

~

Author: Edgar Guest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big (((((((((hugs))))))))))) babe, sorry to hear of your troubles xx

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

big ((((Hugs)))) from us know what it's like to feel down, but things will get better honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...Just start to sing as you tackle the thing

That cannot be done, and you'll do it

~

Author: Edgar Guest.

"

Thanks for the motivational ditty I've already started a 'breakdown' list (no not a mental breakdown lol! ) of how to tackle stuff and in what order... sorting out the shower leak seems the best place to start xx

xx

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

(((((((hugs)))))))) if you need a hand decorating msg me,i live quite near youx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".. Just have to put it down to experience I'm afraid,

xx "

Yeppers, my Ex had 'tenacious' as his middle name, in 12 years we never had to hire anyone to do jobs .... wish I'd paid more attention to his 'many skills' It has been a real eye opener dealing with the so called proffessionals at times on me own... but strengthening tto most days

(please note, not suggesting everyone are cowboys )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" why not seek solace on here? i have often found fab to be a great boost when i have been feeling low, its not all about shagging you know

Amen Sista..!! "

Tru dat

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Big hugs from mexxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"(((((((hugs)))))))) if you need a hand decorating msg me,i live quite near youx"

That is sooo nice of you! thank you for that, but I wouldn't dream of imposing.

*hugs*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm so glad I posted, you've all right cheered me up! I knew there was a reason I liked it here... you're all just lovely, thank you xxxx

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

Always a special Ruby hug for you sweet pea, remember the highs wouldn't seem as good unless you'd experienced the lows you are going through just now, keep your strength up, eat properly and sleep when you get tired, mwah, xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs coming your way.We all have really bad times in life which we think we will never get through but we do somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had to wink as there is no option to send a hug....

I always think along the lines of

This t.o Shall Pass..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This t.o Shall Pass.."

Clean, Simple and Classic...;-)

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Sound rather depressed to me ..Maybe discuss with Doc. I get days like that too and I have nothing like you going on .Poor soul feel better soon. I hope you get some real hugs soon x .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear!

Hugs!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

big hugs form us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not easy being on your own, especially when you have to rely on workmen who only do half a job.

I've got a lot of house and garden maintenance skills, but unfortunately I'm not physically fit for these jobs any more, so I get angry when I am being ripped off. Money is scarce and not easily come by to throw away on the cowboys.

Chin up lovely, sending support and hugs, even though I can't deliver in person. xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear of your woes Fia. Let's hope that will be the end of it and you are looking. On the brink of good fortune. It isn't nice when people let you down, hugs fro me

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you


"(((((((hugs)))))))) if you need a hand decorating msg me,i live quite near youx

That is sooo nice of you! thank you for that, but I wouldn't dream of imposing.

*hugs* "
well it was a genuine offer,not brilliant at iy but can use a paintbrush

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Don't seek solace on a swinging site. Go see a real friend and take a good bottle of wine. Tomorrow will feel brighter (after the hangover clears) xx

why not seek solace on here? i have often found fab to be a great boost when i have been feeling low, its not all about shagging you know "

Because cyber hugs like cyber sex is just not the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Because cyber hugs like cyber sex is just not the same!"

They beat no hugs at all and the feeling of isolation that can swamp you at times.

I've often found the forums cheer me up and if I feel down sometimes one of the forumites will ring to cheer me. I love them. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fia, hope you are feeling a bit better today and more on top of things xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning Fia... Xx

Why dont you invite us all round for a DIY party...?;-)

*Is it me... Or does that sound wrong somehow...*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cyber hugs from us 2 hunny xxhope things are a lot better today xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fia, hope you are feeling a bit better today and more on top of things xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sending you a big hug hope you sort things out okay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody ell there are some right tossers in this world aint there

If I could help I would but unless its painting by numbers, its best to let an expert do it, so sending big fat bear hugs your way, gently does it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning Fia... Xx

Why dont you invite us all round for a DIY party...?;-)

*Is it me... Or does that sound wrong somehow...*"

Yes very wrong but a fantastic idea, have met people on here that could help and always thought maybe we could match skills together, so what can you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning Fia... Xx

Why dont you invite us all round for a DIY party...?;-)

*Is it me... Or does that sound wrong somehow...*

Yes very wrong but a fantastic idea, have met people on here that could help and always thought maybe we could match skills together, so what can you do? "

Moan like a goodun especially if I am tired is that any good

Big ((((((HUG))))) Fia xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs. As someone said, cyber hugs are better than no hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooo you poor woman if i was ner leeds i would come over and help .. cant be easy and you not well .... is there not friends or family .. who could give you a hand .??? I hope one day you can look back at all this and you have moved on and happy x x spring summer soon be here. jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big squeezy hugs treacle hope ya having a better day today

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

never spoken to you before Fia (I I don't think) but massive huggles to you and hope it gets sorted quick and you feel better today xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your probs over it by now, but a mahoosive hug from me ((((xx))))

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"

Because cyber hugs like cyber sex is just not the same!

They beat no hugs at all and the feeling of isolation that can swamp you at times.

I've often found the forums cheer me up and if I feel down sometimes one of the forumites will ring to cheer me. I love them. xxxx"

Yes better than nothing of course, just advised her to seek some real support in person as she really sounded like she needed it. OP.... really hope things pick up for you.... which they will! Most things happen for a reason. Hang in there. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya

Feeling much better this evening thanks, have bought new sealant for round the shower/bath and tiles, so will be sorting out the water problem this weekend I hope. Am feeing much more focused now I've broken it all down in my head

A friend came over last night with a selection of horror films and a selection of cakes lol! he also played with my hair whilst watching the films cos he knows how relaxing I find that... he's such a sweety

So, not so loony today and y'know, the cyber hugs really did help, all of your friendly words were exactly what I needed..

Cheers luverlies xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that's a really good friend for bringing cakes, films and stress busting head massage! Now if you can get them to help with a few odd jobs around the place you'll gradually see light at the end of the tunnel...

Hope it's not too long before your back is sorted, house is sold & 2012 starts to be on the up for you!

Hugs from her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you let me take you out for a meal.Nothing else.Or come stay at my place in Whitby.Regards Don

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you let me take you out for a meal.Nothing else.Or come stay at my place in Whitby.Regards Don

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

we all have days like that, sometimes a good old cry,scream or rant and rave lets you vent it all off and then you'll get your head together BIG MASSIVE HUGS for you.hope it works out for you.

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