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By *ecs2die4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Cant get verified without meeting and cant get a meeting without being verified. Anyone else in the chicken and egg, verification black hole from which there is no escape?

I do find it ironic how having loads of verifications (i.e. Fucking all and sundry) seems so often to be considered a virtue on here. But maybe I am just prudish...and jealous!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not all feel this way. There are also clubs and socials.

If you think lots of veris are a bad thing, maybe don't contact those people. (not all veris indicate sex, and sex happens without veris, so your judgement is a bit off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a few verifications but the majority of those are from Club, party or social meets. In fact you will find the majority of people that have over 20 are the same.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've got quite a few veris, but most of them are from people that I've met at socials, all you have to do is attend one, or go on cam OP

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Lots of people meet unverified guys. I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*grabs the popcorn*

As others have said, can be verified via webcam etc.

It’s not a perfect system, but works for the most part and is definitely there for a reason. We all start off with 0 verifications(the male here was on this as a single man once, bit of effort and respect gets you everywhere).

Good luck!!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people meet unverified guys. I do "

So do i because actually a verification doesn't mean much.

I like to see verifications when meeting a woman or couple, just so that I can see they are who they say they are but that's the only reason really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people meet unverified guys. I do "

Is that why you’re not meeting me? I have a couple of veris!!! That’s harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people meet unverified guys. I do

Is that why you’re not meeting me? I have a couple of veris!!! That’s harsh!"

Yes I'm sure that's the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of new single guys feel they are struggling because they are not verified.

Those that get to a social or club and get verified, realise they are struggling because they vastly outstrip demand, so it's quality of profile, messages, and interaction and not just verification that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is wrong with good old fashioned snapchat or kik live video calls for verification? I would put that above written verifications on profiles any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your attitude is your issue? If you believe lots of veri's means fucking all and sundry then you need much educating!

There are more ways of getting verified than meeting for a fuck, maybe you should try one of them instead of stressing over how much action (or not) other people are getting.

P

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I have quite a few verifications because I like fucking lots of different people

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What is wrong with good old fashioned snapchat or kik live video calls for verification? I would put that above written verifications on profiles any day. "

We've hit a point where Snapchat is old fashioned. I'm old. Get off my lawn

But seriously, some use the veri system as a vetting tool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is wrong with good old fashioned snapchat or kik live video calls for verification? I would put that above written verifications on profiles any day. "

Because seeing someone on cam doesn't show they actually turn up to meet.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everyone creates their rules here, on who to meet preferences etc. It may or may not include verifications or people who whinge - often not seen as attractive.

It's a site that you single men must accept will be hard when new, as you are in incredible competition with thousands of others. You all started without verification, so positively creating social opportunities to improve things and get to know more people is the bright thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have quite a few verifications because I like fucking lots of different people "

My mum warned me about you when I was 14!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cam and shush the flap up is my advice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have quite a few verifications because I like fucking lots of different people "

Shame they are not published I was about to grab some popcorn and have a read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications dont always have to mean sex alot of members meet socially at organised events or things they have arranged there's also camming as a,way of getting verified add to that clubs and such that happen up and down the country trust me when i say this being verified also doesn't help much with meeting you'd be surprised how many people actually don't bother reading them all you gotta do is get yourself out there dude

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

My first veri was via cam, then a meet. Now I’m batting them off left right and centre. Seriously I’m knee deep in clunge (t’s & c’s no offence caused to any one person. The writer does not take ownership of this comment and does not have any responsibilities whatsoever. Goods left here are at owners risk and any cars broken into have been left at owners risk).

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"What is wrong with good old fashioned snapchat or kik live video calls for verification? I would put that above written verifications on profiles any day. "

Because most people would sooner meet someone in the flesh, rather than give a veri over some kind of app. When I first joined here about 13 years ago, you could give a veri via a phone chat. How the hell did you know who you were talking to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is wrong with good old fashioned snapchat or kik live video calls for verification? I would put that above written verifications on profiles any day.

Because most people would sooner meet someone in the flesh, rather than give a veri over some kind of app. When I first joined here about 13 years ago, you could give a veri via a phone chat. How the hell did you know who you were talking to? "

Did you send face sketches by carrier pidgeon? :p

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Cant get verified without meeting and cant get a meeting without being verified. Anyone else in the chicken and egg, verification black hole from which there is no escape?

I do find it ironic how having loads of verifications (i.e. Fucking all and sundry) seems so often to be considered a virtue on here. But maybe I am just prudish...and jealous!"

That’s how it is on here unfortunately for men we just have to persevere and pull out all the stops simple as that

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"What is wrong with good old fashioned snapchat or kik live video calls for verification? I would put that above written verifications on profiles any day.

Because most people would sooner meet someone in the flesh, rather than give a veri over some kind of app. When I first joined here about 13 years ago, you could give a veri via a phone chat. How the hell did you know who you were talking to?

Did you send face sketches by carrier pidgeon? :p"

I look better in hieroglyphics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant get verified without meeting and cant get a meeting without being verified. Anyone else in the chicken and egg, verification black hole from which there is no escape?

I do find it ironic how having loads of verifications (i.e. Fucking all and sundry) seems so often to be considered a virtue on here. But maybe I am just prudish...and jealous!"

I'll meet you. I've got no morals

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Lots of people meet unverified guys. I do

Is that why you’re not meeting me? I have a couple of veris!!! That’s harsh!"

You've never asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fucked all and sundry.

I'm verified...you're not

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I've fucked all and sundry.

I'm verified...you're not "

You have not!

I'd my name changed to sundry years ago and I've yet to have the pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous of those who fucked all but not you?

What's wrong with you?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Cant get verified without meeting and cant get a meeting without being verified. Anyone else in the chicken and egg, verification black hole from which there is no escape?

I do find it ironic how having loads of verifications (i.e. Fucking all and sundry) seems so often to be considered a virtue on here. But maybe I am just prudish...and jealous!

I'll meet you. I've got no morals "

I do love a woman who's knickers elastic matches her morals - loose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people meet unverified guys. I do

So do i because actually a verification doesn't mean much.

I like to see verifications when meeting a woman or couple, just so that I can see they are who they say they are but that's the only reason really. "

All is not lost for the likes of me then ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've fucked all and sundry.

I'm verified...you're not

You have not!

I'd my name changed to sundry years ago and I've yet to have the pleasure "

Did you lose your place in the queue?

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"I have quite a few verifications because I like fucking lots of different people

My mum warned me about you when I was 14!"

Sensible lady!

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I got my Veri from a can ‘chat’. It’s a good way to start and show you are who you say you are. The next step is a coffee and chat. Who knows where that will lead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've fucked all and sundry.

I'm verified...you're not

You have not!

I'd my name changed to sundry years ago and I've yet to have the pleasure

Did you lose your place in the queue?"

Not lost, just at the end of it after ALL, so it may be a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't really take any notice of veries..we met those without them too. When we are looking for fun, we meet via our gut feelings..

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Cant get verified without meeting and cant get a meeting without being verified. Anyone else in the chicken and egg, verification black hole from which there is no escape?

I do find it ironic how having loads of verifications (i.e. Fucking all and sundry) seems so often to be considered a virtue on here. But maybe I am just prudish...and jealous!"

There are at least 4 clubs within a stone's throw of you.

Get yourself along to one of them. As long as you're not a dick (Fab rule #1) you'll most likely find someone who'll verify you.

Of course clubs might not be for you. You know, with you being prudish an' all.

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