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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

BBC BBW or Wag

Milfs Vanillas or Slag,

it's a shame that so few

can see you for just you

without needing a label to tag.....

But others would say this is tripe!

It is helpful to stereotype,

They remain of the _iew

that when you meet new

Tags will help you pick fruit that is ripe...

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Where do you stand with the whole label and 'tagging' issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether you like them or not, people will use them.

It's just another part of modern communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only labels I care about are those on fabrics that say they can be washed using a washing machine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are a good thing.

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon

Loved the poem

As for tags, a guy might describe himself as vwe but when met, turned out to be average. Whilst nothing wrong with average, disappointment could ensue. Likewise a woman might consider herself bbw as she is a large lady - one of the meanings of bbw is big beautiful woman - she could be a minger! Should people tag themselves or be tagged?

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon

How about....

stc = skinny tiny cock

sbw = skinny beautiful woman

bum = big ugly man

abw = average beautiful woman

bmw = big minger woman

The list could go on as how many labels would we need to find ones to suit everybody?

I'm a larger lady at size 18 - I don't consider myself particularly beautiful but have been told otherwise by my partner and a few others (it's amazing what make-up can do! ) so I have described myself as curvy - I have been told I'm fat/obese and a minger! so even with labels, it's a observers point of _iew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only labels I care about are those on fabrics that say they can be washed using a washing machine! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only labels I care about are those on fabrics that say they can be washed using a washing machine! "

love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to be tagged than bagged ..... but only just!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you see i never know what things stand for only BBW , as see it here alot and cugar ... older woman like younger men . when i see bbc and things i have not a clue . lol I wish there was a list here at times i could look things up on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without labels it'd be a bit of a bugger if you were making a spagbol and opened a can of beans by mistake!

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

My favorite is: "Live Gas in Service"

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon


"you see i never know what things stand for only BBW , as see it here alot and cugar ... older woman like younger men . when i see bbc and things i have not a clue . lol I wish there was a list here at times i could look things up on fab."

The ones I know are:

bbc = big black cock

bbw = big beautiful woman

milf = mother I'd like to fuck

vwe = very well endowed

gilf = girl/granny I'd like to fuck

I know there are more but can't think of them

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By *oketsoxMan
over a year ago

Kettering

May contain nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you see i never know what things stand for only BBW , as see it here alot and cugar ... older woman like younger men . when i see bbc and things i have not a clue . lol I wish there was a list here at times i could look things up on fab.

The ones I know are:

bbc = big black cock

bbw = big beautiful woman

milf = mother I'd like to fuck

vwe = very well endowed

gilf = girl/granny I'd like to fuck

I know there are more but can't think of them"
well thankyou xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the poem, Blackspice, but have had no trouble being labelled, if people are that shallow, then they soon betray themselves as such, and are consequently easier to avoid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".

Where do you stand with the whole label and 'tagging' issue?

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Its there for a reason and that may not be nice its an abbreviated description along with others like gsoh, tbh imho and many others. Its no different to words where some are present and others not so.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"

Where do you stand with the whole label and 'tagging' issue?

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Labels........dilligaf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put my tag on the cat...;-)

Keeps the police entertained for hours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How will we know what jar the Bovril or Marmite is in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How will we know what jar the Bovril or Marmite is in? "

Marmite- yellow lid, bovril- red

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

FUOG

Fat Ugly Old Git

(Guilty as labelled... get over it)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"BBC BBW or Wag

Milfs Vanillas or Slag,

it's a shame that so few

can see you for just you

without needing a label to tag.....

But others would say this is tripe!

It is helpful to stereotype,

They remain of the _iew

that when you meet new

Tags will help you pick fruit that is ripe...

.

.

Where do you stand with the whole label and 'tagging' issue?

"

I LOVE the ditty x Did you write it or borrow it ?

We need lables..... impossible without them.

We have preferences even with food. Even if I try to describe a tomato so someone will get me one we start with lables........ red, round n juicy etc.

The art is to be non judgemental. There are differences but no one can say one is better than the other....

Let's say you were standing in front of me naked.... and a white pasty wobbly fat man..... Im picking you and no B.S. B.S !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ring Wraith... fookin top username for a swinger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, your wee poem tends to make me think (if you agree with it) that you're not keen on labels for size, gender, race etc...but being a black guy you call yourself Blackspice...just an observation. Happy swinging.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I really don’t see what the problem is with labels as long as they aren’t being used in a oppressive fashion… having said that… if I said a bunch of ‘chavs’ were outside the shop, you’d all have a pretty good idea of the type I was talking about.

I don’t get uptight about many labels, if someone wants to refer to me as a BBW as a quick and simple way of describing my body type, I wouldn’t be offended and I’ve never really understood the whole hang-up about one of the ‘B’s standing for ‘beautiful’. Anyone with half a brain cell knows it’s just a term to tell people they are fat (and not just a bit chubby), rather than meaning “I am so damn pretty I make Megan Fox look like Dot Cotton”.

One of the labels I do get up-tight about is ‘swinger’… so many people have been desperate to stretch and misshape it so it will fit them, it barely has any meaning anymore…. and that’s when labels become useless.

Generally labels are pretty useful to help identify common ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a toss if I were labelled to be honest, can't understand why some have an issue with it.

So long as generalisations are not made then labels are merely descriptive words.

Though to be fair I don't know any label on here that would apply to me as I'm not a BBW, don't possess a BBC as my skin tone will clearly show. Though I've probably been a TWAT on more than one occasion lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to label people.

Don't understand kids today, you have certain haircut so you belong to that group. Erm no I just had a haircut.

I would get asked what I am and replied what do you mean? They said, goth, greebo, rocker, emo, scene kid, chav etc.

I replied, I'm me and they didn't understand what I was getting at.

I worked in warehouses where some people just by looking at them, I would never talk to, yet we had to work together and we have tons incommon, still friends now. So I avoid labels.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if this was Facebook, then I see no purpose for labels.

as it is a site where one wants to meet up with similar for sexual activity.... it helps, but if only applied honestly.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me


".

Where do you stand with the whole label and 'tagging' issue?

Its there for a reason and that may not be nice its an abbreviated description along with others like gsoh, tbh imho and many others. Its no different to words where some are present and others not so."

Or in your case i believe the tag "absolutely stunning" works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How will we know what jar the Bovril or Marmite is in?

Marmite- yellow lid, bovril- red"

Ah! A common misconception.

Chicken a Bovril has the yellow lid, beef Bovril has red same as Marmite

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"How will we know what jar the Bovril or Marmite is in?

Marmite- yellow lid, bovril- red

Ah! A common misconception.

Chicken a Bovril has the yellow lid, beef Bovril has red same as Marmite"

you need to get out more......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, I'm a BBW, Cougar, Milf who likes Gfyg (Gorgeous fit young guys, theres a new one) so what would I know? lol

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me


"Hey, I'm a BBW, Cougar, Milf who likes Gfyg (Gorgeous fit young guys, theres a new one) so what would I know? lol"

how to have fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How will we know what jar the Bovril or Marmite is in?

Marmite- yellow lid, bovril- red

Ah! A common misconception.

Chicken a Bovril has the yellow lid, beef Bovril has red same as Marmite

you need to get out more...... "

No shit!! We have got cabin fever, we haven't been anywhere or done anything exciting in weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I LOVE the ditty x Did you write it or borrow it ?

We need lables..... impossible without them.

We have preferences even with food. Even if I try to describe a tomato so someone will get me one we start with lables........ red, round n juicy etc.

The art is to be non judgemental. There are differences but no one can say one is better than the other....

Let's say you were standing in front of me naked.... and a white pasty wobbly fat man..... Im picking you and no B.S. B.S !"

Yes I wrote it, happy you like it.

Thankyou.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well, your wee poem tends to make me think (if you agree with it) that you're not keen on labels for size, gender, race etc...but being a black guy you call yourself Blackspice...just an observation. Happy swinging."

I wrote the poem and asked the question to stimulate a debate, i haven't yet given my _iew (on this thread anyway).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think labels are a necessary part of our language, without them it would be impossible to communicate succinctly.

I don't have a problem with them unless they are used innacurately by the labelled or labeller.

I also feel a bit uncomfortable if they are used for negative reasons, but that's the good and bad of language, you can't control what peoples perception, meaning and use of a label is or will become.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to describe myself as accurately as I see fit, and it is other people's prerogative to agree or disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How will we know what jar the Bovril or Marmite is in?

Marmite- yellow lid, bovril- red

Ah! A common misconception.

Chicken a Bovril has the yellow lid, beef Bovril has red same as Marmite

you need to get out more......

No shit!! We have got cabin fever, we haven't been anywhere or done anything exciting in weeks "

I'm wrong. Marmite has got a yellow lid.

I really ought to get out more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think we look for labels for people more than we used to?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think it sometimes comforts people to be able to stick others in little boxes so that they can understand who they are and what they're meant to be like according to the label

Not literally stick them in boxes of course!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It won't be long before we all have a QR code tattooed on our foreheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a label... it says "if found return to...." lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Where do you stand with the whole label and 'tagging' issue?

Labels........dilligaf "

I used to respond to work emails with DILLIGAF!

Til some bastard explained to my boss what it meant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only labels I care about are those on fabrics that say they can be washed using a washing machine! "

Even then i ignore them :P

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