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why do people block u before meet u

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By *haynebabe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

we now sick of people blocking us before meeting us they dont email people if they dont like u they block why are they on here if they going block most of the couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If thay feel thay will never wish to chat thay block so dont have to tell you to your face .. its just easy for them. Some dont see it as being rude blocking .. its a normal thing thay do here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block people that have messaged and we decide are not for us. We do tell them a polite 'no thanks' first though.

The reason we do this as that Daz has a crap memory and often 'forgets' that we have already spoken!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"we now sick of people blocking us before meeting us they dont email people if they dont like u they block why are they on here if they going block most of the couples"

If they block you it's cos they don't want to meet you.

How do you know they blocked 'most' of the couples. They could have blocked just you or just a few.

You are over reacting.

Is it anything to do with the way you look ? The messages you send ? The way you chat ?

Whatever it is. They don't want to meet so they block. It's not exactly an unfathomable question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block those I have no intention of knowing or meeting, to prevent wasting each other's time and efforts.

Not my problem if people don't like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very recently had a message from a guy who stated first if I didn't reply straight away he would instantly block me.. I didn't even get chance to read his profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Whatever it is. They don't want to meet so they block. It's not exactly an unfathomable question. "

*Solution 169 from Granny's Make Someone Happy Book of Shit....;-)*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure they were a real couple and not someone pretending to be one?

Did you swap pics with them?

It may have been a pic hunter, we have had them in the past and sounds familiar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, your profile does start with a list of 12 rules which may well alienate a lot of people who don't want to stick to your rules so once they read them they maybe just block so they don't come across your profile and spend time reading it again only to find they aren't compatible with you. Good luck anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up reading your profile after the first 6 'we do not want..'. I'd block a profile like that as this is supposed to be fun and not something where you have to continually remember not to do this or not to do that. What would happen if someone did forget and broke one of your rules? Would you get up and leave?

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

It might be worth reading your profile. Although its honest and your call its very you can do you can do you cannot do.

I'd imagine folk treading on eggshells around you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the block if I don't meet the person's needs such as only meeting one colour or something, or if I don't like them from their profile, just saves time from reading it again in the future.

I think the block saves a lot of time, for both parties.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

have t say i particularly like the threat at the end of the message, maybe people block you because they are scared you will report them if they have to cancel a meet

cancellations can and do happen for a variety of genuine reasons

Seriously though, why get wound up by those who block you, concentrate on those that havent and you will find this site a lot more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I do not like profiles that read like a rule book.

Although I have lots of likes and dislikes, I do not have them listed as rules or demands as such, and have input a bit of humour here and there to make it more fun to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think at times people just block as dont wish to here what you have to say .... Thay have there views and thats it .. really . I would not worrie why would you wish to chat to people who dont wish to chat .Do your own thing xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The simple answer and the one people don't like is....because they can.

We all have choices, and I am sure you must have used the block button yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block those I have no intention of knowing or meeting, to prevent wasting each other's time and efforts.

Not my problem if people don't like it! "

+1

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"I block those I have no intention of knowing or meeting, to prevent wasting each other's time and efforts.

Not my problem if people don't like it!

+1"

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