FabSwingers.com forum: Lurkers and demanding men in Clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a visitor to clubs, I've noticed on some occasions that some guys would follow other people, make demands or try to join in without permission. It shows that they must be so desperate and it saddens me that they would have the mindset that clubs means instant sex.

Here are a couple of stories of what I remember on a couple of visits.

Story one

One evening, I'm chatting with my friend by an open bed we were playing on earlier and this Asian looking guy goes up to her and says "I'm going for a smoke and when I get back, I want you on that bed" and she responds "No. You don't tell me what to do" and he walked off. Later on while we were chatting to another friend telling her what happened and she said that she was chatting with him in the hot tub and instantly got out when he started touching her without permission plus playing in the hot tub is not allowed. The three of us decided then to tell the owner what happened and the guy was then removed from the club.

Story two

One day on a day visit, I'm in the fun dungeon with my friend and another guy who is pleasuring her from behind while she is giving me a blowjob and then I noticed this guy with white hair in possibly his 60s walk in, slowly stands next to me and sticks his cock in front of my friend's face so I stop him and say bluntly "Oi! Back off pal!". He instantly backs off and then leaves the dungeon. As we all left the dungeon after playing, that guy was nowhere to be seen so he must have left the club or got kicked out.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few like that. Even with couples that just follow you around. Every room we went in they would turn up at, despite it expressing the fact we weren't interested! It just gets a bit annoying when we are all trying to have fun and people forget the basic etiquette!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've had a few like that. Even with couples that just follow you around. Every room we went in they would turn up at, despite it expressing the fact we weren't interested! It just gets a bit annoying when we are all trying to have fun and people forget the basic etiquette!"

Yeah. It can be annoying. They certainly have no respect for the rules. What is bizarre though is that some people who get kicked out for breaking the rules would then leave a bad review for the club they visited.