FabSwingers.com forum: Dating advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This isn’t related to this site, but thought some of the people are very wise to this specific topic.

So I’ve been talking to this lass that I work with, she is very beautiful, like a 10. I’m very aware that i’d be punching haha.

Anyway so we’ve been talking for nearly 2 months, sometimes she’s very keen and cute and others very cold. At one point I thought she didn’t like me as she hadn’t replied for nearly 2 weeks, but out of the blue calls me a prick as she saw me talking to another lass, completely innocently talking to another lass btw.

Then we begin talking again... She says she wants to go out “sometime” but I have asked her out on a few occasions and is either too busy or avoids the question.

I’m confused to fuck with this hot then cold behaviour.

I have my theories but interested as to see what people think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a bucket full of drama. Move on to the next woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think if someone really wants something then they'll make it happen.

The fact it's gone on so long and you've given her ample opportunity would suggest she maybe just enjoys the attention.

There could of course be other reasons but the only way to know is to ask her outright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk away.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Too princessy... sounds like trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds to me like she wants an online friend.

I don't know the details but could be wrong.

If you're happy with online then all is well - but try and arrange a date and go from there.

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

You've been friendzoned at best.

She's up for a bit of banter as evidenced by the 'I'm the girl you talk to' thing. Body swerving actually going on a date so not really interested in that way, but doesn't want to actually say it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

She doesn't want you, she just wants your attention. Walk away.

Some people do this, it's not a nice way to behave.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah thought so haha.

My theory was she either wasn’t interested and wanted attention, or was seeing other people and keeping me as a back up. But either way not worth it.

Thanks guys ??

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"She doesn't want you, she just wants your attention. Walk away.

Some people do this, it's not a nice way to behave."

Entirely this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yeah thought so haha.

My theory was she either wasn’t interested and wanted attention, or was seeing other people and keeping me as a back up. But either way not worth it.

Thanks guys ??"

Its not worth it. Also don't think of yourself as punching, you're worth just as much as she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds as if she wants you running after her.ignore her and she will soon come looking for you.age old story treat em mean keep em keen lol

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