FabSwingers.com forum: Why are ladies looking for a sugar daddy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m just curious why some ladies on here looking for a sugar daddy? Would love to share some light on this

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Some women just want spoiled, they don’t give away the good stuff for free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To live that easy life

If I was single maybe I’d do the same, who knows. Get enough offers on here anyway

(I wouldn’t use fab though. I’m sure there’s sites for that).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's better to be an older man's darlin' than a young mans slave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want a material return for sex.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Because it's better to be an older man's darlin' than a young mans slave."
My partner says that to me all the time never heard anyone else say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good knickers cost a fortune.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

For as many reasons as people exist.

It doesn't belong on here. Report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing more satisfying than making your own money tbh, nice to be spoilt now and again tho haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I totally agree with you. It’s always nice to be pampered and spoilt in the right ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prostitution

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

If someone is upfront about wanting to be with someone who will spoil them and shower them with gifts then that’s cool with me .

I guess they do it because that is what they want , just like any other like I guess .

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Prostitution "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want a material return for sex. "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I find it abhorrent, especially seeing older men having this as a status 'come and contact your daddy, my kik is …….' makes me

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

"Prostitution "

It’s not prostitution, they are a daddy’s girl, baby girl etc it’s more akin to a relationship being special and treated like a princess is what they are after, they don’t let just anyone get personal men are very fetted and agreement will take a good while so they can both get satisfied

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I find it abhorrent, especially seeing older men having this as a status 'come and contact your daddy, my kik is …….' makes me

The daddy stuff isn't always this dynamic. There are others. (not my thing either)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This thread isbinteresting

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I find it abhorrent, especially seeing older men having this as a status 'come and contact your daddy, my kik is …….' makes me

The daddy stuff isn't always this dynamic. There are others. (not my thing either) "

I know, but these updates come across as desperate to me, ie I can't get a shag, so I will offer to pay whatever you want even if it is a shopping trip to ensure I get one.

That's just how I see it

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Prostitution

Lmao. As long as the price is right! Of course it's prostitution. Dress it up as you like but it's men paying for sex and women offering sex for money.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

Cose it's easy to sell something that u can wash not use it again lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's not something that I have ever sought, or had. I do find it strange when I get messages from men younger than me offering to be my sugar daddy, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want an easy or easier life.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

makes me wonder what people think of my relationship

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"makes me wonder what people think of my relationship

And ours ... yes an age difference ... but certainly not a daddy/ baby thing

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"makes me wonder what people think of my relationship

Your relationship has always come across as one that suits you both in my opinion, never gave any thought to the age difference, I think this is a different subject?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Pretty obvious—I have what you want you have what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting all that one wants for very little effort. Surely the reasons are easy to comprehend.

You do realize that men are popular on cam sites, you can set up an amazon wish list. Once you have your own sugar daddy’s, you may understand the reasoning behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it's better to be an older man's darlin' than a young mans slave.My partner says that to me all the time never heard anyone else say it

Then your partner,like me,has both wisdom and good taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want an older lady but I don’t want a sugar mummy I just like the more experienced woman

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Prostitution

Lmao. As long as the price is right! Of course it's prostitution. Dress it up as you like but it's men paying for sex and women offering sex for money."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prostitution

Lmao. As long as the price is right! Of course it's prostitution. Dress it up as you like but it's men paying for sex and women offering sex for money.

Das it mane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old man is more secure in his skin in life and has more to talk about more experience if he is secure money wise then even better. I've kept my ex husband for years so give me a sugar daddy over that any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just curious why some ladies on here looking for a sugar daddy? Would love to share some light on this

Easy money.

If there is a rich attractive lady out there who would like to lavish me with italian leather motorcycle jackets and carbon fibre rims I'm definitely available too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prostitution

Its literally prostitution its an exchange of goods for a sexual service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it's better to be an older man's darlin' than a young mans slave."

But best of all to be completely independent and free (in the liberated, not financial, sense)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"makes me wonder what people think of my relationship

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You live in the Little House on the Prairie a time before laws, but watch out they might be coming to get you!

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By *mstillere2Man
over a year ago

middleport

It isn't prostitution its more akin to what at one time would be called a life of leisure or a kept woman/man. Prostitutes dont tend to be as picky and have numerous punters where as sugar-babies are more involved with one particular sugar daddy/mummy.

It would probably be better on a site like fetlife than on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think of it as a friend with extra benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't prostitution its more akin to what at one time would be called a life of leisure or a kept woman/man. Prostitutes dont tend to be as picky and have numerous punters where as sugar-babies are more involved with one particular sugar daddy/mummy.

It would probably be better on a site like fetlife than on here though."

Eh, the exchange of sex for money is the very definition of prostitution. Then again, lots of marriages work on the same principle - time for an "each to their own", consenting adults and nobody else getting hurt.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Is there such a thing as a Sugar Mummy? If so, I'd love one - always nice to threat a lady but would love for once to be threated by a woman.

Out of interest, how many guys here, have been treated but a woman? Meal paid for, hotel room paid for? Coffee paid for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as a Sugar Mummy? If so, I'd love one - always nice to threat a lady but would love for once to be threated by a woman.

Out of interest, how many guys here, have been treated but a woman? Meal paid for, hotel room paid for? Coffee paid for...."

Not me

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as a Sugar Mummy? If so, I'd love one - always nice to threat a lady but would love for once to be threated by a woman.

Out of interest, how many guys here, have been treated but a woman? Meal paid for, hotel room paid for? Coffee paid for...."

I've bought a few gentlemen breakfasts or drinks on here before, hate the expectation that a guy has to pay all the time, and yes it makes me feel less like a prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I have a sugar mamma

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Is there such a thing as a Sugar Mummy? If so, I'd love one - always nice to threat a lady but would love for once to be threated by a woman.

Out of interest, how many guys here, have been treated but a woman? Meal paid for, hotel room paid for? Coffee paid for....

I've bought a few gentlemen breakfasts or drinks on here before, hate the expectation that a guy has to pay all the time, and yes it makes me feel less like a prostitute."

I'll get the evening meal if you get breakfast

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Is there such a thing as a Sugar Mummy? If so, I'd love one - always nice to threat a lady but would love for once to be threated by a woman.

Out of interest, how many guys here, have been treated but a woman? Meal paid for, hotel room paid for? Coffee paid for...."

I judge situations and try to pay or split if I think it won't be awkward. A lot of guys don't like this at all. I persist, because it feels like the right thing to do. Failing that, I always order the cheapest thing I can get away with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as a Sugar Mummy? If so, I'd love one - always nice to threat a lady but would love for once to be threated by a woman.

Out of interest, how many guys here, have been treated but a woman? Meal paid for, hotel room paid for? Coffee paid for...."

My husband, all the time! By me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Credit crunch brexit fears?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For as many reasons as people exist.

It doesn't belong on here. Report them. "

Report someone for looking for a sugar daddy. ..is that a crime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone is upfront about wanting to be with someone who will spoil them and shower them with gifts then that’s cool with me .

I guess they do it because that is what they want , just like any other like I guess ."

I agree with u 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For as many reasons as people exist.

It doesn't belong on here. Report them.

Report someone for looking for a sugar daddy. ..is that a crime"

Looking for an exchange of sex for money is against site rules I believe. Whether or not it is a crime is irrelevant.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Because it's a way of being a prostitute without having that label attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it's better to be an older man's darlin' than a young mans slave.My partner says that to me all the time never heard anyone else say it

It's a golden oldie. My dad used to tell me to aim for it. Still waiting......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it's a way of being a prostitute without having that label attached

That's a good way to put it

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Number of reasons...

Some treat the exchange for what it is, sex for material gain

Some like it because it’s a fetish for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money. Duh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would probably be better on a site like fetlife than on here though."

If you take away the money is there still a relationship?

If the answer is no its prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to one right now inbelfast . Age 21. Can’t pay her phone bill . Can we meet?. You don’t have to pay it but it would be appreciated. FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect they want to be spoilt, live the good life that's beyond their own means

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I'd hate if I thought my partner was only with me because of my lack of money

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

It would probably be better on a site like fetlife than on here though.

Exactly, it's not that very long ago, the above was very normal for many marriages.

Whether it was marrying for money, or a step up the class ladder. Many younger (attractive) women ended up married to older (or much older) men.

I think in general this has faded, but there are many aspects of our society that echo those practices and times.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Do you think I could find a sugar daddy I don't have to have any physical contact with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would probably be better on a site like fetlife than on here though."

Escorting then....

Which is prostitution with a crafty little grey area to legalize pimping. It’s more expensive, the girls may be prettier: still prostitution.

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