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Men do you ever feel sexy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cause I certainly don’t ever, if I’m wearing a suit which is fucking rare, I feel like a plum. Jeans I just feel comfy in, A’s with most other clothes. Even when I’m fucking, I feel more grateful than sexy.

So men do you ever feel sexy, or do women have the monopoly on this emotion that I know nothing of ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause I certainly don’t ever, if I’m wearing a suit which is fucking rare, I feel like a plum. Jeans I just feel comfy in, A’s with most other clothes. Even when I’m fucking, I feel more grateful than sexy.

So men do you ever feel sexy, or do women have the monopoly on this emotion that I know nothing of ?! "

Where you off to Tame? In a suit, come on put a photo up

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Good about myself but never felt sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy? No. In a tux is probably the best I'm ever going to look and I don't feel sexy in it.

However, I am adorable.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Hmm not bad I would say I am a acquired taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cause I certainly don’t ever, if I’m wearing a suit which is fucking rare, I feel like a plum. Jeans I just feel comfy in, A’s with most other clothes. Even when I’m fucking, I feel more grateful than sexy.

So men do you ever feel sexy, or do women have the monopoly on this emotion that I know nothing of ?!

Where you off to Tame? In a suit, come on put a photo up "

I always wear one, when I’m doing the big shop in Aldi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One man told me he felt sexy when he knew I was in the mood and it was obvious I wanted him, especially if we were in a place where we couldn't do anything about it. He loved being desired, and who doesn't love that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that you've made me think about it, no, never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep im like the definition but im half d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause I certainly don’t ever, if I’m wearing a suit which is fucking rare, I feel like a plum. Jeans I just feel comfy in, A’s with most other clothes. Even when I’m fucking, I feel more grateful than sexy.

So men do you ever feel sexy, or do women have the monopoly on this emotion that I know nothing of ?!

Where you off to Tame? In a suit, come on put a photo up

I always wear one, when I’m doing the big shop in Aldi. "

Made me laugh quite a lot that did.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been a few occasions, but I’ve always bordered on delusional

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep im like the definition but im half d*unk"

You forgot to tuck your cock and shirt in mate.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Sometimes..if I'm naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tame you should feel sexy with your fabulous butt!! Interesting to read how men feel too , I’ve always assumed that men feel sexy if they’re in the mood and confident!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Out of the gym, freshly showered and in one of my hand made shirts with some decent jeans and good shoes?

Approaching sexual T-rex..

Nah, just kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One man told me he felt sexy when he knew I was in the mood and it was obvious I wanted him, especially if we were in a place where we couldn't do anything about it. He loved being desired, and who doesn't love that? "

I was reading an article earlier about men feeling sexy and they all said it was only when they were desired by someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him."

I still talk about that time a woman called me cute on the train. That was five years ago.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Sexy....no never, sometimes feel comfortable with myself, attractive maybe but never sexy

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him."

I have found that complimenting men leads them, or worse, their partners thinking I am coming on to them. Commonly, it gets batted back as they are unused to accepting compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him."

That's interesting. What about complimenting men where there is absolutely no chance of it being misconstrued as you hitting on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep im like the definition but im half d*unk

You forgot to tuck your cock and shirt in mate. "
bloody details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

I have found that complimenting men leads them, or worse, their partners thinking I am coming on to them. Commonly, it gets batted back as they are unused to accepting compliments.

"

I know what you mean. It can be a tough line to tread. The way I think about it, I could be making someones day by saying something to them.

I told a man at a train station that I like his shoes, the look of confusion and shock on his face said it all!

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Just a tad smexy

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

I have found that complimenting men leads them, or worse, their partners thinking I am coming on to them. Commonly, it gets batted back as they are unused to accepting compliments.

I know what you mean. It can be a tough line to tread. The way I think about it, I could be making someones day by saying something to them.

I told a man at a train station that I like his shoes, the look of confusion and shock on his face said it all!"

I have complimented Fab men. I have been blocked for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

That's interesting. What about complimenting men where there is absolutely no chance of it being misconstrued as you hitting on them? "

I don't see anything wrong with it, I do it at times but from what I've been told not a lot of other people do.

As someone said earlier, some men are so unused to getting compliments that their either miss it completely or are in complete shock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read a message in a forum a while back where a man said he got a compliment from a lady 8 years ago and he still thinks about it when he's feeling low as a pick-me-up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are times where I don’t feel so awful but I don’t think I’ve ever felt sexy. Every now and then, I’ll put something on and think ‘I don’t look half bad in that’ but that’s as far as it goes.

That said, I can at least spend longer than 2 seconds looking at myself now when trying something on so think I’m a bit more comfortable in my own skin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him."

A woman gave my ass 10 out of 10 once when I was playing pool, it just put me off my game and I kept potting the white, feeling sexy effects your cue arm !

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By *rungeguyMan
over a year ago

leeds

No lol

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I've been told ooh you look sexy by female friends but its usually done in a joking kind of way and I've probably said the same to them, I doubt I would say it to a stranger unless I was trying to come on to her and I would probably be d*unk if I used the word sexy

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

All the time because I know my wife thinks I am , and that’s all that matters really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

I have found that complimenting men leads them, or worse, their partners thinking I am coming on to them. Commonly, it gets batted back as they are unused to accepting compliments."

I can relate to that! My friend's boyfriend used to give me compliments about a particular hairstyle or whatever. I always thought it was sweet, but there was no way I'd give him a compliment in case my friend took it the wrong way.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

A woman gave my ass 10 out of 10 once when I was playing pool, it just put me off my game and I kept potting the white, feeling sexy effects your cue arm ! "

I once got a 'nice balls' comment whilst playing pool...

...alas, it was more to do with my configuration of seven yellows than anything else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

I have found that complimenting men leads them, or worse, their partners thinking I am coming on to them. Commonly, it gets batted back as they are unused to accepting compliments.

I know what you mean. It can be a tough line to tread. The way I think about it, I could be making someones day by saying something to them.

I told a man at a train station that I like his shoes, the look of confusion and shock on his face said it all!"

Some people actually don't know how to take a compliment. When I receive one I smile and say thank you. It makes my day as everyone likes to be paid a compliment. Nice breasts btw x

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

I have found that complimenting men leads them, or worse, their partners thinking I am coming on to them. Commonly, it gets batted back as they are unused to accepting compliments.

I know what you mean. It can be a tough line to tread. The way I think about it, I could be making someones day by saying something to them.

I told a man at a train station that I like his shoes, the look of confusion and shock on his face said it all!

Some people actually don't know how to take a compliment. When I receive one I smile and say thank you. It makes my day as everyone likes to be paid a compliment. Nice breasts btw x "

How do short arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quite a few women describe themselves as sexy on their profiles, if a bloke did this you’d either think he was full of himself or a totally knobhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to use the term "hot" when I mean sexy for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a suit pretty much everyday but feel about as sexy as a potato

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel sexy , weather in my work cloths and boots or in my shorts and t shirt with trainers on ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I have ever felt “sexy”.

I hope I have looked sexy - in a suit, wearing a kilt, etc but I don’t think I have felt sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t do the just wearing a towel in clubs either!

Feels a bit weird

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think your sexy op and i rang someone today just he would talk to me in his sexy voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

That's interesting. What about complimenting men where there is absolutely no chance of it being misconstrued as you hitting on them?

I don't see anything wrong with it, I do it at times but from what I've been told not a lot of other people do.

As someone said earlier, some men are so unused to getting compliments that their either miss it completely or are in complete shock."

On the occasions I get a compliment, I just feel sightly lembarrassed. I'm constantly horny, but I never feel sexy, ie damn I'm sexy , how can women resist me?.. If that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only feel sexy when I’ve just had an hair cut by my favourite hair dresser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

That's interesting. What about complimenting men where there is absolutely no chance of it being misconstrued as you hitting on them?

I don't see anything wrong with it, I do it at times but from what I've been told not a lot of other people do.

As someone said earlier, some men are so unused to getting compliments that their either miss it completely or are in complete shock."

I know there's nothing wrong with it. I meant it's only one reason why women generally don't give men compliments. There must be many other reasons.

I compliment my nephew and my friend's son, just as much as I compliment my nieces and my friend's daughter.

It's kinda sad that men in general aren't used to people complimenting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really thought about it tbh, but I’d say I’ve never felt sexy nor have I ever desired to feel sexy. I don’t think feeling sexy is much of a thing for most men, I think i can speak for a lot of men when I say we prefer to physically feel something we find sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When another man's woman comes onto me in front of him then I know I'm pulling the right stuff and feeling sexy as fuck knowing what the future holds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Not all the time, admittedly.

It's hard to feel sexy while you're taking a dos.

Sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting.."

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy. "

Totally agree and supported by poster above who suggested that if a man describes himself in his profile as being sexy, it comes off as bellendish, while for a woman it's perfectly acceptable..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

Totally agree and supported by poster above who suggested that if a man describes himself in his profile as being sexy, it comes off as bellendish, while for a woman it's perfectly acceptable.. "

Ironically, I feel the least sexy when all dressed up in lingerie and heels and perfume.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never felt sexy.

Hood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

Totally agree and supported by poster above who suggested that if a man describes himself in his profile as being sexy, it comes off as bellendish, while for a woman it's perfectly acceptable..

Ironically, I feel the least sexy when all dressed up in lingerie and heels and perfume. "

That's fucked up! As is OP not feeling sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

Totally agree and supported by poster above who suggested that if a man describes himself in his profile as being sexy, it comes off as bellendish, while for a woman it's perfectly acceptable..

Ironically, I feel the least sexy when all dressed up in lingerie and heels and perfume. "

Hepatica - gorgeous profile pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never felt sexy.

Hood"

Have you ever felt hot or desirable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him.

I have found that complimenting men leads them, or worse, their partners thinking I am coming on to them. Commonly, it gets batted back as they are unused to accepting compliments.

I know what you mean. It can be a tough line to tread. The way I think about it, I could be making someones day by saying something to them.

I told a man at a train station that I like his shoes, the look of confusion and shock on his face said it all!

Some people actually don't know how to take a compliment. When I receive one I smile and say thank you. It makes my day as everyone likes to be paid a compliment. Nice breasts btw x

How do short arse "

Hey Up Private parts.. Hope you are doing ok my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I look on the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

Totally agree and supported by poster above who suggested that if a man describes himself in his profile as being sexy, it comes off as bellendish, while for a woman it's perfectly acceptable..

Ironically, I feel the least sexy when all dressed up in lingerie and heels and perfume.

Hepatica - gorgeous profile pics! "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause I certainly don’t ever, if I’m wearing a suit which is fucking rare, I feel like a plum. Jeans I just feel comfy in, A’s with most other clothes. Even when I’m fucking, I feel more grateful than sexy.

So men do you ever feel sexy, or do women have the monopoly on this emotion that I know nothing of ?! "

I would never say I feel sexy as just don’t see myself that way but sometimes I feel a lot better about what I’m wearing and how I look and think I scrub up better

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Not sure felt sexy but assured and confident..

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Not sure felt sexy but assured and confident..

"

I think that's the definition of sexy. That's how it feels to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the Manchester Lounge Social. I felt rather sexy when I was there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sexy when I'm laughing or having a good time in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are some group hugs in order?

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By *litstimulousMan
over a year ago

Swindon

You should just wear tight boxers and an unbuttoned waistcoat over that torso and go clubbing op, if you don't feel sexy then I'd get a dressing gown and slippers and just watch tele

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally, then I remember I'm sat in my lounge in my dressing gown and socks trying to retrieve the sticky Haribo from my pocket

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are some group hugs in order?"

Depends who’s in my group.

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I think it’s sad that guys don’t feel sexy. As has been said though it’s sometimes hard to give a guy a compliment if you don’t want him to think your coming into him.

I’m amazed you don’t feel sexy OP as you are after all incredibly sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 46 and fitter and feel better than I’ve felt about myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never, i dont think i can do sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never felt sexy (male).

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I read a message in a forum a while back where a man said he got a compliment from a lady 8 years ago and he still thinks about it when he's feeling low as a pick-me-up."

That’s really sad!

I very frequently compliment people - both Male and female - and I’m rarely if ever coming on to them!

If I find something attractive about someone than more often than not I’ll tell them!

For instance - I often message people to compliment them on a picture they’ve posted that I like!

Never occurred to me that others may not do this? Xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"No, never, i dont think i can do sexy"

Bollocks!

On the occasions I’ve seen/met you you’ve definitely looked sexy!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Occasionally, then I remember I'm sat in my lounge in my dressing gown and socks trying to retrieve the sticky Haribo from my pocket "

Not sure what the top of your face looks like - but that body and smile is definitely sexy!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Out of the gym, freshly showered and in one of my hand made shirts with some decent jeans and good shoes?

Approaching sexual T-rex..

Nah, just kidding "

Uh, is it warm in here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt that I ever looked or felt sexy.

Cute of course but never sexy.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think sexy and confident are two sides of the same coin. I've only just worked out feeling sexy myself, forgive me if I'm stepping on male turf.

But to me sexy is desirable to others, doing well at that. Confidence is a similar thing, but it comes from yourself and doesn't involve others. So if I put on a banging outfit and my favourite lipstick, I can feel confident looking in the mirror, but looking at how others look at me, that becomes sexy. If that makes sense.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I think some men have the idea that they aren't sexy is due to not getting enough, or any, compliments.

I asked a bunch of my female friends if they ever gave a man compliments (their partner didn't count). The results were a resounding 0. They never gave a man who wasn't their partner compliments.

I asked similar to my male friends, if they ever received compliments from someone that they weren't in a relationship with or related to. 2 of them said a work colleague gave them a compliment ONCE.

I think we're far too mean with giving compliments to men. I can see a reason why we don't, it can be seen as hitting on him."

This is totally true. I am sure guys who are in that top tier of handsome get complimentary remarks made fairly often but for the rest of us the best we ever get is either a remark that we look like we're maybe slightly less fat than on the previous occasion, have chosen a nice scented aftershave or have dressed up to a high standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be more compliments!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There should be more compliments! "

The guys I give compliments to don't like it. I'm not stopping, but it's hard sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy. "

Women are less visual than men so theres far less of a market for male sexy clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing turns me on more than a guy in a suit, i hate wearing stockings or bodystocking but love a guy getting turned on by it haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

Women are less visual than men so theres far less of a market for male sexy clothes"

That's such a myth that women are less visual. We're just better at being discreet about it.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"One man told me he felt sexy when he knew I was in the mood and it was obvious I wanted him, especially if we were in a place where we couldn't do anything about it. He loved being desired, and who doesn't love that?

I was reading an article earlier about men feeling sexy and they all said it was only when they were desired by someone. "

Not just desired by someone, but people that you in turn find desirable. Being desired by people you're not into but ignored by those you are can be quite damaging to both self esteem and the way you perceive yourself. But if the people you like, like you back then it is a very validating and fulfilling feeling especially when it's a raw chemistry/pheromone thing. You know that spontaneous across the dancefloor thing where you're checking someone out and they turn round and make eye contact, size you up, and the next thing you know you're playing tongue twister... That is an amazing feeling. But unfortunately the older I get (and I so rarely go out dancing these days - note to self: rectify) the less that happens then you get out of the mindset where you're used to it happening... And yeah you feel less sexy, for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

Women are less visual than men so theres far less of a market for male sexy clothes

That's such a myth that women are less visual. We're just better at being discreet about it. "

Ok, well the fact your discreet about it means theres no market for it some companies dont cater too it :p

Next time your in a focus group dont be discree :p

Id never day i feel sexy though. I know if i look good in q certain pic but thats looking at a pic not myaelf at the time

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I compliment men all the time. Not because I want to grapple with their boy bits but just because I want to tell them. It’s nice to receive a genuine compliment no matter what sex you are.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"One man told me he felt sexy when he knew I was in the mood and it was obvious I wanted him, especially if we were in a place where we couldn't do anything about it. He loved being desired, and who doesn't love that?

I was reading an article earlier about men feeling sexy and they all said it was only when they were desired by someone.

Not just desired by someone, but people that you in turn find desirable. Being desired by people you're not into but ignored by those you are can be quite damaging to both self esteem and the way you perceive yourself. But if the people you like, like you back then it is a very validating and fulfilling feeling especially when it's a raw chemistry/pheromone thing. You know that spontaneous across the dancefloor thing where you're checking someone out and they turn round and make eye contact, size you up, and the next thing you know you're playing tongue twister... That is an amazing feeling. But unfortunately the older I get (and I so rarely go out dancing these days - note to self: rectify) the less that happens then you get out of the mindset where you're used to it happening... And yeah you feel less sexy, for sure. "

That's true. I certainly don't feel sexy when random people stop me in the street and demand my time because of my clothing or to inform me about parts of my face that have been present since birth Somewhere between irritated and threatened depending on how they go about it.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Feeling sexy is a combination of several things., well for me it is anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good about myself but never felt sexy

"
same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

Women are less visual than men so theres far less of a market for male sexy clothes"

According to who, that women are less visual ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I compliment men all the time. Not because I want to grapple with their boy bits but just because I want to tell them. It’s nice to receive a genuine compliment no matter what sex you are. "

Absolutely. Not all compliments have to be about their physical appearance either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a picture on my profile that I took in 2014 that when I saw it may be the first time I’d felt sexy since I was in my early 20’s. Taking photos has helped me to feel sexier. I actually believe I am quite sexy for an old has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

Women are less visual than men so theres far less of a market for male sexy clothes

According to who, that women are less visual ?"

Theres lots of studies but its also just largely apprent throughout society.

Lack if male sexual clothing, few straigh male strip clubs, lower porn consumption etc etc.

If men in sexy ubderwear was a big market it would br catered for

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

Na

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though."

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them "

Naked is sexiest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With you on this op, never feel sexy but always grateful lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clothes don't make me feel sexy. I'm not sure much does unless it's the look in the eyes of another where I know that despite all my inadequacies they see something in me that lights them and me up.

Is that some sort of reflected sexy, or just a bit weird...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause I certainly don’t ever, if I’m wearing a suit which is fucking rare, I feel like a plum. Jeans I just feel comfy in, A’s with most other clothes. Even when I’m fucking, I feel more grateful than sexy.

So men do you ever feel sexy, or do women have the monopoly on this emotion that I know nothing of ?! "

your obviously not fucking the right person

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them "

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all in the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter. "

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy.

Women are less visual than men so theres far less of a market for male sexy clothes

According to who, that women are less visual ?"

I’m very visual...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its all in the head"

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"One man told me he felt sexy when he knew I was in the mood and it was obvious I wanted him, especially if we were in a place where we couldn't do anything about it. He loved being desired, and who doesn't love that? "

This. Feeling sexy fir me is about being desired by someone. The sexiest I’ve felt is being wanted by another mans woman and never doing anything about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is feeling sexy mainly a female phenomenon? That's very interesting..

I think the media, porn and lingerie designers have a lot to answer for in the whole 'sexy' thing.

Women's clothing have entire ranges that are meant to make women feel sexy but on the whole mens underwear is just...functional. The closest 'sexy' underwear men have is resigned to the novelty items or the stag party stuff.

It was difficult enough trying to find sexy underwear for my ex-bf. There's nice underwear but not really sexy stuff.

Men aren't shown in the media as sexy but rather as hunky or 'manly'.

Men should be shown as being sexy. "

Wasn't there a whole poster campaign by calvin klein or something for sexy men in boxers. Holding puppies and babies and things. Is hunky and manly and sexy all the same

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Very rarely do I feel naturally sexy without any other stimulation, and certainly not in the ways I might have done when I was younger - put me in a sexy situation though and that is of course somewhat different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me "

Typical sexy wear does nothing to make me feel sexy, it feels an act Im playing out just because those clothes are on.

I can feel sexier in just vests and pants as Im more relaxed anyway so its a nore natural state to be in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id be very unhappy if a sexual partner felt "grateful"

fuck me id question myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause I certainly don’t ever, if I’m wearing a suit which is fucking rare, I feel like a plum. Jeans I just feel comfy in, A’s with most other clothes. Even when I’m fucking, I feel more grateful than sexy.

So men do you ever feel sexy, or do women have the monopoly on this emotion that I know nothing of ?! "

Nope do I shite

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me

Typical sexy wear does nothing to make me feel sexy, it feels an act Im playing out just because those clothes are on.

I can feel sexier in just vests and pants as Im more relaxed anyway so its a nore natural state to be in"

Vest and pants can be sexy...just not on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me

Typical sexy wear does nothing to make me feel sexy, it feels an act Im playing out just because those clothes are on.

I can feel sexier in just vests and pants as Im more relaxed anyway so its a nore natural state to be in

Vest and pants can be sexy...just not on me "

LION,,,,RUN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me

Typical sexy wear does nothing to make me feel sexy, it feels an act Im playing out just because those clothes are on.

I can feel sexier in just vests and pants as Im more relaxed anyway so its a nore natural state to be in"

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me

Typical sexy wear does nothing to make me feel sexy, it feels an act Im playing out just because those clothes are on.

I can feel sexier in just vests and pants as Im more relaxed anyway so its a nore natural state to be in

Me too. "

im too sexy for my vest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OxZp4VEopcE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me

Typical sexy wear does nothing to make me feel sexy, it feels an act Im playing out just because those clothes are on.

I can feel sexier in just vests and pants as Im more relaxed anyway so its a nore natural state to be in"

I'm sexiest in the nude, and I have a horrible body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not sure what sexy is for a guy? Confident, strutting?

Lost a lot of weight last year (creeping back on, damn it!) and at one point, in a tight fitted shirt and suit, I did feel rather pleased with the way I looked and had a certain swagger about me.

As others have said here though, compliments are rare as hen's teeth - an attractive female chugger greeted me with "hey Mr nice eyes" 3 years ago but I presumed it had an ulterior motive! And one fab meet a few years ago said "do you know you're an extremely handsome man?". Nice to hear, but that's pretty much it over 40 years of life!

My OH (on our couple profile, before the Fab moral police descend!) says I'm gorgeous and that's what counts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure about feeling sexy , but when I'm on top of a hill with pooch in my walking gear I feel happy , confident and free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have to organise a mass hug-a-thon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may have to organise a mass hug-a-thon!"

Can you host in Toronto please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body is very average so nope. I kinda get there when I wear one of my tailored shirts since they fit really well and are made of a thick fabric but otherwise nah I just feel 'normal'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me

Typical sexy wear does nothing to make me feel sexy, it feels an act Im playing out just because those clothes are on.

I can feel sexier in just vests and pants as Im more relaxed anyway so its a nore natural state to be in"

I've never really got a kick out of seeing women all trussed up in lingerie. It all looks a little forced and Ann summers outfits are a dime a dozen on Fab.

I much prefer to see her in her real clothes. Hoodies, jeans, shorts, gym kit, uniform, work wear, dressing gown, pyjamas. I dunno why, it just is.

I told a lie earlier (shame on me). I forgot about Cixi's rare and random cameo's, so yes, clothes can make a difference if I'm already feeling a bit sexy to start off with.

Like Tame, I'm not a fan of a suit. I don't care if women like it or not. I feel like a dog with a leash or noose around my neck. I feel like a fraud, conforming for the "Man". My boys think I look like James Bond or a Bodyguard, which makes me chuckle, but I feel anything but sexy in a shirt and tie.. ripping it off at the end of the day.. cooking in an unbuttoned shirt, boxers and dancing to James Brown.. Sexy Ass Motherfucker Mode - Engaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me

Typical sexy wear does nothing to make me feel sexy, it feels an act Im playing out just because those clothes are on.

I can feel sexier in just vests and pants as Im more relaxed anyway so its a nore natural state to be in

I've never really got a kick out of seeing women all trussed up in lingerie. It all looks a little forced and Ann summers outfits are a dime a dozen on Fab.

I much prefer to see her in her real clothes. Hoodies, jeans, shorts, gym kit, uniform, work wear, dressing gown, pyjamas. I dunno why, it just is.

I told a lie earlier (shame on me). I forgot about Cixi's rare and random cameo's, so yes, clothes can make a difference if I'm already feeling a bit sexy to start off with.

Like Tame, I'm not a fan of a suit. I don't care if women like it or not. I feel like a dog with a leash or noose around my neck. I feel like a fraud, conforming for the "Man". My boys think I look like James Bond or a Bodyguard, which makes me chuckle, but I feel anything but sexy in a shirt and tie.. ripping it off at the end of the day.. cooking in an unbuttoned shirt, boxers and dancing to James Brown.. Sexy Ass Motherfucker Mode - Engaged "

Its all about the agent provocateur stuff.

I doo like well fitting strappy lingerie on a woman theres something very sexy about bold straight lines overlaid on soft feminine curves.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I've always associated suits with unsexy situations like office work, funerals and court dates. And I don't usually feel particularly sexy in those types of places.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"

For instance - I often message people to compliment them on a picture they’ve posted that I like!

Never occurred to me that others may not do this? Xx"

I did this when I first joined the site but stopped because I didn't like how it was either usually ignored unread or read deleted, even the odd block... Just counterproductive really.

I don't even really message people any more now. I figure if anyone's interested they'll let me know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell hubby he looks sexy all the time. To me he does. Normally when he’s in a kilt or leather. It works for me !

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Good about myself but never felt sexy

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Exactly my feelings too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. When I'm happy, when I'm dancing, when I'm fucking, when I make eye contact for the right reasons, when I flirt, when someone flirts back. I didn't always.

How I'm dressed rarely has anything to do with it though.

I'm the same. Men ask me if I'm going to wear something sexy and I say them

I think clothing can enhance it. Like recently someone was talking about having a fat day. I sometimes have hot days. If I'm wearing certain things, that can make me feel hotter.

Clothing doesn't make me feel sexy. I can wear lingerie and feel nothing until a man touches me

Typical sexy wear does nothing to make me feel sexy, it feels an act Im playing out just because those clothes are on.

I can feel sexier in just vests and pants as Im more relaxed anyway so its a nore natural state to be in

I've never really got a kick out of seeing women all trussed up in lingerie. It all looks a little forced and Ann summers outfits are a dime a dozen on Fab.

I much prefer to see her in her real clothes. Hoodies, jeans, shorts, gym kit, uniform, work wear, dressing gown, pyjamas. I dunno why, it just is.

I told a lie earlier (shame on me). I forgot about Cixi's rare and random cameo's, so yes, clothes can make a difference if I'm already feeling a bit sexy to start off with.

Like Tame, I'm not a fan of a suit. I don't care if women like it or not. I feel like a dog with a leash or noose around my neck. I feel like a fraud, conforming for the "Man". My boys think I look like James Bond or a Bodyguard, which makes me chuckle, but I feel anything but sexy in a shirt and tie.. ripping it off at the end of the day.. cooking in an unbuttoned shirt, boxers and dancing to James Brown.. Sexy Ass Motherfucker Mode - Engaged "

Suits are too corporate for me to find sexy. I don't feel like I'm talking to the actual person, just a facade. The same with women with lots of makeup, lingerie, manicures and botox. I feel sexiest when I'm myself and not hiding behind a costume. Not everyone who wears suits/heavy makeup is hiding behind a costume, just that some are and I can't always tell the difference.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey reading this thread with so many blokes saying they don’t feel sexy, I’m thinking of getting my head checked out for delusions. I do feel sexy quite regularly these days, but now wonder if I have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey reading this thread with so many likes saying they don’t feel sexy, I’m thinking of getting my head checked out for delusions. I do feel sexy quite regularly these days, but now wonder if I have a problem "

As far as I can see feeling sexy just means feeling attractive. I don't think some people on here realise that! Maybe they are unable to think of 'sexy' as a masculine experience and consider it a feminine thing only?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey reading this thread with so many likes saying they don’t feel sexy, I’m thinking of getting my head checked out for delusions. I do feel sexy quite regularly these days, but now wonder if I have a problem

As far as I can see feeling sexy just means feeling attractive. I don't think some people on here realise that! Maybe they are unable to think of 'sexy' as a masculine experience and consider it a feminine thing only? "

Toxic femininity! Due to womens general unwillingness to show overt sexual attraction due to looks/actions men lack a trained action to "act sexy" or feel sexy.

Where as you just just have to drop a pencil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey reading this thread with so many likes saying they don’t feel sexy, I’m thinking of getting my head checked out for delusions. I do feel sexy quite regularly these days, but now wonder if I have a problem

As far as I can see feeling sexy just means feeling attractive. I don't think some people on here realise that! Maybe they are unable to think of 'sexy' as a masculine experience and consider it a feminine thing only?

Toxic femininity! Due to womens general unwillingness to show overt sexual attraction due to looks/actions men lack a trained action to "act sexy" or feel sexy.

Where as you just just have to drop a pencil

"

I beg your pardon? Who are you talking to? You should know very Well that if I fancy someone they will be told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey reading this thread with so many likes saying they don’t feel sexy, I’m thinking of getting my head checked out for delusions. I do feel sexy quite regularly these days, but now wonder if I have a problem

As far as I can see feeling sexy just means feeling attractive. I don't think some people on here realise that! Maybe they are unable to think of 'sexy' as a masculine experience and consider it a feminine thing only?

Toxic femininity! Due to womens general unwillingness to show overt sexual attraction due to looks/actions men lack a trained action to "act sexy" or feel sexy.

Where as you just just have to drop a pencil

I beg your pardon? Who are you talking to? You should know very Well that if I fancy someone they will be told "

Thus risking the undesirable labels of slut, slag, nympho etc. Not that I care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey reading this thread with so many likes saying they don’t feel sexy, I’m thinking of getting my head checked out for delusions. I do feel sexy quite regularly these days, but now wonder if I have a problem

As far as I can see feeling sexy just means feeling attractive. I don't think some people on here realise that! Maybe they are unable to think of 'sexy' as a masculine experience and consider it a feminine thing only?

Toxic femininity! Due to womens general unwillingness to show overt sexual attraction due to looks/actions men lack a trained action to "act sexy" or feel sexy.

Where as you just just have to drop a pencil

I beg your pardon? Who are you talking to? You should know very Well that if I fancy someone they will be told "

Haha

But if you think about it over the course of human history, a woman who was able to "act sexy" could achive a better mate and have better offspring more able to survive than a comparable woman so women were sexually selected to be "sexy" in thier behaviours. So broadly to encourage that feeling sexy feels good.

But men historically would not increase thier chances by acting sexy. They would increase thier chances by being a better a provider .

Its shown in the quick thought of how does a man or woman try to impress a potential.mate.

Traditionally a woman will put on nice clothes and make up and alter her actions slightly (yes we know your working us when you keep touching oyr arms )

And a man traditionally would demonstrate his ability to provide with say a fancy meal out and paying. As thats what instinctively increases his chances.

These days its all less applicable so you're down to people dping what feels good or "what they want" as they like to put it.

Which is still the fairly traditional way by large because thats what we're wired to do with dopamine hits. But with more scope for individuality as its less important in our lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, a woman acting sexy cast doubt onto the true paternity of her offspring. Attractive yet chaste women were the desirable mates because men didn't want to spend time and resources raising DNA that wasn't his. You've got it all backwards my young friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, a woman acting sexy cast doubt onto the true paternity of her offspring. Attractive yet chaste women were the desirable mates because men didn't want to spend time and resources raising DNA that wasn't his. You've got it all backwards my young friend. "

Rhink less abour the shory Victorian period that dominates our local culture and kore the sum of the 12 thousand years of civilization.

Sexy outfits arw universal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also think less aristocratic.

Do you think the average man of england was looking for a chaste and meek girl or do you think he was trying to throw a shilling down the cleavage of the bawdy barmaid at the local tavern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also think less aristocratic.

Do you think the average man of england was looking for a chaste and meek girl or do you think he was trying to throw a shilling down the cleavage of the bawdy barmaid at the local tavern"

That control of women's sexuality occurred long before the victorians. And women today are still being shaped and moulded from birth by that cultural conditioning. The average man of England may have been happy to throw a shilling down the cleavage of a bawdy barmaid but I bet he wouldn't be too happy about raising her sprogs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hate suits and I refuse to wear one just to get a shag. I’d rather be comfy, rocking double denim and have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate suits and I refuse to wear one just to get a shag. I’d rather be comfy, rocking double denim and have a wank. "
suits are very comfy give me a sence of self confidence too theres power in wearing a suit well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause I certainly don’t ever, if I’m wearing a suit which is fucking rare, I feel like a plum. Jeans I just feel comfy in, A’s with most other clothes. Even when I’m fucking, I feel more grateful than sexy.

So men do you ever feel sexy, or do women have the monopoly on this emotion that I know nothing of ?! "

Nope never have at all not even remotely attractive at times either

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By *appyhumper123Man
over a year ago

hull

Never thought about it, but nope

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