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By *bwplaydate OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

Would any guys or gals on here feel comfortable giving anonymous answers to a few questions regarding female on male domestic violence (their own experiences) for an ongoing study?

Absolutely confidential - no names required etc.

Just getting an idea to see if they'd be an interest, let's see if I get any replies. Cheers

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Personal experiences often get deleted by mods.

Don't forget this is a public forum - it can be viewed by non-members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U can PM me and ask if u like

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By *bwplaydate OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel


"Personal experiences often get deleted by mods.

Don't forget this is a public forum - it can be viewed by non-members.

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Very true, so to clarify, I'm only interested in getting an idea of if there would be a response, not for people's personal experiences to be put here. Although I suspect they'd be well within the rules to do so as long as names etc were redacted - just like any other personal experiences in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So this is a survey to see if people would be willing to fill out a survey whoch may or may not be posted at some point in the future when everyone will have forgotten thw pre-survey survey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it for?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Personal experiences often get deleted by mods.

Don't forget this is a public forum - it can be viewed by non-members.

Very true, so to clarify, I'm only interested in getting an idea of if there would be a response, not for people's personal experiences to be put here. Although I suspect they'd be well within the rules to do so as long as names etc were redacted - just like any other personal experiences in the forum."

I think a discussion about female on male DVA, which does happen, is fine. However, a survey, for some unknown reason, on such a sensitive issue is a tricky concept.

What is the survey question?

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By *bwplaydate OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel


"So this is a survey to see if people would be willing to fill out a survey whoch may or may not be posted at some point in the future when everyone will have forgotten thw pre-survey survey?"

Nope, it's an attempt to see if people are more prepared within this anonymous and generally open environment, to share qualitative experiences as there is a large gap in the data in this area - something that I am already working on.

If people reply then good, if they don't then that also an indication too.

Hope that helps

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By *bwplaydate OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel


"What is it for? "

I'm already in the middle of a research proposal that's looking at similarities and differences between male and female experienceso of DV. There's a number of aims within it and if anyone genuinely wants to see a redacted copy (it's 29 pages long) then I'll reply to those individuals privately.

Again, just to clarify, I'm only looking to see if people in the forum would be willing to talk privately about their experiences and if this would be a useful avenue to explore.

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why are you doing it? Is it your job? Can you prove that?

What will the survey or results be used for?

Is it a commissioned project? If so by whom?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What is it for?

I'm already in the middle of a research proposal that's looking at similarities and differences between male and female experienceso of DV. There's a number of aims within it and if anyone genuinely wants to see a redacted copy (it's 29 pages long) then I'll reply to those individuals privately.

Again, just to clarify, I'm only looking to see if people in the forum would be willing to talk privately about their experiences and if this would be a useful avenue to explore.

Cheers"

Are you also looking at male on male domestic and sexual violence and abuse?

I see the need for the qualitative work on the differences between male and female experiences. I have also found little on male on male because it is often coded alongside the huge amount of general male on male violence.

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By *bwplaydate OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel


"What is it for?

Are you also looking at male on male domestic and sexual violence and abuse?

I see the need for the qualitative work on the differences between male and female experiences. I have also found little on male on male because it is often coded alongside the huge amount of general male on male violence.

"

This proposal only involved male vs female experiences. Buy it agree, the male victim statistics are really messed up and much more work is required in all areas.

It's all about developing a larger knowledge base. I think as a portal, this site is a possible untapped source and because people can send what they want to me anonymously, they don't need to worry about details being published or their indenting being known as face to face interviews always fail to get the interviewee's fully honest contribution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is a survey to see if people would be willing to fill out a survey whoch may or may not be posted at some point in the future when everyone will have forgotten thw pre-survey survey?

Nope, it's an attempt to see if people are more prepared within this anonymous and generally open environment, to share qualitative experiences as there is a large gap in the data in this area - something that I am already working on.

If people reply then good, if they don't then that also an indication too.

Hope that helps "

Thid place isnt anonymous in anyway shape kr form.

Reddit is more anonymous and has mkre data on this subject than you could ever read.

You sound like your trying to make this sound professional. But your just looking for anecdotes not data?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP I doubt very much that people would be willing to participate from fabswingers and you may do better trying to recruit people from other areas.

There are specific forums online for domestic abuse which may be a better place to look.

I'm not allowed to post a link but if you google "hidden hurt" you will find a wealth of information on domestic abuse and a forum.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

On a public forum no

However I will say its not a nice thing to happen either way around in any shape or from that it happens, as there are many forms.

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