FabSwingers.com forum: Am I wrong

By *entlemenpip OP Man
over a year ago

not far

So I've had someone message me wanting to meet I'm on the verge of saying yes when they drop that they want to fuck raw this is something I don't do when meeting people for all kinds of reasons and apparently I'm the one in the wrong by the responses I've got am i

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Of course you're not wrong, they are your boundaries. Block the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not!! You are not in the wrong at all.

Danish x

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not at all!

I dont go bare back, even if it's someone I trust a lot just not worth the risk really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a grown up. You make your own choices. Why would you even question if you're wrong?

It's your body and you are responsible for your own safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way would I.

Its your body its your rules

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Stick to your boundaries.

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By *entlemenpip OP Man
over a year ago

not far

They claimed that because they had it as a interest on there profile I should of known before replying to the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They claimed that because they had it as a interest on there profile I should of known before replying to the message "

Just because we may have an interest in something certainly doesn't mean we will do/want that with everyone we meet.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"They claimed that because they had it as a interest on there profile I should of known before replying to the message "

So why were you on the verge of meeting them? Surely you would have said no from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They claimed that because they had it as a interest on there profile I should of known before replying to the message "

We have anal on ours, doesn’t mean that I’m going to let any man who we meet have anal with me. It’s an interest, not a given.

You’re right to stick to your guns here OP. Your body, your rules x

Viv x

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"They claimed that because they had it as a interest on there profile I should of known before replying to the message "

Ignore and move on ... no point engaging in anything further with them as whatever you say, you'd be wrong

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"They claimed that because they had it as a interest on there profile I should of known before replying to the message "

Just because its listed as on interest, doesn't mean it has to happen or you should expect it too.

It's a persons right to choose what they do, and shouldn't be abused for declining an activity

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

No , I don’t think you are wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Stick to your guns.

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By *entlemenpip OP Man
over a year ago

not far

"They claimed that because they had it as a interest on there profile I should of known before replying to the message

So why were you on the verge of meeting them? Surely you would have said no from the start."

Because it was never said that they expected it from the off

I respectfully said I don't do that sorry and they went nuts.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"They claimed that because they had it as a interest on there profile I should of known before replying to the message

So why were you on the verge of meeting them? Surely you would have said no from the start.

Because it was never said that they expected it from the off

I respectfully said I don't do that sorry and they went nuts. "

So as others have said,just block and forget. That's why it's always good to have a chat or social meet to make sure everyone is compatible

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By *entlemenpip OP Man
over a year ago

not far

They have been blocked but it got me thinking hence the question to you all

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Obviously, you are not in the wrong, thankfully you didn't meet them, otherwise that could have been awkward, knowing what you know now.

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