FabSwingers.com forum: Men with pics of women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else find it odd that a fair few number of fellas on here have pics of women (sometimes lots of different ones) on their profile, and i don’t mean of them and a woman entwined or her pleasuring him, just a pic of her lying naked or with a close up of vag/ass with a toy in her, but no mention of a reg fwb set up etc?

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

It just makes me laugh and then avoid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It just makes me laugh and then avoid. "

Smarter person than we are! Ha xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It just makes me laugh and then avoid. "

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else find it odd that a fair few number of fellas on here have pics of women (sometimes lots of different ones) on their profile, and i don’t mean of them and a woman entwined or her pleasuring him, just a pic of her lying naked or with a close up of vag/ass with a toy in her, but no mention of a reg fwb set up etc?

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and?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely they should have a couple's profile ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website"

I look at profiles as to what they say about how someone might treat me. If there's a photo of an unknown woman on a male profile... might that be me if I meet this person? Does she know? Does she consent?

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website"

Very true indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

and?"

Well they’re generating attention for themselves when it could be someone nothing to do with the site/what’s on offer? What’s it got to do with their profile etc?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website

Really well said...

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Yes to avoiding but when I see men's profiles where *every* single pic is at least 95% random woman - with maybe an inch of cock or a finger featured in a blink and you'll miss it fashion - I am well and truly baffled. I mean, if a man wants to attract women, how on earth is that supposed to help? ... you have no idea what he looks like, *and* you also have the whole issue of wondering if he's got permission to display those pics. Just very odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standby lads. Another one telling you what you can and can’t have on your profiles.

All you need is someone to say 'I use it as a filter' and we have Fab Forum Bingo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more amazed that a photo of a woman gets past photo mods when it doesn't even have the guy in the picture.

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Its the guys that have photos of naked women and you can just tell that there taken in secret and then listed on here its just so obvious surprised they get passed

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"It just makes me laugh and then avoid. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its the guys that have photos of naked women and you can just tell that there taken in secret and then listed on here its just so obvious surprised they get passed"

How can u tell

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Its the guys that have photos of naked women and you can just tell that there taken in secret and then listed on here its just so obvious surprised they get passed

How can u tell"

Well the woman is in the shower paying no attention or its a,sneaky pic of female by a,wardrobe about to dress and also does not know she is being photographed fir example, dame as beach shots most likely someone they have never met

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

No it's not that strange. This is a site for meeting people for recreational fun. It would seem fine to show that these meetings do happen & mutual enjoyment flows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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isn't that weird how dare they

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I generally think that the body shown in photos should predominantly, if not totally, be.the user. The people who include others almost invariably make it hard to work out how they look.

They produce these pics as of they were wanting someone like themselves to view their profile. It typically shows someone who is not particularly adept at understanding others' needs, so possibly not great shag material.

I think permission should be uploaded from the part to consent to having them on the internet. Easier to ban them.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep and I have reported profiles where they have a profile pic of a woman,when its a single Male.

Miss

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Yes to avoiding but when I see men's profiles where *every* single pic is at least 95% random woman - with maybe an inch of cock or a finger featured in a blink and you'll miss it fashion - I am well and truly baffled. I mean, if a man wants to attract women, how on earth is that supposed to help? ... you have no idea what he looks like, *and* you also have the whole issue of wondering if he's got permission to display those pics. Just very odd."

These are the ones that get me too - I don't mind the odd play pic here and there. But when almost every picture is basically of someone he's played with, well what - is it her profile or his?!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Why do they have to say whether it's a fwb,fb or something else?. If you like the guy,what's picture's of others got to do with anything. Least if all it being odd as you put it. How do you know it's not a regular fwb or fb. Did you ask or just assume it's odd by your logic?. Why do so many people judge others when they know nothing about them. And then start a thread about them. If it's not a profile that entices you. Simply scroll onto the next one..no?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I must be the only person that’s never been bothered by this mehhh, there are worse things in the world

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website

Bothers me that people pass judgement on a personand a situation they know nothing about. But yet have so much to say about it. Then you have the guys who agree with whoever is spouting potentionl lies,in the hope they'll get a leg over PMSL!!!. Even if you agree. You still ain't getting her haha.

I could say. Yes she does know and yes she did consent. But you wouldn't know unless you spoke to said person and stopped assuming the worst

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I must be the only person that’s never been bothered by this mehhh, there are worse things in the world

It's because you're not a judgemental person who thinks the worst of a stranger. Plus you obviously have better things to do

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

Hmm, I’ve changed my profile to remove all the pictures of me with women, after reading this thread.

The pictures I’ve posted here are also on Fet-Life tagged with the womens’ profile (who have given their consent for it to be shared). But they haven’t explicitly given consent for this site (apart from my wife). I felt justified posting here, given prior Fet-Life consent, and given that I obscured recognisable features. But I was wrong to do this.

My motivation for posting the pics, I guess, was to communicate my experience, thinking that it’d help my cause here as it does on Fet-Life. To show that hey, I’ve been with people, I’ve got something to offer, Don’t just take my word for it. I also posted the pics out of hubris... to exhibit, to brag. They got attention, and that feels good. It turns out that women fabbed and commented on these ‘couple’ photos far more than my ‘solo’ photos, so it seemed to validate my assumptions.

Anyways, I’ve removed them. I shan’t do it again.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website

I could say. Yes she does know and yes she did consent. But you wouldn't know unless you spoke to said person and stopped assuming the worst

Any red flags, I delete and move on. It's not about being misanthropic, it's about protecting myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not particularly. People are free to run their profiles how they choose (within the rules of course).

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I think most do it to get profile hits

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Well it is breaking the rules so I report and carry on reporting till they are taken down. The only thing a guys profile that's full of pictures that he's not even in is going to attract is other men.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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red flag

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Block and avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really blokes do that how bizarre

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Surely they should have a couple's profile ?? "

No if there a single guy only picture of there selves.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Yep and I have reported profiles where they have a profile pic of a woman,when its a single Male.

Miss

Reporting is the best thing to do. Even if it only has a smale part of the male in its not breaking photo rules though, ie a fingertip, toe etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most competitive profiles are single men. We generally don't get first attention and type away trying to meet. But some of us do have buddies we can call on from time to time. Nothing wrong in showing that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow this was divisive. Nice to read the different opinions, consensus seems to be that guys (understandably) are trying to get noticed, but the majority of couples and women (not all) actually find it off putting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may seem a bit of a silly point but the other side to the argument is single women's profile that say they only meet with there husbands present xx surely they should be a couples profile xx

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"This may seem a bit of a silly point but the other side to the argument is single women's profile that say they only meet with there husbands present xx surely they should be a couples profile xx "

If husband is present it should be a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All mine have their consent and are kept for friends only and private

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Wow this was divisive. Nice to read the different opinions, consensus seems to be that guys (understandably) are trying to get noticed, but the majority of couples and women (not all) actually find it off putting... "

The vast majority of single guys do not have a clue what people are looking for this is demonstrated by hundreds of profiles with dick pictures as Avatar and then lack of understanding around discreet by publishing photos of a lady who may or may not know she's on the site.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

" Did you ask or just assume it's odd by your logic?. Why do so many people judge others when they know nothing about them. And then start a thread about them. "

It’s what forum threads are about..open discussion and mixed opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoops! I misread. If they're not in the pic then report it. As already stated, it's not allowed.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I just see it, as an extra filter.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

How about the couples profiles with a mmf photos or showing a 4 some, should they be banned too did they have permission to publish them? and what about couples who only show the female and not the male.

If you're going to ban then make it a level playing field

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about the couples profiles with a mmf photos or showing a 4 some, should they be banned too did they have permission to publish them? and what about couples who only show the female and not the male.

If you're going to ban then make it a level playing field "

Well i wouldnt quite say that’s what we’re discussing, yes they should have permission and on the basis that they do, then as long as part of the couple posting is present in the pic, then that’s fair.

It’s the equivalent of us meeting a couple, then posting a pic of just them at it, unless one of you is in the picture it’s not relevant

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