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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

to get to the truth of something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a follow on from my other post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One example is an inquiring mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puppy dog eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The truth may set you free

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Puppy dog eyes "
True! May help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ability to listen, seek understanding, consider multiple perspectives, challenge assumptions and allow own assumptions to be challenge. Recognise that there is no absolute truth anyway. just a more accurate map of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to get to the truth of something?"

I will put some point might help you,

1. Face reading (you can improve ability plenty of books in market)

2. Body language again as mention above.

3. Ability to frame question after analysing all permutations combination and dimension (law enforcement agency used this)

4. Most important background and good knowledge on subject

(Whom you are asking what and why)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ability to listen, seek understanding, consider multiple perspectives, challenge assumptions and allow own assumptions to be challenge. Recognise that there is no absolute truth anyway. just a more accurate map of it."
Very good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"to get to the truth of something?

I will put some point might help you,

1. Face reading (you can improve ability plenty of books in market)

2. Body language again as mention above.

3. Ability to frame question after analysing all permutations combination and dimension (law enforcement agency used this)

4. Most important background and good knowledge on subject

(Whom you are asking what and why) "
Very good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any character type qualities helpful to this task?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A willingness to use thumb screws and engage in water boarding.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

In my experience the following have helped:

A suspicious mind

Trust issues. I tend to think the worst of folk until they show me different, it’s a bit sad but that’s how i roll.

Dogged Determination

Gut Instinct

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A willingness to use thumb screws and engage in water boarding. "
All input welcome, useful to some but hopefully we don't have to go so far! Yet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ability to listen, seek understanding, consider multiple perspectives, challenge assumptions and allow own assumptions to be challenge. Recognise that there is no absolute truth anyway. just a more accurate map of it."
I especially like that bit where you mentioned about allowing ones own assumptions to be challenged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask direct and indirect questions appropriately ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to have that ability. When I'm around people they tend to spill there guts out to me... tell me their life stories etc. Must be my persona?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience the following have helped:

A suspicious mind

Trust issues. I tend to think the worst of folk until they show me different, it’s a bit sad but that’s how i roll.

Dogged Determination

Gut Instinct

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Instead of a suspicious mind how about thinking of it as having an inquiring mind?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask direct and indirect questions appropriately ... "
Very,Very good point!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"In my experience the following have helped:

A suspicious mind

Trust issues. I tend to think the worst of folk until they show me different, it’s a bit sad but that’s how i roll.

Dogged Determination

Gut Instinct

Instead of a suspicious mind how about thinking of it as having an inquiring mind?"

Oh i like that. That sounds better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I seem to have that ability. When I'm around people they tend to spill there guts out to me... tell me their life stories etc. Must be my persona? "
I think persona can sometimes help people open up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brute force and water boarding.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brute force and water boarding."
It's been tried earlier in the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brute force and water boarding.It's been tried earlier in the post. "

I on my ever read the first 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brute force and water boarding.It's been tried earlier in the post.

I on my ever read the first 3 "
It's Ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience the following have helped:

A suspicious mind

Trust issues. I tend to think the worst of folk until they show me different, it’s a bit sad but that’s how i roll.

Dogged Determination

Gut Instinct

"
Dogged determination grrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sodium pentathol..

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