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Do you take others at their word?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone came to you with a story "this is what happened" but that story did not cover everything and left you with a sense of injustice what would you do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This question is not inspired by anything to do with this site I want to see how people would respond to set scenario.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Bit of a vague senario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough info for an informed answer.

Was this related to brexit or alien abduction ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit of a vague senario."
Think of a situation where this has happened to you what did you do or didn't do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reason not to believe people are capable of many things from extraordinary to lowest of the low so yes i would take thrm at there word unless given reason not to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit of a vague senario."
It's a simple question relate it to circumstances that you have come across where this has happened and answer.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Bit of a vague senario."

Agree. More details are needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always listen to things with the BS detectors switched on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut instinct. It’s often right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No reason not to believe people are capable of many things from extraordinary to lowest of the low so yes i would take thrm at there word unless given reason not to "
What if in spite of what they said their was a nagging doubt as the circumstances were very important how would you resolve this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always listen to things with the BS detectors switched on. "
A fair response to the question asked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gut instinct. It’s often right."
A fair response to the question asked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gut instinct. It’s often right."
Would that gut instinct ever motivate you to action or would you just let things lie in spite of that gut instinct?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always listen to things with the BS detectors switched on. "
Now those bullshit detectors are beeping loudly and it is a very important issue your involved in what might you do about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d listen carefully, clarify areas of the story I may be in danger of misinterpreting, check my understanding of what they have said. The share my perspective on the story of it differs from theirs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not enough info for an informed answer.

Was this related to brexit or alien abduction ? "
Your not satisfied with the info? Neither was the OP who has also chosen not to give you any more details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone came to you with a story "this is what happened" but that story did not cover everything and left you with a sense of injustice what would you do?"
drink my coffee and think about next movie to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless it was something directly impacting on me, why would I do anything? There are several sides to every story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d listen carefully, clarify areas of the story I may be in danger of misinterpreting, check my understanding of what they have said. The share my perspective on the story of it differs from theirs."
A very good response to set scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unless it was something directly impacting on me, why would I do anything? There are several sides to every story. "
It impacts on you tremendously, what would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless it was something directly impacting on me, why would I do anything? There are several sides to every story. It impacts on you tremendously, what would you do?"

I might not need to do anything, so it depends on the situation. People love to create drama where there is no need.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise.... "
No promise involved. A person has told you a story sounds good but there are blank spaces situation is very important to you how do you fill in the blank spaces you have to involve the other person in this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise.... No promise involved. A person has told you a story sounds good but there are blank spaces situation is very important to you how do you fill in the blank spaces you have to involve the other person in this."

Ummmm...

Ask questions about whatever you're worried about and then digest the answers. Set a few mental traps to catch them out and trop them up and get them to write it down and sign it, like a confession....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise.... No promise involved. A person has told you a story sounds good but there are blank spaces situation is very important to you how do you fill in the blank spaces you have to involve the other person in this.

Ummmm...

Ask questions about whatever you're worried about and then digest the answers. Set a few mental traps to catch them out and trop them up and get them to write it down and sign it, like a confession.... "
Very good advice for set scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise.... No promise involved. A person has told you a story sounds good but there are blank spaces situation is very important to you how do you fill in the blank spaces you have to involve the other person in this.

Ummmm...

Ask questions about whatever you're worried about and then digest the answers. Set a few mental traps to catch them out and trop them up and get them to write it down and sign it, like a confession.... Very good advice for set scenario."

Gotta bear in mind though. I'm a mental cunt with a twisted mind....

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve had this recently. The story (of a third person) just didn’t add up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise.... No promise involved. A person has told you a story sounds good but there are blank spaces situation is very important to you how do you fill in the blank spaces you have to involve the other person in this.

Ummmm...

Ask questions about whatever you're worried about and then digest the answers. Set a few mental traps to catch them out and trop them up and get them to write it down and sign it, like a confession.... Very good advice for set scenario.

Gotta bear in mind though. I'm a mental cunt with a twisted mind.... "
It's needed to be able to resolve set scenario! The signed confession at the end may not be achievable always, but I get the point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had this recently. The story (of a third person) just didn’t add up. "
Was you able to come to a place of peace about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No reason not to believe people are capable of many things from extraordinary to lowest of the low so yes i would take thrm at there word unless given reason not to What if in spite of what they said their was a nagging doubt as the circumstances were very important how would you resolve this?"
nothing i could do generally iv found nagging doubts come from overthinking wich would be my own demons but if strong enough a feeling id ask them again more directly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise.... No promise involved. A person has told you a story sounds good but there are blank spaces situation is very important to you how do you fill in the blank spaces you have to involve the other person in this.

Ummmm...

Ask questions about whatever you're worried about and then digest the answers. Set a few mental traps to catch them out and trop them up and get them to write it down and sign it, like a confession.... Very good advice for set scenario.

Gotta bear in mind though. I'm a mental cunt with a twisted mind.... It's needed to be able to resolve set scenario! The signed confession at the end may not be achievable always, but I get the point."

Hahaha, I bet you're a screenshotter....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise.... No promise involved. A person has told you a story sounds good but there are blank spaces situation is very important to you how do you fill in the blank spaces you have to involve the other person in this.

Ummmm...

Ask questions about whatever you're worried about and then digest the answers. Set a few mental traps to catch them out and trop them up and get them to write it down and sign it, like a confession.... Very good advice for set scenario.

Gotta bear in mind though. I'm a mental cunt with a twisted mind.... It's needed to be able to resolve set scenario! The signed confession at the end may not be achievable always, but I get the point.

Hahaha, I bet you're a screenshotter.... "
You've lost me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise.... No promise involved. A person has told you a story sounds good but there are blank spaces situation is very important to you how do you fill in the blank spaces you have to involve the other person in this.

Ummmm...

Ask questions about whatever you're worried about and then digest the answers. Set a few mental traps to catch them out and trop them up and get them to write it down and sign it, like a confession.... Very good advice for set scenario.

Gotta bear in mind though. I'm a mental cunt with a twisted mind.... It's needed to be able to resolve set scenario! The signed confession at the end may not be achievable always, but I get the point.

Hahaha, I bet you're a screenshotter.... You've lost me?"

Careful it might be a trap.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what are words actually worth....?

....i get them to write it down and sign and date if I want a real promise.... No promise involved. A person has told you a story sounds good but there are blank spaces situation is very important to you how do you fill in the blank spaces you have to involve the other person in this.

Ummmm...

Ask questions about whatever you're worried about and then digest the answers. Set a few mental traps to catch them out and trop them up and get them to write it down and sign it, like a confession.... Very good advice for set scenario.

Gotta bear in mind though. I'm a mental cunt with a twisted mind.... It's needed to be able to resolve set scenario! The signed confession at the end may not be achievable always, but I get the point.

Hahaha, I bet you're a screenshotter.... You've lost me?

Careful it might be a trap..... "
The post was put up to see how people would respond to getting information but not being satisfied with it. So that is why things had to be framed so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d listen carefully, clarify areas of the story I may be in danger of misinterpreting, check my understanding of what they have said. The share my perspective on the story of it differs from theirs."

This

I'm a stickler for detail and logic and ask a lot of questions at the best of times. In this scenario they'd probably get a grilling.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Probably fly off the handle

Then i’d get more info and back peddle for all i’m worth!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d listen carefully, clarify areas of the story I may be in danger of misinterpreting, check my understanding of what they have said. The share my perspective on the story of it differs from theirs.

This

I'm a stickler for detail and logic and ask a lot of questions at the best of times. In this scenario they'd probably get a grilling. "
A good start, but what would you do to catch a person who was holding back important info from you would a grilling help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a thing doesn't directly impact on me I don't tend to over think it and take it at face value! Other things I also tend to think it's only one person's/their own point so generally presume such.

But yes, I tend to take it as it is unless it turns out otherwise ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably fly off the handle

Then i’d get more info and back peddle for all i’m worth!!"
What if no more info was forthcoming would you be prepared to stay in that fly off the handle state?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Probably fly off the handle

Then i’d get more info and back peddle for all i’m worth!!What if no more info was forthcoming would you be prepared to stay in that fly off the handle state?"

Probably. I’m a bit of a hot head although i’m excellent at extracting information.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably fly off the handle

Then i’d get more info and back peddle for all i’m worth!!What if no more info was forthcoming would you be prepared to stay in that fly off the handle state?

Probably. I’m a bit of a hot head although i’m excellent at extracting information."
That hotheadedness/doggedness might be needed in certain I need more info type circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d listen carefully, clarify areas of the story I may be in danger of misinterpreting, check my understanding of what they have said. The share my perspective on the story of it differs from theirs.

This

I'm a stickler for detail and logic and ask a lot of questions at the best of times. In this scenario they'd probably get a grilling. A good start, but what would you do to catch a person who was holding back important info from you would a grilling help?"

I'd just walk away. If I feel sonthing isn't adding up and they won't volunteer any more information then it's futile to carry on with that person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d listen carefully, clarify areas of the story I may be in danger of misinterpreting, check my understanding of what they have said. The share my perspective on the story of it differs from theirs.

This

I'm a stickler for detail and logic and ask a lot of questions at the best of times. In this scenario they'd probably get a grilling. A good start, but what would you do to catch a person who was holding back important info from you would a grilling help?

I'd just walk away. If I feel sonthing isn't adding up and they won't volunteer any more information then it's futile to carry on with that person. "
True.

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