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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you meet someone from here for the first time, how do you greet them, cause effectively they are strangers. So going in for a kiss on the cheek could be presumptuous, cause you don’t know they are attracted to you yet. A handshake is a bit formal and you look like an idiot and ruffling the woman’s hair is not really an option either.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Jazz hands

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Kiss on cheek, with cock out lol

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

If it's out and about then a kiss on the cheek but for fun I have met guys at the door of our house for the first time wearing my open top Basque and stockings. When that happens we are waaaaay past the polite peck on the cheek.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I give a little cuddle and a peck on the cheek. It works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only meets I’ve had from here I’ve opened my front door in lingerie and invited them in. Each time the front door is barely closed before I’m against the wall being kissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men usually hug me, sometimes give a kiss on cheek, had a few handshakes as well. There were some guys who just said hi and that was all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A peck on the cheek always works for me

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore

Gotta be a little hug, a peck on the cheek and play the response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where I meet them.

I've had a peck on the cheek, a quick hug, a hello and he took my hand as we walked to the pub.

If I'm going to there's I say hello and go straight into the toilet for a wee.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

A hug and peck on the cheek, unless it's you, then we're snogging

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By *k_intriguedCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Jazz hands "

Better than jizz hands.

(sorry, I'm disgusting. I shall now leave)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"When you meet someone from here for the first time, how do you greet them, cause effectively they are strangers. So going in for a kiss on the cheek could be presumptuous, cause you don’t know they are attracted to you yet. A handshake is a bit formal and you look like an idiot and ruffling the woman’s hair is not really an option either.

"

My first meet many years ago on another site I did actually shake his hand I wasnt sure what the done thing was so went down the polite greeting route

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant really remember. A polite hug most likely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first meet is always a social in a public place, so I greet as I would a friend, with a smile, but neither a handshake nor a kiss

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Hello?

"

Is it me you are looking for

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"When you meet someone from here for the first time, how do you greet them, cause effectively they are strangers. So going in for a kiss on the cheek could be presumptuous, cause you don’t know they are attracted to you yet. A handshake is a bit formal and you look like an idiot and ruffling the woman’s hair is not really an option either.

"

A greeting hug and kiss on the cheek

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I roll up the bottom of my balaclava lick my lips seductively and beckon them to come hither to a secluded spot. Only if I like the look of them though. If I don’t I just ninja it out of there

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Jazz hands

Better than jizz hands.

(sorry, I'm disgusting. I shall now leave) "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the "Hot Morat" From Fortnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you meet someone from here for the first time, how do you greet them, cause effectively they are strangers. So going in for a kiss on the cheek could be presumptuous, cause you don’t know they are attracted to you yet. A handshake is a bit formal and you look like an idiot and ruffling the woman’s hair is not really an option either.

"

I always do the hug and cheek thing... love it, even if it ends up as nothing or just platonic friends.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

What I'd like to do and what I end up doing are two different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I'd like to do and what I end up doing are two different things. "

Go in to kiss their hand all suave and sophisticated, but end dribbling on their shoe instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know haven't had a meet on here yet. .. dates though I cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I'd like to do and what I end up doing are two different things. "

Never seen you before but great profile and I would love to help you find an even balance purely for educational purposes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only meets I’ve had from here I’ve opened my front door in lingerie and invited them in. Each time the front door is barely closed before I’m against the wall being kissed "

Now, that's the kind of meet I'm on about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll have got to know them quite well through messaging so a hug and a kiss on the cheek would seem quite natural. However my last one was almost a full-on snog

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Either grab their face and make them motorboat me or chest bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, in the past, greeted a man by leaving my front door open and waiting naked, bent over the arm of my sofa.

On a couple of occasions I'll be waiting in the pub/bar for him with his drink ready for him.

I wave him over and he says hello and takes a sip of his drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open up the back door x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either grab their face and make them motorboat me or chest bump "

As fun as the motorboat sounds, the chest bump stands a chance of being insanely hilarious.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Open up the back door x"

Ohhh errrr matron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasions it's happened, it's been a hug, sometimes with a kiss on the cheek. Saying hello to people at a social or club is usually a handshake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I walk around them clockwise and anti clockwise with a clipboard and take notes whilst umming and aahing to add a little mystery.

I then spank them with the clipboard, if I dont get a slap I know I'm in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New meet kiss on cheek and a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a cup of coffee and a boner

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

‘’Hello meet!’’ ??

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

A simple hello and conversation

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

Cock out and lynx can beside it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just greet them with a friendly hi & a smile & then just chitchat

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

Hug and a kiss on the cheek most times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open up the back door x

Ohhh errrr matron "

Didn’t think anyone even noticed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doughnut is a hugger through and through, normally follow his lead lol.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock out and lynx can beside it "

Damn right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greeted them at the door in underwear but a silky dressing gown as well so it’s not too full on. Last night he went and sat on my sofa and I was straddling him and kissing him with my boobs out and grinding against his willy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you meet someone from here for the first time, how do you greet them, cause effectively they are strangers. So going in for a kiss on the cheek could be presumptuous, cause you don’t know they are attracted to you yet. A handshake is a bit formal and you look like an idiot and ruffling the woman’s hair is not really an option either.

oh you'd need to kiss all my cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i like to go for the traditional cock slap to the face.

It helps break the tension

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally i like to go for the traditional cock slap to the face.

It helps break the tension "

yea the op would love that

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I usually go in for the embrace and a kiss on each facial cheek x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I roll up the bottom of my balaclava lick my lips seductively and beckon them to come hither to a secluded spot. Only if I like the look of them though. If I don’t I just ninja it out of there "

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Either grab their face and make them motorboat me or chest bump

As fun as the motorboat sounds, the chest bump stands a chance of being insanely hilarious. "

Especially when the female has big boobies!

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By *heAccountantMan
over a year ago

cork city

Normally a hug and a peck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I snog. I only meet when I know I want to fuck.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Social ~ just a 'hello, nice to meet you' kind of thing. If we get on then a kiss after.

First sex meet ~ I would hope that he's dive in for a passionate kiss, if not I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once turned up to a woman’s house who was into blindfolds. So I put on my blindfold and knocked on her door and tripped over resulting in a compression fracture of my vertebrae. I didn’t get a hug.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Social : a shy hello then avoid eye contact for the next 10 minutes

Actual meet: a breathless snog as i try and get their trousers off them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally i like to go for the traditional cock slap to the face.

It helps break the tension

yea the op would love that "

Yours is the only cock I want slapped in my face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally i like to go for the traditional cock slap to the face.

It helps break the tension

yea the op would love that

Yours is the only cock I want slapped in my face! "

shucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done the 'hi' and no hug, the hug and air kiss, the snog, the meeting at the door in a corset and French knickers, and some other stuff. I have no 'usual'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High five!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An 'Alright treacle' followed by a slap on the butt

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I greet them with some form of clumsiness such as standing on their foot, or tripping up and practically falling over. True story.

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Ive found chasing women down the street with your cock out gets a mixed reaction so I am now contemplating forming a conga as I wolk in and then scooping them up into line so I can avoid eye contact and grope them from behind

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

It depends on what the meet is for.

A social, a peck on the cheek is fine.

Something more personal, I might be dressed in sexy undies ready to party lol.

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By *ink Panther 123Man
over a year ago

Colnbrook


"High five! "

I usually do that after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meet on neutral territory,kiss on the cheek few drinks n see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first meet is always a social in a public place, so I greet as I would a friend, with a smile, but neither a handshake nor a kiss"

We do exactly the same.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually fling my arms round them and snog their face off

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By *ink Panther 123Man
over a year ago

Colnbrook

Usually a kiss on the cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, if it's someone I've had a giggle with on the forums it's more than likely gonna be "alright you cunt" or something similar

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how the messages went normally ay up

Or a huge snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little hug and kiss on the cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same way I meet friends, a hug and a kiss on the cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 time a face lick

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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Oh god you lot have me in hysterics

I want to meet all of you and kiss/sniff/lick/bite/snog you all

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve had kisses in the cheek to full on snogs at first sight...... depends on the person I’m meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a hug or hand shake

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"Jazz hands "

We’ll have to try that.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Usually a kiss on the lips, if it feels natural a full on snog.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Hug & Kiss for the ladies, and hand shake for men, but have been known to do 'man hug' with good friends - just don't cross the streams..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smile briefly then stare at them as they run away screaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheek kiss and a cuddle for women, handshake for men. If a woman offers a hand I do a handshake and a cheek kiss. What cheek is entirely up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a kiss on the cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I smile briefly then stare at them as they run away screaming. "

I always imagined a maniacal laugh rather than a brief smile

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I smile briefly then stare at them as they run away screaming.

I always imagined a maniacal laugh rather than a brief smile

P"

That too.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet was just a social we shook hands alltho I wish we had done more now

Mrscxxx

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The same way I meet friends, a hug and a kiss on the cheek. "

Me too x

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

I usually do a triwl and then kiss on check

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Depends, if it's someone I've had a giggle with on the forums it's more than likely gonna be "alright you cunt" or something similar

P"

This is me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I ask if they like my swing dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look into her eyes, handshake and kiss on the cheek.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

When I have a social meet, I always go for the kiss on the cheek, after all I have been speaking to them for long enough to agree to a social in the first place, so it shouldn't feel awkward

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Welcome with a hand shake and depart with a fist bump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome with a hand shake and depart with a fist bump."

Is it a Big Hero 6 fist bump though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jizz hands "
classy

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Welcome with a hand shake and depart with a fist bump.

Is it a Big Hero 6 fist bump though?"

I'm 36, your reference is lost on me kiddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock punch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock punch! "

*Adds to Not list*

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I just say "If its acceptable with you, can we shake hands? if its not acceptable that is fine, I respect your space"

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Alright fatty? I've got a snickers for you if you're a good girl"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just say "If its acceptable with you, can we shake hands? if its not acceptable that is fine, I respect your space""

Very formal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock punch! "

You like being punched with a cock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just say "If its acceptable with you, can we shake hands? if its not acceptable that is fine, I respect your space""

That’s enough to dry any fanny up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock punch! "

Hey, a meet is a meet!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I just say "If its acceptable with you, can we shake hands? if its not acceptable that is fine, I respect your space""

We're not making a fucking deal where I have agreed to buy something from you FFS

But then again I have no idea how you arrange meets, maybe it is a contract to you

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Wet willy. Separates the men from the boys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock slap has been known....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wet willy. Separates the men from the boys. "

You greet them with a blow job?

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I always go in for a half hug and a kiss on the cheek

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I prefer not to be touched at first. Weird, but hey. I warm up to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met anyone yet but I hear body popping is a great way to break the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nanu nanu

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I play my arrival music and then I salute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not met anyone yet but I hear body popping is a great way to break the ice "

On a thinly frozen puddle it would be perfect

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lift my shirt and stroke my furry nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not met anyone yet but I hear body popping is a great way to break the ice "

I'll meet you coz I wanna see your moooooves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't remember....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not met anyone yet but I hear body popping is a great way to break the ice

On a thinly frozen puddle it would be perfect

P"

OF course! wouldn't want to leave the slippy surface untouched, someone might fall

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