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Having a gf who has done stuff with your mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else got a gf who has done sexual stuff with one of your friends ? I have been with my gf for years now but just before I got with her she ended up giving my mate head in a bathroom at a party, and she later told her mates about how big he was which is Evan worse, I know it's in the past and I should get over it but it's always in the back of my head and bothers me but kinda turns me on at the same time but just wondering how somebody else in the same position feels ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs has a thing with my best man a few years after we’d been married

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

My wife has fucked my best mate twice.Once before we were married, and once after. And I was there both times !

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Has anyone else got a gf who has done sexual stuff with one of your friends ? I have been with my gf for years now but just before I got with her she ended up giving my mate head in a bathroom at a party, and she later told her mates about how big he was which is Evan worse, I know it's in the past and I should get over it but it's always in the back of my head and bothers me but kinda turns me on at the same time but just wondering how somebody else in the same position feels ?"

Why is it worse?

Is she with you for the person you are? Or the size of your cock?

I think people can a little hung up on the small stuff ..

No pun intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'd dump them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I'd dump them. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because she obviously enjoyed it more if she was talking about the size too all her mates so I can't help it affect my confidence

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Because she obviously enjoyed it more if she was talking about the size too all her mates so I can't help it affect my confidence"

Now I'm gonna be rebellious here ..

Try talking to her about it and how you feel

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By *ral4bothMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I think your gf would be more pissed off your on here has a single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because she obviously enjoyed it more if she was talking about the size too all her mates so I can't help it affect my confidence

Now I'm gonna be rebellious here ..

Try talking to her about it and how you feel"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your gf would be more pissed off your on here has a single male "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else got a gf who has done sexual stuff with one of your friends ? I have been with my gf for years now but just before I got with her she ended up giving my mate head in a bathroom at a party, and she later told her mates about how big he was which is Evan worse, I know it's in the past and I should get over it but it's always in the back of my head and bothers me but kinda turns me on at the same time but just wondering how somebody else in the same position feels ?"

Just remember that she’s with you now , not your mate , your the winner here mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get that im being abit over the top it just really made me feel like crap especially around that time, we were seeing eachother a while not doing anything sexual, but then she goes and gives my friend a blowjob ? Like why would she do that to him first? I guess I'll talk to her about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that im being abit over the top it just really made me feel like crap especially around that time, we were seeing eachother a while not doing anything sexual, but then she goes and gives my friend a blowjob ? Like why would she do that to him first? I guess I'll talk to her about it"

Dunno, ask her. If you two were seeing each other wouldn’t that be classed as cheating?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I get that im being abit over the top it just really made me feel like crap especially around that time, we were seeing eachother a while not doing anything sexual, but then she goes and gives my friend a blowjob ? Like why would she do that to him first? I guess I'll talk to her about it"

Don't forget to mention you thought you'd ask her after talking to a load of strangers on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah looking for a big dick too suck because the whole situation has made me feel like abit if a cuck and not good enough but I'm going too talk too her about it lil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your gf would be more pissed off your on here has a single male "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it's wrong. I'm going too chat too her and hopefully feel abit more confident after so we can have a good relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah looking for a big dick too suck because the whole situation has made me feel like abit if a cuck and not good enough but I'm going too talk too her about it lil"

Does she mind you being on here?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get that im being abit over the top it just really made me feel like crap especially around that time, we were seeing eachother a while not doing anything sexual, but then she goes and gives my friend a blowjob ? Like why would she do that to him first? I guess I'll talk to her about it"

How long ago was this?

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Didn't you say exactly the same thing last week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you are going to talk to your gf about something that happened years ago? What exactly are you hoping to get out of this conversation? What do you want her to say.. she sucked a cock and liked it but needs to make your fragile ego feel better

Are you going to mention you are on a swinger sure to make your relationship better??

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

[Removed by poster at 30/03/19 14:32:13]

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Yeah looking for a big dick too suck because the whole situation has made me feel like abit if a cuck and not good enough but I'm going too talk too her about it lil

Does she mind you being on here? "

And as I said above, you're talking to her after discussing it with a load of strangers on here

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Seems a bit jackanory to me

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Didn't you say exactly the same thing last week?"

Aaah the green arrow knows all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A few years ago she was 18

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dunno the fact she did it as we were seeing eachother and before she did anything with me I just wanna know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno the fact she did it as we were seeing eachother and before she did anything with me I just wanna know why"

I thought you said in another thread that it’s really hot and turns you on??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is all BS

Move the thread to stories and fantasy section

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Drama king?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't you say exactly the same thing last week?

Aaah the green arrow knows all "

I’ve just seen this.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Sounds like it was in the back of her head as well....

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Sounds like it was in the back of her head as well...."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It does in a way but it's annoying at the same time I guess I am being a drama queen I guess I want her too tell me it was a mistake and she didn't enjoy it but I know its not true I just need to get over it, just wanted too see if anyone had similar experience too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dunno why you find it funny tho

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It does in a way but it's annoying at the same time I guess I am being a drama queen I guess I want her too tell me it was a mistake and she didn't enjoy it but I know its not true I just need to get over it, just wanted too see if anyone had similar experience too "

Right, taking your post at face value.

Things like this can play on people's mind and ruin relationships. Talk to her, say its playing on your mind and ask for reassurance. Once you've discussed it move on, put it out of your mind and concentrate on the present not the past. Insecurity and constant mistrust also destroys relationships.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

That's forums for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But in your opinion if she did that as we were seeing eachother and did gave my mate a blowjob before me ? I think she may have a thing for him ? Or you think it was purely sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But in your opinion if she did that as we were seeing eachother and did gave my mate a blowjob before me ? I think she may have a thing for him ? Or you think it was purely sexual"

Only she can answer that

I’d be more angry that she cheated to be honest

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I think it sounds like it happened a few years ago yet you're still with her

Yet your silence on you being on here as a single man and people asking you if she knows ... that's deafening

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By *-man24Man
over a year ago

northwest

I would let sleeping dicks lie.

There's no need to cause grief for yourself good luck either way mate ????

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids


"It does in a way but it's annoying at the same time I guess I am being a drama queen I guess I want her too tell me it was a mistake and she didn't enjoy it but I know its not true I just need to get over it, just wanted too see if anyone had similar experience too

Right, taking your post at face value.

Things like this can play on people's mind and ruin relationships. Talk to her, say its playing on your mind and ask for reassurance. Once you've discussed it move on, put it out of your mind and concentrate on the present not the past. Insecurity and constant mistrust also destroys relationships."

Then talk to her about being on fab as a single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of me likes the thought of it and another part of me hates it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would let sleeping dicks lie.

There's no need to cause grief for yourself good luck either way mate ????"

This bit here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of our very first meets was with doughnuts ex gf’s as a teenager, did it bother me? Nope! But then I’m a weird wife lol.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danish’s ex husband is actually one of my best friends lol we don’t broach the subject of sex with her because I for one would be uncomfortable and I’m certain he would be too

Doughnut

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