FabSwingers.com forum: Advice?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m looking for constructive criticism. What am I missing/doing wrong to explain why I can’t get a meet? I have pics & a profile, I’m polite & friendly in my messages, I send face pics when requested (I’m not a very confident person, but I don’t think I’m ugly). Any honest advice would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur 9 cock pics put me off.. didnt read any further

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Write ‘profile advice’ in the forum search option..plenty of advice there they will apply to your individual profile OP

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Write ‘profile advice’ in the forum search option..plenty of advice there they will apply to your individual profile OP "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock avatar wont help

All your pics are willys and not text about you

Women like a man behind the pecker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to add another 23 cock pictures from different angles for everyone to get the true idea.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

The cock pics are off putting. Some of them look like your'e sat on the toilet. Get rid.

Explain what you're looking for in your text.

The fact that you can't accommodate wouldn't put me off but it would be something that would cause me to keep an eye on other clues that you might be attached. It might be worth referencing if there is something legit.

Your age - many people will be looking for older people due to the age of their kids etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m looking for constructive criticism. What am I missing/doing wrong to explain why I can’t get a meet? I have pics & a profile, I’m polite & friendly in my messages, I send face pics when requested (I’m not a very confident person, but I don’t think I’m ugly). Any honest advice would be appreciated"

Do you really think that pants round the ankles, and cock being str**gled is a sexy look?

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have lots of cock pics. Boring imo.

Your profile text is nothing.

You’re young - this doesn’t prevent meets at all, you may just need to work a wee bit harder.

Sending nice and polite messages should just be a given

Are you reading profiles? Ensuring you meet what they are looking for? Paying attention to their age preferences, their location etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every photo is of your cock.

You can't accommodate so many will think your attached and playing away.

You haven't got much in the way of a profile either.

There are thousands of male profiles with much more to entice women in.. maybe give your bio a re shuffle and swap all your cock photos for teasing ones.

The ladies have already seen what you have to offer... So there isn't much left to the imagination.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really think that pants round the ankles, and cock being str**gled is a sexy look?

Really?"

Funniest thing I’ve heard in ages

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Urgh.

Shame, as your height and the fact you're a Geordie would be plus points for me. Age doesn't matter per se, but the profile and pics show immaturity.

Get out to the clubs and get some experience, and ffs get rid of those awful pics.....

Men always look at female profiles when bemoaning their lack of interest, when they should be looking at the successful MALE profiles to see what to do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send me a message if you're interested."

Be prepared for your inbox to be flooded very soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are very proud of your cock - well done, we are very pleased for you and this may surprise you but ... less is most definitely more when it comes to cock pics.

You are willing to meet a 99 year old woman? You may want to refine that unless you are genuinely up for a 70+yr age gap.

You may want to expand your profile text, it doesn’t really tell anyone who you are or what you are interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock pics nothing else wouldn't read profile after seeing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a theme developing here .....

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Too many cock pics (all of them, to be honest).

Been here over a year, and no veris? Not even a social??

Sounds like a lazy profile, and that implies a lazy shag..

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"There’s a theme developing here ....."

Is the cock pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing to ur strengths there buddy

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Too many cock pics (all of them, to be honest).

Been here over a year, and no veris? Not even a social??

Sounds like a lazy profile, and that implies a lazy shag.."

I'm a lazy shag but I've got a bad back and a doctors note excusing me from strenuous exercise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay, so delete some of the pics (which I’ve been considering tbh), & be more detailed in my profile. Appreciating the advice so far. I’m 100% single though, just for the record haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay, so delete some of the pics (which I’ve been considering tbh), & be more detailed in my profile. Appreciating the advice so far. I’m 100% single though, just for the record haha"

Upload some different pics, that aren’t of your cock. You have body parts that aren’t your cock or face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t just delete some of the pics, delete most of them and take some shots of the rest of your body.

Danish x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Too many cock pics (all of them, to be honest).

Been here over a year, and no veris? Not even a social??

Sounds like a lazy profile, and that implies a lazy shag..

I'm a lazy shag but I've got a bad back and a doctors note excusing me from strenuous exercise.

So it's wanking for you, then...

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

You have the dreaded khazi pics mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your pants off, OP. Or hide cock in boxer shorts.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Too many cock pics (all of them, to be honest).

Been here over a year, and no veris? Not even a social??

Sounds like a lazy profile, and that implies a lazy shag..

I'm a lazy shag but I've got a bad back and a doctors note excusing me from strenuous exercise.

So it's wanking for you, then...

Yup.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hi op welcome to the forum

You're quite young in fab terms that will work against you to an extent.

Otherwise I suggest that you replace your pictures with some of your torso or clothed body and write a brief profile that explains what you offer and what you're after.

Sometimes joining in the forums in a positive way helps get to know people and gives you an idea of the way fab works.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a side note, Mrs nice couple ...wowsers

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I didn't get past the 3rd pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nice couple by name & by nature haha. Thanks for the advice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"On a side note, Mrs nice couple ...wowsers "

thank you.

You two look great also

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nice couple by name & by nature haha. Thanks for the advice

You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it's just 5 cock pictures now. Plus avatar. Great improvement

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Men always look at female profiles when bemoaning their lack of interest, when they should be looking at the successful MALE profiles to see what to do..."

this is true but then at the same time I've looked at a few profiles of blokes that have got veris by people I've been interested in, but it hasn't worked out for whatever reason and the only thing I can think of is that they must be much better at sending flirty messages or whatever as their profiles aren't all that. I mean mine might be crap also but their text and pictures were pretty generic, nothing to write home about. I'd love to see the messaging style of the more successful users but I very much doubt I'll be allowed into anyone's inbox to have a look lol

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

"So it's just 5 cock pictures now. Plus avatar. Great improvement

Well he still needs something to look at while on the loo

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Cock pics are a massive off for me and your first line of your profile makes you sound desperate

You’ve had advice but yet haven’t changed anything so I suspect you’re just posting for attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it's just 5 cock pictures now. Plus avatar. Great improvement

Well he still needs something to look at while on the loo

I wonder what that could be and why

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Men always look at female profiles when bemoaning their lack of interest, when they should be looking at the successful MALE profiles to see what to do...

They could have got their veris from club visits. That's where most of ours are from, other than people we know from other sources, that would mean it had nothing to do with their profile or messages

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Men always look at female profiles when bemoaning their lack of interest, when they should be looking at the successful MALE profiles to see what to do...

They could have got their veris from club visits. That's where most of ours are from, other than people we know from other sources, that would mean it had nothing to do with their profile or messages"

Nope, the veris were all along the lines of 'messaged Ms X back and forth for a few days, decided to meet, she was waiting for me in lingerie and we got straight to it' kinda thing.

I was a bit surprised by this one tbh as we'd been chatting for a few weeks, getting on well then randomly stopped responding to my messages then got about 5 quite explicit veris in a row, all of which were making me think 'damn, I'm missing out here wtf have I done wrong'... Other than be six on the list, I guess...

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Cock pics are a massive off for me and your first line of your profile makes you sound desperate

You’ve had advice but yet haven’t changed anything so I suspect you’re just posting for attention?"

Love your chest ink, Nancy. Looks awesome :D

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I looked at your pics OP and that was enough for me to leave sorry

Far too much cock on your profile ..its off putting

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You’ve had advice but yet haven’t changed anything so I suspect you’re just posting for attention?"

I do have a life outside of this site, believe it or not, & this isn’t my number one concern. I’ll make changes when I have the time

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Therefore, may I suggest that in the meantime you hide your profile until you can gather all the advice you’ve received and make the necessary changes to your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad willy, sad willy, Hello, Sad willy, Pants.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

You’re more than just a penis OP. If I was you I would give thought to changing your photos. You don’t need to show your face.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Op hide your dick pics and if you want to meet try going to Stanley your very close the club there will get you meeting like minded people take it from there

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Try tidying up your pubes a bit? And put some chest pics or something I'd say.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Haven't read the other comments but I'd have to say the pics are very cock-centric. Also the wookie look is so last decade. Bit of manscaping wouldnt go amis. In appearance you might even grow an inch.

Putting yourself in their shoes, would you want to eat that.? Presentation.

Appreciate that your woefully short profile is under construction.

These things are so obvious. Would prefer you came with what you consider to be perfect, for those here to pick over.

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