FabSwingers.com forum: profile red flags

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what's your biggest turn off when you first see someone else's profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what's your biggest turn off when you first see someone else's profile?

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all pussy pics

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By *emisis123Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Fudge cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock pick avatar that's not attractive. Of course having an attractive one is entirely subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A penis"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ranty lists

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

A profile that's over a year old and still just says 'will fill out later'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on months and not even photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples profiles where both are wanting to meet but there’s no photos of the man

Profiles that contain more photos of the opposite sex (men having loads of women in their pics, women having loads of men in their pics etc)

Or bi/gay folk who have loads of action shots and I can’t tell if it’s their penis or someone else’s? Is that your vagina or your pals?

‘Been here before’

‘Respectful’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

765 veris over 3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of verifications and dick pictures

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"A profile that's over a year old and still just says 'will fill out later'."

Okay, okay I’ll fill it out when I get the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics and says not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a couple and all the pics are of the guy and you can tell it's been written by a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disrespect and attitude for the people you're trying to "attract"....

"if you're going to message, put some effort in and adhere to my bullet point instructions or you will be blocked"....

I tend to scroll past these one's...

I sometimes feel like I should message said ppl and I should put "if you're going to reply then put some effort and originality in and include one face pic, no one liners, don't just say hello, include a boob pic with my name across your left nipple in lipstick, a pic of your pussy at a 35 degree angle with a thin landing strip, and tuck your flaps in fgs and tell me joke and make me feel better about myself and tell me I'm beautiful, tell me tell me tell me...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes profiles that are just negative rants from start to finish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

don't forget those magic words & phrases such "horny all the time" and "p*ssy lover" (not as in pee!)

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

No blacks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a member 2 hours and verified an hour ago omg is that the record

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for ‘generous’ guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones that take themselves far too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The self-absorbed, selfish, demanding and self-entitled ones.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

What does that little red flag mean on a profile?

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Profiles full if negativity, rants, not filled in....there's a few things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that sounds high maintenance- jog on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots!

A single guy's profile with loads of action photos with women is probably the biggest one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does that little red flag mean on a profile? "
bull

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Boasting...usually about their size, technique and stamina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disrespect and attitude for the people you're trying to "attract"....

"if you're going to message, put some effort in and adhere to my bullet point instructions or you will be blocked"....

I tend to scroll past these one's...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pages and pages of do’ and donts, must haves, musnt haves. Instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics of the guy on a couples profile other than a cock.

Singles profiles where at bottom it reads about other half being present / meeting can meet him alone xyz. To me it’s simple setup a couples profile in first place

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"There are lots!

A single guy's profile with loads of action photos with women is probably the biggest one. "

You beat me to it

Viewed one this morning 47 public pics 80 friends

I know more about what those 47 women look like than I do the sender of the message - which didn't get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are lots!

A single guy's profile with loads of action photos with women is probably the biggest one.

You beat me to it

Viewed one this morning 47 public pics 80 friends

I know more about what those 47 women look like than I do the sender of the message - which didn't get a reply. "
he's so sorry and wants to be given another chance ,can he be ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of someones trotters in a pair of cheap looking shoes

Why do they invariably look cheap ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypocrisy in a profile.

For example a profile that discribes themselves as bi or bi-curious but categorically says they will not meet bi or bi-curious people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Pictures of someones trotters in a pair of cheap looking shoes

Why do they invariably look cheap ?"

:cuts toenails and pushes Primark white stilettos under the bed:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures of someones trotters in a pair of cheap looking shoes

Why do they invariably look cheap ?

:cuts toenails and pushes Primark white stilettos under the bed:

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oooooo you snob

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

" A single guy's profile with loads of action photos with women is probably the biggest one. "

Exactly this

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By *ertnsarahCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Bad spelling, punctuation & grammar. It's a pet peeve of mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pic or cock pic only

Worse still, sunk to the nuts in a gaping clunge

No write-up or the words “professional” and “genuine”

Write-up banging on about how much you like giving oral/licking pussy etc etc - actions speak louder than words and talk is cheap

Passive-aggressive tones

Oh... and...

That cunting Sydney Uni bollocks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Pictures of someones trotters in a pair of cheap looking shoes

Why do they invariably look cheap ?

:cuts toenails and pushes Primark white stilettos under the bed:

oooooo you snob"

That's me

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

Gopping pussy pics

Bullet points that are meant to be adhered too

The code word that is meant to be put in the message header

Looking for exceptional men, who are you to judge is exceptional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General overtone of twattiness really

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I dislike a series of pictures on single guys profile that are mostly, if not entirely, of the women he's played with.

Also very negative text from all profile types.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"There are lots!

A single guy's profile with loads of action photos with women is probably the biggest one.

You beat me to it

Viewed one this morning 47 public pics 80 friends

I know more about what those 47 women look like than I do the sender of the message - which didn't get a reply. "

Ha, yes exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be easier to say what attracts me to a profile....

BB photos

Loads of veris (makes little odds if their socials-that also turns me off as my time is valuable)

Rants on profiles/status

Pics with untidy rooms, doesn't take long to set up a better pic.

"Professional"

Cannot accommodate. (I can't, so that's not going to work)

"Face pic with your message", especially if they don't even have a profile pic lol.

"Please like my pic", or says how many have, or keeps moving location to gain more likes.

"I'll fill this in later". If you've not got the time to write you'll not give the proper time to meet.

I've a few more but it's getting boring to read now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

370 veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gopping pussy pics

Bullet points that are meant to be adhered too

The code word that is meant to be put in the message header

Looking for exceptional men, who are you to judge is exceptional

Gapping ones too.

And "only well hung guys need apply", or was that an echo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be easier to say what attracts me to a profile....

BB photos

Loads of veris (makes little odds if their socials-that also turns me off as my time is valuable)

Rants on profiles/status

Pics with untidy rooms, doesn't take long to set up a better pic.

"Professional"

Cannot accommodate. (I can't, so that's not going to work)

"Face pic with your message", especially if they don't even have a profile pic lol.

"Please like my pic", or says how many have, or keeps moving location to gain more likes.

"I'll fill this in later". If you've not got the time to write you'll not give the proper time to meet.

I've a few more but it's getting boring to read now....

Of course now and again though some things can be overlooked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A cock pick avatar that's not attractive. Of course having an attractive one is entirely subjective.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just negative ranty profiles, with a list of demands that I can’t be arsed to read. I don’t care if you have a vagina, just show a bit of humility.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

No current pics (only pics on site from 2012 etc don’t mind within a year)

Veri’s are from people that have hidden their account or last Veri years ago!

Couples profiles need to have mixture of his and her photos not just ones of the lady

Incomplete or list of demands or rantie profiles (but then I always forget to read the profiles anyway! Guilty!)

Mrs x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Couples profiles where the lady is bi but they're anti bi men.

Ranty entitled profile text.

People with long long lists specifying exactly the type of exceptional person that they will only meet on the second Sunday in June when the moon is full, but have a ranty status about how they can't get a meet.

Obviously people can put whatever they want on their profiles and manage their experiences here however they want but I sure as hell won't be meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion. Anyone who repeatedly repeats a need for discretion throughout their profile is protesting a little too much. It's something that goes without saying not something that needs saying half a dozen times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be easier to say what attracts me to a profile....

BB photos

Loads of veris (makes little odds if their socials-that also turns me off as my time is valuable)

Rants on profiles/status

Pics with untidy rooms, doesn't take long to set up a better pic.

"Professional"

Cannot accommodate. (I can't, so that's not going to work)

"Face pic with your message", especially if they don't even have a profile pic lol.

"Please like my pic", or says how many have, or keeps moving location to gain more likes.

"I'll fill this in later". If you've not got the time to write you'll not give the proper time to meet.

I've a few more but it's getting boring to read now....

Of course now and again though some things can be overlooked

Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who talk about being clean, hygienic or respectfull lie it is some sort of USP unique to them!

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Wide open (or plugged) backsides

Ranty profiles

God’s gift profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obesity and poor grammar.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"370 veris "

What's your time scale there? What if they've been around for 10 years?

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

loads of negativity in a woman's profile and pointless footnotes about universities and face book etc. photos that show the same thing over and over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insistence if a face pic with first message... Yeah right....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One verification that's from over a year ago.

No verification's & been on here for over 6 months.

2 verification's form the same person.

Verification's from "knowing the person previously" or "in a different capacity".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont read them

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Always when a male profile pics shows much more of the various people he's shagging than him.

When photos are each little snippets of him, forcing me to undertake serious mental gymnastics, to try to work out how he actually looks.

No profile effort

Moans about others

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The university warning is a bore

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"So what's your biggest turn off when you first see someone else's profile?

Genital only pics - one or two OK. Oh, and naughty action shots. I get jealous, especially if horny.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

No red flags really. In that respect I'm pretty easy going.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I like to see a face pic, so it's a bit of a turn off when they're wearing one of those white pointy hoods with the little eye holes in.

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