FabSwingers.com forum: Work??

By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Why is it nearly all first messages are asking what people do for work?

Can people not think out the box?

Is it really FAF or what do you do for work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it nearly all first messages are asking what people do for work?

Can people not think out the box?

Is it really FAF or what do you do for work? "
never come accross that one

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It does seem a common question. I guess people are just nosey or trying to keep the conversation going. I usually answer vaguely if I answer at all.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't get that one. I wouldn't answer anyway. I sometimes get asked what gym I go to. I'm not telling!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Secret agent for the government I usually say x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't get asked that one very often at all. Like one in every few hundred messages?

But I'm glad it was asked when it last was - I work in the same industry as him (kind of) and whenever I see his company's name pop up I get clit twitches. If it wasn't for that shared bond we might not have chatted so much in our first conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was surprised to be asked it recently. I haven’t been asked it ever before I don’t think. I’d have thought it was obvious I’m a a Witch Doctor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch "

Are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you? "

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I used to get asked, a lot, if a swing dress had a short skirt. Adding pictures slowed that down. But now they want to destroy my dresses because alas they don't show my arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch.... "

I iz tiepin lyke a twat todaii innit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch.... "

My username is indeed relevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant "
i got it a broomstick salesperson

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Darlo I for 1 one have never used that as an opening line, that's line asking how long does paint take to dry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant "

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant "
ah wait i got it its the 77 your a rival brand to hienz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

I've never claimed to be Welsh lol... Say it once and say it loud... I'm a Manc and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

I've never claimed to be Welsh lol... Say it once and say it loud... I'm a Manc and proud

"
twice the pride double the fall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

I've never claimed to be Welsh lol... Say it once and say it loud... I'm a Manc and proud

Lionel Ritchie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they want to fuck you at work

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Secret agent for the government I usually say x

Lost count of the time I've said Russian spy

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Darlo I for 1 one have never used that as an opening line, that's line asking how long does paint take to dry"

Haha no my lovely we usually have far more entertaining chats. Never about work or sex! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

I've never claimed to be Welsh lol... Say it once and say it loud... I'm a Manc and proud

Lionel Ritchie? "

You lost me now poppet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been asked this. Odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

I've never claimed to be Welsh lol... Say it once and say it loud... I'm a Manc and proud

Lionel Ritchie?

You lost me now poppet "
yep deffo manc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask that usually hey fancy a chat lol mrscxxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Maybe they want to fuck you at work

I get those offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’ve ever sent a message asking what some one does for a living

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just married to the work

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I don't think I've ever asked that in a first message...

Although, I tend not to waste time on lengthy opening messages, I see them more as a method of letting the person know I'm interested. If they are interested too, they'll get back to me, if not, no problem.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I've never had it as a first message but I do get it during conversation. I'm happy to say the sector I work in but people often ask for more detail and I politely decline to answer. I think it's people who don't really get the scene and how important privacy is and the fine line between Fab and real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

I've never claimed to be Welsh lol... Say it once and say it loud... I'm a Manc and proud

Lionel Ritchie?

You lost me now poppet yep deffo manc

See, the white rose knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

I've never claimed to be Welsh lol... Say it once and say it loud... I'm a Manc and proud

Lionel Ritchie?

You lost me now poppet "

I lost myself years ago, it's fine my lovely....

.....so do you do spells and shiz? Do you own a wand?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

2/3 messages in I often get asked what I do for a living but I’m vague about it.... does it really matter? Guess some use it as a bench mark

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"2/3 messages in I often get asked what I do for a living but I’m vague about it.... does it really matter? Guess some use it as a bench mark"

I don't mind it as a gauge of a person sometimes, but it seems personal for a first message. I try to separate my Fab life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beats asking for mother’s maiden name, first pets name and sort code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

I've never claimed to be Welsh lol... Say it once and say it loud... I'm a Manc and proud

Lionel Ritchie?

You lost me now poppet

I lost myself years ago, it's fine my lovely....

.....so do you do spells and shiz? Do you own a wand? "

Not exactly, my house is full of crystals and I did fashion my own 'wand' from a branch of my rowan tree but that's just something to pass time. I make aromatherapy blends and herbal tinctures to promote health and well-being.... The true nature of the white witch is that of a healer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2/3 messages in I often get asked what I do for a living but I’m vague about it.... does it really matter? Guess some use it as a bench mark"

Ppl will usually only ask you so they can then tell you what THEY DO, and they will then dazzle you when they tell you they're a keyhole cock surgeon fighter pilot commando rockstar rugby wrestling fencing spy athlete (fab style)....

....basic human psychology rule #1 - motivation....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get asked about my job. They usually ask if I am a real witch

Are you?

That's could be a career to I guess, occupation = witch....

My username is indeed relevant

Yeah but you're not even Welsh? I can't trust you.....

I've never claimed to be Welsh lol... Say it once and say it loud... I'm a Manc and proud

Lionel Ritchie?

You lost me now poppet

I lost myself years ago, it's fine my lovely....

.....so do you do spells and shiz? Do you own a wand?

We need to talk, I could sell you some great shit!!!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"2/3 messages in I often get asked what I do for a living but I’m vague about it.... does it really matter? Guess some use it as a bench mark

....basic human psychology rule #1 - motivation.... "

I put ppl off telling them what I do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2/3 messages in I often get asked what I do for a living but I’m vague about it.... does it really matter? Guess some use it as a bench mark

....basic human psychology rule #1 - motivation....

I put ppl off telling them what I do....

What is it you do my lover? (Except the bumming guys bit...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't white witches the good ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in a very niche area so could be easily identified if I told people what I do.

I try to keep all the real world stuff private and away from the knowledge of internet strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren't white witches the good ones. "

They lead us to believe that, yes, then they probably eat us or some nasty shit like that when we least expect it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I work in a very niche area so could be easily identified if I told people what I do.

I try to keep all the real world stuff private and away from the knowledge of internet strangers."

You're a singer, right?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"2/3 messages in I often get asked what I do for a living but I’m vague about it.... does it really matter? Guess some use it as a bench mark

....basic human psychology rule #1 - motivation....

I put ppl off telling them what I do....

What is it you do my lover? (Except the bumming guys bit...) "

Oi "bumming guys" ????? Really....words fail me sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren't white witches the good ones.

They lead us to believe that, yes, then they probably eat us or some nasty shit like that when we least expect it.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2/3 messages in I often get asked what I do for a living but I’m vague about it.... does it really matter? Guess some use it as a bench mark

....basic human psychology rule #1 - motivation....

I put ppl off telling them what I do....

What is it you do my lover? (Except the bumming guys bit...)

Oi "bumming guys" ????? Really....words fail me sometimes!

I love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren't white witches the good ones.

They lead us to believe that, yes, then they probably eat us or some nasty shit like that when we least expect it....

Honestly though, I actually sell stuff you could use in your potions, forreals.... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I work in a very niche area so could be easily identified if I told people what I do.

I try to keep all the real world stuff private and away from the knowledge of internet strangers.

You're a singer, right? "

Shit! How did you guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I work in a very niche area so could be easily identified if I told people what I do.

I try to keep all the real world stuff private and away from the knowledge of internet strangers.

You're a singer, right?

Shit! How did you guess? "

Your ummmm.... ....thing.... ....it was singing to me the other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobodies ever asked me that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aren't white witches the good ones.

They lead us to believe that, yes, then they probably eat us or some nasty shit like that when we least expect it....

Honestly though, I actually sell stuff you could use in your potions, forreals.... Xx"

Thanks for the offer but I grow and cultivate some herbs myself and anything additional I have well established connections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opening question, when I'm asked what I want to know, is how thick do you like your gravy?

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