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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone off fab had a long distance relationship and how did it work for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and OK ish, no such thing as distance these days...

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By *rungeguyMan
over a year ago

leeds

Had a Canadian gf once . That was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's worked out pretty well too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt work.....ended up wasting a lot of time making plans and living for the time spent together and wishing my life away when we were apart.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. It was across continents and it was bloody awful. Dark time in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and well......I'm single now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep for two years then another year and a bit at a shorter distance until we moved in together. Then got married. It wasn’t easy but we managed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep for two years then another year and a bit at a shorter distance until we moved in together. Then got married. It wasn’t easy but we managed it."

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Wouldnt fancy it these days, she would ask me to turn on gps and my camera to see who I am with I assume.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Been there, done it. Never again.

It's ok if both people are happy being apart, but when you are the one who has to spend 9 hours in a car every weekend it's draining. Then being bitched at for always being tired.. for a 2.5 day weekend it was too much.

That wasn't including sticking 2k miles a month on the car as well as fuel costs.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Been doing it for over a year. Going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it for 4 months of a 9 month relationship? Actually worked really well till we moved closer together aha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at the status naming stage but its going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone off fab had a long distance relationship and how did it work for you "
of course I did London to Buxton for a year it worked out fine for a year

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

3.5 years, over 200 miles apart.

Never again. But the distance wasn't the only issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So would you do the long distance thing again if you connected well with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a relationship but had long distance Fwb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok and how did it work for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So would you do the long distance thing again if you connected well with someone "

If the need arose. Yes.

Distance isn't nearly the obstacle it used to be. You can get to the other side of the planet with one plane ride now. So opposite ends of the country are hardly a challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok and how did it work for you "

Is that to me? It worked well while it lasted. We are friends now. My FB is a good hour away it's working well and see each other most weeks and my Dom is about 1hr 45 early days so we will see how it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes me

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Yes it lasted over a year until we both moved we still chat most days shame it had to end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u really like someone distance shouldn’t be an issue in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I know but some women think you won’t meet them because of the distance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok and how did it work for you

Is that to me? It worked well while it lasted. We are friends now. My FB is a good hour away it's working well and see each other most weeks and my Dom is about 1hr 45 early days so we will see how it works "

Glad it’s working out for you I know you are greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone off fab had a long distance relationship and how did it work for you "

Had one a while back and it worked for a time but eventually fizzled out as 300 mile round trip was too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok and how did it work for you

Is that to me? It worked well while it lasted. We are friends now. My FB is a good hour away it's working well and see each other most weeks and my Dom is about 1hr 45 early days so we will see how it works

Glad it’s working out for you I know you are greedy "

think you have the wrong person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok and how did it work for you

Is that to me? It worked well while it lasted. We are friends now. My FB is a good hour away it's working well and see each other most weeks and my Dom is about 1hr 45 early days so we will see how it works

Glad it’s working out for you I know you are greedy

Your married ain’t you good mates with tattoo shorty.

think you have the wrong person "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok and how did it work for you

Is that to me? It worked well while it lasted. We are friends now. My FB is a good hour away it's working well and see each other most weeks and my Dom is about 1hr 45 early days so we will see how it works

Glad it’s working out for you I know you are greedy

Your married ain’t you good mates with tattoo shorty.

think you have the wrong person "

Yes so?? I'm in a open relationship. Yes I have female friends here a FB and a Dom but I don't go off shagging randoms and I don't appreciate being called greedy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok and how did it work for you

Is that to me? It worked well while it lasted. We are friends now. My FB is a good hour away it's working well and see each other most weeks and my Dom is about 1hr 45 early days so we will see how it works

Glad it’s working out for you I know you are greedy

Your married ain’t you good mates with tattoo shorty.

think you have the wrong person

Yes so?? I'm in a open relationship. Yes I have female friends here a FB and a Dom but I don't go off shagging randoms and I don't appreciate being called greedy. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok and how did it work for you

Is that to me? It worked well while it lasted. We are friends now. My FB is a good hour away it's working well and see each other most weeks and my Dom is about 1hr 45 early days so we will see how it works

Glad it’s working out for you I know you are greedy Dark angel can you talk

Your married ain’t you good mates with tattoo shorty.

think you have the wrong person

Yes so?? I'm in a open relationship. Yes I have female friends here a FB and a Dom but I don't go off shagging randoms and I don't appreciate being called greedy. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it lasted over a year until we both moved we still chat most days shame it had to end! "

Sorry to hear it ended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. Will you stop!! I've reported to admin so please stop quoting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" . Will you stop!! I've reported to admin so please stop quoting "

I am not quoting at you so it has nothing to do with u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first met my wife we lived about 30 miles away and then neither could drive so we always met at a place some where in between other wise it would be 2 buses and a train to each other’s homes but after a few months we moved into a little flat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea, I was seeing a Girl who lived in Walsall for a while. Was ok, but the travelling up and back soon lost its appeal and getting time off work was not always easy. She was lovely and the Sex was great, but in the end I finished it as the travelling was just a hassle I didn’t need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . Will you stop!! I've reported to admin so please stop quoting

I am not quoting at you so it has nothing to do with u "
you quoted her 3 times by my count having 3 lovers isnt greedy its getting what you want for what you need and kind of the entire point of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . Will you stop!! I've reported to admin so please stop quoting

I am not quoting at you so it has nothing to do with u you quoted her 3 times by my count having 3 lovers isnt greedy its getting what you want for what you need and kind of the entire point of the site "

Thanks pmf it was 4 but he removed one. Hoping admin take action soon. Anyone that knows me knows the way I play and greedy girl I ain't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there done it worked out really well got a 3 year relationship out of it only went tits up when I moved in with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and shite

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Been there done it worked out really well got a 3 year relationship out of it only went tits up when I moved in with her "

This totally echoes mine...it went tits up after 3 years when he moved in with me. We are good friends now that he has moved back out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . Will you stop!! I've reported to admin so please stop quoting

I am not quoting at you so it has nothing to do with u you quoted her 3 times by my count having 3 lovers isnt greedy its getting what you want for what you need and kind of the entire point of the site

Thanks pmf it was 4 but he removed one. Hoping admin take action soon. Anyone that knows me knows the way I play and greedy girl I ain't !"
girl id not even call you a gannit compared to me i was like a damn sexual tyranasaur last year a damn machine of repeat sex goodness

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I did a 15 month long distance relationship which became a longer distance relationship when she moved mid way through. Ultimately we drifted apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been there done it worked out really well got a 3 year relationship out of it only went tits up when I moved in with her

This totally echoes mine...it went tits up after 3 years when he moved in with me. We are good friends now that he has moved back out."
yes I wish mine could be like that but a lot of things happened like finding out she had been using the site without my knowledge for the 3 years we were together we are trying it’s difficuly though fully prepared myself to spend the rest of my life with her and only her

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Had a few and none of them worked out. When I was living in Yorkshire I had relationships with women in Bruges, Cornwall, Edinburgh, Kettering and (Royal) Leamington Spa. Not all at the same time you understand but it was hard work, even though the travelling worked both ways.

There's a lot to be said for the girl next door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it was amazing. It was a sad day when it ended to be honest.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Been there done it worked out really well got a 3 year relationship out of it only went tits up when I moved in with her

This totally echoes mine...it went tits up after 3 years when he moved in with me. We are good friends now that he has moved back out. yes I wish mine could be like that but a lot of things happened like finding out she had been using the site without my knowledge for the 3 years we were together we are trying it’s difficuly though fully prepared myself to spend the rest of my life with her and only her "

I can imagine that must have been a really difficult situation, deceit is never an easy thing to get your head around x

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By *ait88Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Six thousand miles, seven years and going strong!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I met someone off here and we had a great time relationship, with a 3 hour journey between us. Went well for 18 months until I found out he was seeing a girl without my knowledge.

Meeting girls that I knew about on a couple of occasions was fine, but meeting one girl repeatedly and cancelling our own plans ended the relationship. He said the fact that I wasn't there every weekend, drove him into her arms.

I wouldn't consider a long distance relationship again.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I met someone off here and we had a great time relationship, with a 3 hour journey between us. Went well for 18 months until I found out he was seeing a girl without my knowledge.

Meeting girls that I knew about on a couple of occasions was fine, but meeting one girl repeatedly and cancelling our own plans ended the relationship. He said the fact that I wasn't there every weekend, drove him into her arms.

I wouldn't consider a long distance relationship again.

"

That's a bit shitty of him if you cant be honest with someone off here then when can you be (or with anyone else for that matter)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Your married ain’t you good mates with tattoo shorty.

think you have the wrong person

Yes so?? I'm in a open relationship. Yes I have female friends here a FB and a Dom but I don't go off shagging randoms and I don't appreciate being called greedy. "

What does her friendship with me have to do with anything? Belle is far from greedy. If you knew her you'd know this but you don't so don't judge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been in different country to my wife for several years now, works for us, but we are very independant and lived together for 6 years before work changed stuff.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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" . Will you stop!! I've reported to admin so please stop quoting

I am not quoting at you so it has nothing to do with u you quoted her 3 times by my count having 3 lovers isnt greedy its getting what you want for what you need and kind of the entire point of the site

Thanks pmf it was 4 but he removed one. Hoping admin take action soon. Anyone that knows me knows the way I play and greedy girl I ain't !"

The posts didn't break any rules. If they are annoying you then just ignore.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

OK back to the OP now please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It didn’t work for me, although the distance wasn’t that great as far as LDR go.

You have to have immense trust and shit hot communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it. Long distance rarely work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my early ones were long distance (ptr-internet days) none of them worked but then a lot has changed in 25 years - people have relationships these days without ever meeting don't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, met a guy off here who lived in Hull, that’s fucking miles away, 6hr train journey or 5 hours drive each way! He’d come down Friday to Sunday or I’d go up Friday to Sunday. Lasted about 18 months. Still speak to him now and again on Facebook 6 years on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . Will you stop!! I've reported to admin so please stop quoting

I am not quoting at you so it has nothing to do with u you quoted her 3 times by my count having 3 lovers isnt greedy its getting what you want for what you need and kind of the entire point of the site

Thanks pmf it was 4 but he removed one. Hoping admin take action soon. Anyone that knows me knows the way I play and greedy girl I ain't !

The posts didn't break any rules. If they are annoying you then just ignore."

Really? I didn't think people were allowed to insult other people in the forum. It wasn't annoying he's making claims about me without even knowing me. I don't know why I'm surprised anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had and still have at present...its both fun and hard....

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

No I’m too lazy for that.

One off meets or the odd hook up but a full time relationship.

Perhaps I have not met the right person though.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

USA- UK here. Went a year and a half while she finished her degree (we met while I was on a business trip over there) and then she moved over here and weve been together nearly 5 years and are married.

Advice would be you have to have a game plan in place to be together. All of this we’ll do it one day stuff, and somehow we’ll be together shit won’t work, we’d spoken about it and knew that at the end of her programme she would move and live here. We knew the date, the how and everything.

Regular visits are a must, she spent holidays over here and I flew over in between, we’d made sure one direction or another we saw each other every month. (Great for flyer miles)

Culturally you need to take into account that they will be away from friends and family which could strain things, we have a place in both countries so spend time in both over the course of a year, however both parties need to be happy in whatever is your main residence, any compromise on that will turn to resentment. You also need to help the other person, friends job everything will need to essentially start from scratch, don’t try and be their only person when you do get together, they need new people that aren’t you.

All i need now is to secure her a solid source of attractive females and everything is perfect.

And to the people who are years and years in a long distance relationship where they never see the other person and don’t have an endgame. Stop kidding yourselves, they are a friend, and you need to either go out and meet someone new, or get yourselves a solid plan to be together.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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" . Will you stop!! I've reported to admin so please stop quoting

I am not quoting at you so it has nothing to do with u you quoted her 3 times by my count having 3 lovers isnt greedy its getting what you want for what you need and kind of the entire point of the site

Thanks pmf it was 4 but he removed one. Hoping admin take action soon. Anyone that knows me knows the way I play and greedy girl I ain't !

The posts didn't break any rules. If they are annoying you then just ignore.

Really? I didn't think people were allowed to insult other people in the forum. It wasn't annoying he's making claims about me without even knowing me. I don't know why I'm surprised anymore "

Calling someone greedy because they have more than one lover on a swinging site is not an insult. If that was an insult then saying you don't shag a load of randoms on a swinging site where many people shag lots of people is too.

you answered further up, now it is best to ignore the posts and get back to the OP please.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

*You not you

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I had one that lasted 2 years, we lived 90 miles apart. We travelled back and forth, saw each other 2/3 times a week.

My current partner lives 6 hours away, if it's where you want to be, the distance doesn't matter.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


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You have to have immense trust and shit hot communication."

This

It's just trying to find it.

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