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"But are you forced to Fab? "No, but occasionally I might still want to let it be known I'm interested. Catch 22? | |||
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"What harm does it do? Maybe they can't cope with their inbox and this gives them a way to ascertain interest without sorting through lots of nonsense. " If I definitely fit the criteria of what they are asking for then they block the sex that have that criteria? Like I said I like my world to make sense. | |||
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"I promised to put a sex tape on Bebo if people fabbed my pic" Bebo ? Put it on my mobile and we have a deal  | |||
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"What harm does it do? Maybe they can't cope with their inbox and this gives them a way to ascertain interest without sorting through lots of nonsense. If I definitely fit the criteria of what they are asking for then they block the sex that have that criteria? Like I said I like my world to make sense." Because among your stellar message there may be dozens of awful messages from other people in your demographic. And going through dozens of awful messages is exhausting. There's no way to filter for "is someone I'm attracted to and doesn't have shit for brains". So the best way to cut down on mail is to block men. (cut down on all mail, I'm not commenting on who sends more bad messages. Men send most messages of any kind) | |||
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"What harm does it do? Maybe they can't cope with their inbox and this gives them a way to ascertain interest without sorting through lots of nonsense. If I definitely fit the criteria of what they are asking for then they block the sex that have that criteria? Like I said I like my world to make sense. Because among your stellar message there may be dozens of awful messages from other people in your demographic. And going through dozens of awful messages is exhausting. There's no way to filter for "is someone I'm attracted to and doesn't have shit for brains". So the best way to cut down on mail is to block men. (cut down on all mail, I'm not commenting on who sends more bad messages. Men send most messages of any kind) " It's not a major deal to me, but whilst sorting through messages or blocking people a little courtesy to change that part of the profile...then add it again if needed. | |||
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"We’re always getting ‘advised’ on here to block single men so that we don’t get abusive or annoying messages and do our own searching. Maybe that’s what she’s done? " No, no reference to that. Most people make that clear. | |||
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"What harm does it do? Maybe they can't cope with their inbox and this gives them a way to ascertain interest without sorting through lots of nonsense. If I definitely fit the criteria of what they are asking for then they block the sex that have that criteria? Like I said I like my world to make sense. Because among your stellar message there may be dozens of awful messages from other people in your demographic. And going through dozens of awful messages is exhausting. There's no way to filter for "is someone I'm attracted to and doesn't have shit for brains". So the best way to cut down on mail is to block men. (cut down on all mail, I'm not commenting on who sends more bad messages. Men send most messages of any kind) It's not a major deal to me, but whilst sorting through messages or blocking people a little courtesy to change that part of the profile...then add it again if needed." But they might still be looking for that. They just don't want to open the floodgates to stupid messages. So they block and they search. If you don't like it, don't Fab the picture. | |||
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"We’re always getting ‘advised’ on here to block single men so that we don’t get abusive or annoying messages and do our own searching. Maybe that’s what she’s done? No, no reference to that. Most people make that clear." It seems like the logical explanation. | |||
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"What harm does it do? Maybe they can't cope with their inbox and this gives them a way to ascertain interest without sorting through lots of nonsense. If I definitely fit the criteria of what they are asking for then they block the sex that have that criteria? Like I said I like my world to make sense. Because among your stellar message there may be dozens of awful messages from other people in your demographic. And going through dozens of awful messages is exhausting. There's no way to filter for "is someone I'm attracted to and doesn't have shit for brains". So the best way to cut down on mail is to block men. (cut down on all mail, I'm not commenting on who sends more bad messages. Men send most messages of any kind) It's not a major deal to me, but whilst sorting through messages or blocking people a little courtesy to change that part of the profile...then add it again if needed. But they might still be looking for that. They just don't want to open the floodgates to stupid messages. So they block and they search. If you don't like it, don't Fab the picture. " I'm learning!  | |||
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"What harm does it do? Maybe they can't cope with their inbox and this gives them a way to ascertain interest without sorting through lots of nonsense. If I definitely fit the criteria of what they are asking for then they block the sex that have that criteria? Like I said I like my world to make sense." things change remember some have been here years | |||
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"I promised to put a sex tape on Bebo if people fabbed my pic" The one you sent me by email? | |||
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"I mean, as women we can't win. It's physically impossible to answer all messages. So we filter. That's rude. We get abuse for declining. So we adopt delete without reply. That's rude. We sometimes do things other than attend to messages RIGHT THIS SECOND. That's rude. Sometimes we're online for reasons other than wanting to sit on cock immediately. That's rude. We should be grateful for the attention, and if we don't like it we can leave. If we try to take power into our own hands, despite the flaws in doing so, we're lying and just attention seeking. If we don't, we must love the messages. Fuck it. Fuck it all. I Fab the way it suits me. " Calm down,calm down! Said in the voice of The Harry Enfield and Paul Whitehouse characters. | |||
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"I promised to put a sex tape on Bebo if people fabbed my pic The one you sent me by email?" Yeah, I still need your review on that | |||
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"I mean, as women we can't win. It's physically impossible to answer all messages. So we filter. That's rude. We get abuse for declining. So we adopt delete without reply. That's rude. We sometimes do things other than attend to messages RIGHT THIS SECOND. That's rude. Sometimes we're online for reasons other than wanting to sit on cock immediately. That's rude. We should be grateful for the attention, and if we don't like it we can leave. If we try to take power into our own hands, despite the flaws in doing so, we're lying and just attention seeking. If we don't, we must love the messages. Fuck it. Fuck it all. I Fab the way it suits me. Calm down,calm down! Said in the voice of The Harry Enfield and Paul Whitehouse characters. "I'm calm. Just, consider it from our perspective. We want to have naughty fun too, but on our terms. And our terms aren't necessarily unreasonable, you know! | |||
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"I don't give them or really want them its a little sad really if people really are desperate for popularity." If you don't want them you can turn it off so people can't Fab your pics. | |||
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"How to attract male attention: Put in the very last part of your profile message such and such about a type of man your interested in. This is put in as an aside and is not the main thing that is sought. Said types then message... You block all such types (not seeking anyone of your sex)....Said types might still desire to reach out so they Fab a pic or a meet if they have one up. Have you just been scammed for fabs? " There's better ways to scam for Fabs. Status updates, saying they will fuck someone who Fabs their pics. | |||
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"Wouldn't you wink instead of fab? Or can you not do that if you're out of the age range? " You can't do that if you've been filtered out. I discovered this when I played with blocking single guys. I had a "Fab this picture if you want me to message" picture. Not for the Fabs, I'm not that bothered, but as a way for them to be someone I might consider without them being able to approach me. | |||
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"Wouldn't you wink instead of fab? Or can you not do that if you're out of the age range? " With out of age range you can't wink. | |||
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"Wouldn't you wink instead of fab? Or can you not do that if you're out of the age range? You can't do that if you've been filtered out. I discovered this when I played with blocking single guys. I had a "Fab this picture if you want me to message" picture. Not for the Fabs, I'm not that bothered, but as a way for them to be someone I might consider without them being able to approach me. " So there are tactical moves! | |||
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"How to attract male attention: Put in the very last part of your profile message such and such about a type of man your interested in. This is put in as an aside and is not the main thing that is sought. Said types then message... You block all such types (not seeking anyone of your sex)....Said types might still desire to reach out so they Fab a pic or a meet if they have one up. Have you just been scammed for fabs? There's better ways to scam for Fabs. Status updates, saying they will fuck someone who Fabs their pics. " Thats pretty sad and probably a lie as I doubt they will fuck them all. | |||
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"Wouldn't you wink instead of fab? Or can you not do that if you're out of the age range? You can't do that if you've been filtered out. I discovered this when I played with blocking single guys. I had a "Fab this picture if you want me to message" picture. Not for the Fabs, I'm not that bothered, but as a way for them to be someone I might consider without them being able to approach me. So there are tactical moves! "In my case it was definitely tactical. Not for Fabs. Just to see who might be interested in me given winking was disabled. It wasn't the best picture I had (it wasn't terrible, just not among my better ones), and I deleted it eventually. It really was just for "I can't handle my inbox but the search function is limited". | |||
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"How to attract male attention: Put in the very last part of your profile message such and such about a type of man your interested in. This is put in as an aside and is not the main thing that is sought. Said types then message... You block all such types (not seeking anyone of your sex)....Said types might still desire to reach out so they Fab a pic or a meet if they have one up. Have you just been scammed for fabs? There's better ways to scam for Fabs. Status updates, saying they will fuck someone who Fabs their pics. Thats pretty sad and probably a lie as I doubt they will fuck them all. " I see "I'll meet one lucky Fabber" regularly. Ugh. | |||
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"How to attract male attention: Put in the very last part of your profile message such and such about a type of man your interested in. This is put in as an aside and is not the main thing that is sought. Said types then message... You block all such types (not seeking anyone of your sex)....Said types might still desire to reach out so they Fab a pic or a meet if they have one up. Have you just been scammed for fabs? There's better ways to scam for Fabs. Status updates, saying they will fuck someone who Fabs their pics. Thats pretty sad and probably a lie as I doubt they will fuck them all. I see "I'll meet one lucky Fabber" regularly. Ugh. " Wasn’t there a couple who opened a thread and said the female would shag the person did the 2000th fab of one of their pics? Then backed down and said only if she fancied them or something? Still got more than 2000 fabs though. They asked and they received but how many people fabbed thinking they’d get the golden ticket? I thought it was quite amusing to witness. I did wonder if anyone got a meet out of it | |||
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