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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I always have fat days......

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Depends on who I was meeting.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Its a reason but its not really fair if its a last min cancellation on just those grounds.

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore

Who says that meet is going to notice your having a fat day? What if they help cheer you up and make you feel better? I think having a fat day is an excuse to actually meet. Nothing makes me feel better about myself than having a good meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always have fat days...... "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "
no suck it up buttercup he'll make you feel better anyways

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

As it’s your own perception he won’t have a clue,your still the same hot woman he arranged the meet with , go enjoy !

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Okay, we all have days when nothing seems to fit comfortably and you look in the mirror and you just think 'urrgghhh'. This obviously affects your self confidence but being objective, and realistic, just how much 'fatter' do you really think you are compared to when you agreed to meet? The likelihood is that you may have put on a couple of pounds which is nothing and/or you might simply be bloated for whatever reason. What I'm trying to say is, that unless you agreed to meet months ago and have put on several stone since then chances are you are more or less exactly the same person that your meet felt attracted to still. So you should go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i bet you look just as beautiful as ever. but if you feeling uncomfortable then its a fairly valid reason in my book

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i bet you look just as beautiful as ever. but if you feeling uncomfortable then its a fairly valid reason in my book"

Want to see you though, Lust you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Okay, we all have days when nothing seems to fit comfortably and you look in the mirror and you just think 'urrgghhh'. This obviously affects your self confidence but being objective, and realistic, just how much 'fatter' do you really think you are compared to when you agreed to meet? The likelihood is that you may have put on a couple of pounds which is nothing and/or you might simply be bloated for whatever reason. What I'm trying to say is, that unless you agreed to meet months ago and have put on several stone since then chances are you are more or less exactly the same person that your meet felt attracted to still. So you should go for it!"

thank you, this made me feel better

And Thanks everyone xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No work it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "

No burn it off on your meet

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

bolton


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "

Of course it is, if you’re not feeling it then you’re not feeling it, don’t make a job out of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a fat day? I didn't know they were a thing ... Either way your all mighty beautiful too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have fat days, although I’m not currently meeting anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always have fat days, although I’m not currently meeting anyway"
you had a meet on Wednesday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kong here had a cheeky look at your profile you look devine. Don't you worry you are beautiful

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I always have fat days, although I’m not currently meeting anyway"

No SB.

I always have fat days and life is too bloody short to miss out on decent fucking.

They'll still find you attractive anyway - a lot of it is in your head. Fake it until you make it or have a power wank and start feeling yourself and how sexy you can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would take a lot more to make me cancel at short notice on someone its just not fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would take a lot more to make me cancel at short notice on someone its just not fair. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wake up everyday with a tyre(fat) around my middle region ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wake up everyday with a tyre(fat) around my middle region ... "

Just a cute little one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your not feeling it hun change your plans go with your gut instinct x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "

Do what you feel is right for you. If you don't want to meet today at least you find out how genuinely this meet wants you and should understand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having a fat day and got a meet was thinking of cancelling glad it's not just me

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Would you say to a friend “you look a bit fat, I wouldn’t go and potentially meet a nice bloke and enjoy awesome sex”?

No? So don’t treat yourself worse than you would treat other people, be kind to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need some Positive mental attitude here, body confidence is a tricky thing to deal with but there's always people out there that appreciate the beautiful imperfections, no one is perfect and you are you, do you want be like someone else because they say it's not right to be the way you are? Have pride in what you have because we're all beautiful in our own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i bet you look just as beautiful as ever. but if you feeling uncomfortable then its a fairly valid reason in my book

Want to see you though, Lust you "

i know you do. want to see you sooner rayher tham later

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

What is it about all you girls, fat days, I mean really !!!

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Just meet a man that’s fatter than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x"

you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!

Bum pic ... wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x

you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!

Bum pic ... wow "
: 26th Feb pic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x

you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!

Bum pic ... wow : 26th Feb pic!! "

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x

you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!

Bum pic ... wow : 26th Feb pic!!

Thank you! "

Road trip? Lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look hot Lucy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you look hot Lucy xx"

Thank you lovely xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "

Yes I think so xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i rearranged every time i had a fat day id never meet lol

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Maybe another way to look at this is for the people who had a fat day and went ahead anyway, how did it turn out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you look hot Lucy xx

Thank you lovely xxx "

No problem lovely. I’d feel lucky to meet a curvy horny like yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always have fat days, although I’m not currently meeting anywayyou had a meet on Wednesday lol"

Erm if you read it, it’s from the social I cohosted on Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheer up lucy x ...

Best bum pic on Fab

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea


"I always have fat days......

Same "

Snap...im actually having a mega one today...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. My men make me feel good about myself, and I'm fat every day

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

what the fuck is a fat day? day where you cheat on your diet and eat whatever you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being as I'm fat my days are always fat days. Should I ever arrange a meet again it'll not stop me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "

I understand but it simply isn't fair to rearrange.... For all you know they could make you feel a whole lot better about yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better?

I understand but it simply isn't fair to rearrange.... For all you know they could make you feel a whole lot better about yourself "

Does he posess that quality? They can't be all like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm having a fat day, it usually means I'm not feeling sexy and if that's the case any meets I'd have would be crap...so I would not do it. A crap meet is no fun for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better?

I understand but it simply isn't fair to rearrange.... For all you know they could make you feel a whole lot better about yourself

Does he posess that quality? They can't be all like me "

Can't speak for all but my fb makes me feel like the sexiest minx in the world... Fat days or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better?

I understand but it simply isn't fair to rearrange.... For all you know they could make you feel a whole lot better about yourself

Does he posess that quality? They can't be all like me

Can't speak for all but my fb makes me feel like the sexiest minx in the world... Fat days or not "

Or like your Fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday is a fat day for me these days so I rarely arrange anything. But, I definitely wouldn't sort a meet then message him and say, "I'm cancelling because I feel fat." It seems like a shit excuse really. Guys don't understand!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Usually my low self confidence days are good ones for regular playmates. They knock that out of me pretty darn quick!

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I get this confidence thing.

I'm not really feeling it at the moment to even attempt meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day is a fat day for me. I just wear lingerie that makes me feel good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet

... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "

My fat day has lasted about two years now

If you don't feel comfortable don't go but let them know in good time and ask to rearrange

Do what you feel is right for you x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It was some of my Fab friends who got me to accept my body for what it is. They just, uh, enjoyed it a lot over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyday is a fat day for me these days so I rarely arrange anything. But, I definitely wouldn't sort a meet then message him and say, "I'm cancelling because I feel fat." It seems like a shit excuse really. Guys don't understand! "

Blimey! I'm not sure that was the message! It's ok to say you're not feeling too good and can you rearrange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me and if you're uncomfortable then I could understand the cancellation. I have my body foibles too.

The flip is we all get to know meets before hand, so if someone is seeing recent pics of you before meeting then how you perceive yourself may not be a consideration they've thought through as they've found you attractive already.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

For goodness sake... all this fat day stuff is internal...snog us hard ... worry about making us feel great being with you...you won't have time or the energy of feel bad about yourself

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"For goodness sake... all this fat day stuff is internal...snog us hard ... worry about making us feel great being with you...you won't have time or the energy of feel bad about yourself"

I'm not sure ignoring our own needs is good advice.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"For goodness sake... all this fat day stuff is internal...snog us hard ... worry about making us feel great being with you...you won't have time or the energy of feel bad about yourself"

Yeh OP ignore your internal shit and make sure you make *him* feel great! ....iv never heard such pap....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"For goodness sake... all this fat day stuff is internal...snog us hard ... worry about making us feel great being with you...you won't have time or the energy of feel bad about yourself

Yeh OP ignore your internal shit and make sure you make *him* feel great! ....iv never heard such pap.... "

Quite.

There's something to be said about losing yourself in the moment, but not focusing all on someone else. I came on Fab to get away from that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish women wouldn't put themselves down like this,

as Freddie Mercury would sing "fat bottom girls make the rocking world go round"

Personally I see nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't affecting your health poorly.

You can be large and perfectly healthy just others don't see that.

I've always liked large girls and I wouldn't have it any other way.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I would have cancelled in the past, but now? Nah fuck it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet if I feel down on myself

It's not fair on either party

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"I wish women wouldn't put themselves down like this,

as Freddie Mercury would sing "fat bottom girls make the rocking world go round"

Personally I see nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't affecting your health poorly.

You can be large and perfectly healthy just others don't see that.

I've always liked large girls and I wouldn't have it any other way. "

But how else will we get attention?

OP. Don’t worry about it. Fat days don’t last forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how you feel OP.

I have cancelled all sorts of things because I don't feel good about myself.

Wait until you feel better - you'll have a better time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish women wouldn't put themselves down like this,

as Freddie Mercury would sing "fat bottom girls make the rocking world go round"

Personally I see nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't affecting your health poorly.

You can be large and perfectly healthy just others don't see that.

I've always liked large girls and I wouldn't have it any other way.

But how else will we get attention?

OP. Don’t worry about it. Fat days don’t last forever. "

how else would you get attention? .... Quite simple .... Tits OOOT! Hahaha just kidding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For goodness sake... all this fat day stuff is internal...snog us hard ... worry about making us feel great being with you...you won't have time or the energy of feel bad about yourself"

Nice

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I lived in Newcastle for a while, a salubrious area called Benwell. I’ve heard “tits oot fa’ the lads” a fair few times. Sometimes it even worked!

Slightly off topic but hey ho....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x

you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!

Bum pic ... wow : 26th Feb pic!! "

i concure

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