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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe it's me but when someone rejoins the site saying they don't want to meet anyone they have already met that's fine. But why then are they happy for previous meets to verify them!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... So people know they're real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they can use the forums? You need to be verified for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile. Their choice.

Maybe they had a problem with a stalker/nutjob so by saying they don't want to meet any past meets, it is to avoid a particular person?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people have a one meet rule. Some of our verifications are from people we've only met once, if they don't want to meet us again it doesn't invalidate their verification.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Maybe it's me but when someone rejoins the site saying they don't want to meet anyone they have already met that's fine. But why then are they happy for previous meets to verify them!!"

Whast's wrong with that? It maybe they just want to meet new people nothing more they are not forcing old meets to verify them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just didn't seem right to me. Makes sense though I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There might be a lot of reasons why the person rejoining the site would not meet those they met before. They could have decided they actually didn't like that person enough to give them another chance, they decided they are not meeting at present or they just want to concentrate on someone new?

This is my second profile, and I remember my first experience of Fab. I wasn't exactly sure what I was doing and what I wanted from it. Met some people that I would not meet again, for a variety of reason. I wouldn't ask them to verify me after rejoining though, but I guess it is much easier for a woman to get verified.

So I wouldn't take it personally, OP, they are just moving on. You'd better move on, too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just didn't seem right to me. Makes sense though I suppose "

I do think it's a bit cheeky to ask for another verification if you've left and come back though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hadn't met her before I just read the profile as it was new and was verified so quickly.

I hadn't spat my dummy lol

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Just didn't seem right to me. Makes sense though I suppose

I do think it's a bit cheeky to ask for another verification if you've left and come back though."

I'm not sure I'd have the cheek to do that........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk saying they won't do one thing and doing it happens quite a bit

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