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"I don't know about demeaning, I'd just say lucky *****" Lucky stars? Make me cum you little lucky stars | |||
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"Probably going to be in a minority of one here but I quite like being called a slut "It depends on the circumstances with me...if it was with a frequent meet and was discussed prior to it happening, sure. Someone just randomly calling me it during sex, nope. Don’t like that. Or just randomly calling me it in conversation...so many men (mostly on here) have started with ‘hello you little slut’  | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? " They don’t imo | |||
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"Probably going to be in a minority of one here but I quite like being called a slut
It depends on the circumstances with me...if it was with a frequent meet and was discussed prior to it happening, sure. Someone just randomly calling me it during sex, nope. Don’t like that. Or just randomly calling me it in conversation...so many men (mostly on here) have started with ‘hello you little slut’ "I do agree, context is everything. Some bloke in a bar using it in a derogatory way "she's a right slut" not nice. A man calling me a little slut with a lustful glint in his eye & a cheeky smile using it as a compliment will send my knees weak! | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?" You could call me anything you like, just make sure it's during sex. | |||
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"I don’t mind being sworn at or called names. Hell, slap my arse and call me Suzi if you want "Before anyone else jumps in ... me! I’ll do that | |||
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"I love being called slut  "Awesome but what do we call the men? | |||
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"I don’t mind being sworn at or called names. Hell, slap my arse and call me Suzi if you want "Well hello Suzi..bend over | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?" Not misbehaving for starters, equality surely means women and men deserve the same opportunitunities to play without judgement or name calling. However in the context of concensual play C gets called allsorts
For married men, cheating on their partners without their knowledge maybe....
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"I love being called slut
Awesome but what do we call the men? "the dude | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo" Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. " You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?" husseys  | |||
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"I don’t mind being sworn at or called names. Hell, slap my arse and call me Suzi if you want
Before anyone else jumps in ... me! I’ll do that "I’d say pull my hair as well....but well...you know | |||
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"I don’t mind being sworn at or called names. Hell, slap my arse and call me Suzi if you want
Before anyone else jumps in ... me! I’ll do that
I’d say pull my hair as well....but well...you know " | |||
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"I don’t mind being sworn at or called names. Hell, slap my arse and call me Suzi if you want "Oi!  | |||
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"No one should be shamed for sex Unless it gets them off "Yep! | |||
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"I don’t mind being sworn at or called names. Hell, slap my arse and call me Suzi if you want
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"I don’t mind being sworn at or called names. Hell, slap my arse and call me Suzi if you want
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. " Of course they are! Even on here where people are 'sexually enlightened' people are judged for meeting others, being 'too active', for who they meet... Slut shaming of every gender is real and prevalent. | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. Of course they are! Even on here where people are 'sexually enlightened' people are judged for meeting others, being 'too active', for who they meet... Slut shaming of every gender is real and prevalent. " Never have I seen this "slut shaming" aimed at a male...(my opinion) they get a slap on the back because their a "stud" females however it's a different story, all these derogatory names are feminised and cmon we all know it  | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. Of course they are! Even on here where people are 'sexually enlightened' people are judged for meeting others, being 'too active', for who they meet... Slut shaming of every gender is real and prevalent. Never have I seen this "slut shaming" aimed at a male...(my opinion) they get a slap on the back because their a "stud" females however it's a different story, all these derogatory names are feminised and cmon we all know it "Yes the names are feminised and primarily aimed at women, I'm not denying that. I've seen it thrown at men too, ironically by women and more so on here than in real life. I'm not attempting to deny nor dismiss that women are labelled as sluts far more, my point is that no one of any gender should be shamed for enjoying sex and in the context of the OP, throwing names back is puerile and pointless. | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?" I don’t sleep with married but others I like to call them sluts, they like it too | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?" I’d say the male slut equivalent would be a “player”...would apply to all not just the married ones. | |||
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"Personally the slut/player thing is bullshit its adults enjoying sex and that's it but if its married or attached people cheating then its a weasel rat " And there’s yet another label. | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. Of course they are! Even on here where people are 'sexually enlightened' people are judged for meeting others, being 'too active', for who they meet... Slut shaming of every gender is real and prevalent. Never have I seen this "slut shaming" aimed at a male...(my opinion) they get a slap on the back because their a "stud" females however it's a different story, all these derogatory names are feminised and cmon we all know it
Yes the names are feminised and primarily aimed at women, I'm not denying that. I've seen it thrown at men too, ironically by women and more so on here than in real life.
I'm not attempting to deny nor dismiss that women are labelled as sluts far more, my point is that no one of any gender should be shamed for enjoying sex and in the context of the OP, throwing names back is puerile and pointless. "We all know where this has originated from....maybe the OP was fed up (as was I to be honest) ...that yet again, because it wasn't the first time our little friend started a discussion about name calling aimed at women .....and now tables are turned its puerile? No I think it's just letting off a little steam.... | |||
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"Personally the slut/player thing is bullshit its adults enjoying sex and that's it but if its married or attached people cheating then its a weasel rat " Imagine the scene a cheating bloke pumping away quite happily the woman in the throws of ecstasy oooooohhh you dirty rat | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. Of course they are! Even on here where people are 'sexually enlightened' people are judged for meeting others, being 'too active', for who they meet... Slut shaming of every gender is real and prevalent. Never have I seen this "slut shaming" aimed at a male...(my opinion) they get a slap on the back because their a "stud" females however it's a different story, all these derogatory names are feminised and cmon we all know it
Yes the names are feminised and primarily aimed at women, I'm not denying that. I've seen it thrown at men too, ironically by women and more so on here than in real life.
I'm not attempting to deny nor dismiss that women are labelled as sluts far more, my point is that no one of any gender should be shamed for enjoying sex and in the context of the OP, throwing names back is puerile and pointless.
We all know where this has originated from....maybe the OP was fed up (as was I to be honest) ...that yet again, because it wasn't the first time our little friend started a discussion about name calling aimed at women .....and now tables are turned its puerile? No I think it's just letting off a little steam.... "I think you're misunderstanding and misrepresenting my posts. I saw the thread, I agree that it was wrong and my comments on it pointed out. I'm saying that name calling in any direction is wrong. It's not about turning tables or letting off steam, it should be about respecting others choices with their bodies. Or we can attack each other for what some possibly naive or shit stirring individual said | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. Of course they are! Even on here where people are 'sexually enlightened' people are judged for meeting others, being 'too active', for who they meet... Slut shaming of every gender is real and prevalent. Never have I seen this "slut shaming" aimed at a male...(my opinion) they get a slap on the back because their a "stud" females however it's a different story, all these derogatory names are feminised and cmon we all know it
Yes the names are feminised and primarily aimed at women, I'm not denying that. I've seen it thrown at men too, ironically by women and more so on here than in real life.
I'm not attempting to deny nor dismiss that women are labelled as sluts far more, my point is that no one of any gender should be shamed for enjoying sex and in the context of the OP, throwing names back is puerile and pointless.
We all know where this has originated from....maybe the OP was fed up (as was I to be honest) ...that yet again, because it wasn't the first time our little friend started a discussion about name calling aimed at women .....and now tables are turned its puerile? No I think it's just letting off a little steam....
I think you're misunderstanding and misrepresenting my posts.
I saw the thread, I agree that it was wrong and my comments on it pointed out. I'm saying that name calling in any direction is wrong.
It's not about turning tables or letting off steam, it should be about respecting others choices with their bodies.
Or we can attack each other for what some possibly naive or shit stirring individual said"You know what I'm doing neither this isn't about you....I'm observing and having an opinion...... | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. Of course they are! Even on here where people are 'sexually enlightened' people are judged for meeting others, being 'too active', for who they meet... Slut shaming of every gender is real and prevalent. Never have I seen this "slut shaming" aimed at a male...(my opinion) they get a slap on the back because their a "stud" females however it's a different story, all these derogatory names are feminised and cmon we all know it
Yes the names are feminised and primarily aimed at women, I'm not denying that. I've seen it thrown at men too, ironically by women and more so on here than in real life.
I'm not attempting to deny nor dismiss that women are labelled as sluts far more, my point is that no one of any gender should be shamed for enjoying sex and in the context of the OP, throwing names back is puerile and pointless.
We all know where this has originated from....maybe the OP was fed up (as was I to be honest) ...that yet again, because it wasn't the first time our little friend started a discussion about name calling aimed at women .....and now tables are turned its puerile? No I think it's just letting off a little steam....
I think you're misunderstanding and misrepresenting my posts.
I saw the thread, I agree that it was wrong and my comments on it pointed out. I'm saying that name calling in any direction is wrong.
It's not about turning tables or letting off steam, it should be about respecting others choices with their bodies.
Or we can attack each other for what some possibly naive or shit stirring individual said"it's meant to be a light hearted dig at men who cheat cmon let's not get personal, I personally love the threads where the guys been on here over a year and is asking for advice on how to introduce his wife to swinging and in the name of the thread subject they should be called IIMFI | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. Of course they are! Even on here where people are 'sexually enlightened' people are judged for meeting others, being 'too active', for who they meet... Slut shaming of every gender is real and prevalent. Never have I seen this "slut shaming" aimed at a male...(my opinion) they get a slap on the back because their a "stud" females however it's a different story, all these derogatory names are feminised and cmon we all know it
Yes the names are feminised and primarily aimed at women, I'm not denying that. I've seen it thrown at men too, ironically by women and more so on here than in real life.
I'm not attempting to deny nor dismiss that women are labelled as sluts far more, my point is that no one of any gender should be shamed for enjoying sex and in the context of the OP, throwing names back is puerile and pointless.
We all know where this has originated from....maybe the OP was fed up (as was I to be honest) ...that yet again, because it wasn't the first time our little friend started a discussion about name calling aimed at women .....and now tables are turned its puerile? No I think it's just letting off a little steam....
I think you're misunderstanding and misrepresenting my posts.
I saw the thread, I agree that it was wrong and my comments on it pointed out. I'm saying that name calling in any direction is wrong.
It's not about turning tables or letting off steam, it should be about respecting others choices with their bodies.
Or we can attack each other for what some possibly naive or shit stirring individual saidit's meant to be a light hearted dig at men who cheat cmon let's not get personal, I personally love the threads where the guys been on here over a year and is asking for advice on how to introduce his wife to swinging and in the name of the thread subject they should be called IIMFI "It’s not a lighthearted dig at men at all. It’s an ironic post. I don’t think anyone should be called any shaming type names unless it turns them on. | |||
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"Why does anyone need to be called names? They don’t imo Then why the thread?! It's a ridiculous thing that people who are sexually open or who (heaven forbid) actually enjoy sex are shamed for it of any gender. How about instead of trying to think up new and inventive ways to shame and abuse people we try and work on the problem and educate about respect. You’ve nailed it... Women get shamed more than men. That’s the point. I don’t think anyone should be shamed for sex. I’ve made a post before asking why people are shamed for sex and was told no one is, don’t be absurd etc...yet they are. Of course they are! Even on here where people are 'sexually enlightened' people are judged for meeting others, being 'too active', for who they meet... Slut shaming of every gender is real and prevalent. Never have I seen this "slut shaming" aimed at a male...(my opinion) they get a slap on the back because their a "stud" females however it's a different story, all these derogatory names are feminised and cmon we all know it
Yes the names are feminised and primarily aimed at women, I'm not denying that. I've seen it thrown at men too, ironically by women and more so on here than in real life.
I'm not attempting to deny nor dismiss that women are labelled as sluts far more, my point is that no one of any gender should be shamed for enjoying sex and in the context of the OP, throwing names back is puerile and pointless.
We all know where this has originated from....maybe the OP was fed up (as was I to be honest) ...that yet again, because it wasn't the first time our little friend started a discussion about name calling aimed at women .....and now tables are turned its puerile? No I think it's just letting off a little steam....
I think you're misunderstanding and misrepresenting my posts.
I saw the thread, I agree that it was wrong and my comments on it pointed out. I'm saying that name calling in any direction is wrong.
It's not about turning tables or letting off steam, it should be about respecting others choices with their bodies.
Or we can attack each other for what some possibly naive or shit stirring individual saidit's meant to be a light hearted dig at men who cheat cmon let's not get personal, I personally love the threads where the guys been on here over a year and is asking for advice on how to introduce his wife to swinging and in the name of the thread subject they should be called IIMFI
It’s not a lighthearted dig at men at all. It’s an ironic post. I don’t think anyone should be called any shaming type names unless it turns them on. "lol | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?" well you did say "what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others "I embellished it with cheat but in a lighthearted manner So in an ironic way you are asking us to give a name to the many men who swing,cheat,shag,hump women who are not their wives and whose wives are unaware they are doing it at least for a year anyways ?I took it to be lighthearted and have approached it from that perspective but as usual some haven't ce la vie | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?well you did say "what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others "I embellished it with cheat but in a lighthearted manner So in an ironic way you are asking us to give a name to the many men who swing,cheat,shag,hump women who are not their wives and whose wives are unaware they are doing it at least for a year anyways ?I took it to be lighthearted and have approached it from that perspective but as usual some haven't ce la vie"It was meant to basically be; women get shamed and called sluts for having sex. What do men get called? I get called a slut so often for being on fab...by men, on fab, who are also looking for sex | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?well you did say "what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others "I embellished it with cheat but in a lighthearted manner So in an ironic way you are asking us to give a name to the many men who swing,cheat,shag,hump women who are not their wives and whose wives are unaware they are doing it at least for a year anyways ?I took it to be lighthearted and have approached it from that perspective but as usual some haven't ce la vie
It was meant to basically be; women get shamed and called sluts for having sex. What do men get called?
I get called a slut so often for being on fab...by men, on fab, who are also looking for sex "And I didn’t mention cheating. I have single men who call me names because I’m married. And my husband is aware. Yet my husband hasn’t been called anything (he doesn’t play but the men who message me don’t know that). | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?well you did say "what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others "I embellished it with cheat but in a lighthearted manner So in an ironic way you are asking us to give a name to the many men who swing,cheat,shag,hump women who are not their wives and whose wives are unaware they are doing it at least for a year anyways ?I took it to be lighthearted and have approached it from that perspective but as usual some haven't ce la vie
It was meant to basically be; women get shamed and called sluts for having sex. What do men get called?
I get called a slut so often for being on fab...by men, on fab, who are also looking for sex "they are just ignorant people ,ignorance is all around us unfortunately | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?well you did say "what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others "I embellished it with cheat but in a lighthearted manner So in an ironic way you are asking us to give a name to the many men who swing,cheat,shag,hump women who are not their wives and whose wives are unaware they are doing it at least for a year anyways ?I took it to be lighthearted and have approached it from that perspective but as usual some haven't ce la vie
It was meant to basically be; women get shamed and called sluts for having sex. What do men get called?
I get called a slut so often for being on fab...by men, on fab, who are also looking for sex
And I didn’t mention cheating. I have single men who call me names because I’m married. And my husband is aware. Yet my husband hasn’t been called anything (he doesn’t play but the men who message me don’t know that). "They’re not interested in him which is why he doesn’t figure in their messaging - they’re only name calling you to either get a reaction / reply / fishing to see if you’re into that or to be plain rude, take your pick! | |||
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I think wank has to be in there somewhere."Oh of course. Not that I've personally ever done that | |||
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"I believe that a few? some? most? men on here believe that us women must be dirty or slutty or up for anything purely because we're women on a sex site looking for sex. So they call us by an appropriate name." Us darn women | |||
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I think wank has to be in there somewhere. Oh of course. Not that I've personally ever done that "I think of men on here and I think hmmm wankers. Nothing personal  | |||
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"I believe that a few? some? most? men on here believe that us women must be dirty or slutty or up for anything purely because we're women on a sex site looking for sex. So they call us by an appropriate name. Us darn women" Yep. One track mind you women. Pervs | |||
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"I believe that a few? some? most? men on here believe that us women must be dirty or slutty or up for anything purely because we're women on a sex site looking for sex. So they call us by an appropriate name. Us darn women" Yea, wanting men to put their penises in them. How dare we like sex without a relationship, and ask to be respected. | |||
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"I believe that a few? some? most? men on here believe that us women must be dirty or slutty or up for anything purely because we're women on a sex site looking for sex. So they call us by an appropriate name. Us darn women Yea, wanting men to put their penises in them. How dare we like sex without a relationship, and ask to be respected." Next we’ll be wanting to vote | |||
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I think wank has to be in there somewhere. Oh of course. Not that I've personally ever done that
I think of men on here and I think hmmm wankers. Nothing personal "No offence taken . Does that mean I can call you all beanflickers then | |||
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I think wank has to be in there somewhere. Oh of course. Not that I've personally ever done that
I think of men on here and I think hmmm wankers. Nothing personal No offence taken . Does that mean I can call you all beanflickers then "I thought we were sluts. | |||
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"We don’t have any demeaning names for either of us, just a happy open relationship that works really well." Why do you call yourself Cheese and Pickle then!! | |||
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"I believe that a few? some? most? men on here believe that us women must be dirty or slutty or up for anything purely because we're women on a sex site looking for sex. So they call us by an appropriate name. Us darn women Yea, wanting men to put their penises in them. How dare we like sex without a relationship, and ask to be respected. Next we’ll be wanting to vote " Steady on now, let's not get ahead of ourselves, there's laundry to be getting on with. | |||
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I think wank has to be in there somewhere. Oh of course. Not that I've personally ever done that
I think of men on here and I think hmmm wankers. Nothing personal No offence taken . Does that mean I can call you all beanflickers then
I thought we were sluts. "The Sluts and Wankers thread . I can live with that | |||
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"And are misbehaving by sleeping with men (despite the fact they have a swinging relationship), then what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others, during sex? And does this name apply to all men, or just the married ones?well you did say "what demeaning and shameful name do we get to call the married men who sleep with others "I embellished it with cheat but in a lighthearted manner So in an ironic way you are asking us to give a name to the many men who swing,cheat,shag,hump women who are not their wives and whose wives are unaware they are doing it at least for a year anyways ?I took it to be lighthearted and have approached it from that perspective but as usual some haven't ce la vie
It was meant to basically be; women get shamed and called sluts for having sex. What do men get called?
I get called a slut so often for being on fab...by men, on fab, who are also looking for sex "don't you think the name calling and I in no way support it and would never be involved in it myself is partly down to the frustration of achieving meets ,so few women so many men and when ignorant men get frustrated what happens they resort to name calling ,i think the reality is just that .The site has a title fabswingers ,many see that in its literal sense it's a sex site everything should be about sex ,they want sex ,they want sex immediately ,they message sex ,they have an erect penis avatar ,why can't I have sex ,for that type man name calling is a prerequisite of life and because women get so many messages in that vein the insult levels are high  | |||
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