FabSwingers.com forum: Real life or fab life?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Doughnut tells me all the time I am gorgeous and sexy and I go all shy and say I’m not, he then says ‘other men on fab think you are’ to which I say ‘I have tits and a fanny, if we were on a vanilla night out they probably wouldn’t look twice at me’.

So I’ve been thinking a lot today, are your taste in the opposite (or same sex) the same in real life as it is here. I mean I fancy lots of a young, tattooed hotty here but in the real world they don’t really appeal to me, I prefer dad bods in the real world

Danish x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes. im attracted to allsorts on here and allsorts in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doughnut tells me all the time I am gorgeous and sexy and I go all shy and say I’m not, he then says ‘other men on fab think you are’ to which I say ‘I have tits and a fanny, if we were on a vanilla night out they probably wouldn’t look twice at me’.

Danish x"
i get exactly what you mean ....i know men dont look once when im out lol.

I dont have a type to be honest although i do love men who make me laugh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

same on fab and in life.

Tall, dark or silver hair and a slim to (what I call) teddy bear build

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

My time on here has taught me that I definitely don’t have a fixed type. As it stands I know that both on and off Fab I can fancy the pants of several different people and none of them are similar to each other. So I definitely haven’t got a clue!!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’m almost the same I just love someone that can capture my imagination and great intellect

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I don't have a type either..apart from flirty and giggly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like what I like regardless of where I have seen them.

I think on here though there’s a variety of different men who I wouldn’t necessarily come across in reality.

It’s like a Smorgasbord...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Danish xi get exactly what you mean ....i know men dont look once when im out lol.

I dont have a type to be honest although i do love men who make me laugh"

Well I’m that case...

What’s brown and sticky?

A stick!

I didn’t say it was a good joke

Doughnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting, I never thought people would have different tastes online. A space to experiment?

I've the same taste, online and real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same on Fab and in real life. I love tattooed guys, especially metal heads- bald heads and athletic in particular. Luckily Mr is all that, and more! Met him on here, so best of both worlds for me

Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only in the fact that on here or in a party, they make more of an effort to be sexy, sure I have an imagination for the ones outside of fab but I do enjoy perving at a good photo collection here or seeing all the sexy lingerie in clubs or hot guys confident in there boxers strutting around, compared to dads rushed together in the morning or rocking the trackies at the supermarket. I have learnt though that it really is personality that really attracts my attention first and good eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danish x"

Its funny but ive always preferred the what I term 'real women' ie: lumps and bumps etc. Our bodies are pretty much a road map of our lives and to me a perfect young body just says that person hasnt 'lived' and wont have enough life experience to be able to hold a conversation or my interest. I accept I may well be doing some people an injustice but its simply my personal point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danish xi get exactly what you mean ....i know men dont look once when im out lol.

I dont have a type to be honest although i do love men who make me laugh

Well I’m that case...

What’s brown and sticky?

A stick!

I didn’t say it was a good joke

Doughnut "
haha nir quite what i had in mind but thanks x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I tend to fancy men more off site than on here, as i get to watch them being them and i generally stick to men my own age. I don’t have a type.

On here i generally have to click with a fella to even want to carry on chatting to him, and that doesn’t happen often.

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Danish x"

It's rather nice that Doughnut wants to make you feel desired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very similar for me in both real and fab life, the bigger difference is actually probably me in that I'd happily speak with people on here that I'd not do in real life... Not because I don't find them attractive in the real world, but find more difficult to approach in person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My taste is exactly the same on here and in real life.. I've no set type I just like what I like. Hence why I don't really meet because it's hard to find chemistry that's right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a varied taste tbh.

I think my taste differs from here to real life though. For example I only meet men who are at least five foot ten from here, yet my only current irl crush is only five foot eight (and a half! That's apparently important) which is only half an inch taller than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always liked older guys. My dad is 56 so I couldn't date his age or older. Although I'd meet someone on here that age or slightly older.

Once dated a younger guy for quite some time. Met his family and everything. In the end it didn't go very well. Never again. Even meeting under 30s on here, well so far all of them have proven me correct, younger guys aren't for me.

My ideal man would be dark haired, average to long beard which is groomed and well kept, tattoo'd and either a gym body but not too ripped or just a dad type bod. Yummy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Danish xi get exactly what you mean ....i know men dont look once when im out lol.

I dont have a type to be honest although i do love men who make me laugh

Well I’m that case...

What’s brown and sticky?

A stick!

I didn’t say it was a good joke

Doughnut haha nir quite what i had in mind but thanks x"

But did it make you laugh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same i find funny energetic banterful women

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Danish x"

On here, slender subs.

Real life? Tall bearded quiet spoken men with deep set eyes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would men that are on here, be more ‘choosy’ when in the real world? Here (not saying all) men give the impression they will sleep with most women as long as they have a vagina or is it, when out in the real world do they still fancy the same type of women as they do on fab but wouldn’t act upon it in fear of being ridiculed by their mates?

Example: if I wasn’t on fab would I be desirable to you if we were in the same pub (I mean the ones that have shown interest), I have huge confidence issues and doughnut has boosted it no end and he my biggest supporter but I am genuinely interested are the men here that show interest in someone like me here because I have lady bits or do they genuinely find someone like me attractive?

Danish x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

On here I may demand more of people physically, in the real world I demand much more of their character.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I just need a connection..here or in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would men that are on here, be more ‘choosy’ when in the real world? Here (not saying all) men give the impression they will sleep with most women as long as they have a vagina or is it, when out in the real world do they still fancy the same type of women as they do on fab but wouldn’t act upon it in fear of being ridiculed by their mates?

Danish x"

I would, I'm a sucker for redheads/strawberry blondes who have freckles. Doesn't mean I'd do anything about it in real life, more like I'd sit there wishing I'd tell you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually the same.

Relationship wise radically differnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't sleep with a woman on here I didn't find attractive in RL. There's a broad range of physical types in women I find attractive, but there are other factors that diminish my preferences down here and in real life. Factors like age,I wouldn't sleep with any lady I fancy who's a lot younger than me or someone who had a fetish for being degraded are two personal no go areas that spring to mind for me. Also I'd hate the idea of being a notch on someone's bedpost, who wouldn't find me attractive in real life. Personality / chemistry would dwindle potential play meets down drastically for me too. I guess it just comes down to everybody having their own internal morals about who they play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think I have a type but my friends say I am attracted to bad men!

OP, have you considered that whilst being in a couple on here, sharing is encouraged, in real life, men that find you attractive, may shy away because you are 'taken'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danish x"
you've hit nail on head face to face totally different ball game

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

I would like think that I look for the same in a prospective meet as I would in a long time partner but I’m truth that I’m not sure it’s that easy.

I guess it’s down to what intially attracts you to a person and whether you can expand upon that or accept that the initial is enough.

For myself I like a warm personality, confidence (or at least the show of) is always sexy.

My OH (as hopefully you will soon see) would probably describe herself as average and yet she is my world and think she is fucking gorgeous.....so we are all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My taste in men are the same as in real life. Difference is, I get the chance to fuck the guys I fancy on Fab.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like the same type in real life and on fab

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

My tastes are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tastes are the same I like older naturally dominant men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same for both for me, being on here has made me realise that I do kind of have a type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One dimensional people on Fab are different to real life people.

What I find attractive in a picture and a few written words is totally different to what I find attractive in real life when you get the whole person.

Voices and mannerisms etc .. are all part of the person as a whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty rigid on who I find attractive, the guys I’m attracted to on here would be the same guys I’m attracted to in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexually the same.

Relationship wise radically differnt"

That’s also a good point

who I fancy and meet wouldn’t necessarily be long term relationship material.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Sexually the same.

Relationship wise radically differnt

That’s also a good point

who I fancy and meet wouldn’t necessarily be long term relationship material."

Yep, this for me too. I find the same sort of men and women attractive on here and in real life (as much as a no type type can go) but relationship wise it's a bit different most of the time. I can't really explain why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with Doughnut. You are sexy, bloody sexy indeed. You would also be sexy in a pub, restaurant, Asda or Lidl x

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Pictures I fab are not necessarily indicative of people I would choose. That’s an initial physical reaction and although when I was younger I could base my sex life solely on that. Even in a swinging sense, I now need way more before I’ll jump anyone’s bones. Sex is no longer a purely physical act so the attraction has to be based on more than something physical and online that’s way harder to gauge.

So the people are the same, just more difficult to find I reckon

Lex

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Damn autocarrot!

Try again....

Real life or on here, my choice isn't any different.

I've always said I don't have an actual type, I like people.

Something about an individual that attracts me, their personalty, humour, attitude, something that clicks, a connection.

But they do need to be able to look me in the eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn autocarrot!

Try again....

Real life or on here, my choice isn't any different.

I've always said I don't have an actual type, I like people.

Something about an individual that attracts me, their personalty, humour, attitude, something that clicks, a connection.

But they do need to be able to look me in the eye

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omg I have a crate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn't think I have a type but my friends say I am attracted to bad men!

OP, have you considered that whilst being in a couple on here, sharing is encouraged, in real life, men that find you attractive, may shy away because you are 'taken'?"

I was thinking back to my single days, when I was on the look out for a partner in crime, I never got any interest in the normal outside world (even at the end of a d*unken night) yet here, I was very popular, hence my reason for asking x

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Fab has been a great help in getting women with issues out of my system. Drama free please

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