FabSwingers.com forum: Habitual gym users...

By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

On their death bed, will they look at the space where their spouse and kids would have been if they'd been capable of forming a relationship with someone, rather than their own reflection. And think, "well, at least i managed to bench 200lbs"?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

That's a very narrow minded view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do other men who choose the bachelor life think the same?

Not everyone needs a partner and children to feel fulfilled in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can always take the wife and older kids with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the gym 6 days a week , for my health and so I'll still be around and fit when my children grow up not to look in a mirror

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Controversial

I think it’s good to have a hobby, if that’s something that gives them pleasure why not.

If it’s to the detriment of building a life there’s plenty of CEO’s that would have the same deathbed woes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause no one person has managed to combine going to the gym regularly and having a family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause no one person has managed to combine going to the gym regularly and having a family. "

It's more likely to be the nerdy gamers, or internet perverts, who rarely leave their bedrooms, who will die lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause no one person has managed to combine going to the gym regularly and having a family.

It's more likely to be the nerdy gamers, or internet perverts, who rarely leave their bedrooms, who will die lonely. "

My husband managed to find me! (He’s the nerdy gamer one, not internet perv)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical statement from someone shaped like a bag of spanners

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Tilting at windmills.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause no one person has managed to combine going to the gym regularly and having a family.

It's more likely to be the nerdy gamers, or internet perverts, who rarely leave their bedrooms, who will die lonely.

My husband managed to find me! (He’s the nerdy gamer one, not internet perv)

Was it on an online RPG ?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Here OP, I found the brush that you used for your sweeping statement. I'm sure you'll need it back for your next post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gym is used by me to keep healthy and also as a hobby. You either chose to go or you don’t

Trying to mock people that go is pathetic. But I guess that’s why you look like you do

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"The gym is used by me to keep healthy and also as a hobby. You either chose to go or you don’t

Trying to mock people that go is pathetic. But I guess that’s why you look like you do"

the hypocrisy is strong in this one lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married with kids and we all go the gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On their death bed, will they look at the space where their spouse and kids would have been if they'd been capable of forming a relationship with someone, rather than their own reflection. And think, "well, at least i managed to bench 200lbs"?"

Lol as John would say 'you can't be serious!'

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

What about cyclists?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The gym is used by me to keep healthy and also as a hobby. You either chose to go or you don’t

Trying to mock people that go is pathetic. But I guess that’s why you look like you do

the hypocrisy is strong in this one lol!"

Nothing wrong with the way I look mate. Guess you have to pick faults in others if you are insecure in your self

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

I would imagine most people that go to the gym are not going for ego boost such as I can bench 200lb rather for health benefit. Going to the gym and bragging about benching is really a young man's game.

Just like food you have to eat daily, exercise could fit in the same categories difference is exercise does not have to be in the gym and you will not die without.

Going to the gym and benching 200lb+ regularly is as bad as not exercising because very likely in the end you will come up will a health problem for lack of or too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The gym is used by me to keep healthy and also as a hobby. You either chose to go or you don’t

Trying to mock people that go is pathetic. But I guess that’s why you look like you do

the hypocrisy is strong in this one lol!

Nothing wrong with the way I look mate. Guess you have to pick faults in others if you are insecure in your self "

I rather like the way you look

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"The gym is used by me to keep healthy and also as a hobby. You either chose to go or you don’t

Trying to mock people that go is pathetic. But I guess that’s why you look like you do

the hypocrisy is strong in this one lol!

Nothing wrong with the way I look mate. Guess you have to pick faults in others if you are insecure in your self "

Ah, clearly you don't see it. *shrugs.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

So because you go to the gym you can’t form a relationship ? Heard it all now

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"What about cyclists? "

This girl gets it

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

The gym only takes about 6 hours out of your week, much less than a lot of hobbies.

Come and join us clem, the family will still be there when you get home.

Showers after can be fun to

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Habitual wind up merchants, will they look back at the space where their spouse and kids would have been if they'd been capable of forming a relationship with someone, rather than their own ego. And think, "well, at least i managed to mildly annoy some people on a swinging website forum"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can somewhat see it from OP's point of view.

My ex had a body like a God

. He spent so much time in the gym then playing football for his team, we rarely saw each other. So we broke up.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"I can somewhat see it from OP's point of view.

My ex had a body like a God

. He spent so much time in the gym then playing football for his team, we rarely saw each other. So we broke up."

I've met the type before, felt sorry for the guy. Was addicted to his stats more so than the love of his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can somewhat see it from OP's point of view.

My ex had a body like a God

. He spent so much time in the gym then playing football for his team, we rarely saw each other. So we broke up."

You get people who are attached with kids going to the pub straight after work and staying there till closing time. Often spending weekend there too. I don't see him making generalisations there

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP Man
over a year ago

salisbury

"The gym only takes about 6 hours out of your week, much less than a lot of hobbies.

Come and join us clem, the family will still be there when you get home.

Showers after can be fun to

Jeez, I'm already doing yoga night , gym night AND football night! How much more do i have to do?

I should say I'm doing all that with members of my family though. It's how we roll...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Habitual wind up merchants, will they look back at the space where their spouse and kids would have been if they'd been capable of forming a relationship with someone, rather than their own ego. And think, "well, at least i managed to mildly annoy some people on a swinging website forum"?"

Cause it takes, oh a few seconds to start a thread, then you can go about your day, replying to random strangers at your leisure. I’m typing this while I’m waiting for some skimming to dry, now I’ve finished typing, I’ll start plastering again.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Do other men who choose the bachelor life think the same?

Not everyone needs a partner and children to feel fulfilled in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause no one person has managed to combine going to the gym regularly and having a family. "

This. Nice penis, dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause no one person has managed to combine going to the gym regularly and having a family.

This. Nice penis, dude."

Woooooaaa get a room you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the bloke who this thread is aimed at, realise yet ? Over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go to the gym 6 days a week , for my health and so I'll still be around and fit when my children grow up not to look in a mirror "

Well the criteria for health would be met withiut six times a week ( assuming no special conditions health wise apply).

But daily activity is a huge boost to health and wellbeing.

Congratulations .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial

I think it’s good to have a hobby, if that’s something that gives them pleasure why not.

If it’s to the detriment of building a life there’s plenty of CEO’s that would have the same deathbed woes. "

Some can in extreme circumstances , use exercise and training as a cathartic mechanism . Allowing they to feel better without facing issues they need to resolve.

The biggest issue can be cognitive dissonance.

Year by year trying the sane process to achieve different results.

The golden mean applies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be thinking at least I've benched 400lbs

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Does the bloke who this thread is aimed at, realise yet ? Over."

No, he is anxiously waiting for torso Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the bloke who this thread is aimed at, realise yet ? Over."

I can think of one.

Talks the talk but looking at his pics doesn't walk the walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the gym is great for sexual tension aswell as working out x

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

"I'd be thinking at least I've benched 400lbs

Do You Even Lift?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I'd be thinking at least I've benched 400lbs

Do You Even Lift?"

Funniest thing, I've read all day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think somone who spent so much time in the gym they had no family could bench more than 90kg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause no one person has managed to combine going to the gym regularly and having a family.

It's more likely to be the nerdy gamers, or internet perverts, who rarely leave their bedrooms, who will die lonely. "

.oh thanks :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the bloke who this thread is aimed at, realise yet ? Over.

I can think of one.

Talks the talk but looking at his pics doesn't walk the walk "

I think its aimed at shagtonight his cyclist thread touched clem in his special place.

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

Well I like big muscular men it's great that men want to look good nothing wrong with a bit of vanity it's the same for gym girls too I admire them for looking good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it gets you some action then why not, isn't that why we all came here? Lol I'm sure they'd have time to go home with another gym user say and bondage the bangle off each other and still make it back to the gym the next day

I go to the gym 3 times per week Clem and I still have a belly. I go because I like to eat the foods that I like and it makes me feel healthy. I don't find 3 times per week excessive but it is habitual. I had a long spell away there until recently but I'm back again and in a routine like I was before. As said above, it's 6 hours out of my week and if I want to form a relationship down the line I'm sure I can manage to do both, I also have friends who manage it which only convinces me more. I got me wee belly(I’ve named him Pod and he's a dick, don't even talk to him) when I stopped the gym for a bit and I definitely want it gone again, but just for myself like because I don't feel as confident or as comfortable with it. I am a little self conscious in fairness I suppose. I think if it's for health reasons, for competition or just because you wanna be a big bastard then work away. I never used to get it when the guys were grunting and growling while lifting weights at first and then I realised the extra aggression and focus can help release some extra power but I thought they were dicks at first lol If you go to the gym because you wanna look buff and watch yourself in the mirror constantly and run about with your shirt off kissing your biceps and stroking your hairless torso, I'll think you're a bell-end but work away too lol its no skin off my dick

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the bloke who this thread is aimed at, realise yet ? Over.

I can think of one.

Talks the talk but looking at his pics doesn't walk the walk

I think its aimed at shagtonight his cyclist thread touched clem in his special place.

What if I cycle to the gym?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I consider him to be rather rotund, actually. Definitely a 3 pie-man. And chips.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

I think after what you're suggesting is a reflection on a lifetime of training, a bench of only 200lbs really would suggest the whole thing had been a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be thinking at least I've benched 400lbs

Do You Even Lift?"

407lbs actually

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